Latest Coercive control Podcast Episodes
Season 5 Episode 6: This Work is Sacred: An interview with Beth Ann Morhardt
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - June 05, 2024 18:00 - 1 hourSend us a Text Message. Partnering with survivors is a sacred act. Listening to survivors, hearing their stories, and working with them as equals is uplifting for practitioners and their clients. In this episode of Partnered With a Survivor, David and Ruth speak with Beth Ann Morhardt, one...
Season 5 Episode 5: A Trauma History is Not An Excuse for Acting Abusively
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - May 20, 2024 11:00 - 37 minutesSend us a Text Message. In this episode of Partnered with A Survivor, David & Ruth have an intimate discussion about how we can be emotionally & behaviorally responsible even when we have been trained into fear & reactivity through violence & abuse. David and Ruth discuss: How we need to dro...
Season 5 Episode 4: Unveiling the Impact of Domestic Violence on Children: Beyond the Myth of the Child Witness
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - April 16, 2024 12:00 - 50 minutesSend us a Text Message. Discover the hard truths about the impact of domestic violence on children, as we, David and Ruth Reymundo Mandel, discuss the "Myth of the Child Witness" chapter from David's book "Stop Blaming Mothers and Ignoring Fathers: How to transform the way we keep children safe...
Season 5 Episode 3: An Introduction to the David Mandel's Book "Stop Blaming Mothers and Ignoring Fathers: How to transform the way we keep children safe from domestic violence"
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - April 02, 2024 16:00 - 46 minutesSend us a Text Message. In this episode, Ruth and David start with a round up of their March 2024 Safe & Together trip to Australia and New Zealand with highlights from the 7th annual Safe & Together Asia Pacific conference with it's focus on work with First Nation peoples, feedback from podcas...
Season 5 Episode 2: Women’s Use of Force in Intimate Relationships: An Interview with Lisa Young Larance
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - February 18, 2024 14:00 - 59 minutesSend us a Text Message. Both men and women can be violent and controlling. In this episode of Partnered with a Survivor, Ruth and David speak with international expert Lisa Young Larance about her research and clinical practice related to women’s use of force in intimate relationships. In the c...
Season 5 Episode 1: Sexual and Domestic Violence In the Military: An Interview with Never Alone Advocacy
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - February 11, 2024 12:00 - 56 minutesSend us a Text Message. Sexual and domestic violence in the military challenges recruitment, retention, team cohesion, operational readiness, security and organizational health. Yet, most militaries around the world are still struggling to effectively address these problems. Gaps in the respons...
Season 4 Episode 12: Research That Puts Survivors at the Center
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - December 09, 2023 11:00 - 49 minutesSend us a Text Message. Historically research hasn’t always involved or benefited the population being studied. Dr. Elizabeth Dalgarno, the Director, and Founder of the SHERA Research Group is staunch advocate of research that is undertaken by and with the people it concerns rather than “on” th...
Season 4 Episode 11: Human Resources Policy & Domestic Violence: Creating A Domestic Violence-Informed Organization
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - December 05, 2023 16:00 - 53 minutesSend us a Text Message. Domestic violence represent 27% of workplace violent events 1 in 5 victims take time off from work due to abuse 20% of victims of domestic abuse had taken off month or more in prior year 56% arrived late at least 5x/month 53% missed at least 3 days of work/month ...
Season 4 Episode 10: Ensuring the Voice of the Child is Heard, and Child’s Best Interests are Considered in Domestic Abuse Cases: How the Safe & Together Model Helps Promote the Rights of Children
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - November 18, 2023 19:00 - 52 minutesSend us a Text Message. Are children domestic violence victims in their own right? Are they co-victims with the adult survivor? What is the relationship between the child and the adult survivors’ experiences How do we hold domestic violence perpetrators accountable in their role as parents...
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Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - November 01, 2023 00:00 - 34 minutesNow available! Mapping the Perpetrator’s Pattern: A Practitioner’s Tool for Improving Assessment, Intervention, and Outcomes The web-based Perpetrator Pattern Mapping Tool is a virtual practice tool for improving assessment, intervention, and outcomes through a perpetrator pattern-based approach...
Season 4 Episode 9: The Last Drop Film: A revolutionary new tool for professionals working with young people around Coercive Control
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - November 01, 2023 00:00 - 35 minutesSend us a Text Message. The problem of dating violence and coercive control among young people has been sorely overlooked, and educational resources are hard to find...until now! In order make coercive control visible to youth & to fill a gap in professional education materials & interventio...
Season 4 Episode 8: “Heart Healing”: An interview with Mibbinbah’s Lisa and Jack Bulman
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - October 18, 2023 11:00 - 59 minutesSend us a Text Message. In this episode, Ruth & David speak with Lisa & Jack Bulman of Mibbinbah Spirit Healing about their work in community to facilitate healing from intergenerational trauma, support healthy relationship connections and strengthen the wellbeing of Aboriginal & Torres Strait ...
Season 4 Episode 7: Survivors Are Better Parents Than Most People Think (even survivors themselves)
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - July 06, 2023 17:00 - 53 minutesSend us a Text Message. In this episode, David & Ruth talk about why the Safe & Together Institute focuses on survivor protective capacities and some of the research behind this approach. While assessments of harm and risk, and trauma frameworks are important, these approaches highlight danger...
Season 4 Episode 6: “The Professional Part of Me is Not Separated from the Personal:” An interview with Nneka MacGregor
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - June 26, 2023 12:00 - 1 hourSend us a Text Message. Survivors, who are professionals, can live in fear that if they share their experience in the workplace, they will be dismissed and disregarded. In this episode, Ruth & David speak with Nneka Mcgregor, founder & Executive Director of WomenattheentrE, about the need to tr...
Season 4 Episode 5: An interview with Caring Dads co-creator Dr. Katreena Scott
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - June 20, 2023 12:00 - 1 hourSend us a Text Message. There are few intervention programs for fathers who use violence as part of their parenting. In this episode, David & Ruth take a deep dive into the work that needs to happen with violent fathers with Dr. Katreena Scott, the co-creator of the Caring Dads program. In t...
Season 4 Episode 4: Being abused by a partner while advocating for others: An interview with Leah Vejzovic, the Safe & Together Institute North American Regional Manager
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - May 23, 2023 21:00 - 1 hourSend us a Text Message. Professionals working in domestic violence and related fields are not immune from being abused by their partner. In fact, their role as a domestic violence or related professional can create some unique vulnerabilities that perpetrators are willing and able to exploit ...
Season 4 Episode 3: The silent effects of non-fatal strangulation: A conversation with international & lived experience expert, Nneka MacGregor
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - May 05, 2023 01:00 - 1 hourSend us a Text Message. Strangulation attempts are a common element of domestic violence perpetrators’ patterns of behaviors. Non-fatal strangulation has long been identified as a risk factor for domestic violence homicide. Less attention has been paid to the short, medium and long term effects...
Season 4 Episode 2: Coming “Out” As A Survivor in a Professional Setting: A Practitioner’s Journey
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - April 27, 2023 20:00 - 1 hourSend us a Text Message. Listening to the voice of lived experience experts, AKA survivors of all forms of abuse and neglect, is becoming more and more a part of the domestic violence-informed professional landscape. At the same time, self-disclosure, in professional spaces, of being an abuse su...
Season 4 Episode 1: Using the Concept of Partnering with Survivors to Promote Worker Health and Well-Being
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - February 27, 2023 16:00 - 49 minutesSend us a Text Message. Working with domestic violence means professionals come into contact daily with complex & challenging trauma. Beyond the complexity involved with working toward the safety of the family, working with domestic violence survivors often confronts professionals with their...
Season 3 Episode 13: What Domestic Violence Perpetrators Steal From Survivors
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - December 20, 2022 01:00 - 37 minutesSend us a Text Message. When we think about domestic violence only in terms of what is added - violence and danger - instead of what is taken away (safety, self determination, quality of life), we fail at naming some of the most profound effects of domestic violence perpetrators’ behaviors on s...
Season 3 Episode 12 Weaponize & Fabricate: How Domestic Violence Perpetrators’ Behaviors Intersect with Survivors’ Mental Health and Substance Misuse Issues
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - November 20, 2022 17:00 - 58 minutesToxic Trio. Triple Play. Trifecta. All over the globe, professionals working with families have shorthand jargon that reflects the prevalence of the complex mixture of issues that many families experience. Unfortunately these phrases do not usually enhance the ability to partner with survivors ...
Season 3 Episode 12 Weaponize & Fabricate: How Domestic Violence Perpetrators’ Behaviors Intersect with Survivors’ Mental Health and Substance Misuse Issues
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - November 20, 2022 17:00 - 1 hourSend us a Text Message. Toxic Trio. Triple Play. Trifecta. All over the globe, professionals working with families have shorthand jargon that reflects the prevalence of the complex mixture of issues that many families experience. Unfortunately these phrases do not usually enhance the ability t...
Season 3 Episode 11: Pivoting to The Perpetrator: An essential tool for interrupting victim blaming
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - November 11, 2022 20:00 - 1 hourSend us a Text Message. Conversations about domestic violence often start from a victim blaming perspective: “Why doesn’t she leave?” or “Why does she keep choosing him over children?” or “I can’t trust her to understand the impact on children. She has a trauma history.” These victim blaming ...
Season 3 Episode 11: Pivoting to The Perpetrator: An essential tool for interrupting victim blaming
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - November 11, 2022 20:00 - 1 hourConversations about domestic violence often start from a victim blaming perspective: “Why doesn’t she leave?” or “Why does she keep choosing him over children?” or “I can’t trust her to understand the impact on children. She has a trauma history.” These victim blaming statements interfere with...
Season 3 Episode 10: “Slow Motion Murder:” Widening the understanding of the link between domestic violence and child deaths
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - October 14, 2022 03:00 - 1 hourSend us a Text Message. With upsetting frequency, the news will report a story of a child murdered by their mother’s partner. Sometimes this murder happens in the context of separation. Other times it is part of perpetrators' overall pattern of violence toward multiple family members. Unfortuna...
Season 3 Episode 10: “Slow Motion Murder:” Widening the understanding of the link between domestic violence and child deaths
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - October 14, 2022 03:00 - 1 hourWith upsetting frequency, the news will report a story of a child murdered by their mother’s partner. Sometimes this murder happens in the context of separation. Other times it is part of perpetrators' overall pattern of violence toward multiple family members. Unfortunately, dramatic homicides...
Season 3 Episode 9: Coercive Control in Children's and Mother's Lives: An interview with author and academic Dr. Emma Katz
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - September 22, 2022 13:00 - 1 hourSend us a Text Message. In this episode, David & Ruth discuss with Dr. Emma Katz in her new book, “Coercive Control in Children’s and Mother’s Lives.” Dr. Katz shares the story behind the development of this groundbreaking book, where she shares her learnings from interviews with 15 groups of m...
Season 3 Episode 8: Understanding Reproductive Coercion: An Interview with Dr. Heather McCauley
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - August 18, 2022 16:00 - 1 hourSend us a Text Message. In this episode, David & Ruth continue their series on reproductive coercion as part of the cycle of intimate partner violence with an interview with Dr. Heather McCauley from the Michigan Consortium on Gender Based Violence MSU. Dr. McCauley discusses the newest resear...
Season 3 Episode 8: Understanding Reproductive Coercion: An Interview with Dr. Heather McCauley
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - August 18, 2022 16:00 - 1 hourIn this episode, David & Ruth continue their series on reproductive coercion as part of the cycle of intimate partner violence with an interview with Dr. Heather McCauley from the Michigan Consortium on Gender Based Violence MSU. Dr. McCauley discusses the newest research on reproductive coerci...
Season 3 Episode 7: Understanding and Validating Survivors' Acts of Resistance
Partnered with a Survivor: David Mandel and Ruth Reymundo Mandel - June 05, 2022 00:00 - 49 minutesSend us a Text Message. Too often conversations about domestic violence define survivors as passive trauma survivors with the emphasis on the negative mental health and addiction consequences of the perpetrators' patterns of behavior. And while these impacts are real they only tell part of the ...
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