If you’ve ever been to a standup comedy show, you’ve experienced the intrinsic relatability of self-deprecation. 

Great standup comedy is about timing, delivery, and surprise — but it’s also about vulnerability. Standup comics execute vulnerability by building tension through stories rife with personal conflict, only to release that tension with a punchline that gives us permission to laugh at their misfortune.

We’re laughing with the comic, but we’re also laughing at ourselves for similar blunders. The moment we see ourselves within the comic’s vulnerability is the moment we form a connection with them.