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Ending The Sexual Dark Age

101 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 2 years ago - ★★★★★ - 326 ratings

Despite what most of us are led to believe, there is nothing mysterious or elusive about the female orgasm. This is one of the many things you were probably never taught about sex, since you grew up in a society too afraid of it to have truly open dialogue on the subject.

Ending the Sexual Dark Age will guide you, a step at a time, to the healthy attitude towards sexuality that you would have been taught in a genuinely civilized world. From practical techniques to sexual philosophy, you’ll learn you how to have better sex and more of it; in a friendly atmosphere that doesn’t demean or coddle. As a matter of fair warning, I use blunt language with a "no BS" style, and occasionally I say things that would make a sailor blush. Feel free to address any questions, concerns, comments or tirades to jvaltharas at gmail dot com.

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Episodes

101 Bringing Kink Back To Paradise

May 31, 2022 23:27 - 23 minutes - 32.3 MB

Our first episode since before the world turned upside down, thanks for still being here! We're coming back on the scene by hosting a kink contingent July 23-28 at Swingtopia 2022, at our favorite place to get freaky in paradise, with our good friends at Char Travel! We're confirmed for one of our signature Dungeon Nights in the disco, we'll be doing a demo as usual, and the mini dungeon will be available for casual play at all hours. To learn more about the trip, visit http://www.ch...

100 Friends Swing By For The Centennial Episode

August 18, 2019 21:33 - 50 minutes - 69.6 MB

To celebrate our 100th episode, our sexy friends from Life on the Swingset come by to talk shop and swap stories. Show Links: Come play with us at Swingset Desire 2019 Life on the Swingset   Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook- Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  

099 Dungeon Night Debrief 2018

July 20, 2019 22:29 - 1 hour - 107 MB

This show is our annual Dungeon Night Debrief episode, recorded with a live audience at Desire Resort in Riviera Maya (Cancun) This is also the last of the old recordings, so we're caught up! Tune in next time for our centennial episode, when we'll be joined by our best friends in podcasting from Life on the Swingset.   Show Links: Come play with us at SS Desire 2019 Life on the Swingset   Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook- Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  

098 Total Desire Recall 2018 (Part 2)

June 23, 2019 16:10 - 1 hour - 83.5 MB

In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara,and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 2 of 2   Show Links: Come play with us at SS Desire 2019 Life on the Swingset   Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook- Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  

097 Total Desire Recall 2018 (Part 1)

June 15, 2019 16:32 - 52 minutes - 72.4 MB

In the name of catching up, the next few episodes were previously recorded at and after Desire 2018 last November. This episode features JV, Shara, Tristan Taormino and the Swingset Crew recapping SS Desire 2018. Part 1 of 2   Show Links: Come play with us at SS Desire 2019 Life on the Swingset Pucker Up - Tristan's Sex-Positive home on the web. Sex Out Loud Podcast with Tristan Taormino Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  

096 So JV Almost Died Last Year...

June 03, 2019 22:18 - 30 minutes - 41.8 MB

After a long hiatus induced by JV almost dying last year and taking months to recover, we're podcasting again! We've missed you, sexy friends!   Show Links:   Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  

095 Dungeon Night Debrief (Part 2) - Desire 2017 Takeover

February 11, 2018 17:37 - 1 hour - 91.3 MB

Part 2 This year's Desire Resort takeover brought a new and improved Dungeon Night, and a couple dozen perverts decided to join our live audience recording the next day...where we were able to do an absinthe tasting thanks to the generosity of Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie. Many thanks to the Dungeon Crew, including Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie, Knotty Irish & Pet, and Maximus & Gabriella, and Duncan & Mrs. Duncan, Ophilia Tesla, and of course the illustrious Tristan Taormino, who was an absolute j...

094 Dungeon Night Debrief (Part 1) - Desire 2017 Takeover

December 30, 2017 01:31 - 51 minutes - 70.4 MB

This year's Desire Resort takeover brought a new and improved Dungeon Night, and a couple dozen perverts decided to join our live audience recording the next day...where we were able to do an absinthe tasting thanks to the generosity of Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie. Many thanks to the Dungeon Crew, including Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie, Knotty Irish & Pet, and Maximus & Gabriella, and Duncan & Mrs. Duncan, Ophilia Tesla, and of course the illustrious Tristan Taormino, who was an absolute joy to wor...

093 Folsom Street Fair Edition (Part 2)

October 02, 2017 21:56 - 1 hour - 89.7 MB

Part 2 of our post-fair discussion. In the conclusion we talk more about our Saturday night play party (including Sexxypixie signing Shara's ass), vibrators with rolling unlock codes, and everyone gets together to give Gabriella her birthday spankings.   Thanks to our friends and fellow freaks, Swingerdoc & Sexxypixie, Knotty Irish & Pet, and Maximus & Gabriella for joining in on this episode!  Our Desire takeover now has only a handful of rooms left. Last chance to come play with us i...

092 Folsom Street Fair Edition (Part 1)

October 01, 2017 18:14 - 1 hour - 82.6 MB

After Folsom Street Fair, we sat down with our friends to talk about the sights and scenes of the weekend. We talk more about Twisted Windows, especially Saki & Mayu's intense shibari performance, though the word "shibari" alone fails entirely to do it justice.  We also talk about our Saturday Night Play party, including Knotty with his florentine Hitachi act and someone fucking the bedpost after opening up for the Talking Stick. Thanks to our friends and fellow freaks, Swingerdoc & Se...

091 Hotties Under The Collar: The Submissives Record Their Own Episode

September 30, 2017 01:54 - 1 hour - 83.1 MB

While we were in San Francisco for Folsom Street Fair, Shara and the other submissives recorded their own episode on Saturday evening while the doms were cooking dinner and otherwise entertaining themselves.  They spend a good bit of time unpacking the amazing kinky performances we'd seen at Twisted Windows the previous night, as well as getting up to their usual shenanigans. Many thanks to Sexypixie, Knotty's Pet and Gabriella for joining in on this episode! Our Desire takeover now ha...

090 Talking Kinky Sex With Tristan Taormino

September 04, 2017 21:28 - 1 hour - 102 MB

Podcaster, Sex educator and prolific pornographer Tristan Taormino, who also happens to be our guest co-host for our upcoming Desire Resort takeover in November, joins us to talk about kinky sex and how she likes it. This episode was originally intended mostly be about ethical pornography, on which Tristan is also an expert, but we had a little too much fun talking kink so we're going to save that topic for a later episode, maybe even for some spontaneous podcasting on resort. Less than ...

089 Sexy Times In San Francisco and An Erotic Dinner With Our Gourmet Life

July 09, 2017 23:39 - 37 minutes - 52 MB

We talk about some of the highlights of our sexy times in San Francisco, including an excellent evening spent at an erotic dinner hosted by Our Gourmet Life Chef Chris Hubbard   Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!     Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Our Gourmet Life by Chef Chris Hubbard Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  

088 Midori On Using Communication To Make Hot Play Happen

June 09, 2017 02:12 - 55 minutes - 63.6 MB

While in San Francisco, we sit down with Midori to talk about using better communication to make hot play happen and get more out of it. Topics include turning "no" into something positive and learning to share your desires in a way that empowers you. Make Hot Play Happen with Marcia B. & Midori: Coming up in San Francisco August 5-6, 2017 and New York City October 28-29, 2017 ForteFemme: Women's Dominance Weekend Intensive coming up in San Franciso August 11-13, 2017 and New York City...

087 Interview With Cooper S Beckett On His New Book "Approaching The Swingularity"

April 20, 2017 00:57 - 38 minutes - 44.3 MB

  Our sexy friend Cooper S Beckett from Life on the Swingset joins us to talk about (and read from) his swinging new novel, "Approaching The Swingularity." Click below to buy directly from his website, or wherever books are sold.     Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints CooperSBeckett.com Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE"...

086 Fetish Club Reviews: Choice Social and Galleria Domain 2

April 04, 2017 00:18 - 40 minutes - 45.9 MB

We've been doing some traveling this year, and part of that has been visiting new and interesting fetish clubs. In this episode we talk about our time at: Galleria Domain 2 in Chicago Choice Social Club in Rhode Island We were also honored to be present for the closing night of Alter Ego in Rhode Island, and we're pleased to report that a filthy, kinky time was had by all. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order yo...

085 LotSS 279 Desire Takeover 2016 Recap & LIfe On The Swingset 7th Anniversary

March 18, 2017 02:58 - 1 hour - 119 MB

In this supersize episode, Shara and I join our friends from Life on the Swingset to reminisce about our Desire Resort takeover back in November. This is also a special Swingset episode, as it marks the show's seventh anniversary! The content of this episode was originally released as Life On The Swingset Episode 279. Lastly and on a sad note, we've had to cancel our April trip to Desire due to work conflicts. We'll make up for it in November.   Listen to this episode for a discount...

084 Interview With Midori (Part 2) On Her Female Dominance Intensive: ForteFemme, Our New Toys From Fetish Fair Flea

March 09, 2017 02:59 - 1 hour - 68.6 MB

During our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes the conclusion of that interview, in which we talk about ForteFemme, Midori's weekend intensive on female dominance. But, we start by discussing Shara's newfound desire to be gang-topped (which JV learned about while recording), and our new toys from Fetish Fair Flea. If you'd like to learn more about Midori and h...

083 Interview with Midori (Part 1) On Kinky Archetypes And The True Meaning of BDSM

March 03, 2017 00:15 - 1 hour - 71.8 MB

During our trip to Fetish Fair Fleamarket, we had the opportunity to sit down with legendary kink educator Midori for one of our favorite interviews ever. This episode includes most of that interview (more to come next week). We talk about lead/follow archetypes that can assist us deconstructing our kinky tendencies and desires in a way that allows for superior communication, followed up by a great conversation on her definition of BDSM, which is far more insightful than mere discussion of...

082 PTSD & BDSM

March 01, 2017 00:57 - 40 minutes - 46.6 MB

Our long-time medical advisor finally joins us on the show to continue a discussion about PTSD & BDSM play that began a few episodes ago with a listener question. Sadly, due to some technical issues, we had to use the Skype recording of our interview and thus do not have the benefit of the new studio's awesomeness. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraint...

081 New Year, New Studio

January 05, 2017 01:25 - 53 minutes - 61 MB

After a crazy holiday season, we ring in the new year with a new studio setup, and we hope you love the new sound as much as we do. Please let us know what you think! This is a laid back episode full of sexy stories about sexy friends, as well as the announcement of our April group vacation, the Dark Side of Desire, from 4/15 to 4/20. Contact [email protected] for pricing and more info! Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on eve...

080 Dungeon Desire DM Roundup

November 21, 2016 03:18 - 1 hour - 61.6 MB

On November 9th, the disco at Desire Resort became a dungeon for the first time and it was an amazing night. Shara and I could never have pulled it off without the support and assistance of several other kinky couples who acted as both dungeon masters and service tops all evening, and this episode was about bringing them on the show and capturing some of the incredible energy. Want to see what our humble dungeon looked like before the action started? Visit our Facebook album Listen to thi...

079 PTSD Triggers, BDSM Play, and The Perils of Looking For Dominants Online

October 23, 2016 17:10 - 41 minutes - 37.7 MB

A submissive from Down Under asks questions about navigating the realm of BDSM when you have PTSD from sexual and physical abuse, including looking for a dominant online. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

078 Orgasms On Command

October 06, 2016 23:27 - 52 minutes - 47.8 MB

A listener question about orgasms on command inspired an impromptu recording in paradise, which later inspired (and is included in) this episode. Honestly, it was a blast to both record and edit this one. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com  

077 Desire Takeover Special with Jim from Char Travel

October 06, 2016 01:29 - 32 minutes - 29.3 MB

Jim from Char Travel joins us for this special episode about the upcoming (nearly 100% booked!) Desire Resort takeover in November Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

076 Swing Club Strikeouts and Erotic Asphyxiation

August 08, 2016 01:17 - 34 minutes - 31.2 MB

For our first episode in a while we talk a bit about Shara's fondness for erotic asphyxiation, as well as a listener question about striking out at swing clubs that Ginger and Prof were kind enough to answer with us. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

075 Thirty Naked People And A Microphone 2015

November 24, 2015 00:37 - 44 minutes - 40.6 MB

This year for Swingset Takes Desire we hosted a bunch of kinky events, and a great time was had by all. This discussion-group style episode was recorded live on our last full day at the resort, full of reminiscence of good times had and great ideas for next year's full-resort takeover. Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make!   Show Links: Sponsored by Extreme Restraints Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Fa...

074 Kinky Listener Mail - Munches, Kinky Monotony, Threesomes, Performance Anxiety

September 01, 2015 22:51 - 1 hour - 62 MB

Ginger & The Prof join us again to pitch in discussing some kinky listener mail topics, including getting the confidence up to attend your first munch, dealing with sexual monotony when your kinky play becomes so predictable it feels like vanilla sex all over again, kinky threesome concerns, and performance anxiety after prostate removal surgery. We'd like to welcome Audible as a new sponsor! CLICK HERE to get a free audio book and a 30 day free trial! Listen to this episode for a discount...

073 Getting Kinky In Paradise with Ginger & The Prof

June 06, 2015 23:14 - 1 hour - 73.5 MB

Ginger & The Prof from Life on the Swingset (and their own upcoming podcast Intellectual Foreplay--we can't wait!) join us to reminisce about our trip to Desire in April...and plot what sorts of trouble we can cause on our upcoming trips in November 2015 and April 2016.  Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at Extreme Restraints...on every order you ever make! Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get ...

072 Recovering From Sexual Assault: Interviews With Victims Who've Become Educators & Advocates

May 16, 2015 16:00 - 1 hour - 71.4 MB

A listener asks for advice on recovering from a rape she suffered three years ago. We interview two other sexual abuse/assault survivors who share their experiences with recovery. Interview Guests: Dawn Serra is a sex an intimacy coach who has personal experience with rape and sexual assault. She is also co-host of the Sex Gets Real Podcast Megan Allen is a sex educator friendly to all types of adult sexuality and owner of the Facebook sex education page The Downstairs. She also works at ...

071 Interview: Private Gym Creator David Mandell On Better, Stronger Cocks Through Kegel Exercises for Men

April 02, 2015 02:04 - 1 hour - 62 MB

This episode was recorded at CatalystCon in front of a live studio audience. We have a great conversation with David Mandell, creator of the Private Gym Pelvic Muscle Exercise System For Men, on this revolutionary (and FDA registered) system for improving sexual performance and overall male sexual health through simple exercises that any guy can learn. Follow @TrainPrivateGym on twitter or check them out on Facebook  Listen to this episode for a discount code that will score you 10% off at ...

070 Budget Bondage For Beginners And Other Cost Conscious Kink

February 12, 2015 03:18 - 43 minutes - 39.9 MB

A listener request for advice on bondage gear that doesn't cost a fortune led us on a winding road that ended with a new sponsor! This episode begins with a discussion of "pervertables" that can be found in various vanilla venues, then transitions into a discussion of the awesome gear we got from Extreme Restraints for not a lot of cash. Be sure to listen to the episode for a coupon code worth 20% off your entire order for a limited time! They also have a first time buyer bonus that lets yo...

069 Interview: Dee Dennis, Founder/Organizer of CatalystCon

January 15, 2015 02:43 - 36 minutes - 33.3 MB

Dee Dennis joins us to talk about CatalystCon, a conference created to inspire exceptional conversations about sexuality. Follow @DeeDennis and @CatalystCon on Twitter Enter code "DARKAGE" at registration for 10 bucks off! Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT ...

068 Interview: Cooper Beckett On His New Book, "My Life On The Swingset"

January 06, 2015 05:01 - 5 minutes - 35.9 MB

Cooper Beckett joins us to talk about his new book, My Life On The Swingset, which chronicles the ups, downs and sideways shimmies of his first six years practicing ethical non-monogamy, in a way that really brings the reader along for the ride. Ebook now available, hard copies to be released by March. Click Below To Buy On Amazon  Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that'...

067 Sex News 12/21/14 | Condoms In Porn, Semen Fights Depression, The Pill Affects Attraction, Orgasms & Brain Science, FL Same-Sex Marriage, Naked Revenge

December 21, 2014 16:59 - 43 minutes - 60 MB

This is our first experimental run at a "Sex News" format. If we work out the kinks (giggity), it may become either something we do every couple episodes or even a spin-off show. See the bottom of the post for links to all the news articles discussed in this episode. Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email addr...

066 Same-Sexploration, Munch Shyness and a Stinky Cowboy

December 09, 2014 02:23 - 35 minutes - 49.4 MB

Topics include a younger guy with concerns about being attracted to other guys, a woman wondering how to work up the courage to go to a kinky munch, and a cowboy getting kicked out of bed for an odor problem he's not sure exists Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to...

065 Live From Desire - Ending The Sexual Dark Age on The Swingset

November 26, 2014 22:24 - 1 hour - 94.3 MB

This episode is one of our favorites to date, mostly because it was SO much fun to record. JV and Shara are joined by Cooper, Miko and Prof from Life on the Swingset, as well as a couple dozen other sexy naked people, for an open-mic discussion group towards the end of our amazing week at Desire. Other than inserting a couple commercial breaks, this is completely unedited. We hope to have an announcement very soon regarding an expanded trip next year, with Shara and JV heading up the expans...

064 Dealing With An Asexual Relationship

November 23, 2014 21:27 - 27 minutes - 37.3 MB

A listener asks for advice on dealing with a relationship that's great in almost every respect, except that it's never taken off sexually. This was originally recorded to be episode 63, but never got published due to technical issues which have now been corrected. Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address...

063 Back From Desire

November 21, 2014 02:56 - 47 minutes - 65 MB

Shara and I just spent a week in paradise at Swingset Takes Desire 2014, and this episode is our stream-of-consciousness wrap up of the trip and return to regular podcasting...for realsies this time.  Please take a few moments to fill out a demographic survey to support the show by helping us get the best sponsors, and also make sure we have advertising that's most likely to be relevant to you. The request for an email address is TOTALLY OPTIONAL, so feel free to NOT provide your email if y...

062 Cum and Chemo, Swallowing Advice, Toning Down Your Dominant Side, Swinging In Cancun

June 29, 2014 21:04 - 37 minutes - 52.1 MB

A guy with stage 4 cancer needs to know if his submissive will be swallowing his chemotherapy drugs along with his jizz (see link below), advice on toning down your dominant side when it's too much for your partner, and tips on how to swallow a big load at the end of a blowjob without gagging. JV was recently a guest on the Men's Family Law Podcast with awesome host attorney David Pisarra to talk about the impact of sex on a healthy relationship and a bunch of other fun topics. JV and Shar...

061 Ending The Sexual Dark Age On The Swingset - Polyamory, Pegging, Eating Creampies and Much More!

June 11, 2014 19:00 - 1 hour - 98.3 MB

We join our friends from the Swingset for the first time in far too long! Topics of conversation include advice on polyamory, eating creampies, pegging, and whatever else wandered through our minds. This episode is available as both episode 61 of our show and episode 161 of Life On The Swingset. Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Life On The Swingset Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FRE...

060 The Hiatus Endeth

May 29, 2014 00:57 - 35 minutes - 48.7 MB

We finally talk about our Vegas wrap up, as well as talking about some fun ways to break sexual monotony. New interviews are coming soon on our show, and we'll be recording with our friends on the swingset very soon. Overall this episode was just a light, fun way to get back to recording. It's great to be back! Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipp...

059 Talking Dirty, Overbearing Parents, Bringing the Kink Back

January 13, 2014 00:41 - 37 minutes - 51.4 MB

A concerned boyfriend is looking for tips to help his girl stand up to her controlling parents, a submissive needs help getting comfortable with talking dirty, and another submissive wants to bring sexy back to her marriage by bringing the kink back. Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show Webs...

058 Cannibalism Fetish, Kegel Exercises For The Blind, Muscle Relaxers Suppressing Orgasms

December 23, 2013 01:11 - 52 minutes - 72.4 MB

Topics include a listener's struggle with his gynophagia (aka Cannibalism Fetish), a blind couple asking for detailed verbal instructions for doing Kegel exercises, and a woman on muscle relaxers who might be incapable of feeling pleasure from her orgasms because of them. Show Links: Ending The Sexual Dark Age On Facebook-Please "LIKE" Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sex...

057 BDSM and Virginity, Taking Constructive Criticism As A Submissive, Books for New Dominants, Hot For Teacher

November 24, 2013 22:43 - 50 minutes - 69.9 MB

Listener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications that may be looking for models, JV's new project to test his female orgasm intensification training, and Shara's support group for local submissives. If you know a good place to hook up with the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, please comment below to help a listener out. If you know of major fetis...

056 Masturbation, Virginity, Orgasm Training, Submissive Support Group, Fetish Modeling

November 10, 2013 16:54 - 54 minutes - 75.2 MB

Listener mail topics include a woman with questions about both losing her virginity and learning to enjoy masturbation, finding the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, major fetish publications that may be looking for models, JV's new project to test his female orgasm intensification training, and Shara's support group for local submissives. If you know a good place to hook up with the fetish scene in Hannover, Germany, please comment below to help a listener out. If you know of major fetis...

055 We're Not Dead, Deep Throating Tips, Breath Play/Erotic Asphyxiation, Party in Vegas for the AVN Expo

November 02, 2013 16:54 - 40 minutes - 55.4 MB

Indeed, we're not dead and it's great to be back to podcasting. Many thanks to those who emailed and kept in touch while we were more or less MIA, we're looking forward to seeing how much of the audience is still tuned in. In this episode, we address some listener requests for more detailed tips on deep throating a cock, talk about Shara's new love for being choked while she's getting fucked, and discuss our upcoming trip to Las Vegas in January for the AVN Adult Entertainment Expo (stay tu...

054 Adultery Isn't Cool

December 04, 2012 01:33 - 1 hour - 94.6 MB

We discuss a listener question from a lesbian who's been pretty thoroughly cheated on by her long-time partner, which leads into a broader discussion of adultery and why cheating sucks on so many levels. Show Links: New Facebook Page for Ending The Sexual Dark Age Sponsored By: AdamAndEve.com, enter the code "DARKAGE" at checkout to get HALF OFF just about any item, FREE shipping, three FREE porn DVDs and a FREE sexy surprise. Show Website: SexualDarkAge.com

053 Getting Girls, Breaking The Swing Ice, The Gift of Panties, Kegel Exercise Orgasms

September 24, 2012 22:04 - 41 minutes - 56.8 MB

Topics include advice for a younger guy on how to replace masturbation with real women, advice for a couple who's almost certain their friends want to swing with them but aren't sure how to break the ice without being embarassed, thoughts for a girl whose younger brother asked for a pair of her panties to keep, and the possibliity of having vaginal orgasms for the first time by doing your kegel exercises so you can clamp down on your playmate. Show Links: New Facebook Page for Ending The S...

052 FFM Threesomes: Seducing Women As A Couple, First Vibrator Advice

September 14, 2012 01:54 - 52 minutes - 72.2 MB

Two listener questions from women about getting another girl in bed for a threesome, including topics such as making an approach or opening the door, how to tell if another woman is into you, and the option of using swinger events to scope out potential playmates. We also talk about choosing your first vibrator, and Shara makes some specific recommendations from her EXTENSIVE personal experience :) All the sex-positive awesomeness now appearing on the website will also appears on our new Fa...

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