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Your Place or Mine

162 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 1 month ago - ★★★★★ - 1 rating

Join comedian Jessie Olsen on her adventures in search for love, laughs, and hopefully a great lay. Enjoy a mix of solo episodes and conversations with friends and comedians. We chat about comedy, dating life in Toronto, and navigating this outrageous world we live in. Grab a glass of wine and listen in, babe. Find me on instagram @jessie__olsen 💋💋 For more: jessieolsencomedy.com

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Episodes

Writing Jokes, Running Late, and a Passion for Toast

October 31, 2021 13:00 - 43 minutes - 30.1 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's favourite local comedians, Erica Thorn. We talk about getting into comedy and finding your on-stage personality. Hear about a ridiculous evening at Comedy Bar and how Erica made it on time despite all odds. We talk about how Erica is using Hinge to meet partners and why a beaver on the TTC is a great conversation starter. Don't forget about the upcoming Your Place o...

Writing Jokes, Running Late, and a Passion for Toast ft Erica Thorn

October 31, 2021 13:00 - 43 minutes - 30.1 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's favourite local comedians, Erica Thorn. We talk about getting into comedy and finding your on-stage personality. Hear about a ridiculous evening at Comedy Bar and how Erica made it on time despite all odds. We talk about how Erica is using Hinge to meet partners and why a beaver on the TTC is a great conversation starter. Don't forget about the upcoming Your Place o...

Comedy, Catastrophes, and Creamy Garlic Chicken Sandwiches ft Will Attwood

October 24, 2021 13:00 - 49 minutes - 33.9 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's favourite local comedians, Will Attwood. We talk about Will's history with acting and comedy, and some of the ridiculous experience's he's had both on and off stage. We talk about the thrill and terror of unexpected squirting and why you should always give a heads up. Listen in to a tinder date gone wrong that ended up with him driving a woman to a prison near Kingst...

The Joy and Horror of Dating as a Comedian ft Steph Neale

October 17, 2021 14:00 - 37 minutes - 25.5 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's favourite local comedians, Steph Neale.  Hear why Steph got into comedy and why she loves pushing the envelope with sexy jokes. We unpack what it's like to be dating as a comedian, both casually and in a long term relationship. Hear some horror stories from travelling hookups and cringe-worthy men. Find out why we both love hockey boys, and the exciting exploration o...

*Your Place or WINE* Hot Bartenders and Shooting Your Shot ft. Cashmere Glow

October 10, 2021 14:00 - 32 minutes - 22.7 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. This episode is part of a spin-off series called Your Place or WINE, where Bae gets lit with a friend and shares some fun. In this episode, we're joined again by the gorgeous babe, Cashmere Glow.  In this spur-of-the-moment episode, we talk about our experiences at our local Midtown watering hole. From the bartenders we wanted to the bartender one of us acquired, many memories have been made at this wonderful...

Mascots, Comedy Bar, and Searching for Substance ft Dewey Stewart

October 03, 2021 14:00 - 37 minutes - 26 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with the amazing and gorgeous Dewey Stewart.  Hear what it's like being a mascot performer for multiple teams and how he stumbled into the role. We unpack what it's like working at Comedy Bar and why dealing with sketch and improv comics is so different than stand up comics. Dewey shares what this single hottie's dating life looks like right now, from tindering to bumbling to friend's...

Jessie, Bae, & Aurora - Caution, Confidence & Kink

September 26, 2021 15:00 - 24 minutes - 16.5 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we talk about the three sides of myself. Jessie, the cautious one, Bae, the confident one, and Aurora, the kinky one. I unpack how I choose to identify myself and who I decide to show up as in different aspects of my life.  These sides are evolving.  Where does Jessie end and Bae begin? How is becoming more Bae impacting my self confidence? Why was it hot as fuck when i was recently called Ba...

Sex in the City - The Everyday Goddess Live with Carlen Costa

September 19, 2021 14:00 - 53 minutes - 36.6 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this collab episode, I'm sharing a recording of a recent Everyday Goddess YouTube live with the incomparable Carlen Costa! Hear what life is like trying to date in Toronto in 2021... post-pandemic-ISH-kinda-still-in-a-pandemic. We talk about the challenges of being nonmonogamous right now and how I'm attempting to continue my search for love and great lays. Hear why Carlen has taken a break from dating and...

Bae Savage Does Stand Up Comedy

September 12, 2021 14:00 - 25 minutes - 17.9 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we talk about my foray into the world of doing stand up comedy! I recently took a 6 week course on beginner's stand up with Bad Dog Theatre and Ryan Dillon. Hear why I love stand up and the comedian community here in Toronto. Hear my first zoom comedy set, and open mic material along with what the process has been like. Don't forget Your Place or Mine now has merch! Head to https://www.baesav...

Business Wins and Roadside Flings ft Hope Mikal of Unicorn Marketing Co

September 05, 2021 15:00 - 36 minutes - 25 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with Hope Mikal, the founder of Unicorn Marketing Co! Hear how Hope quit her secure full time job to do Unicorn full time, and the fears that surround taking that leap. We chat about why she's such a cheerleader for women, and her advice to new business owners. Hear about some of her ridiculous dating experiences from the past. From "boring guy" and how she ended up hooking up on the ...

Five Nonmonogamy Misconceptions

August 29, 2021 15:00 - 26 minutes - 18.1 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we talk about the top 5 common misconceptions about nonmonogamy.   Nonmonogamy is only about sex. Nonmonogamy doesn’t work long term because people are inherently jealous by nature. Nonmonogamous people are more at risk to get STIs. Nonmongamous people are just afraid of commitment. Nonmonogamous people will have sex with anyone.   Spoiler alert, all of these statements are false. Nonmono...

Masturbation Motivation & Another Hot Night with Aiden (🌶 🔥)

August 22, 2021 16:00 - 26 minutes - 18.5 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we're taking another fiery trip down memory lane. DISCLAIMER: If you're a member of my family you definitely want to skip this one... she's spiiiicy. As someone who truly appreciates self pleasure, I find it fascinating where our minds take us when we're enjoying solo play. Hear about the battle between my softer, sweet self and my slutty sub self as they fight for what they each truly want ...

So You Want To Try Out a Sex Club... ft Dylan Tower w/ Oasis Aqualounge

August 15, 2021 16:00 - 42 minutes - 29.3 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with Dylan Tower, the General Manager of Oasis Aqualounge in Toronto.  Have you been curious about checking out a sex club? Hear about what the club is like when you walk in and what you'll find on each of the floors. We chat about some exciting upcoming events, and why Oasis is loved by many as a comfortable and fun destination. From private rooms, yoga, glow parties and  just sunnin...

Sex Toys, Sex Education, & The Journey to Mount Olympus ft GG Hallows

August 08, 2021 18:00 - 44 minutes - 30.5 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with GG Hallows from the Love Shop! Hear what it's like to work for a sex shop and some of the interesting characters that walk through the doors. We chat about our personal favourite, and why both Herc and Dory are leaving some spicy impressions. Hear advice for those new to sex toys and partners looking to introduce some extra fun. Be sure to head to loveshop.ca/baesavage and enter ...

Sex/Life, Weird Dates, and the Future of Relationships with Bradley Hamilton

August 01, 2021 14:00 - 34 minutes - 24 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with the Actor, Model, and all around heart throb, Bradley Hamilton (@mr.bradleyhamilton). He's been featured on Murdock Mysteries, V Wars, Shadowhunters, The Expanse, Hometown Holiday, and recently, Sex/Life.  We unpack what it's like to date as an actor, and if he has rules around dating other actors and fans. We talk about the future of relationships, and how exciting it is to see ...

Overcoming Imposter Syndrome and Being Not At All "Starving" Artists ft Roxy Prima and Phoebe Cornog of Pandr Design Co

July 25, 2021 13:00 - 33 minutes - 23.1 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with the incredibly talented babes of Pandr Design Co, Roxy Prima and Phoebe Cornog.  We talk about how they chose to pursue their dreams and are fighting against the starving artist stereotype by making money doing it! Hear about the launch of their upcoming book Wonder Walls that can teach anyone how to make a mural in their own home.  We unpack the struggles they face with sexism i...

The Anti-Masker With A Passion For Dance ft. Cashmere Glow

July 18, 2021 14:00 - 37 minutes - 26 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's besties, Cashmere Glow about a Tinder date gone wrong. This was an episode that was recorded pre-launch of the podcast as Bae was working on getting comfortable over the mic and telling stories with friends. Follow the journey as I end up on a date with a man with a penchant for conspiracies and a hate for masks. Hear how the night unfolded and why it included both a...

My Kink Origins

July 11, 2021 18:00 - 28 minutes - 19.7 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we talk about kink.  As the world opens up and more and more of us are fully vaccinated, my libido is rising and I'm here for it! I share my personal kinks and talk a bit about where they came from and how it unfolded. Hear what's on my wish list coming up and why a bi MMF is at the top of the list. Want more? Go to www.baesavage.com

Tinder 101

July 04, 2021 16:00 - 35 minutes - 24.1 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we talk Tinder 101. As someone who has successfully met loads of great men on Tinder, we unpack some of my advice on how to set up your profile for success. How many photos should you have? Why is one not enough? Why shouldn't you include a picture with you and 14 other friends? This is a dating app not Where's Waldo, babes. Hear how I started with Tinder back in my hard hoe phase, and what i...

The Stress of Swimsuits

June 27, 2021 13:00 - 28 minutes - 19.4 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we talk bikini bodies. My journey with my relationship with swimsuits has been a rollercoaster since I was a kid. As someone whose body has been through big changes over the years with weight loss and weight gain, my views have changed on how I feel in swimwear drastically. I had a big realization this year. I didn’t understand why I was comfortable being photographed completely naked, tha...

*Your Place or WINE* "Can You Fit Your Entire Fist Into Your Mouth?" and Other Drunk Questions ft Edna Millions

June 20, 2021 15:00 - 36 minutes - 24.8 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. This episode is part of a spin-off series called Your Place or WINE, where Bae gets lit with a friend and shares some fun. In this episode, we're joined again by the gorgeous babe, Edna Millions. We found this ridiculous list of 29 questions and decided to answer a bunch in the middle of the night after 8 hours back on patios here in Toronto! Who would you let punch you directly in the face? What's the weirde...

Pride, Kink, and the Value of Seeing Yourself in Queer Stories ft Saeed Atabaki

June 13, 2021 16:00 - 45 minutes - 31.5 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's friends, Saeed Atabaki (@insta_you_read_me_). Pride month is upon us, and Saeed shares what it was like growing up queer in London, Ontario. We unpack the importance to the queer community of having books and films that are relatable to their personal stories. We cover recommendations to check out, and chat about how to be a better ally in queer spaces. We touch on th...

Self-Love, Self-Censorship, and The Backlash of Underwear Selfies ft Bella Mitchell

June 06, 2021 14:00 - 43 minutes - 30.1 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's new friends, Bella Mitchell (@missyinkbella). Hear how she worked her way from being a model to starting a magazine to working in food and wine and then cannabis. She shares her journey with her relationship with her body, and how she lost thousands of women followers when she decided to incorporate yoga into her life.  We unpack the challenges with being a curvy, pl...

Five Fantastic First Dates That Never Led to a Second

May 30, 2021 15:00 - 40 minutes - 27.9 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we talk about five fantastic first dates from my past that never made it to a second date.  Meet Trevor, the smokin' hot Calgary silver fox who was a hard 10. We shared half priced wine and a night of passion at a fancy boutique hotel that led to orgasms and a sleepover.  Meet Kerry, the adorable LA front man who I shot my shot with at a local bar and took him out on the town to show him aro...

Marriage, Monogamy, and Making Money ft Sam Kemp Upton Thomas

May 23, 2021 14:00 - 50 minutes - 34.9 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's friends, Samantha Kemp Upton Thomas. Hear how she married a man she met as a pre-teen, and how it evolved into an amazing marriage. We unpack what life was like during the pandemic and how she started not one, but two of her own businesses. We joke about this episode being a monogamy promotion piece, as Sam and her husband Matt have a truly wonderful relationship. We ...

Dating and Sobriety ft Danijela Kovac

May 16, 2021 14:00 - 47 minutes - 32.4 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of friends, Danijela Kovac. In this episode, we hear about Dani's journey through alcoholism and sobriety. We unpack what it's like to date as a sober person, and offer advice if you're dating someone who is sober. Hear how her path led her to start Teetotaler wines and how she's falling in love with herself hard. Be sure to check her out on social @teetotalerwines or by visit...

My Complicated Confidence

May 09, 2021 13:00 - 29 minutes - 20.3 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we talk about confidence. I have had a complicated relationship with confidence, as my body has gone through changes and so has my life. I'm ever-evolving into this amazing, boss, confident babe, and I'm realizing that it has more to do with how I'm caring for me than how I'm validated by others. 

Monogamy and Manifesting the Ideal Partner ft Ray Recek

May 02, 2021 14:00 - 50 minutes - 35 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's friends, Ray Recek. Freshly out of a relationship, Ray shares about the power of manifestation and how he's focusing on finding his ideal partner.  This was an impromptu episode amidst some virtual drinks where we chat about what life is like moving from the hustle and bustle of Toronto to the calm of Collingwood, Ontario. Hear the challenges of trying to Tinder in t...

Kurtis and His Plastic Covered Life

April 25, 2021 13:00 - 24 minutes - 17.1 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we talk about a date that took some interesting turns. We start with a night of passion on the dance floor with bottle service and shift to a "germaphobe's" plastic covered apartment. Hear about one of the strangest dick's I've encountered and the awkward run-in with the family in the morning. Not the spiciest but definitely one to remember. 

Telling Jokes to Naked Strangers ft Fiona O'Brien

April 18, 2021 13:00 - 36 minutes - 25.1 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's favourite local comedians, Fiona O'Brien. Hear about the ridiculous comedy shows Fiona books like a local sex toy party where she was paid both in cash and vibrators. Hear about her first experience doing stand-up comedy live at a sex club in Mississauga. Hilarity ensues! Be sure to follow Fiona on Instagram at @realfionao and check out the podcast she hosts with John...

Three Thrilling One Night Stands

April 11, 2021 14:00 - 26 minutes - 18 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we talk about a few memorable one night stands from the past. One night stands can be super fun, if post people know that's the plan! We talk about the value in out-of-town one night stands, and why that's the preference. Hear about spicy nights in London, England, Guelph, and Toronto before I lived here. DM me your favourite one night stand story to be featured on a future episode! Find me on...

It's Not You, It's Me - Nonmonogamy and Breakups

April 04, 2021 13:00 - 28 minutes - 19.5 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we talk about breakups. When you're nonmonogamous, it's important to remember that more relationships and more partners are going to mean more breakups. As someone who's gone through roughly 50 breakups, hear about the lessons that came out of some of the big ones. 

Dating with Anxiety and Depression ft Kyle J Birtch

March 28, 2021 15:00 - 29 minutes - 20.6 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of my closest friends, Kyle J Birtch (@kylejbirtch). Kyle runs a YouTube channel devoted to unpacking the challenges and realities of living with anxiety and depression. As a person who has dealt with depression and anxiety for the better part of the last decade, Kyle is trying to help bring awareness and share his personal experiences.  We talk about the mistakes I've made in...

*Your Place or HIGH* - My Original Sidekick, 6-Hour Tinder, and Eating Fast Food on Transit ft Em Up

March 21, 2021 13:00 - 37 minutes - 25.9 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. This is the second of a spin-off series called Your Place or HIGH, where Bae gets baked with a friend and shares some fun. In this episode, meet one of my oldest friends, Em Up. We talk about the ridiculousness of high school fashion, and how I reacted to seeing my ex-husband recently in public. We dig into the night that Em enjoyed Tinder for an evening and the drunk night out that ensued. We talk about makin...

Me, Myself, and Three Other Dudes - A Hot Night in Cuba (🌶🔥)

March 14, 2021 15:00 - 32 minutes - 22.6 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this spicy episode, hear the story of my first foursome. This wild night happened a couple of years ago in Cuba and was a monumental experience. From bingo in the pool and harmless flirting to dancing in a cave and all ending up in bed with three friends... it was wild. This night completely blew my mind... you're going to want to hear every word. Disclaimer: If you're related to me... you don't want to lis...

Being Behind the Camera and Shooting Authentically ft Samuel Engelking

March 07, 2021 16:00 - 25 minutes - 17.5 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with the amazing photographer behind the NOW Magazine's Love Your Body shoot, Samuel Engelking. (@samuelengelking) Hear why Sam decided to get into photography and why portraiture is his passion. Learn what it's like to be on the other side of the camera for this particular shoot, and how he helps make his subjects comfortable. We discuss the differences between photographing different...

Writing for Letterkenny and Breaking your Ankle for Wine ft Allie Pearse

February 18, 2021 02:00 - 32 minutes - 22.1 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's favourite local comedians, the absolutely hilarious and brilliant Allie Pearse. (@allie_pearse). Hear what it's like to write for Letterkenny and how much she loves doing stand up. As we recorded this episode on Valentine's Day, we talk about how we feel about this Hallmark holiday, and some of the advice we would give our younger selves about when, and when not, to p...

All Hail, Queen of the SLXTs ft Sim Thind

February 18, 2021 01:00 - 39 minutes - 27.1 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's friends, the creator of SLXT Merch (@slxtmerch), Sim Thind (@sim_thind). Sim started this amazing clothing line in 2020 and is passionate about reclaiming the word slut. Hear how she decided to become an entrepreneur and why she's a self-proclaimed SLXT. In this episode we bring you your first Babecave Lightning Round, asking questions our guest hadn't heard prior to ...

Oh, Does My Naked Body Make You Uncomfortable? ft Emma Hewson

February 14, 2021 15:00 - 58 minutes - 40 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's new friends, Emma Hewson. (@emma.louise.hewson on Instagram) Emma is a musician and a teacher and was also recently photographed for Now Magazine's Love Your Body 2021 feature. Hear more about why we decided to participate in the shoot, how it felt to share these images online, and both the positive and not-so-positive responses we both faced. Learn about the complica...

A Virgin and a Whore Walk into a Sex Club ft Cashmere Glow

February 07, 2021 04:00 - 36 minutes - 24.9 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's besties, Cashmere Glow. As their time living as roomies here in the Babecave comes to a close, they reminisce about their first time individually at Oasis, a Toronto sex club. These circumstances were wildly different between the two, get ready for this spicy talk. This is also another chapter of Bae's partnership with Aiden and his alter ego from episode three. 

He Was My Friend, Until He Wasn't ft Carlen Costa

January 31, 2021 15:00 - 49 minutes - 33.9 MB

TRIGGER WARNING: The episode includes a discussion regarding a recent sexual assault. If you're not in a place to hear this content, please do not listen past the first 20 minutes. Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's friends, Carlen Costa. Carlen is a Sexologist and Psychotherapist, Founder of The Everyday Goddess and the Goddess Foundation.  In this episode, we chat about why she got into the work s...

Jokes, Pies, and Self-Improvement ft John Mostyn

January 24, 2021 15:00 - 50 minutes - 34.4 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one another of Bae's favourite local comedians, John Mostyn (@mostyncomedy). The first cis-het man welcomed onto the show!  In this conversation, we talk about how he shifted from doing comedy to starting an amazing and successful vegan pie business (@thepielander). We talk about sober dates, accents, and being called daddy. Learn what it was like to date for John in 2020, and wh...

The Influential Eight - Part 2

January 17, 2021 16:00 - 28 minutes - 19.3 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, learn about the second half of the Influential Eight, the 8 men outside of my primary partners who helped to influence how I view relationships and taught me important lessons about love and sex.  Shoutout to everyone who's showered me with love and positivity since recently being featured along with 5 other beautiful humans for Now Magazine's Love Your Body 2021 issue. If you haven't seen it...

Non-Binary Tinder Fails and the Flavours of Awful ft. Breton Lalama

January 10, 2021 16:00 - 29 minutes - 20.6 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's friends, Breton Lalama. Breton is a hilarious and smokin' hot non-binary, nonmonogamous human who works as a stand-up comedian, actor, and writer! Learn what it was like coming from a small town to the big city, traveling with the production Hair, and what kind of conversations come up on Tinder as a trans/non-binary person. We also talk about the weirdest porn we've ...

Bad Sex, Slug Dicks, and an Introduction to Only Fans ft. Kylee Francirek

January 03, 2021 14:00 - 31 minutes - 22 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's friends/ favourite local servers/ Only Fans star, Kylee Francirek. Learn about what it's like to be a babe in the service industry, what jealousy looks like in new nonmonogamous relationships, why no one wants to get 'slug dick fucked', and what it's like to have a career on Only Fans. (@kyleeunlikely_ on Instagram)

Bad Sex, Slug Dicks, and an Introduction to Only Fans

January 03, 2021 14:00 - 31 minutes - 22 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, we chat with one of Bae's friends/ favourite local servers/ Only Fans star, Kylee Francirek. Learn about what it's like to be a babe in the service industry, what jealousy looks like in new nonmonogamous relationships, why no one wants to get 'slug dick fucked', and what it's like to have a career on Only Fans. (@kyleeunlikely_ on Instagram)

The Influential Eight - Part 1

December 25, 2020 21:00 - 26 minutes - 18.2 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, learn about the first three of the Influential Eight, the 8 men outside of my primary partners who helped to influence how I view relationships and taught me important lessons about love and sex. 

*Your Place or HIGH* Parks, Parking Garages, and Regret Bangs ft Edna Millions

December 20, 2020 15:00 - 28 minutes - 19.3 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. This is the first of a spin-off series called Your Place or HIGH, where Bae gets baked with a friend and shares some fun. In this episode, welcome back the amazing Edna Millions, and hear about outdoor sex, nude etiquette, and orgasms from the deep past.

The Twelve Days of Tinder - BONUS

December 16, 2020 12:00 - 3 minutes - 2.55 MB

Merry Christmas, Babes. What did strangers give to you on Tinder this holiday season? Unsolicited dick pics... bad pick up lines... or just some good ol' heightened anxiety.

My Husband, My Boyfriend, and How I Found Non-Monogamy

December 13, 2020 18:00 - 28 minutes - 19.6 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Bae Savage. In this episode, learn more about the history of how I stumbled into the world of non-monogamy, how my relationships have evolved, and how I'm navigating this journey.  

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