By the Bi
606 episodes - English - Latest episode: 28 days ago - ★★★★★ - 76 ratingsWelcome to By the Bi, a podcast for anyone interested in learning a bit more about bisexuality, the swinger community, open relationships, BDSM, and everything else your vanilla friends refuse to talk with you about. Join your hosts, a bisexual expat couple in Sydney Australia, as each episode we chat about ourselves, our experiences, and our relationships. We look forward to addressing specific questions or issues that you might have as well; so pull up a chair, grab a cocktail and listen in. Oh and, by the by, we're glad you're listening. Get bonus content on Patreon
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28 - Love Languages
November 15, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 94.6 MBHowdy folks! You’ve heard us talk about communication and the importance of communication with our partners (both inside of and outside of our primary relationships). This episode we talk a bit about loooooooove and how the two of us discuss, … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#28 Love Languages
November 15, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 94.6 MBHowdy folks! You’ve heard us talk about communication and the importance of communication with our partners (both inside of and outside of our primary relationships). This episode we talk a bit about loooooooove and how the two of us discuss, … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
#27 Sex Ed – G-Spot and Clitoral Massage
November 08, 2016 22:11 - 1 hour - 92.3 MBIn this episode we go back to Our Secret Spot for another Sex Ed class with MisJif. This time its the lady’s turn and we focus on clitoral and g-spot massaging. The Atoms were lucky enough to be approached to … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
27 - Sex Ed – G-Spot and Clitoral Massage
November 08, 2016 22:11 - 1 hour - 92.3 MBIn this episode we go back to Our Secret Spot for another Sex Ed class with MisJif. This time its the lady’s turn and we focus on clitoral and g-spot massaging. The Atoms were lucky enough to be approached to … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#26 Mr. Atom’s Night Out
November 01, 2016 21:58 - 1 hour - 114 MBIn this episode we talk about Mr.Atom’s adventures with his beau. We talk about his going to a big gay dance party and the first overnight with the new fella. In our question of the week we discuss whether or … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
26 - Mr. Atom’s Night Out
November 01, 2016 21:58 - 1 hour - 114 MBIn this episode we talk about Mr.Atom’s adventures with his beau. We talk about his going to a big gay dance party and the first overnight with the new fella. In our question of the week we discuss whether or … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
25 - SexEd – After Party at OSS
October 25, 2016 20:00 - 58 minutes - 80 MBHello folks! In this episode we talk about our experiences AFTER the SexEd class at Our Secret Spot. After being properly primed by the SexEd class on giving good head, we were both really excited to wander about the club. … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#25 SexEd – After Party at OSS
October 25, 2016 20:00 - 58 minutes - 80 MBHello folks! In this episode we talk about our experiences AFTER the SexEd class at Our Secret Spot. After being properly primed by the SexEd class on giving good head, we were both really excited to wander about the club. … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
#24 Sex Ed – Giving Good Head
October 18, 2016 20:00 - 50 minutes - 70 MBHiya Folks! Sex Education. If you’re like us, when it comes to sex, you probably think you know all you need to know. If you’re like us… you have A LOT to learn. In this episode we recap the recent … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
24 - Sex Ed – Giving Good Head
October 18, 2016 20:00 - 50 minutes - 70 MBHiya Folks! Sex Education. If you’re like us, when it comes to sex, you probably think you know all you need to know. If you’re like us… you have A LOT to learn. In this episode we recap the recent … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#23 Hellfire
October 10, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 83.4 MBWelcome to Hellfire friends and neighbors! In this podcast we tell of our adventures to a local BDSM nightclub party here in Sydney called “The Hellfire Club” at Midnight Shift. We talk about our clothing choices, the club experience, and the … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
23 - Hellfire
October 10, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 83.4 MBWelcome to Hellfire friends and neighbors! In this podcast we tell of our adventures to a local BDSM nightclub party here in Sydney called “The Hellfire Club” at Midnight Shift. We talk about our clothing choices, the club experience, and the … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#22 STIs
October 05, 2016 05:08 - 1 hour - 89.6 MBHello folks and welcome back! In this episode we talk about STIs. There is A LOT of misinformation out there and we are looking to dispel some of the myths and make getting yourself tested less scary. We still remember … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
22 - STIs
October 05, 2016 05:08 - 1 hour - 89.6 MBHello folks and welcome back! In this episode we talk about STIs. There is A LOT of misinformation out there and we are looking to dispel some of the myths and make getting yourself tested less scary. We still remember … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
21 - Glow Party
September 27, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 88.4 MBIn this episode we go to our first Glow Party after being invited by Mr Atom’s special fella. We talk about what a glow party is exactly, what our choices of costumes were and then we take you on the journey with … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#21 Glow Party
September 27, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 88.4 MBIn this episode we go to our first Glow Party after being invited by Mr Atom’s special fella. We talk about what a glow party is exactly, what our choices of costumes were and then we take you on the journey with … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
20 - Couple’s Club
September 20, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 93.9 MBHello and welcome back! In this episode we discuss and review our recent trip to “Newbie Night” at The Couples Club. Swing in Style A few weeks ago we got a wild hair and decided we wanted to visit … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#20 Couple’s Club
September 20, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 93.9 MBHello and welcome back! In this episode we discuss and review our recent trip to “Newbie Night” at The Couples Club. Swing in Style A few weeks ago we got a wild hair and decided we wanted to visit … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
#19 Discussions with therapists who encourage us to drink (Bartenders)
September 13, 2016 20:00 - 2 hours - 197 MBWhat does a relationship really look like to a twenty something? Welcome back to a SUPER long episode of our on going podcast. We discussed splitting this one into two episodes and then decide we couldn’t be bothered!!! So here … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
19 - Discussions with therapists who encourage us to drink (Bartenders)
September 13, 2016 20:00 - 2 hours - 197 MBWhat does a relationship really look like to a twenty something? Welcome back to a SUPER long episode of our on going podcast. We discussed splitting this one into two episodes and then decide we couldn’t be bothered!!! So here … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#18 Mistakes We Make
September 06, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 93 MBHello folks and welcome to our 18th installment. WOW, we never expected to make it this far! In this episode we go through an article by Lelo titled “Mistakes We Make” We discuss how we have experienced these issues first hand … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
18 - Mistakes We Make
September 06, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 93 MBHello folks and welcome to our 18th installment. WOW, we never expected to make it this far! In this episode we go through an article by Lelo titled “Mistakes We Make” We discuss how we have experienced these issues first hand … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
17 - Ladies’ Night
August 30, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 105 MBOh yes it’s Ladies’ night and you can come with us as we describe our experience at Our Secret Spot’s recent “Ladies’ Night” theme party. Come along with us as we talk about how the night went from her point … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#17 Ladies’ Night
August 30, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 105 MBOh yes it’s Ladies’ night and you can come with us as we describe our experience at Our Secret Spot’s recent “Ladies’ Night” theme party. Come along with us as we talk about how the night went from her point … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
16 - Kinktopia (Volume 3 – Guess the Kink)
August 23, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 91.7 MBWelcome back to the third and final installment of our Kink Triolgy. Hopefully we will be a lot more like Return of the King and less like Jaws 3D. This time around we play What’s That Kink? and Mrs Atom asks … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#16 Kinktopia (Volume 3 – Guess the Kink)
August 23, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 91.7 MBWelcome back to the third and final installment of our Kink Triolgy. Hopefully we will be a lot more like Return of the King and less like Jaws 3D. This time around we play What’s That Kink? and Mrs Atom asks … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
#15 Kinktopia (Volume 2 – Top 10 Kinks)
August 16, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 98.4 MBWelcome back to our Kinky Kinktopia! We proudly present you with In this episode, we go through the top 10 most common kinks we humans have, and we discuss our thoughts, opinions, and experiences with each. Ever wanted to know … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
15 - Kinktopia (Volume 2 – Top 10 Kinks)
August 16, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 98.4 MBWelcome back to our Kinky Kinktopia! We proudly present you with In this episode, we go through the top 10 most common kinks we humans have, and we discuss our thoughts, opinions, and experiences with each. Ever wanted to know … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#14 Kinktopia (Volume 1 – Tryst)
August 09, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 97.7 MBWelcome to Kinky Kinktopia (Trademark pending so leave off!) Volume 1. YES! That’s right, this is the first volume of 3 in total! In this episode, we discuss a recent adventure to Tryst and the Munch prior to. Before attending … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
14 - Kinktopia (Volume 1 – Tryst)
August 09, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 97.7 MBWelcome to Kinky Kinktopia (Trademark pending so leave off!) Volume 1. YES! That’s right, this is the first volume of 3 in total! In this episode, we discuss a recent adventure to Tryst and the Munch prior to. Before attending … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
13 - Sharing is Caring – First Time Sharing Each Other
August 04, 2016 06:02 - 1 hour - 85.2 MBHello folks and welcome to the episode that deals with something kinda hard for only children like me: sharing! This episode we start with a recent date we had with a new single straight guy. Will Mrs. Atom pounce on … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#13 Sharing is Caring – First Time Sharing Each Other
August 04, 2016 06:02 - 1 hour - 85.2 MBHello folks and welcome to the episode that deals with something kinda hard for only children like me: sharing! This episode we start with a recent date we had with a new single straight guy. Will Mrs. Atom pounce on … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
12 - So… How do I have a threesome?
July 26, 2016 11:30 - 1 hour - 105 MBHello folks! In this episode, we go through a series of questions that were asked to us by a fella who has never had a threesome. He asked some fantastic questions. So good in fact, that we decided to take … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#12 So… How do I have a threesome?
July 26, 2016 11:30 - 1 hour - 105 MBHello folks! In this episode, we go through a series of questions that were asked to us by a fella who has never had a threesome. He asked some fantastic questions. So good in fact, that we decided to take … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
11 - Bisexual Experiences
July 07, 2016 12:48 - 59 minutes - 47.7 MBHello friends! Join us once again as Mr. and Mrs. Atom discuss their first time experiences with the same sex. We both go back and recall tales from our early 20’s. Then we discuss some of our favorite bisexual experiences … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#11 Bisexual Experiences
July 07, 2016 12:48 - 59 minutes - 47.7 MBHello friends! Join us once again as Mr. and Mrs. Atom discuss their first time experiences with the same sex. We both go back and recall tales from our early 20’s. Then we discuss some of our favorite bisexual experiences … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
#10 Toys toys toys (and shame)
June 25, 2016 01:29 - 1 hour - 87.9 MBHello faithful (and maybe new) listeners! This episode is our first in the double digits – number 1 0! In our 10th episode we talk about a recent adult slumber party we had at our new place where a fantastic new … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
10 - Toys toys toys (and shame)
June 25, 2016 01:29 - 1 hour - 87.9 MBHello faithful (and maybe new) listeners! This episode is our first in the double digits – number 1 0! In our 10th episode we talk about a recent adult slumber party we had at our new place where a fantastic new … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
9 - SEXPO
June 07, 2016 02:28 - 1 hour - 90 MBHello folks! Us again… Massive apologies for the long gap in episodes but we have been busy busy beavers! In this episode we talk about Sydney’s Health Sexuality and Lifestyle Expo. We’ll walk you through our experience of it and … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#9 SEXPO
June 07, 2016 02:28 - 1 hour - 90 MBHello folks! Us again… Massive apologies for the long gap in episodes but we have been busy busy beavers! In this episode we talk about Sydney’s Health Sexuality and Lifestyle Expo. We’ll walk you through our experience of it and … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
#8 The Swinging Downunder Crossover!
April 29, 2016 23:00 - 39 minutes - 54.1 MBHello folks! It happens to all great TV show spinoffs and WE are a spinoff from Swinging Downunder so it was BOUND to happen. Catch up with us as we CONTINUE our conversation with the two lovely hosts of Swinging … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
8 - The Swinging Downunder Crossover!
April 29, 2016 23:00 - 39 minutes - 54.1 MBHello folks! It happens to all great TV show spinoffs and WE are a spinoff from Swinging Downunder so it was BOUND to happen. Catch up with us as we CONTINUE our conversation with the two lovely hosts of Swinging … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
7 - Out of the Malebag #1
March 10, 2016 09:31 - 1 hour - 97.6 MBHey y’all! We’re back again with some questions we’ve been emailed from a very special listener from The States. First up, though, we have a lot to talk about from the last couple weeks! Listen to our recent experiences with our … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#7 Out of the Malebag #1
March 10, 2016 09:31 - 1 hour - 97.6 MBHey y’all! We’re back again with some questions we’ve been emailed from a very special listener from The States. First up, though, we have a lot to talk about from the last couple weeks! Listen to our recent experiences with our … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
#6 The Green Eyed Monster!
March 02, 2016 02:01 - 1 hour - 75.7 MBHey y’all! It has been a long long long time since our last episode, and we apologize! First of all let us apologize for the audio quality of this one; whilst its not terrible, we know its not the best. … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
6 - The Green Eyed Monster!
March 02, 2016 02:01 - 1 hour - 75.7 MBHey y’all! It has been a long long long time since our last episode, and we apologize! First of all let us apologize for the audio quality of this one; whilst its not terrible, we know its not the best. … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#5 The Numbers Episode
February 04, 2016 00:44 - 1 hour - 83.2 MBIn this episode we talk numbers! First, join us as we rant about manticores and their unreliability, and then we delve into some sexual math by discussing our numbers. Among other things we discuss the number of partners that we … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
5 - The Numbers Episode
February 04, 2016 00:44 - 1 hour - 83.2 MBIn this episode we talk numbers! First, join us as we rant about manticores and their unreliability, and then we delve into some sexual math by discussing our numbers. Among other things we discuss the number of partners that we … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#4 Mr. Atom’s big adventure
January 24, 2016 12:16 - 1 hour - 89.2 MBIn this episode we discuss what’s been going on for us over the last couple weeks. Unfortunately we haven’t been nearly as busy as we’d hoped! Mrs. Atom gets to quiz Mr. Atom on his back to back adventures in … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
4 - Mr. Atom’s big adventure
January 24, 2016 12:16 - 1 hour - 89.2 MBIn this episode we discuss what’s been going on for us over the last couple weeks. Unfortunately we haven’t been nearly as busy as we’d hoped! Mrs. Atom gets to quiz Mr. Atom on his back to back adventures in … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.