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How to Stop Entitlement, Build Resilience & Stop Being Referee With Siblings?

Calm Parenting Podcast - July 14, 2024 14:00 - 23 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
How to Stop Entitlement, Build Resilience & Stop Being Referee With Siblings? How can you help your kids be responsible for their own behavior, choices, failures, and sibling fights without being the fixer or referee? How can you stop feelings of entitlement and teach resilience in kids of all ag...

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Navigating Neurodiversity: 8 Tips for Parenting Your Unique Child with Holly Blanc Moses

Calm Parenting Podcast - July 10, 2024 14:00 - 1 hour ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
Navigating Neurodiversity: 8 Tips for Parenting Your Unique Child with Holly Blanc Moses I absolutely loved this discussion with therapist Holly Moses, host of the Autism ADHD Podcast. We covered practical ways to foster emotional resilience and confidence, help kids with anxiety, challenge socia...

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Handling A Demanding Child Without Losing Your Mind (Give Their Brain A Win)

Calm Parenting Podcast - July 07, 2024 14:00 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
Handling A Demanding Child Without Losing Your Mind (Give Their Brain A Win) Do you have a child who comes downstairs in the morning (afternoon and evening) DEMANDING things or with a single-minded focus on doing something? You rightfully and reasonably say no to their request and it sets off a h...

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7 Ways to Stop Emotional Fireworks & Meet Sensory Needs

Calm Parenting Podcast - July 04, 2024 14:00 - 22 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
7 Ways to Stop Emotional Fireworks & Meet Sensory Needs The meltdowns and angry responses ARE going to happen. Kirk shares 7 quick ways to stop the emotional fireworks, plan for these situations, and help kids who seek sensory pressure/stimulation. This is very practical and jam-packed with ideas...

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Fights Over Chores, Sibling Fairness, Tough Discipline

Calm Parenting Podcast - July 01, 2024 12:00 - 22 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
Fights Over Chores, Sibling Fairness, Tough Discipline Do you have kids who fight you over chores, have selective hearing (i.e. can't hear parents!), and don't listen well? Kirk uses chores to show you five different tools to use in different situations: tough discipline, collaboration, problem s...

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Relentless Arguer, Gets Last Word In, Demands Fairness?

Calm Parenting Podcast - June 23, 2024 14:00 - 22 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
Relentless Arguer, Gets Last Word In, Demands Fairness? Do you have a child who is a relentless arguer, has to get the last word in, prove his or her point, and/or has a strong sense of justice and fairness? Do you have that infamous cop, judge and attorney all wrapped into one living under your ...

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3 Shocking Thoughts Strong-Willed Kids Want to Share With You

Calm Parenting Podcast - June 19, 2024 14:00 - 17 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
 3 Shocking Thoughts Strong-Willed Kids Want to Share With You If your strong-willed child could verbalize what they are feeling, this is what they would tell you. I hope you find this insight helpful in understanding a child who often feels misunderstood—which leads to anger, defiance and power ...

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Discipline Without Being Angry or Permissive

Calm Parenting Podcast - June 16, 2024 14:38 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
Discipline Without Being Angry or Permissive How can you discipline a strong-willed child without being angry and frustrated? How can you discipline without letting your child get away with things? In this Father's Day episode, Kirk gives Dads (and Moms) specific strategies to discipline AND buil...

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Why You Want Your Kids to Say, “No.”

Calm Parenting Podcast - June 12, 2024 14:00 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
Why You Want Your Kids to Say, “No.” A kid says, “No, I don’t want to hug grandma or say hi to my Mom’s friend or do this assignment.” The compliant child is labeled the “good” girl or boy. The child who is honest, speaks up, and has the courage to say no is often labeled as difficult and defiant...

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Outright Defiance/Refusal: My Best Podcast of 2024

Calm Parenting Podcast - June 09, 2024 14:00 - 44 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
Outright Defiance/Refusal: My Best Podcast of 2024 Do you have a child who ever acts outright defiant or refuses to do what you ask? Who then has attitude? How do you handle this without being authoritarian (fear, escalating) or being too sweet (getting walked all over and creating an entitled ch...

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Feeling Powerless with Video Games? 2 Ways to Take Back Control

Calm Parenting Podcast - June 05, 2024 14:00 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
Feeling Powerless with Video Games? 2 Ways to Take Back Control You don’t have to give in or operate from fear. Kirk shares some fascinating insight into your kids’ brains (it will surprise you) that you must understand first. Then he shares very specific strategies to motivate your kids, build t...

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4 Ways to Stop Power Struggles & Control Yourself

Calm Parenting Podcast - June 02, 2024 14:00 - 33 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
4 Ways to Stop Power Struggles & Control Yourself Everything you have tried with the strong-willed child has backfired. Want to finally stop the power struggles and get control of yourself? Let's spend this summer working on these four specific ways to change yourself and your family very quickly...

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Tough Teens & Tweens 101: Motivation, Screens, School Refusal, Defiance and More

Calm Parenting Podcast - May 29, 2024 14:00 - 18 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
Tough Teens & Tweens 101: Motivation, Screens, School Refusal, Defiance and More Do you have an unmotivated teen or tween who battles you over homework and screens? Who refuses to go to school, struggles with confidence, has shut down or become defiant? In this hard-hitting episode, Kirk gives yo...

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5 Ways to Stop Anxiety-Driven Battles & Meltdowns

Calm Parenting Podcast - May 26, 2024 14:00 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
5 Ways to Stop Anxiety-Driven Battles & Meltdowns Your child refuses to go to a new place or school. Threats and bribes don't work. A meltdown and harsh words ensue. Do you have a child who resists new experiences? A toddler or teen who doesn't want to go to school? Kirk shows you how to de-escal...

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Are You Letting Kids “Get Away” With Things?

Calm Parenting Podcast - May 19, 2024 14:00 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
Are You Letting Kids “Get Away” With Things? You are going to get judged by other parents, family and friends who whisper that you are letting your SWC get away with things. You will second-guess yourself. People will say, “You just need to discipline that child more.” And you’ll think in your he...

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10 Ways to Stop Power Struggles With Toddlers, Teens & In Between

Calm Parenting Podcast - May 14, 2024 14:00 - 42 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
10 Ways to Stop Power Struggles With Toddlers, Teens & In Between A Mom on Instagram asked me to share tips for her kids from ages 3 to 16. There are some very odd, but effective, strategies here to stop the power struggles, get your kids to listen, and connect with strong-willed kids. You will a...

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5-Minute Mother's Day Message

Calm Parenting Podcast - May 11, 2024 22:00 - 4 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
5-Minute Mother's Day Message  Moms, here you are holding your family together—all alone at times, sometimes feeling numb, working through your own childhood hurts while trying to heal everyone around you. Many Moms never feel like what they've done is good enough. But I want you to know I am pro...

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Moms Coddle Husbands (Not Kids)

Calm Parenting Podcast - May 08, 2024 14:00 - 15 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
Moms Coddle Husbands (Not Kids) Moms get accused of coddling their children. But the truth is they coddle husbands because we can't control our own emotions. So Moms have to manage their child's behavior, pick up toys, and create a perfect environment so their husband doesn't get upset. This crea...

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How to De-Escalate A Nuclear Meltdown & Stop The Shame Cycle

Calm Parenting Podcast - May 05, 2024 14:00 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
How to De-Escalate A Nuclear Meltdown & Stop The Shame Cycle Plans go awry, your child gets disappointed or doesn’t get his way. He begins getting upset. Rational talk doesn’t work. Nothing does. Now he’s in full meltdown mode and doesn’t hold back. How do you stop this cycle of shame and escalat...

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Disagree About Discipline? Want to Get Control of Screens?

Calm Parenting Podcast - May 01, 2024 14:00 - 21 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
Disagree About Discipline? Want to Get Control of Screens?  Do you struggle with excess screen use in your home? Unless you're Amish, you probably do! Do you struggle to get on the same page as your spouse? Kirk gives you practical scripts and interesting ideas to get control of screens, lead ups...

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Why Kids Argue, Fight Siblings, Refuse Homework (ADHD)

Calm Parenting Podcast - April 28, 2024 14:00 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
Why Kids Argue, Fight Siblings, Refuse Homework (ADHD) Do you have kids who argue like attorneys, pick on siblings, resist doing homework, procrastinate, and/or do things the hard way? Of course you do! Kirk gives you several scripts and practical action steps to stop the constant power struggles...

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When Kids Say “No” Or Ask “Why?” Reflexively

Calm Parenting Podcast - April 21, 2024 16:00 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
When Kids Say “No” Or Ask “Why?” Reflexively  So either your child is inherently a rebellious, defiant, difficult kid…or there is something else going on when you ask them to do something and they respond by saying, “No” or asking “Why?” Kirk explains why your kids ask why and how you can get you...

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How I Almost Ruined My Relationship With My Son

Calm Parenting Podcast - April 17, 2024 16:00 - 32 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
How I Almost Ruined My Relationship With My Son One of the big turning points for me was hearing my son say, “I feel like I can never please you. I feel like I constantly disappoint you.” You have an opportunity to avoid the same mistakes I made. Learn how to motivate kids in ways that build thei...

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How to Avoid Poisoning Your Child’s Confidence

Calm Parenting Podcast - April 14, 2024 16:00 - 27 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
How to Avoid Poisoning Your Child’s Confidence What happens to a child who begins to internalize from a young age, “I’m a bad kid, I’m slow so I’m not smart, I’m always in trouble, my parents are never happy with me, there’s something wrong with me, or I’m not as smart as my siblings?” That will ...

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Why Do Your Neuro-Divergent Kids Do These Things?

Calm Parenting Podcast - April 10, 2024 16:00 - 35 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
Why Do Your Neuro-Divergent Kids Do These Things? Do you have a child who is disorganized, forgetful and seems to have selective hearing? Does your child struggle with writing and get frustrated trying to get thoughts from head to paper? What about a bossy child who likes to control people and si...

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The Quickest Way to Change Your Child’s Behavior

Calm Parenting Podcast - April 07, 2024 16:00 - 22 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
The Quickest Way to Change Your Child’s Behavior Do you have a child who doesn’t want to listen, blames others, doesn’t clean up his or her room, is unmotivated, talks back like an attorney, refuses to sleep or eat or do homework, touches the hot stove rather than doing what you ask? Of course yo...

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Defiant, Moody Child Won’t Stop & Blames You: 5 Ways to Stop This

Calm Parenting Podcast - March 31, 2024 16:00 - 24 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
Defiant, Moody Child Won’t Stop & Blames You: 5 Ways to Stop This You have a child who gets moody and disrespectful. You tell her that attitude is not tolerated in your home. She keeps coming at you. You try staying calm, but eventually everyone ends up yelling and you impose consequences. She th...

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Child Not Living Up To Your Expectations? Use This Script.

Calm Parenting Podcast - March 24, 2024 16:00 - 28 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
Child Not Living Up To Your Expectations? Use This Script. Do you have a child who procrastinates, doesn’t listen, is impulsive and disorganized? You’ll likely struggle with this thought: how in the world is this strong-willed child going to be successful? Your anxiety over your child’s future wi...

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A Special Message For Kids Who Feel Different (Dedicated to Poppy!)

Calm Parenting Podcast - March 20, 2024 16:00 - 10 minutes ★★★★★ - 270 ratings
A Special Message For Kids Who Feel Different (Dedicated to Poppy!) I recorded this short message for kids who feel different, don't always feel like they fit in the kid world, and struggle in school even though they are smart. I challenge kids to stop fighting people and their parents. Instead, ...

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Black Swamp Basketball Podcast: State Tournament and NCAA Tournament

Black Swamp Sports Podcast - March 18, 2024 22:35 - 2 hours ★★★★★ - 24 ratings
Lynn Groll, Tory Strock and Greg Badenhop look ahead to the boys state tournament and NCAA Tournament

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