Anatomy of Us
730 episodes - English - Latest episode: 7 days ago - ★★★★★ - 914 ratingsA podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.
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ADHD & Marriage: Tips and Tools for making ADHD work for your relationship instead of against it!
September 11, 2020 16:06 - 42 minutesToday we answer a listener question about managing ADHD in marriage. How has it impacted our relationship, what systems do we use for success, and more! Get the marriage help you need by visiting http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
ADHD & Marriage: Tips and Tools for making ADHD work for your relationship instead of against it!
September 11, 2020 16:06 - 91.9 MBToday we answer a listener question about managing ADHD in marriage. How has it impacted our relationship, what systems do we use for success, and more! Get the marriage help you need by visiting http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
I am tired of Microwave Burrito Sex
September 10, 2020 15:47 - 45 minutesToday we explore ways to improve your sex life in marriage and in long distance relationships. Get the help you need when you visit https://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My husband's Love Language is physical touch but I am a sexual trauma survivor.
September 08, 2020 15:44 - 39 minutesToday we share resources and ideas for bringing healthy touch and intimacy into the relationships of sexual trauma survivors. Get the help you need with you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My husband won't forgive my sexual past
September 07, 2020 15:53 - 51 minutesToday we answer a listener question about what to do when your partner holds your sexual past against you. Get the marriage help you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How do I talk to my Christian friends about premarital sex?
September 04, 2020 15:33 - 45 minutes** WARNING: This episode is based on our opinions and experiences, for the love of all that is holy please do not email us about how we are terrible people or how we don't love Jesus! Today we answer a listener question about how to talk about premarital sex with your Christian friends. Get the marriage help that you need when you visit https://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How do I talk to my Christian friends about premarital sex?
September 04, 2020 15:33 - 100 MB** WARNING: This episode is based on our opinions and experiences, for the love of all that is holy please do not email us about how we are terrible people or how we don't love Jesus! Today we answer a listener question about how to talk about premarital sex with your Christian friends. Get the marriage help that you need when you visit https://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
Having a baby ruined our marriage and I don't want to fix my broken marriage.
September 03, 2020 20:19 - 49 minutesToday we answer listener questions about what to do when having a baby changes your relationship and what to do when you aren't interested in fixing a long term relationship. Get the marriage help that you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Having a baby ruined our marriage and I don't want to fix my broken marriage.
September 03, 2020 20:19 - 112 MBToday we answer listener questions about what to do when having a baby changes your relationship and what to do when you aren't interested in fixing a long term relationship. Get the marriage help that you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
My husband needs to have sex to be nice to me and WAP!
September 01, 2020 15:25 - 34 minutesToday we answer listener questions about what to do when your husband requires frequent sex just to be nice to you AND what the song WAP means in our culture, to some women, and why it is ok to talk about it! Get the marriage help you need getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My husband needs to have sex to be nice to me and WAP!
September 01, 2020 15:25 - 75 MBToday we answer listener questions about what to do when your husband requires frequent sex just to be nice to you AND what the song WAP means in our culture, to some women, and why it is ok to talk about it! Get the marriage help you need getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
Can you be friends with the opposite sex, rebuilding trust with a narcissist, and fostering physical affection when mamma is touched out!
August 31, 2020 15:58 - 52 minutesToday we cover a lot of great listener questions! Get the marriage help that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
When to run from an abusive partner
August 28, 2020 16:48 - 50 minutesToday we answer listener questions about domestic violence and abuse. We clarify what is and what isn't abuse and we give tools and helpful advice for those who might be in a DV situation. If you need help with Domestic Violence please reach out Call 1-800-799-7233 or visit https://www.thehotline.org/ You can also text the word LOVEIS to 22522 And if you need a counselor please visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
I want sex more than my husband does
August 27, 2020 15:49 - 43 minutesToday we answer a listener question about being a high desire wife. We share tips tools and ideas on how to increase intimacy and talk about uncomfortable topics. http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My husband looks at women online
August 26, 2020 15:51 - 53 minutesToday we answer a listener question about what to do when your partner is talking to people online who aren't you. We give tips, tools and strategies on how to fix this problem and talk about it as a couple. Get the help you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Transforming Fatherhood with Larry Hagner of the Dad Edge Podcast
August 25, 2020 14:33 - 51 minutesToday we sat down with the amazing Larry Hagner and spoke about the power and importance of Fatherhood and showing up for your kids. Even if you didn’t have the best father you can still be the best dad. Learn more about Larry and the Dad Edge Podcast Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My husband and I have different morals, what do we do?
August 24, 2020 15:51 - 48 minutesToday we answer a listener question about the impact of differing morals in a relationship and how to work it out. Get the help you need today getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My husband and I have different morals, what do we do?
August 24, 2020 15:51 - 107 MBToday we answer a listener question about the impact of differing morals in a relationship and how to work it out. Get the help you need today getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
My husband gets upset if we don't have sex EVERYDAY!
August 21, 2020 15:46 - 43 minutesToday we answer a listener question about what to do when your partner wants sex multiple times a day and gets upset when they can't have it. Get the help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My husband gets upset if we don't have sex EVERYDAY!
August 21, 2020 15:46 - 94.6 MBToday we answer a listener question about what to do when your partner wants sex multiple times a day and gets upset when they can't have it. Get the help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
Miscarriage, Threatening Divorce & How to Apologize
August 20, 2020 15:52 - 110 MBToday we answer listener questions about how to walk through a miscarriage, what to do when your spouse is threatening divorce, and how to apologize to your spouse if you aren't used to apologizing to anyone. Get marriage help today http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
Miscarriage, Threatening Divorce & How to Apologize
August 20, 2020 15:52 - 50 minutesToday we answer listener questions about how to walk through a miscarriage, what to do when your spouse is threatening divorce, and how to apologize to your spouse if you aren't used to apologizing to anyone. Get marriage help today http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Sexologist Shamyra! Orgasm, Fantasy, Oral, Cuddling and MORE!
August 19, 2020 17:27 - 90.2 MBToday we interviewed the AMAZING Sexologist Shamyra and answered YOUR QUESTIONS about co-sleeping interfering with sex, how to get more oral sex from your wife, how to encourage cuddling from your husband and soooooo much more! *This show is not suitable for young listeners so headphone up! Learn more about Shamyra https://www.onthegreencouch.com/
Sexologist Shamyra! Orgasm, Fantasy, Oral, Cuddling and MORE!
August 19, 2020 17:27 - 41 minutesToday we interviewed the AMAZING Sexologist Shamyra and answered YOUR QUESTIONS about co-sleeping interfering with sex, how to get more oral sex from your wife, how to encourage cuddling from your husband and soooooo much more! *This show is not suitable for young listeners so headphone up! Learn more about Shamyra https://www.onthegreencouch.com/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Using technology to improve your Sex Life with Intimately Us
August 18, 2020 14:14 - 28 minutesToday we explore marriage friendly ways to improve passion, romance, and play in the bedroom with Dan Purcell, maker of Intimately Us, the fun and sexy app for your marriage! Learn more about Intimately Us https://intimately.us/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
I don't know what I want! #enneagram9problems
August 17, 2020 15:45 - 50 minutesToday we answer a listener question about what to do when you don't know what you want or how to express your needs. For the marriage help you need visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
The impact of change and growth on marriage
August 13, 2020 15:57 - 46 minutesToday we answer a listener question about what to do when you are improving yourself but your partner struggles to "speak to the new version of you." Get the marriage help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Adult Attachment Disorder & Reparenting
August 12, 2020 15:46 - 49 minutesToday we explore the impact of Disordered Attachment on Marriage and Relationships. We also explore Reparenting and share helpful tools to begin healing your attachment wounds. Get the marriage help you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Adult Attachment Disorder & Reparenting
August 12, 2020 15:46 - 109 MBToday we explore the impact of Disordered Attachment on Marriage and Relationships. We also explore Reparenting and share helpful tools to begin healing your attachment wounds. Get the marriage help you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
I am too emotional and it is damaging my marriage
August 11, 2020 15:41 - 47 minutesToday we answer a listener question about what to do when your emotions are getting in the way of a happy marriage. Get the help you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My girlfriends parents are pushing me away
August 10, 2020 15:41 - 90.8 MBToday we talk about what to do when you feel like an outsider.
My girlfriends parents are pushing me away
August 10, 2020 15:41 - 41 minutesToday we talk about what to do when you feel like an outsider. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My fiancée has no desire to improve her life, what do I do?
August 06, 2020 15:26 - 33 minutesToday we answer a listener question about what to do when your partner's desires don't line up with your long term goals in life. Get the relationship help that you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My fiancée has no desire to improve her life, what do I do?
August 06, 2020 15:26 - 71.6 MBToday we answer a listener question about what to do when your partner's desires don't line up with your long term goals in life. Get the relationship help that you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
Sexual Anxiety from porn and masturbation
August 05, 2020 15:52 - 55 minutesToday we answer a listener question about what to do when porn and masturbation has you stuck in a cycle and is negatively impacting your real sex life. Get Virtual Counseling Today http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How do I forgive myself for ruining my marriage and more.
August 04, 2020 15:46 - 48 minutesToday we answer listener questions about forgiving yourself for mistakes you have made in marriage, what to do if your partner thinks you are lying, and how to move forward when your partner has a side chick but gets mad because you got a boyfriend. Y'all, get the marriage help that you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How do I forgive myself for ruining my marriage and more.
August 04, 2020 15:46 - 107 MBToday we answer listener questions about forgiving yourself for mistakes you have made in marriage, what to do if your partner thinks you are lying, and how to move forward when your partner has a side chick but gets mad because you got a boyfriend. Y'all, get the marriage help that you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
Transform your marriage through Self-Transformation
August 03, 2020 15:54 - 51 minutesToday we answer a listener question about how to transform your marriage through self-transformation. Get the marriage help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Crated With Love unboxing & Ask Us Anything!
July 31, 2020 15:53 - 48 minutesToday we had a bodacious time with an unboxing of a mystery Date Night Box brought to us by Crated With Love, it was so much fun! We also answer listener questions about anything and everything from coaching to next steps as a therapist and more! Get your own Crated With Love Date Night Box! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
I love my husband but struggle to find him sexually attractive
July 30, 2020 15:48 - 112 MBToday we answer a listener question about loving your partner but wanting more sexual attraction. We share tips, ideas and conversation starters to help rekindle the flame. Get the marriage help that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
I love my husband but struggle to find him sexually attractive
July 30, 2020 15:48 - 51 minutesToday we answer a listener question about loving your partner but wanting more sexual attraction. We share tips, ideas and conversation starters to help rekindle the flame. Get the marriage help that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My Mother-In-Law wants me to force my husband to go to church
July 29, 2020 15:35 - 39 minutesToday we answer a listener question about navigating an overbearing mother-in-law, and we share tips and tricks for how to make progress in these types of relationships. For marriage help visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
I left my wife 10 months ago and it was the wrong choice.
July 28, 2020 15:44 - 44 minutesToday we answer a listener about what to do when you have left your partner but regret your choices. Visit getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage for the marriage help that you need. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
I am unhappy in my marriage & Seth and Melanie Fight LIVE on the show!
July 27, 2020 15:57 - 1 hourToday we answer a listener question about what to do when you are unhappy in your marriage. We also spend a great deal working through our own misunderstanding. Visit AnatomyOfMarriage.com to get the marriage help you need. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Too Christian, Not Christian Enough
July 20, 2020 16:03 - 57 minutesToday we explore our faith and answer a listener question about why we don't talk about Jesus very much on our show. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Low sex drive & spirit vs ego
July 17, 2020 16:10 - 58 minutesToday we talk about differences in sex drive and its impact on relationships. We also explore living in spirit vs living in ego. Get therapy today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My partner wants to try Psychedelics
July 16, 2020 16:02 - 52 minutesToday we answer a listener question about a partner wanting to experiment with drugs. We discuss the potential impacts, share personal experiences, and explore the "why" behind this desire. Get Marriage Help Today Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Help, my partner's family is enmeshed
July 15, 2020 15:56 - 41 minutesToday we answer a listener question about managing enmeshment in your partner's family. We share tools, tips and ideas to make it all easier. Get the help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My spouse doesn't want to work on our marriage
July 14, 2020 16:40 - 45 minutesToday we answer a listener question about what to do when you are working on yourself and your marriage but your partner doesn't share your enthusiasm. Get marriage help today when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My husband wants sex everyday
July 13, 2020 15:59 - 32 minutesToday we answer a listener question about what to do when your partner wants sex everyday. To get the marriage help that you need visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices