Honeymoon Mindset
95 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 1 year ago - ★★★★★ - 2 ratingsBeth and James Deppa have a huge passion for helping couples create this mindset. They have been working on this for over 5 years. They are doing this because they struggled in their first marriages. The desire to not make the same mistakes again, they started to learn how to do this. They have been mentored by some of the best, read books, listened to podcasts, researched online and talked with people in different fields and experiences. They sat down with each other and worked through it piece by piece.
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Fun = Bonding
October 18, 2021 14:32 - 6 minutes - 5.49 MBThe best way to bond with your kids is having fun with them. There are so many benefits to having fun with kids. That we just touch on them in this quick little podcast. Go have fun and bond with your kids.
Fun = Bonding
October 18, 2021 14:32The best way to bond with your kids is having fun with them. There are so many benefits to having fun with kids. That we just touch on them in this quick little podcast. Go have fun and bond with your kids.
Do You have the 2 Types of Intimacy?
October 13, 2021 16:51 - 19 minutes - 16.4 MBScenario 1: You start off in a relationship getting to know each other. As that connection starts to go and get stranger so does the desire for physical intimacy. You continue to build the relationship on the physical. However, it comes to an end. Scenario 2: You have been in a relationship for years and it just isn't the same. The intimacy is gone and there is no passion in sex. It seems like we just don't connect anymore. Both of these scenarios are very common, to common. Howeve...
How to Reward Kids for Life
October 11, 2021 15:35 - 22 minutes - 19.7 MBRewarding kids is a very important part of growing up. It helps to build realistic expectations on how life is going to be. Rewards will be teach kids responsibility, respect and ownership. Rewarding your kids can be done through acknowledgement, gift, treat, experience or privilege. Remember, use caution when you use food as an award for it can create issues later in life. Listen to how you can use rewards to help setup you kids for life.
Relax and enjoy the colors!
October 08, 2021 16:14 - 3 minutes - 3.03 MBWith fall here and the changing of the colors. Go outside and enjoy the changing of the seasons. Go for a drive or a hike. Then cuddle up and have a relaxing evening while watching your favorite movie together. What great way to connect and grow the Honeymoon Mindset!
How to Avoid an Argument
October 06, 2021 15:02 - 29 minutes - 24.4 MBWhy do we choose to argue with our partner when they get under our skin or we have to much going on? Argue is a verb, an action. It is something we choose to do when things get heated. In the episode, we look at why we argue and how to stop it. We give tips and pointers on how to avoid it when we are on the verge of an argument. Honeymoon Mindset is a daily choice just like the choice to argue. Choose Honeymoon Mindset.
Why Intentional Attention Matters?
October 04, 2021 05:00 - 19 minutes - 16.6 MBLife get so busy and starts to fly by! The phrase 'don't blink and your kids will be gone' is a true statement. What you need to do is give them intentional attention. When you do it will help your kids with who they are, their security and love for you. They will learn so much just by watching also! Giving intentional attention to everyone is one of the best ways to build your Honeymoon Mindset with Kids!
5 Tips to Argue Effectively
September 29, 2021 21:45 - 12 minutes - 18.1 MBWhen your partner does something to upset you; the normal response is to go off. You will start to argue, yell, throw insults, make false claims and end up storming off. This is not effective arguing and hurts the Honeymoon Mindset. This episode we give 5 tips on how to argue effectively. When you follow these tips; an argument will be very short and effective with a positive outcome. An outcome that will enhance the Honeymoon Mindset.
Kids Are NOT Resilient
September 27, 2021 23:54 - 54 minutes - 43.2 MBOn this week’s episode of Honeymoon Mindset with Kids we talk about the effects of constant changes on kids. On their emotions, their behaviors, and their sense of self. Listen as we discuss ways to minimize the negative effects changes can have on children. How to prepare kids for changes you know are coming and how to help them adjust to their new normal. We discuss whether or not your children should be a part of decision making when changes are coming. And how vulnerable you should b...
Where Is the True Middle?
September 24, 2021 05:00 - 3 minutes - 3.15 MBBalancing 2 things takes a steady hand and patience. When you finally get the things to balance on there own, it is a wonder all of it is own. This date night tip, can be you as a couple or family, find objects around the house and balance 2 at a time. Find where the true middle in order for the 2 to balance on there own. Once you have done this a couple of times, you will be able to find the true middle of issues in your relationship. When you find where that middle is; you will be ...
Can You Find the Middle?
September 22, 2021 15:09 - 13 minutes - 11.3 MB"Happy Partner, Happy Life" is a temporary solution and only works until the starts to feel they are giving all the time. For true Honeymoon Mindset, you need to find the middle. This is done through communication to find the compromise in the middle. The middle will most likely be towards one side or the other. Rarely, will the middle be in the middle. Eventually, it will happen naturally. Can you find the middle?
Benefits of a Picnic
September 17, 2021 05:00 - 5 minutes - 4.71 MBWhen your spending time with your partner or family is it intentional? We usually just are in a room trying to relax and finish what we are doing. If there is someone in the room with us, they are just there. This date tip is to spend some intentional time with your partner and/or family. The best way is to have an old fashion picnic and enjoy each others company.
What is the reason behind the comparing
September 15, 2021 14:32 - 22 minutes - 18.8 MBSometimes in our relationship, we find that we compare our partner to the someone in a previous relationship. When we do it has an effect. It can be a positive effect to help grow the relationship to a Honeymoon Relationship. Through help each other work through it and vulnerability it can be done.
Do Labels Hurt Kids? (Part 2)
September 13, 2021 05:00 - 28 minutes - 27.1 MBIn this week’s episode of Honeymoon Mindset with Kids we continue discussing how putting labels on kids affects them. Learn how putting your children in a box by labeling them influences how they view themselves as well as how others perceive them. Discover how even positive labels can keep them from growing into their full potential. It’s never too late to change the label. Listen as we unveil the simple steps you can take to to undo the labels and help your child thrive. Avoid Labeli...
A Simple Game to Improve Listening
September 10, 2021 14:30 - 3 minutes - 3.08 MBDoing a date night with couple is healthy! It gives you a chance to see how other couples react to each, deal with an issue and handle others. Through this you can make a change if you find something you like or don't like. This date night, invite other couples over to play the old fashion game of telephone. During this game time, try and see how well you can get the message correct. What do you need to do with you listening skills to get it right?
5 Tips to Listening Better
September 08, 2021 14:55 - 15 minutes - 13.1 MBThe #1 issue in a relationship is communication. The most common complaint about communication is listening. How do you become a better listener? Are there stages of listening? Becoming a better listener will make your relationship stronger. Listening to what is actually being said has become an artform. Why don't you want to be a better listener for your partner?
Do Labels Hurt Kids? (Part 1)
September 06, 2021 05:00 - 25 minutes - 24.5 MBIn this week’s episode of Honeymoon Mindset with Kids we discuss how putting labels on kids affects them. Learn how putting your children in a box by labeling them influences how they view themselves as well as how others perceive them. Discover how even positive labels can keep them from growing into their full potential. It’s never too late to change the label. Listen as we unveil the simple steps you can take to to undo the labels and help your child thrive. Avoid Labeling Your Chil...
Just be Silly!
September 03, 2021 05:00 - 3 minutes - 3.54 MBThe best way for kids to see who you are is by being silly and having fun. This family night idea is to make a family meal together. Then play charades or picture. Everyone will be able to let down there guard and have a fun time learn a different side of each other. What a great way to build and strengthen the bond.
How to Strengthen the Bond
September 01, 2021 05:00 - 20 minutes - 17.6 MBI am not connecting with my Partner's kids. I have done so much! This is normal to feel and experience! On this episode we walk through what it is like to connect with your partner's kids or they connect with yours. How to go about it? How to listen to the child's emotions? These tips will also help if you are having a hard time connecting with your kids without it being a blended family.
Dealing with Kid's Emotions Part 2
August 30, 2021 05:00 - 24 minutes - 23.3 MBThis week’s episode of Honeymoon Mindset with Kids is such an important topic we had to break it into 2 episodes! Accepting Kids’ Emotions... Part 2 How do we not only accept kids’ emotion but help them to identify and deal with their emotions in a healthy way. When you understand how a child’s brain develops you can stop taking their tantrums personally and help them thrive emotionally. Listen to this episode for our best tips on how to listen to your kids and help them express them...
Learn Your Style
August 27, 2021 05:00 - 4 minutes - 3.82 MBA date that will help build and strengthen the bond between you and your partner. This date you will learn and help each other understand your and theirs communication style. Learn to listen and speak in style!
Is It Your Meaning or Their Meaning
August 25, 2021 19:43 - 21 minutes - 17.6 MBWhat is your communication style? Is it the same as how you speak and listen? When we communicate, we each have our own style of how we speak and hear things. I talk about the different types of style and how they effect how we speak and listen. We also assume to much when we listen. Learn how to listen to the actual words said and not to the tone and body language.
Dealing with Kid’s Emotions
August 23, 2021 05:00 - 23 minutes - 21.6 MBThis week's episode of Honeymoon Mindset with Kids is such an important topic we had to break it into 2 episodes! Accepting Kids' Emotions... Part1 How do we not only accept kids' emotion but help them to identify and deal with their emotions in a healthy way. When you understand how a child's brain develops you can stop taking their tantrums personally and help them thrive emotionally. Listen to this episode for our best tips on how to listen to your kids and help them express thems...
Date based on a Love Language
August 20, 2021 17:05 - 3 minutes - 2.79 MBCreate a date based on one of the 5 Love Languages. They are affirmations, time, act of serve, gift or physical What did you come up with? How did it go?
Improve Your Relationship with Simple Things
August 18, 2021 15:26 - 18 minutes - 15.4 MBWhen we do the simple things to show love. It will improve the relationship and us at the same time. We also learn how to use the 5 Love Languages by Dr. Gary Chapman. When we do simple things with them it will connect on all five. What simple thing are you going to do for your partner today? Here is the link to the 5 Love Languages Quiz: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/
Scheduling Kids
August 16, 2021 05:00 - 27 minutes - 28.2 MBYou want to do what? You are already doing so much and running crazy. Getting kids active is very important for their development. There is a correct and a wrong way of scheduling them. Like you they can get spread to thin. Learn a healthy way to schedule your child/ren. Learn the warning signs to watch for when you child gets over schedule. Most Importantly, Listen with your heart!
Relive a Moment From the Past
August 13, 2021 05:00 - 2 minutes - 2.56 MBIt's Friday and that means date tips and ideas. A great way to learn about you or your partner is to recreate an experience from the past. In doing so, you will be able to ask why and see how it effected you or your partner. This is a great thing to do with kids, because of the questions they will ask. It may even start a new tradition!
Breaking the Control
August 11, 2021 05:00 - 21 minutes - 18.7 MBHas your relationship gotten controlling? How do you help your partner become aware of the issue? Breaking the Control starts with working on you. You will see patterns from your pass and how they effect you. Your perspective on those experiences will change the meaning. We give you tips to help start your progress for growth and on how to help make your partner aware and create a willingness to change.
Who is In the Driver Seat?
August 09, 2021 05:00 - 30 minutes - 28.8 MBWhy are you letting your child/ren drive your car of life? This is what happens when you do not put yourself first. It also creates a lot of negative outcome for your child/ren. What will happen when you learn to put yourself first? How will your life and kids life improve? Are you up for the challenge? Email us at: [email protected] ; [email protected] Kimberly's free ebook: https://l.facebook.com/l.php?u=https%3A%2F%2Fsunrisemindsetcoaching.co...
Only Responsible for You
August 04, 2021 19:07 - 18 minutes - 17.2 MBGet frustrated with your relationship? Don't know where to start? To make your relationship better isn't trying to change your partner but yourself first. When you do your relationship will naturally get better. It takes time and work. Listen for to ideas that Beth and I to help our relationship grow through working on ourselves first.
Going to Raise Kids This Way
August 02, 2021 15:35 - 19 minutes - 17.4 MBRaising children starts with a conversation between you and your partner. Talking about what is important early on or now will mold your child/ren for the rest of their lives. We talk about the how and why it is so important.
Who is Passionate Life Mentors
July 29, 2021 05:00 - 22 minutes - 19.8 MBWe have talked about Honeymoon Mindset. Now, we are going to talk about who is Passionate Life Mentors. What they do. We are also going to talk about changes to Honeymoon Mindset.
Is Your Relationship Stereotypical?
July 22, 2021 05:00 - 14 minutes - 12.6 MBDoes your relationship frustrate you? Does it seem stereotypical? Why do we feel like our relationship fit into a certain type of norm? Only to frustrate us and make the relationship more difficult. This eposide, I look at where the typical ideal relationship sort of started. When you break out of this stereotypical ideal, then you can work together to make the relationship the way you need it. It can be frustrating going through the steps. Email Passionate Life Mentors, we will en...
What Is A Good Relationship?
July 15, 2021 05:00 - 11 minutes - 10.9 MBWhat does a good relationship look like? This episode, I look at what goes into a good relationship. This episose maybe "I already know this." There is no such thing as a perfect relationship. What can you find in your relationship that may be lacking? What can you do better for you? Your partner? At Passionate Life Mentor, we want to cheer you on to a beautiful relationship. We will listen, just send us an email: [email protected]
Happiness
July 02, 2021 16:18 - 11 minutes - 10.4 MBAre you not happy? Your spouse not meeting your needs? Why is it their responsibility? Today, we talk about Happiness in the relationship. Whose responsibility it is. What happens to the relationship when both have true happiness.
Take a Break
July 02, 2021 16:10 - 10 minutes - 9.68 MBWhat does it mean to take a break from your partner? Is it ok to take a break? We talk about the need and purpose for taking a break. Not just any break, a healthy break. Taking a break will keep you in tuned with yourself and partner.
5 Love Languages with Dr. Gary Chapman
December 21, 2020 15:25 - 57 minutes - 71.7 MBNot feeling loved by your partner? Don't feel like your meeting your partners needs? In order to meet the need of someone's love, or yours; you need to know what it takes and how to do it. This episode, we talk with Dr. Gary Chapman about the 5 Love Languages in a relationship. Dr. Chapman will talk about what the 5 Love Languages are and how to meet them. This will be an episode that will help get your relationship back into the Honeymoon Mindset. More information can be found at www...
Matthew and Kimberly Mullin on Honeymoon Mindset
September 14, 2020 20:46 - 56 minutes - 130 MBDo you struggle getting on the same page with your spouse in times of struggle? On today’s episode, we discuss an issue that a lot of parents struggle with, and it’s none other than actually parenting. How do you get on the same page regarding parenting with your spouse? What can I do to repair a crumbling marriage? How can I become a better role model to my kids and build a stronger bond with them? How can I continue to raise my kids properly during the shutdown? James and Beth De...
Jonny Pardoe on Honeymoon Mindset
September 10, 2020 19:21 - 50 minutes - 46 MBDo you struggle with feeling negative or down about yourself? On today’s episode, we discuss how self-esteem and confidence are like muscles; they need to be exercised in order to grow! How can I tell if my loved one has low self-esteem or low confidence and how can I support them? What can I do to build my own confidence and self-esteem? How can I support my spouse in these areas? How do I surround myself with good people? James and Beth Deppa welcome author, YouTuber, podcaster, ...
Episode Four: Q & A
September 04, 2020 21:26 - 54 minutes - 49.7 MBHoneymoon Mindset Episode Four: We are answering your questions received from email, Honeymoon Mindset Facebook group, Direct messages.
Jes and Reid Richardson on Honeymoon Mindset
August 20, 2020 22:21 - 53 minutes - 122 MBMany people question the quality of education their children are receiving and wonder if they would be better off teaching their kids themselves. On today’s episode, we discuss how a non-traditional homeschooling system can be more effective in preparing children and teenagers for the adult world than any other type of schooling. How do I create a high quality educational atmosphere at home? How would my kids get the social interaction and street smarts they need to survive in the world?...
Honeymoon Mindset Episode Two
August 14, 2020 23:19 - 56 minutes - 60.1 MBHoneymoon Mindset Episode Two Visit our web site: honeymoonmindset.com welcome to honeymoon mindset. We are passionate about helping everyone being in everlasting honeymoon phase. Just like us. We will teach you how to get to paradise and your relationship and stay there for the long haul. Shy away from real talk. No way we covered all fights, sex past relationship. Family issues and a way more, we are your host, Beth and James Deepa. All right. Welcome to honeymoon mindsets. I'm James...
Honeymoon Mindset Episode One
August 14, 2020 23:15 - 30 minutes - 69.8 MBHoneymoon Mindset Episode One Visit our web site: honeymoonmindset.com welcome to honeymoon mindset. We are passionate about helping everyone being in everlasting honeymoon phase. Just like us. We will teach you how to get to paradise and your relationship and stay there for the long haul. Shy away from real talk. No way we covered all fights, sex past relationship. Family issues and a way more, we are your host, Beth and James Deepa. All right. Welcome to honeymoon mindsets. I'm James...
Honeymoon Mindset Episode One Bonus
August 09, 2020 00:11 - 35 minutes - 81.6 MBHoneymoon Mindset Episode One Bonus Visit our web site: honeymoonmindset.com welcome to honeymoon mindset. We are passionate about helping everyone being in everlasting honeymoon phase. Just like us. We will teach you how to get to paradise and your relationship and stay there for the long haul. Shy away from real talk. No way we covered all fights, sex past relationship. Family issues and a way more, we are your host, Beth and James Deepa. All right. Welcome to honeymoon mindsets. I'm...
Honeymoon Mindset Trailer
August 07, 2020 15:22 - 31 seconds - 1.15 MBWelcome to the Honeymoon Mindset Beth and James Deppa have a huge passion for helping couples create this mindset. They have been working on this for over 5 years. They are doing this because they struggled in their first marriages. The desire to not make the same mistakes again, they started to learn how to do this. They have been mentored by some of the best, read books, listened to podcasts, researched online and talked with people in different fields and experiences. They sat down...