Latest Dominatrix Podcast Episodes
MONDAY MELTDOWN: Things We May Be Grieving at the Moment: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - March 31, 2020 07:00 - 20 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsIf you’re being extra hard on yourself during this period of uncertainty, I hope you show yourself compassion and kindness. Grief is tough because you can’t force it. Grief processes on its own timeframe. The only productive way to heal grief is to focus on the basics of being present with it? ...
THINKING THURSDAY: How to Survive Quarantine with a Narcissist or Toxic People: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - March 26, 2020 07:00 - 16 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsThinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together. We’re quarantined. Some of us are in better situations than others in this current reality. Here are some ways to help yourself and others survive during this tim...
EPISODE 225: Making Friends, Losing Friends, and Drinking A Lot: Amy Miller
Losing Our Religion - March 25, 2020 07:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsAmy Miller is hilariously endearing. Like most guests she has a religious past but with an interesting twist. We chat about love and relationships, friendships, and wonder how many of us ex-Christians have used alcohol for therapeutic and comic relief. Amy Miller, a comedian seen on Comedy Cen...
MONDAY MELTDOWN: Ran Out of Toilet Paper and My Butt is Still Clean: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - March 24, 2020 07:00 - 14 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsDo we really need to be hoarding toilet paper? Are our butts that important or are we having zero-risk bias? While it's true that COVID-19 includes diarrhea amongst its symptoms, so does Taco Bell, and way more people get that every day. Why the sudden urgency? MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: The ...
THINKING THURSDAY: One Way We Can Thrive on the Coronavirus Pandemic Changes: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - March 19, 2020 07:00 - 11 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsThinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together. Healing our own pain and trauma that leads to anger is hard enough, but when someone is projecting theirs onto us in anger it’s tough to respond constructively. W...
EPISODE 224: Starting Your Entire Live Over: Jonathan Bowles
Losing Our Religion - March 18, 2020 07:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsJonathan is back and we’re taking a deep dive into our strange meditative experiences and how our Christian pasts have caused anxiety and fear into our new experiences. Jonathan is a fiery, former pastor, who’s been through the wringer and come out like a freight train full of…Just listen, you...
MONDAY MELTDOWN: Jim Bakker, Snake Oil, Corona Virus, and Finding Peace: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - March 17, 2020 07:00 - 18 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsThis is a crazy time, we’re all feeling it, f*ck the snake oil salespeople that would take advantage of us. Here’s some hilarious meltdown about it all with some encouraging words and daily help. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Televangelist Jim Bakker Sued Over Fake Coronavirus Treatment : NPR ...
THINKING THURSDAY: I Don't Want to Talk About Covid 19 Coronavirus but: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - March 12, 2020 07:00 - 11 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsThinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together. The fear is real for many. I know we are hurting, let us do so in ways that heal and create spaces of comfort and peace for ourselves and others as we find our wa...
EPISODE 223: A Freight Train of Religious Trauma Healing and Encouraging Laughter: Jonathan Bowles
Losing Our Religion - March 11, 2020 07:31 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsJonathan is a firey, former pastor, who’s been through the wringer and come out like a freight train full of…Just listen, you’ll get it. He’s an entrepreneur, coach, existential wanderer, shamanic dreamer, encouragement monster and we share some wild rides and loads of laughter of how we’ve heal...
MONDAY MELTDOWN: How to Heal Anger and Grief from Time Lost in Religious and Childhood Trauma: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - March 10, 2020 07:00 - 20 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratings“I’m Angry and Grieving the Life I Wasted!” Fellow Loser and listener Natasha wrote in asking how to get rid of the anger and grief she is feeling the time religion and trauma has stolen from her. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Training on Deprogramming...
THINKING THURSDAY: How to Combat Enmeshment and Codependency: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - March 05, 2020 08:00 - 12 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsThinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together. Growing up religious many of us where taught enmeshment and codependency not an autonomous partnership in our relationships. The idea of “two becoming one” is tox...
EPISODE 222: COUGH IT OUT! Expelling Demons and Healing From Trauma: Katherine
Losing Our Religion - March 04, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsWe begin this episode down a rabbit hole of my mystic therapy weirdness and then thankfully, pivot into relationships, and then drinking and laughing hysterically about Katherine’s Christian past with YWAM (Youth With A Mission), "demon possession," and exorcism. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: Ca...
MONDAY MELTDOWN: We Can’t Please Everyone, But We Should Listen if They’re Hurt: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - March 03, 2020 08:00 - 19 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsBeing you is hard enough, it’s even harder when being you somehow trigger's someone else. We can’t change how people perceive us, but when we hurt them unknowingly, no matter how they react, they deserve to be heard. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Trainin...
THINKING THURSDAY: Be Encouraged, You’re Not Alone in Your Healing: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - February 27, 2020 08:00 - 13 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsThinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together. You are unique. Your struggles are not. We are universally bound to each other and face and deal with the same struggles. As we face our internal struggles we beg...
EPISODE 221: Self-Awareness, Traumatic Events, and Healing: Katherine
Losing Our Religion - February 26, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsWarning, this episode includes a story of a traumatic fatal accident. It’s not easy healing, let alone healing from something fatal. Katherine shares her story of healing and becoming. It’s honest, heartfelt, and helpful. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week Video Tr...
MONDAY MELTDOWN: Change is Hard, But So is Not Changing: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - February 25, 2020 08:00 - 10 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsThere’s no way around it. Change is hard. Taking ownership of your life and self-care is hard. But life is hard anyways so you might at well engage your dreams and change! It's time to leave your abusive or toxic situations. If it's not serving you well anymore why continue engaging it? MENTION...
THINKING THURSDAY: How to Get Through an Emotional Trigger: Dr. Nicole LePera: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - February 20, 2020 08:00 - 12 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsThinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together. The things that trigger our traumas are the very things that point us to what to heal in our lives. Traumas form our lives and if we don’t heal them we don’t grow...
BEST OF THE PODCAST! A Daddy and His Little: Josh Black and Haven Yates
Losing Our Religion - February 20, 2020 00:01 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsThis episode is a repeat of 153, but it had so many downloads we made it a “Best Of!” Josh Black and Haven Yates are completely enamored with one another in more ways than one. Clowns, BDSM, Polyamory, and Haven’s Borderline Personality Disorder make for a wild and beautiful story of helpful i...
MONDAY MELTDOWN: The Inward Work of Healing: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - February 18, 2020 21:31 - 14 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsThe journey inward is hard at first. It’s counterintuitive and certainly countercultural. But after waking up to the realization of the layers of programming others have put on us we begin the journey of accepting ourselves, hearing ourselves, and healing ourselves. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: ...
THINKING THURSDAY: When Results, Expectations Change Our Mood: Yung Pueblo: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - February 13, 2020 08:00 - 11 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsThinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together. Ever try to force something to happen? Make someone like you? Yung Pueblo says, “If we are trying to force something to happen, we are acting with craving and att...
EPISODE 220: Grief, Dissociative Disorder, PTSD and Healing it All: Meghann
Losing Our Religion - February 12, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsGrief from the loss of a loved one triggered a deep fear of death. Meghann began coping with marijuana, which triggered a dormant dissociative disorder that separated her from her life for a time. This is the story of their healing journey back into living again. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: NE...
MONDAY MELTDOWN: Valentine's Day Narcissism and Obligation: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - February 11, 2020 08:00 - 17 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsValentine’s Day is upon us, and many of us feel the pressure to feel a certain way or be a certain way. Well, guess what? You don’t! Should our lives be lived out of obligation? Should obligation guide our love lives and relationships? What do you think? MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: NEW VIDEO T...
THINKING THURSDAY: When We Heal We Open Ourselves up to Stronger Personal Power: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - February 06, 2020 08:00 - 14 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsThinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together. Many of us have had abusive encounters with narcissistic leaders, family members, or partners. Once we wake up from those experiences and heal, we learn that the ...
EPISODE 219: THANKS DAD, for Being a Narcissist: Meghann
Losing Our Religion - February 05, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsMeghann, from the bible-land of Indiana, was conceived while her parents were getting a divorce. Growing up fast taught her very quickly that her experiences with her father traumatized her. But she healed, here’s Meghann’s story. MENTIONED IN THIS EPISODE: NEW VIDEO TRAINING SERIES! 12-week...
MONDAY MELTDOWN: Empowered Sex Super Bowl!: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - February 04, 2020 08:00 - 10 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsInstead of talking to me about sex on tv, my parents would just shame it, and then yell at me to turn it off and not to watch that! Well, that way of dealing with things has led to being developmentally delayed in our sexuality and relationships. What’s the alternative to shame? TEACHING! MENTI...
Pro-Domme: Learning The Basics (Part 3)
True Empowerment with Kink & Link - January 31, 2020 00:59 - 52 minutes ★★★★★ - 5 ratingsTune into our third and final episode in our Pro-Domme: Learning The Basics series. This episode features Pro-Domme Mistress Velvet from Austin, TX - Learn more about pro-domination, medical play and more!
THINKING THURSDAY: Can We Be Both Angry at Kobe’s Rape Abuse and Have Empathy for His Fans and Family?: Kobe Bryant: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - January 30, 2020 08:00 - 14 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsThinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together. Thank you, fellow Loser and listener Brittany who has been a victim of sexual assault, for writing in to give voice as a victim to the Monday Meltdown episode reg...
EPISODE 218: It Doesn’t Have to Mean Anything: Anthony Carson
Losing Our Religion - January 29, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsAnthony and I talk about manifesting, meditation, visualization, which is very triggering to me from my upbringing. He's benefited from the Landmark Forum, where others call it a cult. As I’ve healed, I’ve learned. Some of these tools are helpful to both of us — especially the mental discipline ...
MONDAY MELTDOWN: When Our Hero’s Fail: Kobe Bryant: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - January 28, 2020 08:00 - 19 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsI posted a quote from Kobe Bryant this weekend as I heard about his & his daughter's tragic accident with seven others in a helicopter. I’m not a basketball fan and didn’t even know that Kobe was accused of rape in 2003. A couple of you were upset feeling I was “ok” with his being a “rapist.” I ...
THINKING THURSDAY: Things Get Better: Zac Gandara
Losing Our Religion - January 23, 2020 08:00 - 10 minutes ★★★★★ - 146 ratingsThinking Thursday’s are about critically thinking, breaking out of boxes, and discussing new ways we could live this life together. Today's episode is about when things get better. When you get to the point, you're ready to heal, to grow, to let go, and to throw two fingers to the air and go f...