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Is Our Love The Objectification of Black Men with King Noire
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - October 07, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsBlack men in particular are one of the most objectified groups in porn. Black men are a porn genre, which begs the question of why race is a genre….BBC is more than just a porn SEO tag, it is a colloquialism, signaling on dating apps and even a proclaimed sexual lifestyle. Though we may think we...
Is Our Love Sex Education? (with Cameron Glover)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - September 30, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsAn Educator for Sex Educators? A more and more common question these days as more sexuality professionals emerge is: “How can I do that too?” The road to becoming a sexuality professional is murky. Even murkier is how to make that career or side-hustle a viable one. Enter Cameron Glover, whose g...
Is Our Love A World Of F**K (with Erotica Writer and Sex Toy Inventor Tabitha Rayne)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - September 23, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsThis week we continue our venture into the world of literotica with someone who can not only call themselves an erotica writer but a sex toy inventor as well. Tabitha Rayne is a decorated writer who draws more on fiction than reality. Penning her dirty words as a way to finesse typing and moldin...
Is Our Love A Dirty Word (with Erotic Author Peekaboo Collins)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - September 16, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsFor all of the visual stimuli we are bombarded with and lack of sexual communication it’s no wonder we are ill equipped to whisper sweet nothings into our persons ear. Enter: Peekaboo Collins. Whether it’s poetry or short stories, Peekaboo weaves a web of syllables and phrases of the lead up, a...
Is Our Love Normative (with Porn Performer & Activist Lync Johnson)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - September 09, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsWhat is a norm and how do you know if you’re willingly or unwillingly abiding by it? By now we know our formative years at least have some influence in our worldview. Does that mean norms are good? Bad? or do they not even matter at all? Porn performer and activist Lync Johnson (@lyncjohnson3x) ...
Is Our Love Consensual? (with Intimacy Coordinator Mia Schachter)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - September 02, 2020 08:30 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsBy now we all know what consent means…..or do we? How much do you really know and what can an intimacy coordinator teach you about your current understanding? Alot, it turns out. If you thought consent = permission, this week is for you. Intimacy coordinator Mia Schachter (@miaschachter) graces ...
Is Our Love Represented in Film? (with Nia Ashley)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - August 26, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsWhat role does film and media play in our love and in our lives? Does culture reflect film or vice versa? This week we are joined by the charismatic Nia Ashley who takes us on her film journey and the media that impacted her life. We reflect on what happened to the era of UPN series and why TV h...
Is Our Love Sex Down South (with Marla Stewart)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - August 19, 2020 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsThis week we're joined by southern sexuality superhuman Marla Stewart, whose impressive body of work speaks for itself. Co-founder of the Sex Down South conference, Marla is already making history and a forging new educated era in sex and sexuality. Plus... she loves an uncomfortable conversatio...
Is Our Love Conventional (with Hannah Witton)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - August 12, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsBased on the number of pro dommes we've had on this podcast the past few weeks, we need a little reminder that good, old fashioned, fuck yes, traditional sex is still fucking fantastic and fun for all! We are joined this week by Sex Educator and Youtuber Hannah Witton who's advocating for the co...
Is Our Love Dead? (with Audrey Fatale)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - August 05, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsOh I’m sorry... did you think we were an good-vibes-all-the-time podcast? Stephens inner goth gets to let loose as we welcome this week's fascinating guest Audrey Fatale. We learn all about the death industry and how Audrey navigated her way through it. Find out what secondary trauma response is...
Is Our Love Patient? (with Mistress Eva Oh)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - July 29, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsIs Our Love Particular? Does our love even know what it wants? Whether you’re ideal pairing is in pay-for-play, a long term partner, or your career we could all take a few notes from Mistress Eva Oh (@youwillplease_me) in patience and consistency. Enter this week’s episode bursting with logic. M...
Is Our Love A Male Dom? (with Master Peter)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - July 22, 2020 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsWhy are femme Dominatrizes more prevalent and heralded than masc Doms? Is there a stigma against masc Doms, particularly cis-male Doms? We discuss why that is and what you can do about it on our latest episode with Master Peter. From swing dancing to switch hitting, Master Peter got into the bus...
Is Our Love A Dungeon? (with Mistress Adreena)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - July 15, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsWhat is a dungeon and are they all created similarly? We speak with all around sex worker Adreena Angela on how she doesn’t follow all the rules from curating her studio space, how she interacts with clients, and the controversial stance on if Dommes take their tits out. Dungeons and sex work is...
Is Our Love The Fetishization of Latinx Womxn? (with Rebecca Carvalho)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - May 28, 2020 02:23 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsHave you ever had a stereotype projected onto you? Have you ever felt guilty about embodying or identifying with a stereotype of your ethnicity or otherwise? These conversations may not be easy but they’re absolutely necessary. This week we welcome Rebecca Carvalho to discuss her relationship wi...
Is Our Love the New 'Talk'? (with Jet Setting Jasmine)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - May 20, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsDo you remember getting the talk? Who gave it to you? How would you give “the talk?” Easier said than done. This week’s guest Jet Setting Jasmine is not only walking the walk but talking THE 'talk'. Jasmine is a mother of three and can add therapist, pornographer and domme to her extensive resum...
Is Our Love Non Monogamous? (w Ruby Rare)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - May 13, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsDoes it seem like everyone is talking about open relationships and polyamory lately? Is non-monogamy actually better? Who is it for? Does non-monogamy mean you have more sex? And why does it have so many syllables? Ruby Rare joins us this week to spell out the shades of non-monogamy from A-Z. Wh...
Is Our Love A Pelvic Floor (w/ Dr. Rachel Gelman)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - May 06, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsDid you know you have a pelvic floor? Yes, all of you. Do you know what is does? Spoiler Alert: EVERYTHING. Rachel Gelman a San Francisco based Pelvic Floor Therapist joins us this week to tell us everything from the 411 on kegals to why a good bowel movement can make your week. Whether you ha...
Is Our Love A Coming of Age (with Liv Revamped)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - April 29, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsRebelling against your Pagan family by joining a church... this isn’t your average darling come porn performer coming of age tale. From the industry trying to pigeon hole a multi-racial gal as “latina,” to diversifying her porn profile Liv Revamped drops some wisdom for any aspiring porn perform...
Is Our Love A New Era Of Porn? (w Inka Winter of ForPlay Films)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - April 22, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsEveryone and their step-sibling seems to be making their own bootleg smut these days. Is there room for a new era of porn graduated form the yesteryears of gonzo? Is there a difference between porn and erotica? And above all - how does one transition from growing up in a sex cult to creating res...
Is Our Love Stoya (Pt.2)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - April 15, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratings"I have caffeine, nicotine… and the conversation’s all over the place just like I like it.” - Stoya This week is the conclusion of our 2 part conversation with Stoya. We dive right in. If you haven’t listened to pt.1 … well, you’re doing it wrong. We talk balancing love, a career in adult fi...
Is Our Love Stoya (Pt. 1)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - April 08, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsStoya. A person who needs no introduction but we’re going to attempt it anyway. An internationally celebrated author, activist, actress & advocate for sex worker’s rights. An introverted cat lover, a next level book nerd, and a fearless caller of bullshit. An endless seeker of the authentic &...
Is Our Love A Private Public Figure (with Fetish Fellow)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - April 01, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsIn a world that isn’t wildly accepting of sexuality, kink, or anything that falls out of heteronormativity can be a scary thing to reveal to folx. Will they accept you? Shame you? Fire you? And if it goes long enough does keeping the secret become the bigger deal? Fetish Fellow is as public a pr...
Is Our Love A Threesome?
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - March 25, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsThis week we ironically tackle threesomes as a twosome. Threesomes are often one of the first boxes on people’s sexual bucket lists, but are they all they’re cracked up to be? Stephen and Lola weigh the pro’s and con’s on adding a third, and trade some of their best (and worst) threesome tales. ...
Is Our Love Financially Stable? (with Lindsay Goldwert)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - March 18, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsThis week we take a break from our social distancing to talk about something other than coronavirus. To bring up spirits we decided it would be a great time to discuss personal finances! Totally kidding... we just recorded this episode pre-virus outbreak. In all seriousness, finances are a trick...
Is Our Love A Genital Rainbow? (w/ Jessy Caron and Rebekah Frank)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - March 11, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsThis week, Is Our Love welcomes the gals of the “Welcome To My Vagina” podcast into *our* podcast vagina which is probably... anal? From hashtag#wellness-ing everything, to the reasons why we faked or continue to fake orgasms, Jessy & Rebekah trade genital war stories. We are overcoming our gen...
Is Our Love Bleeding (w/ Valarie Merced ...aka the blood queen)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - March 04, 2020 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsThis week we live in the taboo, the messy, and the sometimes woo woo. That’s right: We’re on the rag, riding the crimson wave….we’re BLEEDING love. Valarie Merced (aka The Blood Queen) schools us on why it’s important for her to bleed on her lovers. From seeing her mother’s menstruation to the s...
Is Our Love Positive? (with HIV Advocate Philipp Spiegel)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - February 26, 2020 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsThis week on Is Our Love we explore the positive side of being positive. Advocate Philipp Speigel shares his personal stories from reliving his HIV diagnosis, depression, and processing to ultimately becoming a speaker and advocate through owning his positive status. Where it was once thought of...
Is Our Love Forever Vol.2 (w Lorrae Bradbury: founder of Slutty Girl Probs)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - February 19, 2020 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsBetween breakups, makeups and all that unfolds in between we’ve all had our uglier moments. Lorrae of Slutty Girl Probs fame walks us through the best of times and the worst of times and how learning from those moments has helped her grow and learn more about herself and the types of relationshi...
Is Our Love High? with Sophie St. Thomas
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - February 12, 2020 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsMove over stoner comedies and Bob Marley posters, cannabis has a new sheriff in town…. Sophie St Thomas! This week on Is Our Love we have the most responsible conversation about drugs with the famed author of Finding Your Higher Self and upcoming books Sex Witch and The Little Book of CBD for...
Is Our Love Defined? (with Kinky Queer Architect: Vanilla Honey)
Is Our Love ____? with Lola Jean & The Reluctant Sexpert - February 05, 2020 09:00 - 1 hour ★★★ - 70 ratingsWe’re back from a *brief* hiatus to bring you the first episode of 2020. We’re getting all kinds of heady dissecting the phrasing, attire and spaces we frequent and what makes then “queer” “kinky” “sexy” etc…. How do we react to each of these individually and how do they influence or affect our ...
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