Anatomy of Us
728 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 month ago - ★★★★★ - 914 ratingsA podcast dedicated to bringing real help to real couples! Hosts Seth Studley, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist, and his wife Melanie Studley, Marriage Expert and Coach, answer listener questions about sex, intimacy, communication, conflict resolution, in-laws issues, healing from infidelity, and so much more! Their authentic and down-to-earth approach to helping couples has transformed thousands of relationships. They have three kids and live outside of Seattle, Wa.
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MARRIAGE: How to Talk to a Silent Spouse
February 15, 2021 10:00 - 21 minutesToday we explore a very common issue in couples which is, how do I talk to my spouse if they are quiet?!This can drive couples BONKERS, especially if a chatty Kathy is married to a Silent Simon! In this show we offer solutions, tools and tips that should help even the quietest of partners to start happily yapping! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor vi...
FAMILY: My Husband Fights with Our Kids - And I Hate It!
February 10, 2021 10:00 - 20 minutesToday we answer a listener question about what to do when your spouse is constantly fighting with one (or all) of your kids! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
MARRIAGE: My Husband Teases Me in Front of Our Kids
February 08, 2021 10:00 - 23 minutesToday we answer a listener question about what to do when your husband teases you in front of your kids! We share advice on how to approach the subject with your partner, how to reframe the impact that teasing has on your family, and so much more. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your a...
FAMILY: 5 Tips for Virtual School
February 03, 2021 10:00 - 12 minutesY’all everyone has been on the Virtual School thing for SO LONG now, but just in case you find that your kids are still struggling we thought we would offer up a 5 tips that have helped ease the stress in our home! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adc...
MARRIAGE: The Journey To Win with Tank
February 01, 2021 19:59 - 50 minutesToday we explore what it actually takes to win at life with Tank. He shares how to stop lying to yourself and make the changes that truly matter the most in life. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
SEX: HELP! My Husband is Addicted to Hookup Apps!
January 29, 2021 16:06 - 23 minutesWelcome to Anatomy of Sex! This show is exclusive to members of our Patreon, with one episode a month shared publicly. Don't miss out! Sign up for Patreon today to get all future episodes: https://www.patreon.com/thestudleys Today we are talking about a VERY common marriage and relationship problem in the digital age, addictions to chat apps, hookup apps, sexting randos, and basically anything that has to do with being “virtually unfaithful.” We also share useful tools such as The Clearin...
FAMILY: Four Ways to Connect with Your Kids
January 27, 2021 18:48 - 16 minutesToday we share simple ways to connect with your kids. We get lots of questions from parents saying that they didn’t grow up in a connected home and they just don’t know how to connect with their kids. Well, here it is! LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: https://www.thestudleys.com/coaching To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphon...
Hal Elrod & The Miracle Morning
January 25, 2021 06:00 - 118 MBToday Seth and I called up one of our heroes, Hal Elrod, author of The Miracle Morning, and probably one of the most influential people in saving and transforming our marriage. Hal shares how his death at the age of 20 was the pathway to the new mission-driven life that he now leads, and how beating cancer three years ago has only strengthened his desire to help those in need. Start online Counseling today when you visit GetFaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
MARRIAGE: Hal Elrod & The Miracle Morning
January 25, 2021 06:00 - 53 minutesToday Seth and I called up one of our heroes, Hal Elrod, author of The Miracle Morning, and probably one of the most influential people in saving and transforming our marriage. Hal shares how his death at the age of 20 was the pathway to the new mission-driven life that he now leads, and how beating cancer three years ago has only strengthened his desire to help those in need. LINKS https://www.thestudleys.com/ https://www.patreon.com/m/thestudleys High Performance Coaching: http...
NEW SHOWS HEADING YOUR WAY!
January 21, 2021 07:00 - 54.1 MBOh my gosh you guys, we are just a few days away from our big relaunch with 2 ALL NEW SHOWS added to the Studley family, Anatomy Of Family and Anatomy Of Sex! WOOHOOO! Here is a taste of the goodness to come!
NEW SHOWS HEADING YOUR WAY!
January 21, 2021 07:00 - 25 minutesOh my gosh you guys, we are just a few days away from our big relaunch with 2 ALL NEW SHOWS added to the Studley family, Anatomy Of Family and Anatomy Of Sex! WOOHOOO! Here is a taste of the goodness to come! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mastering Your Emotions (even if you almost cut your finger off with a chainsaw)
December 22, 2020 16:40 - 48 minutesToday we talk about the importance of Mastering Your Emotions in all situations from the struggles of everyday parenting issues to emergency situations like I had with the chainsaw. Also, we are joined by Tank for a little Holiday motivation! To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage For High Performance Coaching visit https://anatomyofmarriage.com/coaching Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Mastering Your Emotions (even if you almost cut your finger off with a chainsaw)
December 22, 2020 16:40 - 107 MBToday we talk about the importance of Mastering Your Emotions in all situations from the struggles of everyday parenting issues to emergency situations like I had with the chainsaw. Also, we are joined by Tank for a little Holiday motivation! To find a virtual counselor visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage For High Performance Coaching visit https://anatomyofmarriage.com/coaching
Build Your Dream Marriage and STOP BREAKING IT!
December 15, 2020 16:35 - 38 minutesToday we talk about the importance of building your dream marriage little by little every single day, as well as the importance of not breaking or tearing down your marriage by doing things that are harmful. To get the therapy help you need visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Sign up for AOM Coaching today when you visit https://anatomyofmarriage.com/coaching Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Stop Looking Backwards! Coaching Part 4
December 10, 2020 16:43 - 38 minutesToday we talk about the importance of letting go of your past struggles and moving forward with your new vision in marriage! For counseling visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage For Coaching visit https://anatomyofmarriage.com/coaching Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Share Your Vision! Coaching Part 3
December 08, 2020 16:36 - 92.2 MBToday we talk about the importance of creating and sharing a vision for your relationships. This could be parenting, marriage, or friendships. There is power in seeing and communicating the desires that you have for your relationships. Get the marriage help you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about AOM Coaching https://anatomyofmarriage.com/coaching
Share Your Vision! Coaching Part 3
December 08, 2020 16:36 - 42 minutesToday we talk about the importance of creating and sharing a vision for your relationships. This could be parenting, marriage, or friendships. There is power in seeing and communicating the desires that you have for your relationships. Get the marriage help you need http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about AOM Coaching https://anatomyofmarriage.com/coaching Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Own Your Impact! Coaching Part 2
December 03, 2020 17:02 - 1 hourToday we talk about the importance of owning the impact that you have on those around you in relationships, friendships, parenting and even with yourself! This is what we wish we had heard YEARS AGO and what we work on daily with our AOM Coaching Clients. Faithful Counseling AOM Coaching Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Air Your Shizz! Coaching Part 1
December 01, 2020 16:52 - 124 MBToday we explain the importance of airing out past injuries in a healthy and productive way in marriage in order to move forward and grow. This is one of the foundations of our coaching and something that we believe can lead to a much stronger and fulfilling relationship when done correctly! Learn more about AOM Coaching https://anatomyofmarriage.com/coaching Get Counseling help today http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
Air Your Shizz! (share your hurt) Coaching Part 1
December 01, 2020 16:52 - 56 minutesToday we explain the importance of airing out past injuries in a healthy and productive way in marriage in order to move forward and grow. This is one of the foundations of our coaching and something that we believe can lead to a much stronger and fulfilling relationship when done correctly! Learn more about AOM Coaching https://anatomyofmarriage.com/coaching Get Counseling help today http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My husband wants a divorce, what do I do?
November 19, 2020 17:37 - 93.2 MBToday we talk about what to do when one partner is done with the marriage. If you need help visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
My husband wants a divorce, what do I do?
November 19, 2020 17:37 - 42 minutesToday we talk about what to do when one partner is done with the marriage. If you need help visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Leadership & Marriage: What men (and women) need to know, with Errol Doebler
November 18, 2020 03:32 - 1 hourErrol Doebler shares the insights that he has learned in his years and an FBI agent, Nave SEAL, former member of the FBI SWAT Team, Wim Hof instructor and SO MUCH MORE! Dudes, this episode is for you! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My husband likes porn but it makes me feel bad
November 17, 2020 16:47 - 53 minutesToday we tackle one of the most common questions that we receive; what do you do when your partner likes porn but you don't? Get the marriage help that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
HELP, my spouse refuses to change!
November 12, 2020 16:43 - 46 minutesToday we talk about partners who straight up refuse to grow and change. We share ways to talk about tough topics and tons of personal insights from Melanie, the stubborn partner in the mix. Get the marriage help that you need RIGHT NOW http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Why do I have such high expectations of my spouse but not myself?
November 10, 2020 17:01 - 59 minutesToday we tackle the complicated world of high expectations. We discuss why they are there, how to navigate them and ways to transform your marriage by changing your expectations TOGETHER! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How to get UNSTUCK in your life and relationships!
November 05, 2020 18:32 - 43 minutesToday we share a ton of ways to get out of the stupid rut that you are stuck in! And if you need a little extra help make sure to visit getfaithful.com/anaotmyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
10 ways to reduce Stress & Anxiety FAST!
November 03, 2020 17:13 - 86.6 MBToday we share 10 super quick and easy ways to reduce stress and anxiety FAST! Get the counseling help that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
10 ways to reduce Stress & Anxiety FAST!
November 03, 2020 17:13 - 39 minutesToday we share 10 super quick and easy ways to reduce stress and anxiety FAST! Get the counseling help that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Anxiety & Depression in Marriage, what to do and when to get help.
October 29, 2020 16:04 - 50 minutesToday we explore how to address depression and anxiety in marriage, we share tips and tools for navigating relationships with a person who is struggling, we talk about when and how to get help, and so much more. Get help today when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Anxiety & Depression in Marriage, what to do and when to get help.
October 29, 2020 16:04 - 112 MBToday we explore how to address depression and anxiety in marriage, we share tips and tools for navigating relationships with a person who is struggling, we talk about when and how to get help, and so much more. Get help today when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
My husband is only changing to get more sex.
October 27, 2020 16:10 - 34 minutesToday we explore the motivation behind changes in marriage and why we judge them the way that we do. Get the marriage help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My wife is never satisfied / My husband doesn't care
October 22, 2020 16:03 - 47 minutesToday we tackle one of the most common complaints that we hear from listeners... my wife is NEVER SATISFIED or my husband DOESN'T CARE! Get the the marriage help that you need when you visit GetFaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Positivity for Pessimists: 7 ways to combat NEGATIVITY!
October 20, 2020 16:12 - 129 MBToday we share 7 ways to put an end to negativity and bring in those positive vibes!! Get the help you need when you visit GetFaithful.com.anatomyofmarriage
Positivity for Pessimists: 7 ways to combat NEGATIVITY!
October 20, 2020 16:12 - 58 minutesToday we share 7 ways to put an end to negativity and bring in those positive vibes!! Get the help you need when you visit GetFaithful.com.anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Infertility & Marriage
October 15, 2020 16:00 - 112 MBToday we talk about the impact that trying to get pregnant can have on marriage. We share ways to support your spouse through the process, steps to take, and tips for enjoying this time. Get the marriage help that you need when you visit GetFaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Spice up your date night with Crated With Love
AOM 40: Fitness & Wellness Challenge!
October 13, 2020 15:50 - 94.9 MBToday we talk about AOM 40, our 40 day fitness & wellness challenge! We are SO EXCITED to kick this off starting Friday October 16th, 2020. We share the rules, the obstacles, the benefits and so much more! Get the help that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Get Date Nights Delivered to your door with Crated with Love, learn more at http://cratedwithlove.com/aom
AOM 40: Fitness & Wellness Challenge!
October 13, 2020 15:50 - 43 minutesToday we talk about AOM 40, our 40 day fitness & wellness challenge! We are SO EXCITED to kick this off starting Friday October 16th, 2020. We share the rules, the obstacles, the benefits and so much more! Get the help that you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Get Date Nights Delivered to your door with Crated with Love, learn more at http://cratedwithlove.com/aom Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
5 Ways to stop an argument FAST!
October 08, 2020 15:42 - 33 minutesToday we share our top 5 ways to stop any argument FAST! Get the marriage help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Get date night delivered to your doorstep when you visit http://cratedwithlove.com/aom Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Why does my wife always think she is right?!
October 06, 2020 15:54 - 36 minutesToday we talk about what to do when your spouse is "never wrong". We share tips and tools for talking about your needs in marriage and so much more. Get the help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Get date nights delivered to your door when you visit http://cratedwithlove.com/aom Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Why does my wife always think she is right?!
October 06, 2020 15:54 - 79.8 MBToday we talk about what to do when your spouse is "never wrong". We share tips and tools for talking about your needs in marriage and so much more. Get the help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Get date nights delivered to your door when you visit http://cratedwithlove.com/aom
5 Ways to TRANSFORM Your Marriage
October 01, 2020 15:38 - 40 minutesToday we share 5 ways to transform your marriage! Get the marriage help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Start your Crated With Love Subscription TODAY! Visit https://cratedwithlove.com/aom Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Becoming a better partner with The Alter Ego Effect
September 29, 2020 15:41 - 36 minutesToday we talk about the power of using The Alter Ego Effect in your relationships. The Alter Ego Effect Faithful Counseling Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
How do I get my partner to go to Therapy?
September 24, 2020 15:46 - 66.4 MBToday we flip the script and speak directly to partners and spouses who are NOT into the idea of going to therapy. Start your therapy journey TODAY... click the link below http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage
How to save your marriage from Covid 19!
September 22, 2020 15:43 - 33 minutesToday we explore 5 thoughts and ideas that will help you thrive during this very crazy time. Get the help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Unspoken Expectations are killing your marriage!
September 17, 2020 15:03 - 30 minutesToday we explore the impact of unspoken expectations on relationships. We also share tips and ideas for clarifying needs and communicating expectations. Get the help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
Emotional Affairs
September 16, 2020 14:59 - 38 minutesToday we explore emotional affairs; what they mean, how to heal from them and what to do if you are feeling drawn into one. Get the help you need when you visit GetFaithful.com/AnatomyOfMarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
My husband is turning into his father
September 15, 2020 15:26 - 30 minutesToday we talk about masculinity, maturity and what to do if your spouse is turning into their parents! Get the help you need when you visit http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
ADHD & Marriage: Tips and Tools for making ADHD work for your relationship instead of against it!
September 11, 2020 16:06 - 42 minutesToday we answer a listener question about managing ADHD in marriage. How has it impacted our relationship, what systems do we use for success, and more! Get the marriage help you need by visiting http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices
ADHD & Marriage: Tips and Tools for making ADHD work for your relationship instead of against it!
September 11, 2020 16:06 - 91.9 MBToday we answer a listener question about managing ADHD in marriage. How has it impacted our relationship, what systems do we use for success, and more! Get the marriage help you need by visiting http://getfaithful.com/anatomyofmarriage