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Competitiveness in Relationships

Talk Your Poly Off - June 15, 2021 08:00 - 44 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
In the past we've talked about feeling competitive with a meta especially when playing the "compare" game. But in this weeks episode we take it from a different angle! Have you ever felt in competition with your PARTNER? Maybe it's who earns more money or who has more partners but somet...

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TYPO Phone Questions part 4, Monsuta Solo Episode

Talk Your Poly Off - June 08, 2021 11:21 - 46 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Monsuta takes the reigns and flies solo for this week's discussion. This week is answering questions from the TYPO phone, from first dates to breakups.  ~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating...

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Holiday Observance

Talk Your Poly Off - June 01, 2021 15:00 - 55 seconds ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
We will be off this week. Taking a vacation this week. Sorry and thank you! Love you!

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Speedbumps Coming Into Polyamory

Talk Your Poly Off - May 25, 2021 08:00 - 45 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Being at a place today where our relationship is stable and healthy and we feel pretty confident in our relationship skills its easy to forget some of the struggles and difficult feelings that came up in the early days. The anxiety around dating a new person when you already have a pa...

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How Do I Open Up To Swinging

Talk Your Poly Off - May 18, 2021 08:00 - 53 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Today we have a question from an anonymous TYPO Phone caller which we felt could be a whole episode on its own. What's the first thing that comes to mind when someone mentions they're a swinger? It's often times some 60s or 70s house key party. And while we love a good house party... t...

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Relationship Equity

Talk Your Poly Off - May 11, 2021 08:00 - 51 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Many of us grew up being told and believing that in order for things to be "fair" they needed to be equal. For those who are perhaps a little younger this reminds me of those participation trophies. However, as we've grown up, we've realized that not everyone needs the same things in li...

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Intimacy and Vulnerability

Talk Your Poly Off - May 04, 2021 08:00 - 46 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Building an intimate relationship often needs all parties involved to show some level of intimacy. To open up and let others in is being vulnerable but in order to do that there needs to be things like trust and acceptance which happen to be key factors in building intimacy. So in this ...

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TYPO Phone Questions, part 3

Talk Your Poly Off - April 27, 2021 08:00 - 51 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Back to the TYPO Phone! This week we have some questions ranging from why so many people struggle with kitchen table poly, a question around a partner breaking their "rules", one about pet names for partners and we have a great discussion on all things in between. No matter where you ar...

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Talking About Polyamory

Talk Your Poly Off - April 20, 2021 08:00 - 46 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Have you ever been hanging out for a game night with a group of friends and the question comes up..."so you have a girlfriend AND a boyfriend, how does that work?" Or maybe it's the holiday season and you want to discuss bringing multiple partners over to meet the family. Or maybe it's ...

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Intimidated By Metamours

Talk Your Poly Off - April 13, 2021 08:00 - 48 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Thinking back over the years there have been many times where a new meta is entering the picture and all those insecurities pop up which then creates this "perfect" image in our head of who our meta is. "Oh they have a better job than I do so they must be better." "They are skinnier tha...

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Misconceptions of Polyamory

Talk Your Poly Off - April 06, 2021 08:00 - 53 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Have you ever told a friend or family member that you're polyamorous and they spit back some misconception or myth they heard about what that means? Maybe you're newly interested in this lifestyle and have come across some of these myths in your online reading. However you stumbled acro...

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Self Sabotage

Talk Your Poly Off - March 30, 2021 08:00 - 52 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Self sabotage is the topic this week and it's something we've probably all experienced at some point, even if we weren't aware of it in the moment. Why do we do it? How can we stop doing it? We cover all that and more! If you're enjoying the show please share it with a friend! Please ...

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Life Changes & Support in Polyamory

Talk Your Poly Off - March 23, 2021 08:00 - 43 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Well it's been quite the week over here in TYPO land. Monsuta lost his job and Bella is wrapping up her first week on her preop liquid diet! There's a lot going on and this week we discuss how to support your partner(s) during the big and small changes that happen in life. How to show s...

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TYPO Phone Questions Part 2

Talk Your Poly Off - March 16, 2021 08:00 - 49 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
We tackle a little Q & A from the listeners today all centered around your partner spending time with their other partners. How do you spend your alone time? How do you handle intimacy or a meta's privacy? Do you have questions you want our help with? Leave us a voicemail or text us at ...

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Bella's Ear Ducks and Dating

Talk Your Poly Off - March 09, 2021 09:00 - 41 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Ear ducks, dating, gaming and miniatures and a little light hearted chat this week with Monsuta and Bella! You never know where you'll end up with this episode. Join us for some much needed laughs and awkward dating questions as we step back from the heavy personal development theme for...

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Personal Development Part 6: Thoughts, Emotions, & Processing Them All

Talk Your Poly Off - March 02, 2021 09:00 - 43 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Have you ever sat back and were really mindful about how your body physically feels your emotions? Thought work has become a huge part of our daily lives over the last year or so and we wanted to take this opportunity to talk a little bit about how your thoughts create your feelings whi...

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The Mirror: Communication and Comprehension

Talk Your Poly Off - February 23, 2021 09:00 - 35 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
If you've been around the polyam community for any length of time you've heard people say "communication is key" or "you wont be successful without communication". Well there's more to it than just communicating and that includes actually understanding and processing what your partner is telling ...

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Personal Development Part 5: The Mirror: Communication and Comprehension

Talk Your Poly Off - February 23, 2021 09:00 - 35 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
If you've been around the polyam community for any length of time you've heard people say "communication is key" or "you wont be successful without communication". Well there's more to it than just communicating and that includes actually understanding and processing what your partner i...

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Baggage and Boundaries

Talk Your Poly Off - February 16, 2021 09:00 - 41 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Welcome to our B&B episode! No, not bed and breakfast....baggage and boundaries! If you're a human adult, you've got baggage! Join the club, it's nothing to hide or be ashamed of and actually the more open and honest you can be about your history and baggage the more likely your partner is to und...

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Personal Development Part 4: Baggage and Boundaries

Talk Your Poly Off - February 16, 2021 09:00 - 41 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Welcome to our B&B episode! No, not bed and breakfast....baggage and boundaries! If you're a human adult, you've got baggage! Join the club, it's nothing to hide or be ashamed of and actually the more open and honest you can be about your history and baggage the more likely your partner...

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Wants & Needs in Relationships

Talk Your Poly Off - February 09, 2021 09:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Have you ever sat down and reflected internally to really examine what your wants and needs are when it comes to relationships? Sure we understand a need as necessary for survival and a want is just an enhancement but how does that relate to relationships? Bella and Monsuta talk about just that f...

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Personal Development Part 3: Wants & Needs in Relationships

Talk Your Poly Off - February 09, 2021 09:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Have you ever sat down and reflected internally to really examine what your wants and needs are when it comes to relationships? Sure we understand a need as necessary for survival and a want is just an enhancement but how does that relate to relationships? Bella and Monsuta talk about j...

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Personal Development Part 2: Ego, Esteem, and Instinct

Talk Your Poly Off - February 02, 2021 09:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Continuing this season of personal development we jump into a conversation around ego, the good and bad! Do you have some experience with your ego getting in the way? Tell us about it, give us some feedback, or reach out and say hi! Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" o...

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Ego, Esteem, and Instinct

Talk Your Poly Off - February 02, 2021 09:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Continuing this season of personal development we jump into a conversation around ego, the good and bad! Do you have some experience with your ego getting in the way? Tell us about it, give us some feedback, or reach out and say hi! Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscri...

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Personal Development Part 1: Learning Your Gold Talk

Talk Your Poly Off - January 26, 2021 09:00 - 41 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Our season of personal development begins with a discussion around figuring out who you are! What is your self identity? Where do you even start to have that internal conversation? Hopefully whats worked for us can help you too, give us some feedback or reach out and say hi! Please hel...

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Self Improvement: Learning Your Gold Talk

Talk Your Poly Off - January 26, 2021 09:00 - 41 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Our season of personal development begins with a discussion around figuring out who you are! What is your self identity? Where do you even start to have that internal conversation? Hopefully whats worked for us can help you too, give us some feedback or reach out and say hi! Please help us help ...

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Planning For Success

Talk Your Poly Off - January 19, 2021 09:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Coming up on the end of January 2021 Monsuta and Bella took some time to really plan out some goals.  After the year we just survived its tough to imagine planning out anything for this unknown future. But they aren't about to let that fear of the unknown cause life to pause. They don'...

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TYPO Phone Questions Part 1

Talk Your Poly Off - January 12, 2021 09:00 - 39 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Bella and Monsuta race to the TYPO Phone to answer distress calls! Listen in as these caped crusaders rush to aid others! Please help us help others by hitting that "follow" or "subscribe" button and leaving us a 5 star rating and review on whatever platform you listen on. It really he...

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Goodbye 2020 Hello 2021

Talk Your Poly Off - January 05, 2021 09:00 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
What a strange and crazy year 2020 has been but we survived. Along the way we made some changes in our lives, we helped out some people in need, built stronger closer bonds with family, and found ourselves binge watching some interesting tv shows. In our first podcast episode of 2021 w...

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Leading into 2021

Talk Your Poly Off - January 02, 2021 21:24 - 17 minutes ★★★★★ - 13 ratings
Monsuta and Bella are sitting outside of TYPO HQ on the tail end of 2020, thinking and talking about the year we are leaving behind and looking to what the new year hopes are. You also get to meet Dozer, the neighbor dog.