Latest Gasllghting Podcast Episodes

Episode 14 - After robbery, Nex takes 6 week vacation. Nex is fired from supervisor. Court order reunification therapy for kids and their mom.

I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom. - May 10, 2022 20:00 - 56 minutes ★★★★ - 11 ratings
It has been a while since our last podcast, but we are back with episode 14. Thank you for your patience.  We discuss current events in our life: (False CPS allegations and claims we hired someone to follow our daughter and her mom). Court orders us into co-parenting counseling (because that wil...

Episode 13 - This episode is from burglary to the death of my Nex's boyfriend. My Narc mom is still creating noise.

I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom. - March 20, 2022 20:00 - 56 minutes ★★★★ - 11 ratings
We apologize for the delay, but we have been in the thick of it with current court battles and false allegations, as we briefly discuss in this episode. We do bring you up to speed with plenty of Narc material regarding  my mom and my nex. We resume after the burglary and end with a mysterious ...

Episode 12 - Judge loans my Narcissist Ex money!! Word Salad email from Nex. Narcissists make everything hard and choose the fight over rationale. Jennifer gets burglarized, violated and traumatized by my Nex..

I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom. - February 16, 2022 21:00 - 1 hour ★★★★ - 11 ratings
We apprise our audience of our current status in court and brief summary of last episode 11. We then dive in. The fraudulent check and police report filed on my Narcissist Ex goes nowhere. My ex, while in impatient rehab, is able to leave a couple days a week. Supervised visits with the childre...

Episode 11 - Wildfire causes structure to burn & evacuation. Supervised visits don't go well. Brother-in-law is squatting. Nex leaves rehab to break the law, again.

I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom. - January 28, 2022 20:00 - 1 hour ★★★★ - 11 ratings
In the episode, we answer some questions from our audience. We pick up the story from where I was implicated for an attempted murder. I move to a house so I can get the family dog back. My mom moves into a bedroom to "help" me during this incredibly difficult time. Nex goes missing and then pops...

Episode 10 - Homicide Detective visit in the AM. I am framed, of course. Sharing custody with a Narcissist is hell...

I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom. - January 07, 2022 22:00 - 54 minutes ★★★★ - 11 ratings
We jump right in. We talk about the Nex letting the family dog out and threatens to surrender him to the Humane Society because I am can't have dogs in my rental. The Nex falls in the cross walk at school with my daughter. The school calls the police. I try to get an Ex Parte and it is denied by...

Episode 9 - Holi-daze Special. Narcissists always disrupt the holidays. Greatest hits from the Narcissists and their Flying Monkeys..

I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom. - December 29, 2021 21:00 - 1 hour ★★★★ - 11 ratings
It is the holidays and we wanted to stick to our bi-monthly episode release so mixed it up and went with a greatest hits, of sorts, with text book correspondence that we have received from my dysfunctional family.  We were, of course, assaulted via correspondence this past holidays by my Nex, ...

Episode 9 - Holi-daze Special. Narcissists always disrupt the holidays. Greatest hits from the Narcissists.

I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom. - December 29, 2021 21:00 - 1 hour ★★★★ - 11 ratings
It is the holidays and we wanted to stick to our bi-monthly episode release so mixed it up and went with a greatest hits, of sorts, with text book correspondence that we have received from my dysfunctional family.  We were, of course, assaulted via correspondence this past holidays by my Nex, ...

Episode 8 - Part 2 - Missing kids from school. Chaos leads to Co-dependency awareness, self care and Al-Anon Skullduggery leads to divorce. A near deadly car crash leads to full custody.

I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom. - December 14, 2021 23:00 - 57 minutes ★★★★ - 11 ratings
We jump right in. I am on my 4th day of a camping trip and get a call from kids friends mom and rush home. Kids are subjected to more chaos. I am getting a glimpse of some personal healthiness and how dysfunctional home life is. I turn over my businesses to focus on family and myself. I find Al-...

Episode 7 - Part 1 - How & why I ended up and stayed in a dysfunctional marriage with 3 kids. Narcissists permanently reside in Victimville. I start to see the light.

I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom. - December 01, 2021 17:00 - 1 hour ★★★★ - 11 ratings
I married and stayed in a dysfunctional marriage with a Toxic / Narcissist for 16 years. We explain to the audience how I ended up there and why I stayed in the dysfunction. We  discuss the red flags I overlooked and the bad therapists along the way. We bring the audience up to speed on some of ...

Episode 6 - Gray Rocking to a Cease and Desist Letter to a Nana. Mom is a Narc, where's Dad?

I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom. - November 16, 2021 23:00 - 47 minutes ★★★★ - 11 ratings
In the episode we discuss self-esteem and its relevance to the victims' independence and the Narcissist's lack self-esteem as well. We speak to inappropriate loyalties to the Narcissistic parent and its hindrance on the relationship with the victims partner or spouse. Loyalties and devotion to b...

Episode 5 -Gaslighting and Hoovering. Evolution of boundary setting and the Narcissist's reactions.

I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom. - November 05, 2021 20:00 - 1 hour ★★★★ - 11 ratings
Jennifer and Brandon explore what it is like to set up boundaries with a Narcissist and how the boundaries are received and mowed over. We share a email and text with the family that highlights the dysfunctional responses that are received when you are just trying to be healthy and sound. We dis...

Episode 4 - Family enmeshment. Red Flags to look for in a mate. Golden child status. Covert Incest.

I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom. - October 31, 2021 14:00 - 1 hour ★★★★ - 11 ratings
We dive right in with another text from the main flying monkey Rob, my brother. We discuss Covert vs. Overt abuse. We speak about enmeshment and how asking a victim to "get back in line" is just as damaging as the abuse. Your family is not a life or death sentence. You don't have to put up wit...

Episode 3 - Flying Monkeys and the types of Narcissists.

I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom. - October 29, 2021 18:00 - 39 minutes ★★★★ - 11 ratings
We start with a text from Brandon's Dad, a  well intended Flying Monkey. We describe our experiences with flying monkeys, both the ill intended and well intended and  explain the differences. We speak briefly on our knowledge of the types of Narcissists and where my mom falls on the spectrum. W...

Episode 3 - Nothing to see here family, exposed. Email to Dad to deflect Flying Monkey brother. Trying to get “Out of the Fog”

I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom. - October 29, 2021 18:00 - 40 minutes ★★★★ - 11 ratings
We start with a text from Brandon's Dad, a  well intended Flying Monkey. We describe our experiences with flying monkeys, both the ill intended and well intended and  explain the differences. We speak briefly on our knowledge of the types of Narcissists and where my mom falls on the spectrum. W...

Episode 2 - Narcissist's bag of tricks when threatened. Flying monkeys and tantrums.

I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom. - October 29, 2021 17:00 - 41 minutes ★★★★ - 11 ratings
We start this episode with "I want to meet with your therapist" email from Brandon's mom. Yes. You heard that right.... We discuss boundary setting with the Narcissist and ways they react. The Narcissist reverts to childish tantrums, making the victim feel guilty and obligated, and they commissi...

Episode 1 - A Narcissist and their effect on the family.

I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom. - October 26, 2021 21:00 - 40 minutes ★★★★ - 11 ratings
We start off the episode with some of incredible repercussions of when when you are raised by a Narcissist and then end up marrying one. We introduce the audience to the hosts Jennifer and Brandon and a little of their background. We then dive into an epic email Brandon received from his Mother ...