Our Codependent Relationship with the World

I believe relationships can often be enmeshed in the sense you have two people so focused on each other but not looking at themselves.  One partner can subconsciously blame the other partner for their past wounds.  While the other partner feels responsible and wants to be their savior.  Either way, you have two people so focused on each other which causes  their individual happiness to be dependent on what's outside of themselves.  

Interestingly this phenomenon of enmeshment also carries over to how we relate to the world and to life itself.  We look to the world to give us happiness and worthiness by thinking the completion of our goals and desires will give us happiness.  

We have completely forgotten who we are since we only know ourselves in relation to what is outside of ourselves.  We forget who we are as individuals.  

How do we uncover our true selves when we have identified ourselves through the world?  Listen to this weeks' podcast to find out.  

I believe relationships can often be enmeshed in the sense you have two people so focused on each other but not looking at themselves.  One partner can subconsciously blame the other partner for their past wounds.  While the other partner feels responsible and wants to be their savior.  Either way, you have two people so focused on each other which causes  their individual happiness to be dependent on what's outside of themselves.  

Interestingly this phenomenon of enmeshment also carries over to how we relate to the world and to life itself.  We look to the world to give us happiness and worthiness by thinking the completion of our goals and desires will give us happiness.  

We have completely forgotten who we are since we only know ourselves in relation to what is outside of ourselves.  We forget who we are as individuals.  

How do we uncover our true selves when we have identified ourselves through the world?  Listen to this weeks' podcast to find out.