I Married a Narcissist. Thanks Mom.
16 episodes - English - Latest episode: almost 2 years ago - ★★★★ - 11 ratingsRaised by or married to a Narcissist? Been gaslighted in every discussion? Is your currently relationship toxic or covertly abusive? Know a victim of Narcissism? We discuss the trials and tribulations of being raised by a Narcissist and eventually marrying one and its effects and ramifications. We explain through real life experiences, how and why we ended up in a desperate situation, a terrible marriage, a distressing divorce, and a brutal custody battle. We share the method in which we were able to discover the life vest that kept us afloat among the rapids. If we did it, so can you. You are not alone and hopefully by sharing our experiences, you will find the courage and help that you deserve to live a healthy and fulfilled life. Join Jennifer and Brandon as they get uncomfortable so that you don't have to anymore.
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Episode 14 - After robbery, Nex takes 6 week vacation. Nex is fired from supervisor. Court order reunification therapy for kids and their mom.
May 10, 2022 20:00 - 56 minutes - 39 MBIt has been a while since our last podcast, but we are back with episode 14. Thank you for your patience. We discuss current events in our life: (False CPS allegations and claims we hired someone to follow our daughter and her mom). Court orders us into co-parenting counseling (because that will solve everything!!) We read a letter from my mom to my attorneys in response to our attorney telling her not to stalk our 13 year old. We continue our story back in 2019. Nex takes a 6 week vacation...
Episode 13 - This episode is from burglary to the death of my Nex's boyfriend. My Narc mom is still creating noise.
March 20, 2022 20:00 - 56 minutes - 39.1 MBWe apologize for the delay, but we have been in the thick of it with current court battles and false allegations, as we briefly discuss in this episode. We do bring you up to speed with plenty of Narc material regarding my mom and my nex. We resume after the burglary and end with a mysterious death. Thank you for listening and thank you for your patience. This stuff never ends. Check us out at : thx-mom.com Facebook Instagram
Episode 12 - Judge loans my Narcissist Ex money!! Word Salad email from Nex. Narcissists make everything hard and choose the fight over rationale. Jennifer gets burglarized, violated and traumatized by my Nex..
February 16, 2022 21:00 - 1 hour - 51.3 MBWe apprise our audience of our current status in court and brief summary of last episode 11. We then dive in. The fraudulent check and police report filed on my Narcissist Ex goes nowhere. My ex, while in impatient rehab, is able to leave a couple days a week. Supervised visits with the children continue with a few Shenanigans along the way. My Narcissists Ex and I use a Pro-Tem Judge to settle finances and property. The Pro-Tem Judge is flawed for sure and loans my ex money to pay for her ...
Episode 11 - Wildfire causes structure to burn & evacuation. Supervised visits don't go well. Brother-in-law is squatting. Nex leaves rehab to break the law, again.
January 28, 2022 20:00 - 1 hour - 46.3 MBIn the episode, we answer some questions from our audience. We pick up the story from where I was implicated for an attempted murder. I move to a house so I can get the family dog back. My mom moves into a bedroom to "help" me during this incredibly difficult time. Nex goes missing and then pops up just to lie to the kids about the school burning down and she is on the Fire Department. I navigate the criminal, custody, and divorce cases concurrently. A few more examples of the shenanigans th...
Episode 10 - Homicide Detective visit in the AM. I am framed, of course. Sharing custody with a Narcissist is hell...
January 07, 2022 22:00 - 54 minutes - 37.7 MBWe jump right in. We talk about the Nex letting the family dog out and threatens to surrender him to the Humane Society because I am can't have dogs in my rental. The Nex falls in the cross walk at school with my daughter. The school calls the police. I try to get an Ex Parte and it is denied by the Judge. We expain Ex Parte. The Nex shows up to school inebriated with my son in the car. I notice a pipe and she speeds off and I call the police. I file my second Ex parte after the Nex tamper...
Episode 9 - Holi-daze Special. Narcissists always disrupt the holidays. Greatest hits from the Narcissists and their Flying Monkeys..
December 29, 2021 21:00 - 1 hour - 45.5 MBIt is the holidays and we wanted to stick to our bi-monthly episode release so mixed it up and went with a greatest hits, of sorts, with text book correspondence that we have received from my dysfunctional family. We were, of course, assaulted via correspondence this past holidays by my Nex, my mom, and my brother and share those examples. We also had to participate in a Family Court Services via Zoom while trying to enjoy holiday break with the kids. . We try to sprinkle some levity in t...
Episode 9 - Holi-daze Special. Narcissists always disrupt the holidays. Greatest hits from the Narcissists.
December 29, 2021 21:00 - 1 hour - 45.5 MBIt is the holidays and we wanted to stick to our bi-monthly episode release so mixed it up and went with a greatest hits, of sorts, with text book correspondence that we have received from my dysfunctional family. We were, of course, assaulted via correspondence this past holidays by my Nex, my mom, and my brother and share those examples. We also had to participate in a Family Court Services via Zoom while trying to enjoy holiday break with the kids. . We try to sprinkle some levity in t...
Episode 8 - Part 2 - Missing kids from school. Chaos leads to Co-dependency awareness, self care and Al-Anon Skullduggery leads to divorce. A near deadly car crash leads to full custody.
December 14, 2021 23:00 - 57 minutes - 39.4 MBWe jump right in. I am on my 4th day of a camping trip and get a call from kids friends mom and rush home. Kids are subjected to more chaos. I am getting a glimpse of some personal healthiness and how dysfunctional home life is. I turn over my businesses to focus on family and myself. I find Al-anon for help and immerse in self care (walks, music, meditation, more walks, work outs, therapy). I get healthy enough to see the light and get the courage and clarity to get a divorce in order to ge...
Episode 7 - Part 1 - How & why I ended up and stayed in a dysfunctional marriage with 3 kids. Narcissists permanently reside in Victimville. I start to see the light.
December 01, 2021 17:00 - 1 hour - 42.7 MBI married and stayed in a dysfunctional marriage with a Toxic / Narcissist for 16 years. We explain to the audience how I ended up there and why I stayed in the dysfunction. We discuss the red flags I overlooked and the bad therapists along the way. We bring the audience up to speed on some of the tactics the Narcissist will use during arguments and how nothing is ever their fault. We talk about how the Narcissist is never satisfied and they enjoy raising the temperature and chaos to always...
Episode 6 - Gray Rocking to a Cease and Desist Letter to a Nana. Mom is a Narc, where's Dad?
November 16, 2021 23:00 - 47 minutes - 32.9 MBIn the episode we discuss self-esteem and its relevance to the victims' independence and the Narcissist's lack self-esteem as well. We speak to inappropriate loyalties to the Narcissistic parent and its hindrance on the relationship with the victims partner or spouse. Loyalties and devotion to both the parent and partner can't coexist. We bring the audience up to speed on where's Dad in all this. We highlight some of the ways you can deal with a Narcissist and the methods we tried (Gray roc...
Episode 5 -Gaslighting and Hoovering. Evolution of boundary setting and the Narcissist's reactions.
November 05, 2021 20:00 - 1 hour - 53.7 MBJennifer and Brandon explore what it is like to set up boundaries with a Narcissist and how the boundaries are received and mowed over. We share a email and text with the family that highlights the dysfunctional responses that are received when you are just trying to be healthy and sound. We discuss our personal journeys and difficulties in this process. We define "Hoovering" and "Gaslighting" with real life examples. We speak about Self Esteem and how the Toxic person will erode on this unt...
Episode 4 - Family enmeshment. Red Flags to look for in a mate. Golden child status. Covert Incest.
October 31, 2021 14:00 - 1 hour - 50.2 MBWe dive right in with another text from the main flying monkey Rob, my brother. We discuss Covert vs. Overt abuse. We speak about enmeshment and how asking a victim to "get back in line" is just as damaging as the abuse. Your family is not a life or death sentence. You don't have to put up with it. "Sometimes you have to give up on somebody, not because you don't care. Because they don't" Jennifer Greene. We tell a small story about my mom ending up in Hospital for breaking in a house. W...
Episode 3 - Flying Monkeys and the types of Narcissists.
October 29, 2021 18:00 - 39 minutes - 27.3 MBWe start with a text from Brandon's Dad, a well intended Flying Monkey. We describe our experiences with flying monkeys, both the ill intended and well intended and explain the differences. We speak briefly on our knowledge of the types of Narcissists and where my mom falls on the spectrum. We also express our fondness of the book "Out of the Fog" by Dana Morningstar and its impact on our healing. Check us out at : thx-mom.com Facebook Instagram
Episode 3 - Nothing to see here family, exposed. Email to Dad to deflect Flying Monkey brother. Trying to get “Out of the Fog”
October 29, 2021 18:00 - 40 minutes - 27.6 MBWe start with a text from Brandon's Dad, a well intended Flying Monkey. We describe our experiences with flying monkeys, both the ill intended and well intended and explain the differences. We speak briefly on our knowledge of the types of Narcissists and where my mom falls on the spectrum. We also express our fondness of the book "Out of the Fog" by Dana Morningstar and its impact on our healing. https://danamorningstar.com/ Check us out at : thx-mom.com Facebook Instagram
Episode 2 - Narcissist's bag of tricks when threatened. Flying monkeys and tantrums.
October 29, 2021 17:00 - 41 minutes - 28.4 MBWe start this episode with "I want to meet with your therapist" email from Brandon's mom. Yes. You heard that right.... We discuss boundary setting with the Narcissist and ways they react. The Narcissist reverts to childish tantrums, making the victim feel guilty and obligated, and they commission their Flying Monkeys. We explain the "Park Incident" where we get stalked and Jennifer goes to buy ketchup to avoid a dustup. We briefly apprise the audience on our stolen car false police report....
Episode 1 - A Narcissist and their effect on the family.
October 26, 2021 21:00 - 40 minutes - 27.5 MBWe start off the episode with some of incredible repercussions of when when you are raised by a Narcissist and then end up marrying one. We introduce the audience to the hosts Jennifer and Brandon and a little of their background. We then dive into an epic email Brandon received from his Mother on his 46th birthday. We touch upon family triangulation and enmeshment. We highlight the importance of breaking the harmful Narcissistic pattern and breaking the cycle so not to continue to pass it t...