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To come or not to come. Whether men should finish and how women feel about it
Closeness
English - June 29, 2021 05:03 - 41 minutes - 56.7 MB - ★★★★★ - 125 ratingsSexuality Health & Fitness Education Courses Homepage Download Apple Podcasts Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
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One of the biggest questions of our time as it pertains to intimacy is whether or not a man should always "finish" when having sex. This episodes dives deep into the pros and cons and explores the little known avenue of pressure that women can place on men. Topics include:
0:00 Introduction
0:53 Societal expectations around finishing
1:33 Typical expectations around male ejaculation
9:10 Is a male orgasm bad?
12:03 The spiritual minded orgasm
13:17 Restraining for energy
14:44 Everyone has a different sex drive
17:43 Pressure!
23:15 There is no reward for marathon sex
30:58 Final thoughts on pressure
34:10 Final thoughts and tips