By the Bi
606 episodes - English - Latest episode: 29 days ago - ★★★★★ - 76 ratingsWelcome to By the Bi, a podcast for anyone interested in learning a bit more about bisexuality, the swinger community, open relationships, BDSM, and everything else your vanilla friends refuse to talk with you about. Join your hosts, a bisexual expat couple in Sydney Australia, as each episode we chat about ourselves, our experiences, and our relationships. We look forward to addressing specific questions or issues that you might have as well; so pull up a chair, grab a cocktail and listen in. Oh and, by the by, we're glad you're listening. Get bonus content on Patreon
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#53 The Pleasure Lounge Review
May 09, 2017 23:49 - 46 minutes - 63.6 MBIn this episode we talk about a recent trip to Perth. On that trip we visited The Pleasure Lounge, one of the local swingers clubs. We describe the club and the experience we had there. (Admittedly, one of the best … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
53 - The Pleasure Lounge Review
May 09, 2017 23:49 - 46 minutes - 63.6 MBIn this episode we talk about a recent trip to Perth. On that trip we visited The Pleasure Lounge, one of the local swingers clubs. We describe the club and the experience we had there. (Admittedly, one of the best … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
52 - Clone-a-Willy
May 02, 2017 22:08 - 43 minutes - 59.1 MBIn this episode we take our listeners along for a ride as we try “cloning” Mr Atom’s cock using the Clone-a-Willy kit we got on our last trip to the states. Clone-a-willy is a penis casting and moulding kit by … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#52 Clone-a-Willy
May 02, 2017 22:08 - 43 minutes - 59.1 MBIn this episode we take our listeners along for a ride as we try “cloning” Mr Atom’s cock using the Clone-a-Willy kit we got on our last trip to the states. Clone-a-willy is a penis casting and moulding kit by … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
51 - Mike’s Place Review
April 25, 2017 23:26 - 1 hour - 91.5 MBWhile recently up in Brisbane, we were lucky enough to hit up Mike’s Place, The Best Darn Swingers Club in Brisvegas, with the beautiful L0l0 Lady and The Ginger Tramp. It ended up being a wonderful evening at a pretty … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#51 Mike’s Place Review
April 25, 2017 23:26 - 1 hour - 91.5 MBWhile recently up in Brisbane, we were lucky enough to hit up Mike’s Place, The Best Darn Swingers Club in Brisvegas, with the beautiful L0l0 Lady and The Ginger Tramp. It ended up being a wonderful evening at a pretty … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
#50 Jealousy Revisited
April 18, 2017 21:57 - 1 hour - 86.9 MBCan you believe it?!? We’ve made it to 50 episodes!!!! And you’re still here listening to us! In this very special episode, we invited back two dear friends who were featured more than a year a go in our sixth … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
50 - Jealousy Revisited
April 18, 2017 21:57 - 1 hour - 86.9 MBCan you believe it?!? We’ve made it to 50 episodes!!!! And you’re still here listening to us! In this very special episode, we invited back two dear friends who were featured more than a year a go in our sixth … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
49 - Hack Live Review
April 11, 2017 12:22 - 55 minutes - 76.1 MBRemember that time we were on the television show “Hack Live”? No? Well not too long ago we were asked to appear on an episode of “Hack Live” on ABC2 filmed at Our Secret Spot here in Sydney. As we … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#49 Hack Live Review
April 11, 2017 12:22 - 55 minutes - 76.1 MBRemember that time we were on the television show “Hack Live”? No? Well not too long ago we were asked to appear on an episode of “Hack Live” on ABC2 filmed at Our Secret Spot here in Sydney. As we … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
48 - Sex Furniture
April 04, 2017 22:28 - 55 minutes - 76.4 MBRecently, while at Our Secret Spot, a couple asked us our opinion on sex furniture and if we had any pieces of our own. The conversation got so interesting we thought it would be fun to do a full episode … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#48 Sex Furniture
April 04, 2017 22:28 - 55 minutes - 76.4 MBRecently, while at Our Secret Spot, a couple asked us our opinion on sex furniture and if we had any pieces of our own. The conversation got so interesting we thought it would be fun to do a full episode … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
47 - The Big Birthday Weekend
March 29, 2017 06:49 - 55 minutes - 75.9 MBHeya gang! This episode is all about Birthdays! We spent last Friday night at the 24th Birthday of Hell Fire Sydney and then Saturday night was the 3rd Birthday party for Our Secret Spot. Lots and lots and lots of … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#47 The Big Birthday Weekend
March 29, 2017 06:49 - 55 minutes - 75.9 MBHeya gang! This episode is all about Birthdays! We spent last Friday night at the 24th Birthday of Hell Fire Sydney and then Saturday night was the 3rd Birthday party for Our Secret Spot. Lots and lots and lots of … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
46 - Introducing MisJif
March 21, 2017 22:29 - 1 hour - 104 MBIn this week’s episode we introduce our friend and new business partner MisJif. She’s a sex educator, therapist, presenter, and aficionado who has an abundance of experience teaching adult education around the world. In Canada she planned a number of charity … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#46 Introducing MisJif
March 21, 2017 22:29 - 1 hour - 104 MBIn this week’s episode we introduce our friend and new business partner MisJif. She’s a sex educator, therapist, presenter, and aficionado who has an abundance of experience teaching adult education around the world. In Canada she planned a number of charity … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
45 - Sex-Ed in the City (and other news)
March 14, 2017 23:14 - 56 minutes - 77.7 MBBig announcement time! For a while we have been discussing some of the classes in which we have been participating. Well now we are ready to tell everyone about “Sex Ed in the City” a business we have started with … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#45 Sex-Ed in the City (and other news)
March 14, 2017 23:14 - 56 minutes - 77.7 MBBig announcement time! For a while we have been discussing some of the classes in which we have been participating. Well now we are ready to tell everyone about “Sex Ed in the City” a business we have started with … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
44 - Interview with Our Secret Spot
March 07, 2017 22:34 - 1 hour - 110 MBThis week we talk to The Law and Babydoll, owners of Our Secret Spot, a swingers club here in Sydney. We cover a vast range of topics from the development of the club’s vibe and feel to advice for first time … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#44 Interview with Our Secret Spot
March 07, 2017 22:34 - 1 hour - 110 MBThis week we talk to The Law and Babydoll, owners of Our Secret Spot, a swingers club here in Sydney. We cover a vast range of topics from the development of the club’s vibe and feel to advice for first time … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
43 - Managing Children in the Lifestyle
March 01, 2017 00:36 - 59 minutes - 81.9 MBIn this episode, we are joined by a couple of our play friends to discuss how they manage an active swinger lifestyle while still keeping their parents’ hats firmly in place. This has been one of our most highly requested topics. … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#43 Managing Children in the Lifestyle
March 01, 2017 00:36 - 59 minutes - 81.9 MBIn this episode, we are joined by a couple of our play friends to discuss how they manage an active swinger lifestyle while still keeping their parents’ hats firmly in place. This has been one of our most highly requested topics. … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
42 - The Pendulum Party!
February 21, 2017 19:01 - 1 hour - 85 MBWell it finally happened! The party that we have been planning and talking about for months was this past Friday night at Our Secret Spot. In a word, it was amazeballs. Join us on a trip down own memory lane … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#42 The Pendulum Party!
February 21, 2017 19:01 - 1 hour - 85 MBWell it finally happened! The party that we have been planning and talking about for months was this past Friday night at Our Secret Spot. In a word, it was amazeballs. Join us on a trip down own memory lane … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
41 - Sexiness in NYC
February 14, 2017 21:41 - 1 hour - 121 MBIn this episode, we talk about our sexy adventures over four days in New York City. We definitely learned why it’s the city that never sleeps. First up is our day of shopping. We may have gone a bit overboard … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#41 Sexiness in NYC
February 14, 2017 21:41 - 1 hour - 121 MBIn this episode, we talk about our sexy adventures over four days in New York City. We definitely learned why it’s the city that never sleeps. First up is our day of shopping. We may have gone a bit overboard … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
40 – Well THAT was Awkward.
February 07, 2017 20:00 - 56 minutes - 78.2 MBIf you’ve been in the lifestyle for more than a little bit this podcast is not going to come as much of a surprise to you. In this episode we talk about a couple of recent encounters we’ve had where at … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#40 – Well THAT was Awkward.
February 07, 2017 20:00 - 56 minutes - 78.2 MBIf you’ve been in the lifestyle for more than a little bit this podcast is not going to come as much of a surprise to you. In this episode we talk about a couple of recent encounters we’ve had where at … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
#39 Would You Rather?
January 31, 2017 20:46 - 54 minutes - 75.3 MBIn this episode we play a sexy game of “Would You Rather?” If you’ve never played this game before, the idea is that you’re asked a question like, “Would you rather be a virgin until you are 40 and subsequently have … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
39 - Would You Rather?
January 31, 2017 20:46 - 54 minutes - 75.3 MBIn this episode we play a sexy game of “Would You Rather?” If you’ve never played this game before, the idea is that you’re asked a question like, “Would you rather be a virgin until you are 40 and subsequently have … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
38 - Swinging 102 – Profile Profiling
January 25, 2017 02:48 - 1 hour - 95.6 MBIn this episode we delve into profiles on dating sites. From swinger sites to Grindr, we discuss what we look for; and what is needed for us to send a message. Wondering what guarantees our interest? Curious as to what will … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#38 Swinging 102 – Profile Profiling
January 25, 2017 02:48 - 1 hour - 95.6 MBIn this episode we delve into profiles on dating sites. From swinger sites to Grindr, we discuss what we look for; and what is needed for us to send a message. Wondering what guarantees our interest? Curious as to what will … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
37 - Aussie Slang
January 18, 2017 14:46 - 1 hour - 85 MBWhat do you get when you add two Americans, two Australians, 3 bottles of wine, and a whole lot of sexy slang? You’re about to find out because in this episode we get Danny and Sandy to help us suss … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#37 Aussie Slang
January 18, 2017 14:46 - 1 hour - 85 MBWhat do you get when you add two Americans, two Australians, 3 bottles of wine, and a whole lot of sexy slang? You’re about to find out because in this episode we get Danny and Sandy to help us suss … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
36 - Happy New Year!
January 11, 2017 01:38 - 1 hour - 95.9 MBIn this episode, we talk about our latest SexEd class that was held on the Eve of New Year’s Eve. It was a big one. Intro to kink and BDSM with two live demos and a kink fashion show! Next … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#36 Happy New Year!
January 11, 2017 01:38 - 1 hour - 95.9 MBIn this episode, we talk about our latest SexEd class that was held on the Eve of New Year’s Eve. It was a big one. Intro to kink and BDSM with two live demos and a kink fashion show! Next … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
#35 Swinging 101 – So You Want to be a Swinger
January 03, 2017 23:52 - 1 hour - 105 MBWe get so many questions on swinging and life in “the lifestyle” that we’ve decided to start our own series called Swinging 101. In this first installment in a multipart series, we discuss the decision to open up your relationship … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
35 - Swinging 101 – So You Want to be a Swinger
January 03, 2017 23:52 - 1 hour - 105 MBWe get so many questions on swinging and life in “the lifestyle” that we’ve decided to start our own series called Swinging 101. In this first installment in a multipart series, we discuss the decision to open up your relationship … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
34 - The Interview
December 27, 2016 21:08 - 54 minutes - 74.7 MBIn this episode of the podcast, we talk about a recent red heaven event that we went to called “Christmas in Wonderland”. A fantastic holiday party where we got ALL dressed up and partied until late in the evening/morning. Then … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#34 The Interview
December 27, 2016 21:08 - 54 minutes - 74.7 MBIn this episode of the podcast, we talk about a recent red heaven event that we went to called “Christmas in Wonderland”. A fantastic holiday party where we got ALL dressed up and partied until late in the evening/morning. Then … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
33 - Anal 101
December 19, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 91.9 MBIn this episode we talk anal! Butt stuff like this is often overlooked and is extremely important. Once again we were part of the Sex Ed session at Our Secret Spot–and what an honor it was! In this session, Mis … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#33 Anal 101
December 19, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 91.9 MBIn this episode we talk anal! Butt stuff like this is often overlooked and is extremely important. Once again we were part of the Sex Ed session at Our Secret Spot–and what an honor it was! In this session, Mis … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
32 - Breaking Rules
December 13, 2016 21:07 - 57 minutes - 79 MBCome listen in as we discuss our hard and soft rules and what happens when one of us breaks them. This podcast is a bit different in that one of us broke a couple of our rules but we hadn’t … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#32 Breaking Rules
December 13, 2016 21:07 - 57 minutes - 79 MBCome listen in as we discuss our hard and soft rules and what happens when one of us breaks them. This podcast is a bit different in that one of us broke a couple of our rules but we hadn’t … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
31 - We’re Coming Out
December 05, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 89 MBIn this special episode, we both come out of the closet. For almost a year we’ve been doing these podcasts talking about how we are open and honest and unashamed for being bisexual and swingers. Despite this talk, we have never … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#31 We’re Coming Out
December 05, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 89 MBIn this special episode, we both come out of the closet. For almost a year we’ve been doing these podcasts talking about how we are open and honest and unashamed for being bisexual and swingers. Despite this talk, we have never … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
#30 Toys, toys, toys… Part 2
November 29, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 104 MBCan it be episode 30 already!?! In this episode we talk about a whole heap of new toys that we’ve gotten over the last few months. Sit back and enjoy as we discus toys for him and her. Everything from … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
30 - Toys, toys, toys… Part 2
November 29, 2016 20:00 - 1 hour - 104 MBCan it be episode 30 already!?! In this episode we talk about a whole heap of new toys that we’ve gotten over the last few months. Sit back and enjoy as we discus toys for him and her. Everything from … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#29 What’s been going on?
November 22, 2016 21:19 - 1 hour - 84.2 MBIn this episode we do a quick catch up to some of the things going on with us and what we’ve been up to. We discuss Mr Atom’s trip to NZ where he checks out the local sauna and has … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
29 - What’s been going on?
November 22, 2016 21:19 - 1 hour - 84.2 MBIn this episode we do a quick catch up to some of the things going on with us and what we’ve been up to. We discuss Mr Atom’s trip to NZ where he checks out the local sauna and has … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.