How do you define success?

 

For our friend Kelly Siegel, what it means to be successful has evolved over time. At the beginning of his personal development journey, success was about getting sober and escaping poverty.

 

But today, Kelly sees success as the fulfillment of his purpose on this earth.

 

Kelly is the CEO of National Technology Management and the creator of Harder Than Life, a platform dedicated to helping people develop self-awareness, improve their health and grow their business.

 

He is also a keynote speaker and author of Harder Than Life: Overcoming Poverty, Addiction and Violence.

 

On this episode of Destined to Be, we’re sharing Jeremiah’s conversation with Kelly around the evolution of success from Kelly’s new show, The Harder Than Life Podcast.

 

Kelly and Jeremiah describe their struggles with substance abuse and how they got sober, discussing what to do if you’re seeking something more—but feel stuck in a certain phase of your life.

 

Kelly offers advice to those of us who let our ego run our day, walking us through his process for responding to perceived rejection and moving closer to self-love.

 

Listen in for insight on the myth of work-life balance and learn why success is directly correlated with your ability to be uncomfortable!

Key Takeaways

How Jeremiah defines success as evolving to be better than you were the day before

 

Kelly & Jeremiah’s respective struggles with substance abuse and how they each got sober

 

How to build the habit of cutting out the noise and listening to yourself 

 

How Jeremiah leverages the Law of Attraction to show up with confidence and know that what’s out there is his for the taking

 

What to do if you’re seeking but stuck in a certain phase of your life

 

Kelly & Jeremiah’s advice to anyone who’s letting their ego run their day

 

How contrasting attachment styles cause challenges in a marriage

 

The myth of work-life balance and how self-love improves your relationships and business

 

Jeremiah’s struggle with being motivated by what other people thought about him

 

Jeremiah’s universal law of not taking yourself too seriously

 

What inspired Jeremiah’s charity and how it’s changing the stigma around addiction

Connect with Kelly

Harder Than Life

 

Kelly on Instagram

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Mallory on Instagram

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Resources

Harder Than Life: Overcoming Poverty, Addiction and Violence by Kelly Siegel

 

Power vs. Force by David R. Hawkins, MD, PhD

 

Dr. Joe Dispenza

 

Rob Dyrdek

 

Stutz

 

Ego Is the Enemy by Ryan Holiday

 

Living Untethered: Beyond the Human Predicament by Michael A. Singer

 

Adult Children of Emotionally Immature Parents by Lindsay C. Gibson

 

Attached: Are You Anxious, Avoidant or Secure? How the Science of Adult Attachment Can Help You Find and Keep Love by Amir Levine and Rachel Heller

 

Deeper Dating: How to Drop the Games of Seduction and Discover the Power of Intimacy by Ken Page

 

Ed Mylett

 

Tim Grover

 

Marcus Lemonis

 

The Body Keeps the Score: Brain, Mind and Body in the Healing of Trauma by Bessel van der

Kolk, MD

 

Jordan Peterson

 

Families Against Narcotics

 

Mel Robbins