Dad Starting Over
218 episodes - English - Latest episode: 3 months ago - ★★★★ - 14 ratingsWelcome to the Dad Starting Over podcast! "Starting Over" means different things to different people. It could be that you're newly divorced and starting over fresh with a new life. It could be that you're still married and wanting to hit the reset button and finally do things right within your marriage. Whatever your story may be, you're in the right place.
I'm DSO, the author of books called "The Dead Bedroom Fix", "NOW WHAT?", and "Red Flags". You can learn more about me, my books, one-on-one coaching, and the member-only part of my site called the DSO Fraternity at dadstartingover.com.
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Episodes
How Do You Detach From Your Cheater Ex?
March 24, 2020 16:28 - 10 minutes - 7.58 MBDetaching from your cheating ex-wife is not easy... but it must be done. Here's the how and why for detaching from your ex.https://www.dadstartingover.com
Dead Bedrooms - The Importance of GETTING AWAY
March 11, 2020 14:14 - 14 minutes - 10.7 MBFor all of you Dead Bedroom Fix readers wanting to get closer to that "new relationship energy" level of intimacy you had early in your relationship, this episode is for you!
Dead Bedrooms
March 10, 2020 12:51 - 8 minutes - 6.07 MBThe super popular topic that every man wishes he didn't have to talk about... the dreaded DEAD BEDROOM. What is it with the "not tonight honey, I have a headache" stereotype? The frigid wife. What's going on there? Does a long term marriage really HAVE to mean a lack of a good sex life?
"My Wife Wants an Open Marriage"
March 09, 2020 17:42 - 15 minutes - 11.2 MBThe "wife wants an open marriage" phenomenon is growing. Fast. What is going on here? What does this mean for you?
Stop Blaming "The Other Man" - Enforce Your Boundaries
March 08, 2020 13:24 - 26 minutes - 18.7 MBIn this episode, I talk about the all-too-common scenario of men blaming "the other man" for their wife's affair. Then the conversation turns to the importance of enforcing boundaries and how your own wife may need your help enforcing boundaries that you may feel she should do herself. Don't be such a nice guy... grow a pair.
Audiobook Sample - "The Dead Bedroom Fix"
February 09, 2020 22:48 - 5 minutes - 10.2 MBHere is a sample of the audiobook version of "The Dead Bedroom Fix". You can listen on Audible, Apple Books, Awesound or download the MP3 from dadstartingover.com/the-dead-bedroom-fix
Audiobook Sample - "NOW WHAT? A Guide for Men Starting Over in Life After Infidelity, Breakup and Divorce"
February 09, 2020 22:47 - 4 minutes - 4.59 MBHere is a sample of the audiobook version of "NOW WHAT?". You can listen on Audible, Apple Books, Awesound or download the MP3 from dadstartingover.com/now-what
Audiobook Sample - "NOW WHAT? A Guide for Men Starting Over in Life After Infidelity, Breakup and Divorce"
February 09, 2020 22:47 - 2 minutes - 1.65 MBHere is a sample of the audiobook version of "NOW WHAT?". You can listen on Audible, Apple Books, Awesound or download the MP3 from dadstartingover.com/now-what
What Did I Do Wrong in my Failed Relationship?
November 25, 2019 17:34 - 12 minutes - 8.36 MBIn this episode I talk about what I did wrong in my failed relationship. No, I'm not all perfect... and no, it wasn't all her fault. I had work to do, and I didn't do it. But why?
Are ALL Women Like This?!
November 25, 2019 17:01 - 21 minutes - 15.2 MBIn this episode, I talk about the common question I see posted online all the time: "Are ALL women like this?!" As with most things in life, it's not as simple as "MGTOW!" and "HYPERGAMY!". It's time to put on our adult hats and look at what got us all in this mess in the first place.
Red Flag: Lying
March 30, 2019 19:31 - 24 minutes - 20.3 MBWe’re so accustomed to being lied to that we let is slip by again and again with no consequence or action. When it comes to our saintly women, men like to fall all over themselves explaining away these indiscretions. Our women are just far too innocent to think that they would lie to us for insidious reasons. They’re just little fibs.
Why Did She "Affair Down"?
September 16, 2018 16:00 - 27 minutes - 18.9 MBSo your wife was caught in an affair. Let me guess, he was a loser, right? He was by no means the kind of guy that she should want in a long-term relationship partner. Your situation is not unique. It is the norm. Let's talk about it and explore the phenomenon.
Testosterone Replacement Therapy - PART 2
June 26, 2018 05:58 - 30 minutes - 18.9 MBSo I listened to the first episode I did about TRT... and realized I left a great deal out. In this episode we will talk about sperm, erections, roid rage, acne... it's a good one.
Testosterone Replacement Therapy
June 24, 2018 17:39 - 37 minutes - 25 MBI've been a TRT patient for several years. I can say, without a doubt, it has changed my life for the better. In this episode I briefly go over my experience, the pros and cons and what you can do to get started (if you need TRT). DISCLAIMER: I am NOT a medical professional. At all. This is just my own experience as a TRT patient. Seek the physician or trained medical professional with experience in hormone replacement therapy.
Kids Can Easily Ruin Your Relationship
December 18, 2017 01:06 - 52 minutes - 47.9 MB"Have a kid! Don't worry about it or overthink it... just have one!" Bringing a human into this world is a very big deal. The money. The logistical planning. The toll it takes on your marriage. Think you're a tough guy? Have a kid. We'll see what you're really made of. In this episode I talk about all the all-too-common dead bedroom scenario that happens when kids arrive, my advice for when you decide to have a kid, and how you as a man need to be to keep yourself out of trouble.
Dating After Divorce - Part 2
May 14, 2017 23:18 - 27 minutes - 24.8 MBSo you are ready to date... or not really ready but can't hold back any longer and need sex? In this episode I talk about the mindset you must enter with when dating.. and the two pathways of Lover vs. Provider.
Dating After Divorce - Part 1 - WAIT!
March 05, 2017 05:24 - 24 minutes - 22.7 MBFirst part of a multi-part episode discussing the hot topic of men dating post-divorce.
What do you do if you catch your wife cheating?
December 13, 2016 03:51 - 18 minutes - 17.4 MBSo you found out. The world as you know it has changed 100%. You're experiencing a tsunami of emotions and you are very likely to make HUGE mistakes that will haunt you for life. Listen to my advice and come out ahead.