By the Bi
606 episodes - English - Latest episode: 28 days ago - ★★★★★ - 76 ratingsWelcome to By the Bi, a podcast for anyone interested in learning a bit more about bisexuality, the swinger community, open relationships, BDSM, and everything else your vanilla friends refuse to talk with you about. Join your hosts, a bisexual expat couple in Sydney Australia, as each episode we chat about ourselves, our experiences, and our relationships. We look forward to addressing specific questions or issues that you might have as well; so pull up a chair, grab a cocktail and listen in. Oh and, by the by, we're glad you're listening. Get bonus content on Patreon
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#78 Party Time... and The Tale of The Haunted Sauna
November 07, 2017 22:58 - 58 minutes - 80 MBParty season is in and during this episode, we talk about some of the parties that we have been to over the last couple of weeks. We discuss the Red Heaven and Our Secret Spot Halloween parties! Then we talk about a VERY Halloween appropriate experience Mr. Atom had at a Brisbane Sauna. Was it haunted? Or was Mr. Atom delirious from the sauna experience? Then Mrs Atom talks about her solo experience to Our Secret Spot. Where she met some of our listeners. We end with an odd and a...
78 - Party Time... and The Tale of The Haunted Sauna
November 07, 2017 22:58 - 58 minutes - 80 MBParty season is in and during this episode, we talk about some of the parties that we have been to over the last couple of weeks. We discuss the Red Heaven and Our Secret Spot Halloween parties! Then we talk about a VERY Halloween appropriate experience Mr. Atom had at a Brisbane Sauna. Was it haunted? Or was Mr. Atom delirious from the sauna experience? Then Mrs Atom talks about her solo experience to Our Secret Spot. Where she met some of our listeners. We end with an odd and a...
77 - Passion in Paradise Part 2
October 31, 2017 18:49 - 1 hour - 135 MBIn this second of a two-part episode we continue on with our raucous review of Passion in Paradise an event hosted in Far North Queensland. We continue the story by discussing the rest of the parties and the naughty experiences we had in the afternoons. (Here's a hint; they include orgies!) We finish the episode with some messages from a few of the other patrons of Passion in Paradise and their favorite moments. So sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Find us on...
#77 Passion in Paradise Part 2
October 31, 2017 18:49 - 1 hour - 135 MBIn this second of a two-part episode we continue on with our raucous review of Passion in Paradise an event hosted in Far North Queensland. We continue the story by discussing the rest of the parties and the naughty experiences we had in the afternoons. (Here's a hint; they include orgies!) We finish the episode with some messages from a few of the other patrons of Passion in Paradise and their favorite moments. So sit back, enjoy, and as always, thank you for listening! Find us on...
76 - Passion in Paradise Part 1
October 24, 2017 22:21 - 1 hour - 99.5 MBOOOOH BOY!!! This is the first part of a two-part episode on our fantastic experience at Passion in Paradise. In this episode, we discuss our arrival to the resort and our immediate first impressions. We describe the layout of the resort including the rooms, bar, and pool area. Then we start with the first couple of days and start going into our experiences. So sit back and enjoy!!! As always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Faceb...
#76 Passion in Paradise Part 1
October 24, 2017 22:21 - 1 hour - 99.5 MBOOOOH BOY!!! This is the first part of a two-part episode on our fantastic experience at Passion in Paradise. In this episode, we discuss our arrival to the resort and our immediate first impressions. We describe the layout of the resort including the rooms, bar, and pool area. Then we start with the first couple of days and start going into our experiences. So sit back and enjoy!!! As always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Faceb...
#75 Pre-Passion in Paradise
October 17, 2017 22:06 - 1 hour - 98.5 MBHello constant listeners (and new folks listening for the first time)! In this episode, we start by discussing WHAT JUST HAPPENED!!!! We won't spoil it for you but we may have JUST tried something that we had tried before, weren't sure we liked it and decided we should try it again... right now. Then we discuss Passion in Paradise... or at least what we expect from Passion in Paradise as, if you're listening to this on the day of release, it starts TOMORROW!!! Woohoo! It's our first t...
75 - Pre-Passion in Paradise
October 17, 2017 22:06 - 1 hour - 98.5 MBHello constant listeners (and new folks listening for the first time)! In this episode, we start by discussing WHAT JUST HAPPENED!!!! We won't spoil it for you but we may have JUST tried something that we had tried before, weren't sure we liked it and decided we should try it again... right now. Then we discuss Passion in Paradise... or at least what we expect from Passion in Paradise as, if you're listening to this on the day of release, it starts TOMORROW!!! Woohoo! It's our first t...
74 - Conversations with The Gentleman
October 10, 2017 21:38 - 54 minutes - 75.1 MBIn this episode, we have a conversation with our Manticore, The Gentlemen. The three of us talk about what it's like being a single male in the swinging community. He talks about getting into the lifestyle, some of the things he has learned and some of the pitfalls he's experienced along the way. As always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some fee...
#74 - Conversations with The Gentleman
October 10, 2017 21:38 - 54 minutes - 75.1 MBIn this episode, we have a conversation with our Manticore, The Gentlemen. The three of us talk about what it's like being a single male in the swinging community. He talks about getting into the lifestyle, some of the things he has learned and some of the pitfalls he's experienced along the way. As always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some fee...
73 - Recent Sexcapades
October 03, 2017 21:14 - 57 minutes - 78.5 MBHello, kind people! In this episode, we discuss the events of the past couple weeks. Mrs. Atom was traveling in Europe and poor Mr. Atom was left home alone... well sorta. Listen as we share our stories of playmates that we spent our time with and some of the naughty (and not so naughty) things we got up to. We also discuss just how small our community is and why you should ALWAYS be nice to people. Lastly, in our question of the week, we were asked about sexy scenes in tv and movie...
#73 Recent Sexcapades
October 03, 2017 21:14 - 57 minutes - 78.5 MBHello, kind people! In this episode, we discuss the events of the past couple weeks. Mrs. Atom was traveling in Europe and poor Mr. Atom was left home alone... well sorta. Listen as we share our stories of playmates that we spent our time with and some of the naughty (and not so naughty) things we got up to. We also discuss just how small our community is and why you should ALWAYS be nice to people. Lastly, in our question of the week, we were asked about sexy scenes in tv and movie...
72 - Conversations with Our Secret Spot
September 26, 2017 21:52 - 1 hour - 84.6 MBWelcome back! In this episode we, once again, sit down with the owners of Our Secret Spot to talk about... well a little bit of everything. We start off by asking for the club's origin story and what they want from and for the club. Admittedly, by the end, we have disintegrated into laughing rambles about sex, clubs, and the lifestyle laced with a few moments of genius here and there. As always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebo...
#72 Conversations with Our Secret Spot
September 26, 2017 21:52 - 1 hour - 84.6 MBWelcome back! In this episode we, once again, sit down with the owners of Our Secret Spot to talk about... well a little bit of everything. We start off by asking for the club's origin story and what they want from and for the club. Admittedly, by the end, we have disintegrated into laughing rambles about sex, clubs, and the lifestyle laced with a few moments of genius here and there. As always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebo...
71 - The 7 Types of Love
September 19, 2017 22:47 - 1 hour - 86.3 MBPhilia, Pragma, and Agape... Oh My! In this episode, we talk about 7 types of love as described by the Greeks. Listen as we try to work out what each one is, how we feel about it, and how it affects us. We discuss how these loves can help us better define our own love for each other and our play partners. If you want to read the article that we used as a source for the podcast you can find it here! As always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @B...
#71 The 7 Types of Love
September 19, 2017 22:47 - 1 hour - 86.3 MBPhilia, Pragma, and Agape... Oh My! In this episode, we talk about 7 types of love as described by the Greeks. Listen as we try to work out what each one is, how we feel about it, and how it affects us. We discuss how these loves can help us better define our own love for each other and our play partners. If you want to read the article that we used as a source for the podcast you can find it here! As always, thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @B...
#70 Bisexuality in Our Everyday Life
September 12, 2017 22:32 - 1 hour - 86.2 MBWelcome back y'all! In this episode, we talk about our daily lives and how (or in some cases if) our bisexuality affects it. As one might imagine... Mr Atom rants from atop his soapbox more than once! Thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Sta...
70 - Bisexuality in Our Everyday Life
September 12, 2017 22:32 - 1 hour - 86.2 MBWelcome back y'all! In this episode, we talk about our daily lives and how (or in some cases if) our bisexuality affects it. As one might imagine... Mr Atom rants from atop his soapbox more than once! Thank you for listening! Find us on social media!!! On Twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us out? Sure you do!!! Leave some feedback for us on whatever medium you listen to your podcasts on. On iTunes you can do it anonymously: – Sta...
69 - Games We Play
September 05, 2017 21:53 - 58 minutes - 80.9 MBOOOOOOOOOHH!!! Number 69... Sexy times! And that is what we are talking about tonight! On our Kik feed, we had a question about ice breakers and games that we play as sexy swingers. We loved the idea! Join us as we go through games you can play one on one, two on two, or a bunch on a bunch! We discuss games we've played at home, at clubs, and at pub crawls. Enjoy! Find us on social media!!! On twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us ou...
#69 Games We Play
September 05, 2017 21:53 - 58 minutes - 80.9 MBOOOOOOOOOHH!!! Number 69... Sexy times! And that is what we are talking about tonight! On our Kik feed, we had a question about ice breakers and games that we play as sexy swingers. We loved the idea! Join us as we go through games you can play one on one, two on two, or a bunch on a bunch! We discuss games we've played at home, at clubs, and at pub crawls. Enjoy! Find us on social media!!! On twitter @BythBiPodcast On Facebook BytheBiPodcast Or email us here Want to help us ou...
#68 A Tale of Two Parties
August 29, 2017 22:10 - 1 hour - 83.2 MBIn this episode we talk about a couple of parties that we have recently attended at Our Secret Spot. First is the Sexy in His Shirt, a concept from our friends over at Swinging Downunder. We'll highlight some of the icebreakers that we played and saw and some of the action that we had. Next is the highlights from our own Pendulum Party. This was our third one and seriously... oh what a night! Once again it was a HUGE success with lots of mixed-couple mixed-sex play. The evening cul...
68 - A Tale of Two Parties
August 29, 2017 22:10 - 1 hour - 83.2 MBIn this episode we talk about a couple of parties that we have recently attended at Our Secret Spot. First is the Sexy in His Shirt, a concept from our friends over at Swinging Downunder. We'll highlight some of the icebreakers that we played and saw and some of the action that we had. Next is the highlights from our own Pendulum Party. This was our third one and seriously... oh what a night! Once again it was a HUGE success with lots of mixed-couple mixed-sex play. The evening cul...
#67 Awkward Stories with Our Secret Spot
August 22, 2017 21:06 - 1 hour - 84.1 MBThis one will for ever be known as the one where we talk about farts for half the episode. Once again we invited our dear friends Lawrence and Jess, the owners of Our Secret Spot to sit down and talk with us about some of our more awkward moments in our swinging history. Of course, we ended up with farts, gas, flatulence, toots, breaking wind, cutting cheese, blow off, bum breathing, and anal applause. We also tried something a bit new with this episode... We opened up a Kik chat gro...
67 - Awkward Stories with Our Secret Spot
August 22, 2017 21:06 - 1 hour - 84.1 MBThis one will for ever be known as the one where we talk about farts for half the episode. Once again we invited our dear friends Lawrence and Jess, the owners of Our Secret Spot to sit down and talk with us about some of our more awkward moments in our swinging history. Of course, we ended up with farts, gas, flatulence, toots, breaking wind, cutting cheese, blow off, bum breathing, and anal applause. We also tried something a bit new with this episode... We opened up a Kik chat gro...
#66 Sexpo Brisbane
August 15, 2017 22:20 - 1 hour - 113 MBWelcome back and we hop you found us alright as we have moved to being a LibSyn hosted podcast. In this episode, we take you on a journey to Sexpo in Brisbane Australia. Join us as we livecast portions of the episode from the show floor. We interview Bentleigh Gibson (the man behind Sexpo), Lucie Bee, L0l0 Lady, The Ginger Tramp, and many others! We also talk with some of our favorite products of Sexpo including After Dark Intimate Wides, Geeky Sex Toys, and Kinky Boots and Bits. Sit...
66 - Sexpo Brisbane
August 15, 2017 22:20 - 1 hour - 113 MBWelcome back and we hop you found us alright as we have moved to being a LibSyn hosted podcast. In this episode, we take you on a journey to Sexpo in Brisbane Australia. Join us as we livecast portions of the episode from the show floor. We interview Bentleigh Gibson (the man behind Sexpo), Lucie Bee, L0l0 Lady, The Ginger Tramp, and many others! We also talk with some of our favorite products of Sexpo including After Dark Intimate Wides, Geeky Sex Toys, and Kinky Boots and Bits. Sit...
#65 Would You Rather? (Part 3)
August 08, 2017 23:16 - 1 hour - 94.2 MBHoly smokes a trilogy! This week we are serving y’all up with another game of “Would You Rather?” Once again we have the podcast fan-favorites L0L0 Lady and The Ginger Tramp to play a sexy (and smurf-tastic ) game of … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
65 - Would You Rather? (Part 3)
August 08, 2017 23:16 - 1 hour - 94.2 MBHoly smokes a trilogy! This week we are serving y’all up with another game of “Would You Rather?” Once again we have the podcast fan-favorites L0L0 Lady and The Ginger Tramp to play a sexy (and smurf-tastic ) game of … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#64 The Meet & Mingle and Malebag #2
August 02, 2017 06:30 - 1 hour - 92.5 MBNot too long ago we were invited by a few folks from up the coast to come to a meet and mingle in Sydney. Unfortunately, we had double booked ourselves as it was also the Lady’s Night party at Our … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
64 - The Meet & Mingle and Malebag #2
August 02, 2017 06:30 - 1 hour - 92.5 MBNot too long ago we were invited by a few folks from up the coast to come to a meet and mingle in Sydney. Unfortunately, we had double booked ourselves as it was also the Lady’s Night party at Our … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
63 – The Manticore
July 25, 2017 22:34 - 59 minutes - 81.5 MBThis week we talk about a new fella that’s been coming around. We’ll talk about how we met him and then discuss two dates that we’ve had. We’ve also had an influx of questions so we took the time to … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#63 – The Manticore
July 25, 2017 22:34 - 59 minutes - 81.5 MBThis week we talk about a new fella that’s been coming around. We’ll talk about how we met him and then discuss two dates that we’ve had. We’ve also had an influx of questions so we took the time to … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
62 – The Australian Adult Industry Awards 2017
July 18, 2017 22:57 - 1 hour - 87 MBA couple of weeks ago we went to the Australian Adult Industry Awards, a wonderful night that was both sexy and a BIT odd. We had been lucky enough to be nominated for Best Adult Podcast and while we didn’t win we … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#62 – The Australian Adult Industry Awards 2017
July 18, 2017 22:57 - 1 hour - 87 MBA couple of weeks ago we went to the Australian Adult Industry Awards, a wonderful night that was both sexy and a BIT odd. We had been lucky enough to be nominated for Best Adult Podcast and while we didn’t win we … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
#61 – Would You Rather? (Part 2)
July 11, 2017 22:38 - 56 minutes - 77.3 MBApologies for missing last week’s episode. We were both traveling and were unable to get a podcast recorded! Hopefully, we make up for it this week with another game of “Would You Rather?” We are joined by the podcast fan-favorites … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
61 – Would You Rather? (Part 2)
July 11, 2017 22:38 - 56 minutes - 77.3 MBApologies for missing last week’s episode. We were both traveling and were unable to get a podcast recorded! Hopefully, we make up for it this week with another game of “Would You Rather?” We are joined by the podcast fan-favorites … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
60 - The Second Pendulum Party & A New Lady
June 27, 2017 21:43 - 57 minutes - 79.2 MBWell, it finally happened again!!! The second party that we have been planning and talking about for months was a while ago now at Our Secret Spot. It was, in a word, amazeballs. Join us as we give you some … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#60 The Second Pendulum Party & A New Lady
June 27, 2017 21:43 - 57 minutes - 79.2 MBWell, it finally happened again!!! The second party that we have been planning and talking about for months was a while ago now at Our Secret Spot. It was, in a word, amazeballs. Join us as we give you some … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
#59 Twelve Couples Walk into a Bar…
June 20, 2017 22:25 - 1 hour - 85.5 MBIn this episode, we discuss a big group date we were invited on. We got the invite to meet about a dozen other couples at a local pub. While at the pub, Mr. Atombroke away from the group to try … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
59 - Twelve Couples Walk into a Bar…
June 20, 2017 22:25 - 1 hour - 85.5 MBIn this episode, we discuss a big group date we were invited on. We got the invite to meet about a dozen other couples at a local pub. While at the pub, Mr. Atom broke away from the group to try … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
58 - MysteryVibe Crescendo Review
June 13, 2017 23:28 - 43 minutes - 60.3 MBThe lovely folks at MysteryVibe reached out to us a bit over a month ago and asked us if we’d like to have a play with their newest (award winning) toy The Crescendo. We, of course, said, “Absolutely we would!” After … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#58 MysteryVibe Crescendo Review
June 13, 2017 23:28 - 43 minutes - 60.3 MBThe lovely folks at MysteryVibe reached out to us a bit over a month ago and asked us if we’d like to have a play with their newest (award winning) toy The Crescendo. We, of course, said, “Absolutely we would!” After … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
57 - Body Image Issues – Part 2
June 06, 2017 22:57 - 1 hour - 86 MBHowdy folks! In this episode, we conclude our chat with the beautiful L0L0 Lady and, in his first-time debut on our show, Blue Steel… We are still trying to talk about body image issues, though we … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#57 Body Image Issues – Part 2
June 06, 2017 22:57 - 1 hour - 86 MBHowdy folks! In this episode, we conclude our chat with the beautiful L0L0 Lady and, in his first-time debut on our show, Blue Steel… We are still trying to talk about body image issues, though we … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
56 - Body Image Issues – Part 1
May 31, 2017 01:38 - 1 hour - 91.7 MBHowdy folks! In this episode, we are joined once again by the beautiful L0L0 Lady and, for his first-time debut on our show, Blue Steel… And we are here to talk about body image issues. This was recorded … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#56 Body Image Issues – Part 1
May 31, 2017 01:38 - 1 hour - 91.7 MBHowdy folks! In this episode, we are joined once again by the beautiful L0L0 Lady and, for his first-time debut on our show, Blue Steel… And we are here to talk about body image issues. This was recorded … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
55 - Our Latest Sexcapades – Volume 1
May 24, 2017 01:10 - 1 hour - 86.4 MBIn this latest episode we talk about Mr Atom’s recent trip to Melbourne where he had a less than fun time at the local gay sauna (sad face). We also talk about a new couple that we are already giving … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#55 Our Latest Sexcapades – Volume 1
May 24, 2017 01:10 - 1 hour - 86.4 MBIn this latest episode we talk about Mr Atom’s recent trip to Melbourne where he had a less than fun time at the local gay sauna (sad face). We also talk about a new couple that we are already giving … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.
54 - An Interview with Cooper S Beckett
May 16, 2017 22:28 - 1 hour - 137 MBIn our community Cooper S Beckett is very well known. He’s popular author (this is his third book), podcaster (he’s been podcasting for 7 years), and life coach, so as you may imagine, he’s an extremely busy guy. When he said he … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
#54 An Interview with Cooper S Beckett
May 16, 2017 22:28 - 1 hour - 137 MBIn our community Cooper S Beckett is very well known. He’s popular author (this is his third book), podcaster (he’s been podcasting for 7 years), and life coach, so as you may imagine, he’s an extremely busy guy. When he said he … Continued Get bonus content on Patreon See acast.com/privacy for privacy and opt-out information.