Anatomy of Us
730 episodes - English - Latest episode: 7 days ago - ★★★★★ - 914 ratingsA podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.
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Episodes
Living Like Roommates in Marriage
July 10, 2020 16:04 - 38 minutesToday we answer a listener question about what to do when you and your spouse are living like roommates. Get the marriage help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Low self-esteem is ruining my marriage
July 08, 2020 16:36 - 45 minutesToday we answer a listener question about managing low self-esteem in marriage. We talk about possible sources for low self-esteem, ways to combat it, and great resources to help you grow. Get the help you need when you visit getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Fighting over face lotion & Feelin' n' peelin'
July 06, 2020 16:54 - 45 minutesToday we talk about the insights we gained from our "face lotion fight", the new communication tools we created because of it, the impact of being highly sensitive in marriage, and so much more. Get the marriage help you need when you visit getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sex, Intimacy and Depression
June 30, 2020 15:53 - 44 minutesToday we explore how depression impacts sex and intimacy in marriage. We also talk about scheduling sex, sparking joy in marriage and more. Get the help you need when you visit getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Dealing with job loss & AOM MERCH!
June 29, 2020 15:52 - 32 minutesToday we talk about ways to manage the stress of job loss, coping with how your partner handles job loss, AND we talk about the merch that we are working on! Get counseling today when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Using the Clearing Structure for Cyber Infidelity
June 26, 2020 16:02 - 39 minutesToday we answer a listener question about how to navigate cyber infidelity in marriage. We walk through the steps of the Clearing Structure and share several strategies for success when confronting your partner. Get the help you need when you visit getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Using the Clearing Structure for Cyber Infidelity
June 26, 2020 16:02 - 86.8 MBToday we answer a listener question about how to navigate cyber infidelity in marriage. We walk through the steps of the Clearing Structure and share several strategies for success when confronting your partner. Get the help you need when you visit getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
Help, I only see my husband as a friend
June 25, 2020 16:27 - 41 minutesToday we explore the impact of only seeing your partner as a friend. We talk about the 7 year itch, seasons of relationships and share ways to get out of your friendship rut! Get the marriage help that you need by visiting http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
I struggle with seeing the negatives in my husband
June 24, 2020 15:55 - 37 minutesToday we answer listener questions about the impact of only seeing the negative in your spouse. To get the help you need visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Baby mama, Family drama
June 23, 2020 15:43 - 40 minutesToday we answer listener questions about how to deal with family drama from in-laws, exes and more. Get the help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sleazy boyfriend and Is porn cheating
June 22, 2020 16:31 - 45 minutesToday we answer listener questions about boyfriends with a sleazy past, and is porn considered cheating? Get the relationship that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My husband has terrible friends
June 19, 2020 16:00 - 38 minutesToday we explore the impact that friendships have on marriage, how to talk to your spouse about their friends, and how having goals for your marriage can help you clarify which friendships are helpful and which are harmful. Get the marriage help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Vaginismus
June 18, 2020 16:21 - 48 minutesToday we answer a listener question about vaginismus, what it is, how it impacts sex and intimacy, and ways to heal your mind and body. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Fight, Flight, Freeze and FAWN
June 17, 2020 16:30 - 56 minutesToday we explore the idea of Fawning, what it looks like, how it negatively impacts relationships, and ways that you can change fawning behaviors for good. If you struggle with fawning in your relationships you can get the help that you need by visiting getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage and getting connected with a counselor that is right for you. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Updates, disappointment and Seth starts crying
June 16, 2020 16:05 - 120 MBToday we are talking through the crazy changes that have happened with Seth and I over the last two weeks and sharing the process of healing and growth with y'all. If you need help reach out to http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
Updates, disappointment and Seth starts crying
June 16, 2020 16:05 - 54 minutesToday we are talking through the crazy changes that have happened with Seth and I over the last two weeks and sharing the process of healing and growth with y'all. If you need help reach out to http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
For whites only - WAKE UP!
June 01, 2020 16:21 - 1 hourIf you are a white person asking "What can I do?" listen to this podcast and share it... Silence is violence. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
THERAPY
May 29, 2020 16:06 - 53 minutesToday we talk about how therapy works, why we believe it is an important part of a healthy marriage, how to start therapy and so much more. Start your journey to mental wellness when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Bachelor parties & strip clubs
May 28, 2020 16:06 - 46 minutesToday we answer listener questions about what to do when your partner wants to go to a strip club for a bachelor party... just a hint...you say NO! 🤨 #duh Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Healing From Financial Infidel
May 27, 2020 15:46 - 47 minutesToday we answer a listener question about how to move beyond and heal from financial infidelity. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My Husband Doesn't Meet My Sexual Needs
May 26, 2020 15:37 - 76.1 MBToday we answer a listener question about getting her needs met by her husband.
My Husband Doesn't Meet My Sexual Needs
May 26, 2020 15:37 - 35 minutesToday we answer a listener question about getting her needs met by her husband. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Pornography
May 23, 2020 16:47 - 51 minutesToday we talk about the impact that pornography has on marriage, relationships, the self and more. We also share our personal thoughts and beliefs on pornography. Do you struggle with pornography addiction? Get the help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My husband is sexting, and what is therapy like?
May 22, 2020 16:00 - 35 minutesToday we answer listener questions about what to do when a spouse is sexting and what it is like to go to therapy. Get the counseling help that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My husband is sexting, and what is therapy like?
May 22, 2020 16:00 - 77.2 MBToday we answer listener questions about what to do when a spouse is sexting and what it is like to go to therapy. Get the counseling help that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
Past Sexual Abuse Impacting Intimacy
May 21, 2020 15:55 - 91.4 MBToday we answer listener questions about moving beyond and healing from past sexual abuse. We also share tools and tips for diminishing the impact that past abuse can have on your marriage. Get the Counseling Help that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
Past Sexual Abuse Impacting Intimacy
May 21, 2020 15:55 - 41 minutesToday we answer listener questions about moving beyond and healing from past sexual abuse. We also share tools and tips for diminishing the impact that past abuse can have on your marriage. Get the Counseling Help that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
I Can't be Myself with Anyone
May 20, 2020 15:46 - 40 minutesToday we answer listener questions about self-awareness, growth, identity and more! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Is Divorce My Only Option?
May 19, 2020 16:54 - 35 minutesToday we take a listener call and answer questions about healing in marriage when divorce feels like the only option. Get the Counseling help that you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My Christian Boyfriend is looking at porn
May 18, 2020 15:58 - 41 minutesToday we answer listener questions about what to do when your Christian boyfriend has turned to pornography. Get the Counseling you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sex & Intimacy Q&A
May 15, 2020 15:54 - 72.8 MBToday we answer listener questions about sex & intimacy as we wrap up AOM Sex Week.
Sex & Intimacy Q&A
May 15, 2020 15:54 - 33 minutesToday we answer listener questions about sex & intimacy as we wrap up AOM Sex Week. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
I Want Better Sex But I Don't Want To Talk About It
May 14, 2020 16:41 - 44 minutesToday we answer listener questions about how to talk with your spouse about sexuality and sexual needs in marriage without causing a fight or shutting down. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Reimagining Sex & Intimacy With Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers
May 13, 2020 17:57 - 150 MBToday we go live with the AMAZING Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers and discuss how our fixed and socialized mindsets around sex and intimacy leave us feeling confused, lonely and unfulfilled. Learn more about Dr. Tina https://www.tinaschermersellers.com/ Go to a Retreat! https://nwioi.com/
Reimagining Sex & Intimacy With Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers
May 13, 2020 17:57 - 1 hourToday we go live with the AMAZING Dr. Tina Schermer Sellers and discuss how our fixed and socialized mindsets around sex and intimacy leave us feeling confused, lonely and unfulfilled. Learn more about Dr. Tina https://www.tinaschermersellers.com/ Go to a Retreat! https://nwioi.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sex Is NOT an Afterthought
May 12, 2020 18:29 - 181 MBToday we explore the power and importance of healthy sex and intimacy in marriage with Ramsey Personality Dr. John Delony. We also talk about why it is important to prioritize deep and meaningful connection in marriage through sex.
What We Get WRONG About Sex
May 11, 2020 16:11 - 87.6 MBToday we explore the unhealthy thoughts, behaviors, ideas and feelings around sex & intimacy in marriage and explore new ways to bring deeper connection and pleasure.
What We Get WRONG About Sex
May 11, 2020 16:11 - 40 minutesToday we explore the unhealthy thoughts, behaviors, ideas and feelings around sex & intimacy in marriage and explore new ways to bring deeper connection and pleasure. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
AOM Check-In & Sex Week Announcement
May 08, 2020 16:30 - 48 minutesToday we share what is going on in our world with the podcast, family life, sex & intimacy during Covid19, and we announce our upcoming Sex Week! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
I want to change but I don’t know how!
May 07, 2020 15:53 - 77.7 MBToday we answer listener questions about personal growth and change. We give practical tips for how to apply what you have learned into your daily life.
I want to change but I don’t know how!
May 07, 2020 15:53 - 35 minutesToday we answer listener questions about personal growth and change. We give practical tips for how to apply what you have learned into your daily life. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Parenting Strategies that ACTUALLY WORK!
May 06, 2020 15:53 - 35 minutesToday we answer listener questions about parenting strategies that actually bring families closer instead of tearing them apart. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
I can't meet my husband's expectations - AOM Radio #14
May 05, 2020 15:39 - 35 minutesToday we answer a listener question all about EXPECTATIONS! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
HELP! My husband is buying jewelry for ANOTHER WOMAN! AOM Radio #13
May 04, 2020 15:19 - 26 minutesToday we answer a listener question about what to do when your husband is flat out CHEATING and you don’t know what to do about it. Get counseling when you visit https://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Get a FREE AUDIOBOOK when you visit http://audibletrial.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
KEN COLEMAN - RAMSEY WEEKEND - Proximity Principle
May 02, 2020 21:45 - 99.6 MBSeth and I called up Ken Coleman, author of The Proximity Principle and discussed the power of being close to those you admire. He also shares how fear and doubt can stop us from having the life that we are truly seeking and he gives Seth and I some serious wisdom about how to move forward with AOM! Y'all are really going to love it! Get your FREE 14 day trial of Financial Peace University Buy his book The Proximity Principle Check out The Ken Coleman Show
KEN COLEMAN - RAMSEY WEEKEND - Proximity Principle
May 02, 2020 21:45 - 45 minutesSeth and I called up Ken Coleman, author of The Proximity Principle and discussed the power of being close to those you admire. He also shares how fear and doubt can stop us from having the life that we are truly seeking and he gives Seth and I some serious wisdom about how to move forward with AOM! Y'all are really going to love it! Get your FREE 14 day trial of Financial Peace University Buy his book The Proximity Principle Check out The Ken Coleman Show Learn more about your ad choi...
JOHN DELONY - RAMSEY WEEKEND - Navigating Uncertain Times
May 02, 2020 21:12 - 31 minutesWe called up Dr. John Delony, the newest Personality at Ramsey Solutions to talk through practical advice and tangible takeaways to help your family thrive during this crazy time of Coronavirus COVID-19. Get your FREE 14 day trial of Financial Peace University Learn more about Dr. John Delony Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
RACHEL CRUZE - RAMSEY WEEKEND - Marriage & Money!
May 02, 2020 19:53 - 32 minutesSeth and I had the privilege of interviewing the AMAZING Rachel Cruze, author, public speaker and host of the Rachel Cruze Show! We asked her about all things Money & Marriage and not only did she have great advice to share with us, but she is also just totally hilarious. Y’all are going to LOVE this episode! Get your FREE 14 day trial of Financial Peace University Check out The Rachel Cruze Show Get the Contentment Journal Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
BLAKE THOMPSON - RAMSEY WEEKEND - Marriage, Music & Ramsey Culture
May 02, 2020 19:34 - 52 minutesToday we talk with Blake Thompson, Executive Producer of the Dave Ramsey Show and all around AMAZING guy. Blake shares tips for having a long and healthy marriage, he talks about his love of music, and he gives us a taste of Ramsey Solutions culture. You are gonna love it! Get your FREE 14 day trial of Financial Peace University Learn more about Blake’s awesome vinyl collection! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
BLAKE THOMPSON - RAMSEY WEEKEND - Marriage, Music & Ramsey Culture
May 02, 2020 19:34 - 117 MBToday we talk with Blake Thompson, Executive Producer of the Dave Ramsey Show and all around AMAZING guy. Blake shares tips for having a long and healthy marriage, he talks about his love of music, and he gives us a taste of Ramsey Solutions culture. You are gonna love it! Get your FREE 14 day trial of Financial Peace University Learn more about Blake’s awesome vinyl collection!