Ending The Sexual Dark Age
101 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 2 years ago - ★★★★★ - 326 ratingsDespite what most of us are led to believe, there is nothing mysterious or elusive about the female orgasm. This is one of the many things you were probably never taught about sex, since you grew up in a society too afraid of it to have truly open dialogue on the subject.
Ending the Sexual Dark Age will guide you, a step at a time, to the healthy attitude towards sexuality that you would have been taught in a genuinely civilized world. From practical techniques to sexual philosophy, you’ll learn you how to have better sex and more of it; in a friendly atmosphere that doesn’t demean or coddle. As a matter of fair warning, I use blunt language with a "no BS" style, and occasionally I say things that would make a sailor blush. Feel free to address any questions, concerns, comments or tirades to jvaltharas at gmail dot com.
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051 Vaginoplasty, Loss of Focus During Sex
September 05, 2012 02:36 - 44 minutes - 61 MBWe begin with a discussion about the various types of vaginoplasty being peddled to women as elective surgeries (as if pussy suddenly became unattractive or something), then move into ways a 25 year old newlywed can battle her loss of focus during sex. No, it isn't an urban legend that some women thing about doing the laundry during sex. Yes, there are things that can be done about it, and most of them are a lot of fun. All the sex-positive awesomeness now appearing on the website will also...
050 Relationships: Re-Lighting The Fire When The Sex Has Dried Up
August 26, 2012 21:37 - 43 minutes - 59.9 MBWe talk about ways you can try re-lighting the fire when your sex life with your playmate has gone frigid. This is a response to a question from a male listener, and the answer involves getting into good habits with non-sexual intimacy as well as the possiblity of therapy, but (as always) we recommend trying to sort things our yourselves before calling in backup. Check out the episode's post on sexualdarkage.com to see our brand new bell (courtesy of LK from facebook), as well as the lame-a...
049 Weight Loss & Sex Drive, Review Of KY Yours & Mine, Squirting and How She Can Say "Thank You," On Air Spankings For Shara
August 18, 2012 02:54 - 1 hour - 82.5 MBWe review KY Yours & Mine (TM) Edible sex enhancer, Shara gets birthday spankings on the air...one smack for every person who wished her "happy birthday" on Facebook, a listener question about how to cope with increased sex drive after weight loss when it's combined with a desire to see how many people you can keep interested at once, and another listener question about the best way a wife can show her appreciation for a husband who just figured out how to make her squirt. All the sex-posit...
048 Bad Blowjobs, What A Female Orgasm Feels Like
August 08, 2012 01:42 - 32 minutes - 45 MBTopics for this show are bad blowjobs (and how a diligent cocksucker can avoid giving one), as well as the plight of a woman who's not quite sure she's ever had an orgasm. Shara has a great time describing what an orgasm feels like for her, and we'd like to ask all the ladies in the audience to help out as well by doing their best to describe the physical sensations that make up an orgasm for you. This episode marks the second anniversary of Ending The Sexual Dark Age, and we're thrilled to...
047 Birthday Spankings for Shara, Toxic Sex Toys, Dating Confidence Issues
August 02, 2012 01:10 - 39 minutes - 54.9 MBShara gets a full round of birthday spankings to start the show, then we talk a little more about painful boners (continued from episode 46), a listener's favorite dildo that also causes burning pain, and addressing self-confidence issues to improve dating success. Show Links: Peyronie's Disease Info from NIH Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show website: S...
046 Cheating Swingers, Painful Boners, Working in the Adult Industry, Becoming A Phone Sex Operator
July 24, 2012 01:21 - 52 minutes - 71.7 MBListener questions about working in the adult industry, how to deal when one half of your favorite couple to swing with turns out to be a cheater, what to do about a painful boner and how to become a phone sex operator. In an effort to cut down on production time, we're releasing a virtually un-edited episode this time. Let us know what you think :) Show Links: How to Become A Phone Sex Operator Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about ...
045 BDSM Advice: Collars, BDSM Checklists, Assertive Submission, Rape Fantasies
March 31, 2012 22:00 - 48 minutes - 66.1 MBKink-oriented listener questions on topics including collars in BDSM play and relationships, where to find BDSM checklists and how to get the most out of them, how a submissive can be assertive about getting kinky play without acting dominant, the purported correlation between childhood sexual abuse and sexual submission, and rape fantasies. Show Links: Printable BDSM Checklist Links to Lots of Sexy Surveys (including the one above) Kink-Aware Professionals in therapy, law and other fiel...
044 Advice Line: Swinging Etiquette, Squirting, Kinky Punishment Play
March 21, 2012 03:00 - 35 minutes - 49.3 MBListener questions from a swing-curious couple who had a chat with prospective playmates go sideways when boundaries were ignored, a woman with an issue that pops up at the brink of orgasm, a woman who wants to know what guys think of squirting, and a woman wondering how to react when her dom-curious boyfriend says he wants to punish her but she hasn't done anything wrong. Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, ...
043 The Clitoris: Things You Probably Don't Know
February 23, 2012 04:20 - 29 minutes - 40.7 MBWe talk in-depth about the clitoris, including some great info revealed by recent research. Show Links: After Dinner Party: A Two-Pronged, Art Centered Clitoris Education Project Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show website: SexualDarkAge.com All images re-posted with permission from After Dinner Party. For the original post plus lots of educational material o...
042 BDSM Guide: Feminism and Sexual Submission
January 18, 2012 04:07 - 39 minutes - 53.6 MBAs we return from hiatus we reply to a listener's questions about her mental conflict between her feminist ideals and the concept of sexual submission. We also announce the digital re-release of the collected works of Tree of Shadows, J.V.'s band from back in the day. Show Links: Feminist Sex Submissive? How I Reconcile My Politics With My Sex Life Tree of Shadows online Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping...
041 Advice Line: Too Many Orgasms, Getting Back On Track After Poor Performance, Men Intimidated By Confident Women, Post-Wedding Lack Of Sex
November 16, 2011 05:30 - 39 minutes - 48.1 MBListener questions including a wife who feels guilty about how easily and often she can come with a new toy, getting back on track after a really bad sexual performance, men being intimidated by sexually confident, indpendent women and a young lady who's not getting nearly enough cock after her wedding. Lady of the Drake, an erotic fantasy novel from the same filthy mind that brings you this podcast, is now available wherever e-books are sold for $6.99 retail. Don't forget to step up for a ...
040 BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 2, Communication, Reading Your Sub, Bondage, Hair Pulling, Giving Orders, Throat Fucking and Pain Play for New Doms
October 25, 2011 05:58 - 57 minutes - 52.4 MBPart 2 of our guide to sexual dominance focuses on tips and tricks for introducing BDSM to your play time without doing anything intimidating or obnoxious. This episode covers how a dominant can establish and enhance their power through communication, using observation to make it seem like you can read your sub's mind, getting started with bondage, sensual hair pulling, finding out if throat fucking is on the menu, giving orders and getting your submissive to thank you for it, using pussy sp...
039 Advice Line: Vaginism, Struggling With Monogamy, Bisexuality and Bicuriosity
September 30, 2011 23:30 - 49 minutes - 45.4 MBTopics include Vaginism / Vaginismus and how to discuss the issue at the beginning of a relationship, a woman who loves her husband and family but is struggling with non-monogamous desires and questions from two listeners on bi-curiosity and bisexuality. One is a girl attracted to other girls but unable to get off on lesbian porn, and the other is a guy who likes certain specific play with other guys but isn't sure if the label "bisexual" fits. We also come up with a fun t-shirt contest fo...
038 BDSM Guide: Sexual Dominance Part 1, Getting Your Head In The Right Space
September 13, 2011 05:07 - 52 minutes - 48.3 MBThe first installment of our guide on how to be a sexual dominant, the philosophy of dominance, dom space and why it's awesome, understanding what power the dominant does and doesn't have, discipline vs. punishment, and a bunch of other fundamentals to help fledgling dominants on their way to learning the proper care and feeding of a sexual submissive. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FRE...
037 Advice Line: Sex-Positive Christians, Condom Problems, Praying Away The Gay
August 22, 2011 05:25 - 35 minutes - 32.5 MBListener questions and comments on erectile dysfunction directly related to condoms, Christians doing their best to be sex-positive, and the "ex-gay" movement (which produces Shara's first rant on the show). Shara and I also talk about some upcoming audio erotica that we're doing for Ravenous Romance, the re-release of Episode 36 with Shara doing the female dialogue, and the show's first birthday. Also, Shara gets her birthday spankings on the air :) Show Links: Show website: SexualDarkAg...
036.1 Audio Erotica: "A Shalar Is Born"
August 03, 2011 04:30 - 21 minutes - 19.3 MBNEW CUT with Shara sounding hot as hell playing the part of Celeste. A quick, kinky tale of a farmgirl who gets more than she bargained for when she throws herself at the local blacksmith. This story is a prequel to "Lady of the Drake," coming fall 2011 from Ravenous Romance. Read this story at TwistedErotica.com Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a ...
035 Advice Line: Painful Anal, Menstrual Sex, BDSM Mentoring, Female Masturbation for Beginners
July 17, 2011 14:58 - 45 minutes - 41.3 MBListener questions and comments on topics including terrible sex advice, accidental anal, the challenges of a small woman taking a big cock in the ass, easy ways to deal with the mess that comes with menstrual sex, BDSM mentoring and helping a submissive you're not sexually involved with find a dom, and some advice for a young woman who can't figure out how to enjoy masturbation. Show Links: Anal Pleasure and Health: A Guide for Men, Women and Couples by Jack Morin (At Amazon) Tristan Tao...
034 Anal Sex Guide: Why Guys Want It, Anal Porn, Anal Health and Safety, Ass Play With Toys
June 30, 2011 02:20 - 39 minutes - 36.5 MBUnderstanding the ass as a sex object, how to play without causing damage or injury, why guys want to fuck women in the ass in the first place, ass-to-pussy and ass-to-mouth as they relate to disease, use of condoms and finger cots for anal sex and ass play, the importance of relaxation to good ass fucking experiences, the morning after, and a bunch of other fun stuff related to butt fucking in general...including a list of surprising items removed from people's asses in hospitals. Show Lin...
033 Advice Quickie: Coming Out As A Bisexual Guy When You're A Swinger
June 23, 2011 22:23 - 9 minutes - 8.76 MBThis quickie bonus episode represents a great collaboration between Ending the Sexual Dark Age and Life on the Swingset. The Swingset pitches in to answer a question from an experienced swinging guy who's concerned about coming out to the swing community as a bisexual. Many thanks to Cooper, Ginger, Dylan and Shira for lending a hand on this one. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Our Friends: LifeOnTheSwingset.com
032 Advice Line: How To Ride A Cock, Making Your Own Bondage Gear, Dealing With Male Sexual Stamina Issues
June 15, 2011 05:18 - 38 minutes - 35.4 MBThis listener mail episode includes questions on how to get good at riding a cock like a cowgirl, tips on making your own bondage gear and fetish wear on the cheap, and dealing with the psychological fallout of male stamina issues. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get half off just about any item, free shipping, free porn and a free sexy surprise.
031 Swinging Part 2: BDSM, Single Swingers, Bisexuality, Open Relationships
May 31, 2011 23:48 - 1 hour - 89.4 MBWe're once again joined by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset for a lively discussion on ethical non-monogamy that covers topics including BDSM in the swing community, single swingers and the different challenges faced by men and women as singles, bisexual curiosity, swinging vs. open relationships, sex related injuries, couples playing together or apart, keeping the mood intact when something goes haywire, and double vaginal penetration. Yeah, it's a super-sized episode. We also ...
030 Advice Line: Anal & Hemorrhoids, Handling Girth With Your Mouth, Sex & New Parents, The Down Side of Safe Words In Kinky Play
May 18, 2011 02:32 - 45 minutes - 41.7 MBTopics include getting laid as a new mom when dad isn't being terribly helpful, how to comfortably deal with a big dick in the mouth (and in the back door with hemorrhoids as a complication), a discussion on the good and bad aspects of safewords in BDSM play, and some general questions regarding dominant/submissive relationships. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com
029 Swinging Part 1: Tips For Newbie Swingers, Jealousy, Swinger Parties, Finding Swingers Online
May 03, 2011 03:38 - 59 minutes - 54.2 MBThis time we're joined by Cooper and Ginger from Life on the Swingset to have a fun conversation about the joys ethical nonmonogamy. In fact, we were having so much fun that we didn't get to half the topics we wanted to discuss, so we'll be reconvening our foursome to finish the interview in a couple weeks for Swinging Part 2. Some of the issues we cover in this episode include: How to safely and comfortably dip a toe into swinging when you've got no idea if it's right for you, jealousy an...
028 Advice Line: Bi-Bashing Gays, Soft-Selling Your Kinky Side, A Sexual Fresh Start, Teaching A Guy To Be A Dominant
April 21, 2011 04:52 - 1 hour - 59 MBTopics include bisexuality, online dating, introducing a vanilla husband to sexual dominance, re-stoking the sexual fires of a relationship and dealing with new potential playmates who expect a full blown Dominatrix as soon as a woman mentions kink. Show Links: Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Kink-positive books for newbies (at Amazon): Screw the Roses, Send Me the Thorns: The Romance and Sexual Sorcery of Sadomasochism The Loving Dominant
027 Group Sex Basics: Threesomes, Swinging, Polyamory, Orgies, Bi-Curiosity, Limits And Safe Words
April 06, 2011 06:00 - 57 minutes - 52.3 MBSome of the basic concepts and philosophies of group sex as well as some of the pitfalls of threesomes and couples playing together, including how bi-curiosity can come into play and how you can encourage a curious playmate without pushing too hard. This episode begins an arc of topics on group play, swinging, polyamory and other flavors of non-monogamy. Show website: SexualDarkAge.com
026 Gays In The U.S. Military
March 22, 2011 03:19 - 58 minutes - 53.1 MBAn in-depth interview with a career military man, who gives us a behind-the-scenes look at the modern soldier's real attitudes towards serving with gays and lesbians; as well as sharing the straight story on the Pentagon's new policy and what it means to the people who will actually be dealing with it. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com
025 Advice Line: A Granny Beats A Public Masturbator With A Dildo, Moving Past Sexual Trauma, Numbness From Vibrators, Double Penetration Hesitation
March 15, 2011 05:35 - 34.5 MBA story about a little old lady chasing a public masturbator with a giant dildo, a woman contemplating celibacy due to sexual disappointments, clitoral numbness from frequent use of vibrators, and a guy looking for a middle ground on his fiance's desire to get double teamed. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com
024 Homophobia, Bisexuality, How Society Teaches Gay Hate, Homosexuality In The Ancient World
March 08, 2011 03:15 - 41 minutes - 37.6 MBA discussion of homophobia, social issues and myths surrounding homosexuality and bisexuality, in preparation for some fun topics like swinging, group sex and poly. Show Website: http://www.sexualdarkage.com
023 Advice Line: Getting Hubby On Board For Kinky Sex, Helping Guys With Size Paranoia, Helping A Nice Girl Find Her Slutty Side
February 21, 2011 06:07 - 40 minutes - 37.1 MBA horny mom seeks help sorting through her recently discovered sex overdrive, advice for women looking to help keep their guys from needlessly obsessing about the size of their tools and a Dom looking for help unlocking the kinky side of a "nice girl." Show Website: http://www.sexualdarkage.com
022 Sex On Location: Having Sex In Cars, On The Beach, Around The House, Outdoors, In The Shower And More
February 14, 2011 05:58 - 31 minutes - 29.1 MBTips on sex in public and in private that does NOT involve a bed or a bedroom, including sex in and on cars, in the water and whatever horizontal surfaces you might have in your home. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com
021 Advice Line: Cock Rings, Sex Journals, Masturbation Stigmas, Polyamorous Complications
February 07, 2011 04:40 - 48 minutes - 44.8 MBCelebrating the first six months of the show, J.V. and Shara look back on some highlights, talk about topics including sex journals, women who frown on masturbation and polyamorous complications. A new section of the website and the show's Android App are also announced. Show Links: Show Website: Sexualdarkage.com New section of the website: Confessions of a Dirty Mind
020 Audio Erotica "The Taking of Ariel"
January 31, 2011 02:36 - 45 minutes - 41.7 MBA sensual tale of erotic fantasy introducing the Realm of Aeodar, a publication announcement for one of J.V.'s short stories, and a bit of inspirational heavy metal from the archives. Show Links: Read "The Taking of Ariel" on TwistedErotica.com Ravenous Romance
019 BDSM Basics Part 2: Negotiating Scenes, Fetish Parties & Clubs, Defining "Fetish," Introducing BDSM To Your Relationship, Listener Questions On Kink
January 24, 2011 06:34 - 56 minutes - 51.6 MBA wrap up on the most basic concepts of BDSM including group play, fetish clubs, negotiating scenes, bringing kink into your relationship and the meaning of the word "fetish," as well as a couple kink related listener mail items. Show Links: Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com Fetlife.com J.V. on Fetlife Shara on Fetlife
018 Advice Line: Why Guys Like Facial Cumshots, Laser Pube Removal, Unsafe Sex Toys, False Accusations of Cheating
January 17, 2011 05:12 - 41 minutes - 38 MBTopics include why guys like blowing loads all over women, laser hair removal for balls and pussies, how to spot and avoid using unsafe sex toys that can leech chemicals and cause problems, being constantly accused of cheating when you're not (and how it can make you want to cheat just to balance the scales) and how to deal with a guy who doesn't care if he can give his woman an orgasm. Suprisingly, my suggestion is not to beat him unconscious with a fifteen inch dildo. Show Links: Coalit...
017 BDSM Basics Part 1: What 'BDSM' Means, Marquis DuSade, Sadism vs. Sadomasochism, Safe Words, Munches, BDSM Porn
January 10, 2011 02:25 - 1 hour - 92.3 MBA beginner's guide to understanding BDSM. This jumbo sized episode covers the definitions of: the acronym "BDSM", Bondage and Discipline, Dominance and Submission, Sadism & Masochism as well as Sadomasochism. We also talk about soft limits, hard limits, the Marquis DuSade, Safe Words, SSC (Safe, Sane & Consentual) Play vs. RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink), Polyamory in the BDSM Lifestyle, finding a local or online BDSM community and what you should keep in mind when watching BDSM porn (an...
016 Advice Line: Health Issues With Ass-To-Pussy, Pussy Shaving Woes, Music And Sex, Hospital-Grade Ball Shaving
December 27, 2010 04:40 - 42 minutes - 38.5 MBTopics include health concerns regarding ass-to-mouth and ass-to-pussy musical holes, the difficulties some women have shaving their pussies, a method to shave balls used in hospitals for surgery-prep, and making music part of your sex play. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com
015 Audio Erotica "Timing Is Everything"
December 20, 2010 00:29 - 24 minutes - 22 MBSomething a little different this time, with J.V. reading an original erotic short story.
014 Laryngitis Sucks
December 13, 2010 01:20 - 55 seconds - 868 KBIt seems my vocal cords have decided to stage an insurrection, so I apologize for not being able to put out a full episode this weekend. I hope to get back to regularly scheduled programming in a few days once I slap my vocal cords back in line.
013 Advice Line: Taking Virginity, Managing Two Subs In A Threesome, Sexual Piercings
December 06, 2010 10:24 - 55 minutes - 50.9 MBTopics include taking virginity, managing two submissives in a threesome, Prince Alberts and whether piercings in general improve sexual stimulation. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com
012 Cunni Linguistics: How To Be Good At Licking Pussy And Why Shaving Improves Oral Sex
November 29, 2010 06:08 - 40 minutes - 36.7 MBThe art of eating at the Y is examined from several angles with a bunch of, tricks and ideas for newbies and connoisseurs. Included are the anatomy of a pussy (where you find the clit and how to make it happy), rythm and style, why a shaved pussy will probably get licked a lot more often and a sniff test that can save you from an awkward moment. Show Website: Sexualdarkage.com
011 Advice Line: Threesome Insecurity, An Awesome Oral Sex Game, Age-Inappropriate Relationships, Fixing A Lame Sex Life
November 22, 2010 04:25 - 41 minutes - 37.9 MBSpecific tips on making your own Dupli-Dong, a great website for learning more about the practices of BDSM, a bi female submissive asks for advice on head space in threesomes with another girl, a sex game you might never have thought of, thoughts on age inappropriate/lolita relationships and some tips for a guy trying to get his sex life out of high school now that he's almost done with college.
010 The Art of Smoking Pole: Why Blowjobs Are Important, How To Suck A Dick and How Shaving Can Get You Blown More Often
November 15, 2010 05:15 - 42 minutes - 39.1 MBA thorough explanation of why guys love getting head so much, why no one has an excuse not to go down, and lots of tips on how to be a better cocksucker. Includes The myth that it's demeaning to women; the options to spit, swallow or wear it, how to make jizz taste better, how shaving your balls can get you blown better and more often, general blowjob tips. Show Website: Sexualdarkage.com
009 Advice Line: Curing Prostatitis, A Woman Who Can't Masturbate to Climax, Introducing Kink To Your Bedroom
November 07, 2010 05:52 - 32 minutes - 30.1 MBYet another benefit to spanking the monkey for guys, advice to a woman who can climax with a guy but not alone, a listener coping with a dead relationship, and some tips on introducing BDSM to a historically vanilla sex life.
008 Sex Toys Rock: Why Every Woman Should Own Dildos and Vibrators, How Guys Can Take Advantage Of Them
November 01, 2010 02:53 - 41 minutes - 37.6 MBThe history and variety of sex toys for both men and women is examined, along with methods for bringing toys into your playtime if you haven't in the past.
007 Masturbation is Good For You
October 18, 2010 01:33 - 33 minutes - 30.7 MBThe ins, outs, ups and downs of literally taking things into your own hands.
006 Advice Line: Getting Over Shyness To Talk About Sex With Your Lover
October 08, 2010 02:50 - 12 minutes - 11.9 MBA quickie bonus episode covering listener mail and comments, upcoming topics on the show, and a bit of advice for a particularly shy listener who wants to learn how to get up the guts to have honest conversations about sex with a playmate. I also introduce my submissive Shara for the first time on the show.
005 Religion And Sexual Shame
October 04, 2010 05:22 - 49 minutes - 44.9 MBAn extremely critical look at the history of religion and shame. As a note of warning, some listeners have described this episode as a rant.
004 Male Sexual Stamina: How To Love Her Long Time
September 19, 2010 07:34 - 29 minutes - 27.4 MBEpisode 4 covers the various ins and outs of male stamina, starting with dispelling myths and understanding realistic expectations; then moving on to methods that can be used by both men and women to improve performance and longevity.
003 Meet The Female Orgasm: Fake Orgasms, Women Who Can't Climax, Orgasm Denial
September 06, 2010 10:03 - 35 minutes - 32.9 MBA variety of topics relating to the female orgasm are covered, from why fake orgasms are the worst thing that's ever happened to female sexuality, to how to use orgasm denial to push climaxes to new heights. Show website: Sexuadarkage.com
002 Size Matters...Kinda: The Truth About Cock Size and Tit Size
August 22, 2010 08:28 - 31 minutes - 29.1 MBA lot of men and women spend a lot of time obsessing about the size of certain key parts of their anatomies. This episode debunks a lot of common misconceptions about how much size matters in sex and sexual attraction, as well as the brutal truth about the various ways you can make your cock or tits bigger if you really can't get past your obsession. The reality is, even if you stress about the size of your dick or rack, there's a 70% chance your playmate is totally fine with it. Podcast ...