Ask a Christian Counselor
123 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 1 year ago - ★★★★★ - 116 ratingsTres Adames is a Board Certified Pastoral Counselor and the Director of Arizona Christian Counseling in Phoenix, Arizona. Tres discusses topics on growing deeper spiritually, intellectually, and emotionally, and seeks to help others grow closer in their relationship with God and other people. Visit the website at: http://www.askachristiancounselor.net
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Episodes
How to Become a Christian Counselor
January 27, 2015 00:58 - 23 minutes - 31.9 MBDo you feel called to be a Christian counselor? In this episode, Tres gives practical, unbiased insight on what it's like to be a professional Christian counselor and what it takes to get there. He describes two different types of Christian counseling including the three things every counselor needs to become effective. For more on the business side of counseling, check out Practice of the Practice.
Stepfamilies
December 31, 2014 02:42 - 32 minutes - 44.3 MBWhat makes living in a stepfamily so challenging? In this episode, Tres gives some practical wisdom on how to foster harmony and bond effectively as a family. The book mentioned can be found here.
What Makes a Real Man?
November 14, 2014 22:47 - 30 minutes - 41.6 MBDo nice guys finish last? Why do bad boys get all the acclaim? In this episode, Tres clears away false images of manhood and discusses what true masculinity looks like.
Self Care
October 16, 2014 04:57 - 30 minutes - 41.6 MBIs it selfish to take care of your own needs? In this episode, Tres gives practical advice on how counselors, pastors, professionals, and parents should take care of themselves to remain effectiveness and avoid burnout. The article mentioned on journaling can be found here.
Inner Healing
October 09, 2014 00:41 - 30 minutes - 41.6 MBWhy do believers still struggle even after being born again? In this episode, Tres discusses the two types of sin and temptation and how Christ brings renewal and healing to the deepest parts of our hearts.
Christianity and Psychology
October 01, 2014 22:12 - 30 minutes - 41.6 MBWhat is the proper relationship between psychology and the Bible? In this episode, Tres briefly explains the different types of Christian counseling and how each approach views the integration of secular psychology with biblical theology.
Hope for Hurting Couples
September 24, 2014 23:16 - 32 minutes - 44.8 MBIn this episode, Tres interviews Dewayne Hawkins, M.C.M. on how he helps couples through challenging times. Dewayne is a Christian counselor and life coach and offers deep insight on how couples can recalibrate their relationship and engage with one another. Learn more about Dewayne and his services on his website.
Family History
September 16, 2014 23:18 - 29 minutes - 41 MBTres discusses how issues from our family and background can still affect us in the present. He gives practical advice on evaluating the messages you received while growing up, and how to move on and heal. The book mentioned is Emotionally Healthy Spirituality by Peter Scazzero.
Fearing Death
September 09, 2014 23:09 - 29 minutes - 41 MBWhat if you are a believer but still fear death? In this episode, Tres discusess the doctrine of assurance and gives practical advice on how to deal with fear.
Stop People Pleasing
August 26, 2014 21:56 - 33 minutes - 46.1 MBTres discusses the reason why people-pleasers seek approval. After giving some biblical insight, he describes how to gain confidence and become more assertive.
Technology Addiction
August 19, 2014 22:09 - 31 minutes - 42.7 MBAre you addicted to your smartphone? In this episode, Tres discusses what happens when we constantly distract ourselves from what really matters.
Understanding Suicide
August 12, 2014 20:38 - 40 minutes - 55.7 MBIn this special podcast, Tres discusses the emotions behind those struggling with suicidal thoughts and speaks to the hope found in scripture. For more information on depression, see our free resources on depression. If you are in crisis, call 1-800-273-TALK (8255).
Rest for the Anxious Heart
August 05, 2014 21:38 - 33 minutes - 45.8 MBIn this special message, Tres discusses the problem of stress and anxiety in our modern culture. He then gives practical, biblical perspective on how to find rest and lasting peace in the midst of it all.
Marriage and Singleness
July 29, 2014 22:20 - 33 minutes - 46.5 MBIn this episode, Tres discusses the biblical view of marriage and how to live for God whether you are married or single.
Doubting God
July 22, 2014 20:26 - 32 minutes - 44.5 MBWhat are the reasons people doubt or lose faith in God? In this episode, Tres addresses the emotional and spiritual reasons people turn their back on God and the faith altogether.
Letting Go of the Past
July 16, 2014 00:42 - 31 minutes - 43.7 MBWhat happens when you have asked God for forgiveness but can't forgive yourself? In this episode, Tres discusses the difference between shame and conviction, and gives insight on how to let go emotionally from the effects of the past.
When a Relationship Ends
July 09, 2014 02:27 - 35 minutes - 48.8 MBHow do you move on after a relationship or marriage comes to an end? Tres gives some practical advice on how to manage your emotions and transition to the next phase of life.
How to Stop Worrying
July 02, 2014 01:07 - 30 minutes - 42.1 MBIn this episode, Tres discusses how to stop worrying and start trusting. Often, we scare ourselves over what will happen in the future. Tres gives some practical and biblical perspective on how to stop worrying so you can start living.
How to Find God's Will for Your Life
June 24, 2014 21:53 - 36 minutes - 50.2 MBTres again describes the process of how to find God's will for your life in more detail. He addresses many misconceptions about how God interacts with us and stresses the importance of growing in wisdom.
Positive Thinking
June 17, 2014 22:46 - 31 minutes - 43.1 MBIn this episode, Tres discusses the popular self-help technique of positive thinking. Is it Biblical? Is it practical? After discussing the Bible's view on wealth, Tres delinates what's true and what's false about thinking positively.
Hiding Behind Religion
June 11, 2014 01:20 - 37 minutes - 51 MBIn this episode, Tres discusses how people can hide behind religion rather than living an authentic life with God and other people. He describes several pitfalls people fall into and how Christians are called to embrace humility over pride and power. The book mentioned is "Emotionally Healthy Spirituality": http://amzn.to/1s4bFyd
Codependency
June 04, 2014 01:41 - 37 minutes - 52.2 MBWhat is codependency? In this episode Tres gives a practical and biblical explanation of how excessive caretaking can be unhealthy. He describes how to recover from these dysfunctional relationships and how to let go.
Dealing with Anxiety
May 27, 2014 21:28 - 30 minutes - 41.6 MBTres discusses how to overcome anxiety by changing your thoughts. Complimentary access to his short eBook on changing your emotions: http://tinyurl.com/pg6qrqk