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Your Place or Mine

170 episodes - English - Latest episode: 20 days ago - ★★★★★ - 1 rating

Join comedian Jessie Olsen on her adventures in search for love, laughs, and hopefully a great lay. Enjoy a mix of solo episodes and conversations with friends and comedians. We chat about comedy, dating life in Toronto, and navigating this outrageous world we live in. Grab a glass of wine and listen in, babe. Find me on instagram @jessie__olsen 💋💋 For more: jessieolsencomedy.com

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S03E21. Big City Living & Big City Dating ft Angie StMars

February 23, 2023 13:00 - 1 hour - 41.6 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by comedian and friend, Angie StMars. Hear why Angie moved to Toronto from Winnipeg and what's it's been like so far. She shares being floored by the dating scene of opportunities here and why most of her dates are going well. We talk about messy sex stories and solve the age old question... fuck, marry, kill - Danny Devito, Mr Bean, and Shrek. Thanks for joining me, Angie! Don...

S03E20. Sad Pits, Solo Valentine's, and Spiralling Upwards

February 16, 2023 17:00 - 39 minutes - 27 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this solo episode, I update you on the ebbs and flows of how my year is going so far. Don't worry, this isn't another Valentine's Day episode where I cry, babes! I was in a sad pit last week, hence why there wasn't an episode, and I unpack a bit about the spiral within. From bombing to breakups, I chat about the stories we tell ourselves when things go wrong. Hear about some changes I'm making to dating...

S03E19. Escaping "Goblin Mode" and Changing Habits with Psilocybin ft May from Vellum Health

February 02, 2023 15:00 - 46 minutes - 31.7 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by the owner of Vellum Health, May. We talk about some of the new options Vellum has for micro-dosing and macro-dosing and discuss which blend is right for which activity. I share how I've been using Vellum over the past six months and the benefits I've seen with both nights out and managing my anxiety. We talk about moving into the new year and changing habits, and how psilocyb...

S03E18. Boundaries, Bathhouses, & Being a Sexy Baby ft Sasha Mark

January 26, 2023 16:00 - 56 minutes - 38.8 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by comedian and friend, Sasha Mark. We talk about getting into comedy and the shift from Winnipeg to Vancouver with a couple of very successful shows. Hear about dating rules surrounding comedy and why boundaries are important. Listen in to hear why he flew to LA for a hookup, and about a recent encounter with a surprising and hot ask. Sasha shares stories about bathhouses, grou...

Comedy, Community, and Claiming Your Own Space ft Afrakaren

January 19, 2023 16:00 - 1 hour - 44.1 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by comedian and new friend, Afrakaren. Afrakaren and I chat about how she got into comedy, both the first and second time. We unpack what it's like to be a big, bold, black woman in mostly white, male-led rooms and how she's making waves early in the game. We talk about the importance of a supportive community of women and why you've got to take risks and opportunities as they c...

S03E17. Comedy, Community, and Claiming Your Own Space ft Afrakaren

January 19, 2023 16:00 - 1 hour - 44.1 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by comedian and new friend, Afrakaren. Afrakaren and I chat about how she got into comedy, both the first and second time. We unpack what it's like to be a big, bold, black woman in mostly white, male-led rooms and how she's making waves early in the game. We talk about the importance of a supportive community of women and why you've got to take risks and opportunities as they c...

S03E16. Marriage, Mics, & Missed Connections ft Keegan Hawkeswood

January 12, 2023 13:00 - 56 minutes - 38.9 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by comedian and dear friend, Keegan Hawkeswood. Keegan and I chat about dipping his toes into comedy in his twenties but not really going for it until his thirties, after his time in the MTV mix. Hear why he got married for the party and why it erases any other anniversary. We chat about the importance of surrounding yourself with the right people in comedy, and how we're trying...

S03E15. Fucking After 40 ft Allie Kulay

January 05, 2023 13:00 - 50 minutes - 34.7 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by my best friend, Allie Kulay. Allie and I discuss what sex looks like as we age as women. Since moving to Toronto 6 years ago, Allie has been on a bit of journey. Hear how she's having better sex by being loud and unapologetic, and the importance of asking for what you want. Hear about her spicy sex club stories and her first experience with group play. Grab a glass of wine an...

Fucking After 40 ft Allie Kulay

January 05, 2023 13:00 - 50 minutes - 34.7 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by my best friend, Allie Kulay. Allie and I discuss what sex looks like as we age as women. Since moving to Toronto 6 years ago, Allie has been on a bit of journey. Hear how she's having better sex by being loud and unapologetic, and the importance of asking for what you want. Hear about her spicy sex club stories and her first experience with group play. Grab a glass of wine an...

S03E14: Goodbye 2022, Hello Spontaneity

December 15, 2022 21:00 - 32 minutes - 22.3 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I reflect back on 2022. This is the final episode of 2022 as I take a break for the holidays. Listen in to hear how I thought this year would go and what actually happened. I talk about how my career and comedy has been lead by spontaneity and how I'm trying to incorporate more of that in 2023. As an inherent planner, hear why this new approach is challenging but proving fruitful. Happy ho...

S03E14. Goodbye 2022, Hello Spontaneity

December 15, 2022 21:00 - 32 minutes - 22.3 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I reflect back on 2022. This is the final episode of 2022 as I take a break for the holidays. Listen in to hear how I thought this year would go and what actually happened. I talk about how my career and comedy has been lead by spontaneity and how I'm trying to incorporate more of that in 2023. As an inherent planner, hear why this new approach is challenging but proving fruitful. Happy ho...

S03E13. Lessons From 15 Years of Monogamy ft Moira LePage

December 08, 2022 05:00 - 53 minutes - 37 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by comedian and dear friend, Moira LePage. Moira and I chat about getting into comedy and ensuring we're keeping it intentionally fun. Hear some of the lessons she's learned in her 15 years of monogamy with her partner and why structure has been an important piece. We chat about independence and connection, and how balancing the two is key. Moira shares some advice on being sobe...

S03E12. TV Marriage, Two Person Comedy & Taking Nudes ft Dana Smith

December 01, 2022 16:00 - 1 hour - 47.1 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by comedian and new friend, Dana Smith. Dana recently moved here with her husband, Tim Gray, both comedians from Winnipeg. We talk about the shift to Toronto and the early views on what the Toronto comedy scene looks like as solo performers and a duo. Listen in to the story of how they were married on an episode of CBC The Debaters after she turned him down previously in Paris. ...

S03E11. Finally... a Solo Episode Where I Don't Cry

November 24, 2022 13:00 - 32 minutes - 22.2 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I’m in a great fuckin' mood. Finally, a solo episode where I don't cry! My solo eps have been a little more vulnerable but I turned a corner this week and wanted to share some of this positivity. Hear how I'm feeling being back in my hoe phase and how I've changed how I'm viewing this upcoming single Christmas. Hear how I'd learned how I've cockblocked myself from comics but why there may ...

S03E10. Touring, Makeouts & Being Horny for Hot Springs ft Benji Rothman

November 15, 2022 13:00 - 1 hour - 44.4 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by comedian and new friend, Benji Rothman. Benji is a touring comic from Winnipeg, and we hear what life is like on the road. We talk about dating and being a makeout slut, as well as chat about relationships evolving over time. After sharing a spicy hot springs story, we call up Benji's girlfriend for clarification and she gets in on the conversation. Would Benji be into a four...

S03E09. The Shift From Bro Comedy to Authenticity ft Al Val

November 07, 2022 13:00 - 58 minutes - 40.3 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by comedian and dear friend, Al Val. Val shares about why she first got into comedy, and how she's shifted from bro comedy to a more authentic act throughout her transition. We talk stage presence, instagram honesty, and why she'd rather you correct someone when she's misgendered. Hear why Val is one of the most root-for-able comics I know, and the relatability behind going thro...

S03E08. Not Unlovable But Undateable?

October 31, 2022 15:00 - 39 minutes - 27 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I’m reflecting on the last year. I’m celebrating one year of producing comedy shows in the next couple of weeks and have been reflecting a lot over the last year. It’s feeling confusing for me that my career and comedy have really flourished, but I’m still feeling stuck in the relationship category in my life. I unpack the frustrating feelings of how many positive experiences have happened...

S03E08. Not Unlovable But Undateable?

October 31, 2022 15:00 - 39 minutes - 27 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I’m reflecting on the last year. I’m celebrating one year of producing comedy shows in the next couple of weeks and have been reflecting a lot over the last year. It’s feeling confusing for me that my career and comedy have really flourished, but I’m still feeling stuck in the relationship category in my life. I unpack the frustrating feelings of how many positive experiences have happened...

S03E07. Comedy, Couples, & Being Cuckoo for Kitty Cats ft Sidney Cummings

October 24, 2022 18:00 - 52 minutes - 35.9 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by comedian and dear friend, Sidney Cummings. Sidney shares about her intro into Toronto comedy and why a femme forward mic was the best start. We talk about her current relationship and why his connection to her friends is so important. Hear about the multiple men who ended things by fleeing the country, and about regret bangs. Thanks for joining me, Sidney! Don't forget to fo...

S03E06. Comedy, Producing, & Looking For Love ft Susan Waycik

October 17, 2022 16:00 - 1 hour - 42.2 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by iconic comedy producer and new friend, Susan Waycik of Waycik Productions. Susan talks about producing her show BFF Variety hour and how she handles bookings. Hear a bit of free advice on running a successful show and why it's important to understand who you're running the show for. We talk about the search for love, why there's an appeal to 'comedy couples', and why you shou...

S03E05. Writing, Dating, & Being a Drag King ft Kali Williams

October 12, 2022 02:00 - 57 minutes - 39.4 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by my good friend and fellow comedian, Kali Williams. Kali talks about getting into comedy and running mics and shows at the Fox and the Fiddle. Hear about his writing process and how he workshops jokes on stage. Kali tells us about his drag king persona Papa Xannie and the differences between those two sides of performance. We talk about dating someone in the industry, and the ...

S03E04. Bad Jokes, Silly Jokes, & Being A Dirty Little Bird ft Melanie Dahling

October 03, 2022 12:00 - 59 minutes - 40.8 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by my good friend and fellow comedian, Melanie Dahling Melanie talks about her start in comedy in Winnipeg and the shift to Toronto. We chat about men telling outdated jokes and dealing with weird comments from audience members after shows. Hear how we approach joke writing and why the intention of the joke is just as important as the punchlines.  Thanks for joining me, Melanie!...

S03E03. Comedy Writing, Being on TV & Understanding Asexuality ft Brendan D’Souza

September 26, 2022 12:00 - 47 minutes - 32.9 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by my good friend and fellow comedian, Brendan D'Souza. Brendan shares why they got into comedy and we chat a bit about the writing process and staying true to who you are. Hear about their appearance on 1 Queen 5 Queers and why it was an interesting theme for someone who identifies as asexual. We unpack asexuality and demisexuality and discuss some of the misconceptions. Thanks...

S03E02. Comedy, Confessions, & Clubhouse Sandwiches ft Tim Nicholson

September 19, 2022 12:00 - 1 hour - 43.6 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  In this episode, I'm joined by my good friend and fellow comedian, Tim Nicholson. Tim is a long time podcast listener and first time guest. We talk about how we got to know each-other, why he enjoys listening, and how the discomfort was a draw. Hear how Tim got into comedy and why I would have hated him if I met him in his early days. We chat about going to mics, the best first date food, and why the oral ...

S03E01. A New Season: Horny for Holding Hands

September 11, 2022 03:00 - 41 minutes - 28.4 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen.  After a much needed break, season three is finally here! I missed you! In this episode, I talk about being horny for holding hands. Heads up babes, this is a bit of an emotional episode but I promise the next batch will be a little more fun and flirty. Hear how my summer went and why this weekend has been the roughest in a while. I talk about grappling with my relationship goals and why I'm considering mon...

Five Things I've Learned in 35 Years

June 20, 2022 20:00 - 34 minutes - 23.8 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, I talk about turning 35 and the lessons I've learned. As I hit another milestone, I've been thinking a lot about aging. Do I have to stop being a slut at a certain age? Why is society telling me I have to settle down? Why are so many things deemed inappropriate after a certain age, and can my generation do things differently? Hear 5 different lessons I've learned and why I'm choosing to pri...

Throwback Episode - Not Your Average Threesome (🌶🔥)

June 13, 2022 16:00 - 33 minutes - 23.2 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we're throwing it back to one of the earliest podcast episodes... season 1, episode 6. It's been a super busy week and I'm dogsitting for friends down by the water, so instead of recording a new episode I'm posting a replay of an early episode that has been a fan favourite. I have a lot of new listeners of the podcast who haven't necessarily gone back and listened to the early ones, so I'm ...

Feeling Disconnected From My Polyamory

June 06, 2022 20:00 - 30 minutes - 20.7 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, I talk about feeling a disconnection from my polyamorous self. I’ve been thinking a lot about being single and how I’m feeling about my nonmonogamy. It was socially irresponsible to be nonmonogamous over the past couple of years and as more people get out there and date again I’m feeling really conflicted about where I’m at. Do I mention nonmonogamy right out the gate? Would I be open to be...

On-Stage Fashion, Tinder, & Mutual Ghosting ft Foad HP

May 30, 2022 19:00 - 55 minutes - 38.3 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we have another new guest in the babecave, comedian, actor, and writer Foad HP. We talk about on stage fashion at comedy shows and why he splurged for flashy shoes and a hot jacket for Winnipeg Comedy Festival. Hear how we feel about ghosting and breakups, and when it's okay to ghost. We talk about infidelity, Tinder in Toronto, and neighbourhood bangs. From comedy to dating to sex,  this e...

Hot Babe Summer 2022

May 23, 2022 19:00 - 26 minutes - 18.1 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, I talk about my plans for having the best hot babe summer 2022! As the world opens up a little bit more and the weather warms up, I'm feeling inspired. Hear why I'm focusing on shooting my shot, making out, and developing harmless crushes! I talk about my goals for this summer and how I'm going to ensure my summer 2022 is the hottest summer with alllll the hot babe energy! Do you have sexy ...

Superliking Your Way Into a Stolen Identity ft James O'Hara

May 16, 2022 19:00 - 43 minutes - 30.1 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we have a good friend joining me, comedian James O'Hara. Hear an absolutely outrageous story of how a Tinder Superlike turned into a relationship which then turned into James getting his identity stolen. We discuss the depths of just how wild the situation got, and why you should ask someone on date one whether or not they're using a fake name. From the importance to buying a bat to learnin...

Monogamy vs Nonmonogamy & Dating as a Comic ft Haris Nadeem

May 09, 2022 19:00 - 49 minutes - 33.8 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we have a good friend joining me, comedian Haris Nadeem. We chat about how to be a better supporter of women at mics and what it's like dating as a comedian. Hear some of the pros and cons of choosing monogamy vs nonmonogamy and why being open minded to both can be beneficial. Haris is single and on the market babes... so feel free to slide into those DMs. Be sure you're following Haris on...

Part Time Comedian, Part Time Sex Work Hobbyist ft Kelsey Ryan

May 02, 2022 17:00 - 45 minutes - 31.2 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we have a new friend joining me, comedian Kelsey Ryan! Hear about her new open mic in Roncesvalles, Comedy for Girls! We talk about the importance of creating comfy spaces for babes to come and try out comedy. Hear why she prefers to be a part time sex hobbyist instead of a full time sex worker, and about her experience with sugar daddies on Seeking Arrangement. Be sure you're following Ke...

Allow Me To Reintroduce Myself

April 25, 2022 20:00 - 23 minutes - 16.3 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. It's been a year and a half since Your Place or Mine began! In this episode, I figured I'd reintroduce myself to any of my new babe followers! The pod has evolved over the past 18 months, and I know there are a lot of new babes listening in. I have so much appreciation to those who've stuck here since the beginning, and am excited to welcome all you new babes to the babe cave. Hear a bit about me and what m...

Marriage, Monogamy, & Navigating Trick Questions ft Gordon Hecht

April 18, 2022 18:00 - 50 minutes - 34.5 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we have a good friend joining me, comedian and actor Gordon Hecht. We chat about how his Covid wedding went awry, but how the shift turned it into the perfect day. We talk about trick questions that come up in relationships, and some of the wild times he had before he met his wife. From adorable monogamy and falling in love to accidental "I love you"s and incompatible kinks, this episode ha...

The Evolution of my Kinks

April 11, 2022 21:00 - 31 minutes - 21.4 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we talk about the evolution of my current kinks.  Hear how my kink preferences have evolved over the past little while and why certain things are getting me off more than others. I talk about how my solo play time has evolved and how I’m surprising myself with what is really turning me on. From the differences between pain and impact, how emotions tie into kink, and why I’m getting off to g...

A Decade in the Industry as the Goofiest Man in Comedy ft Marc Hallworth

April 04, 2022 15:00 - 53 minutes - 36.7 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we have a good friend joining me, the goofiest man in comedy, Marc Hallworth! Marc shares his journey into comedy from Calgary to Toronto. We chat about dating as a comic and prioritizing your career and some of the challenges that come with that. We talk about performing in different rooms and how the host can make or break an evening.  Be sure you're following Marc on Instagram at https:...

The Magic of Micro-dosing with Vellum Health ft May Jacob

March 28, 2022 18:00 - 35 minutes - 24.2 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we chat with May Jacob, the owner of Vellum Health.  https://www.vellumhealth.com/ May shares how Vellum got started and why she's in the world of psilocybin. We discuss who micro-dosing is good for, and some of the common myths and misconceptions around the industry. I share how I've used psilocybin in the past, and why I'm trying it now to help with mental health. We chat a bit about the ...

Introducing Your Place or Mine After Dark... Spicy NSFW Patreon

March 21, 2022 20:00 - 29 minutes - 20.5 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we chat about my brand new spicy NSFW Patreon... Your Place or Mine After Dark. Find it at: https://www.patreon.com/yourplaceormineTO I'm SO excited to launch this new platform. I create spicy audio tracks for two main groups of babes. 1. Babes who are just like me, love D, love to live vicariously through the spicy stories of others. Listen in to hear about some of my favourite date night...

An Honest Approach To Improving Mental Health ft John Mostyn

March 14, 2022 16:00 - 45 minutes - 31.2 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we have a repeat guest. We're happy to welcome comedian John Mostyn back into the babe cave! John shares a new podcast he's about to launch called Deadbeat 2 Athlete. Hear how he's choosing to share his honest and open journey with his own mental health, and how he's doing things differently. We talk about the issues with classic self help podcasts and books that make wild promises about ho...

Movement, Mindfulness, & Masturbation ft Health Coach Allie Kulay

March 07, 2022 19:00 - 40 minutes - 27.7 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we chat with one of Jessie's closest friends, Health Coach Allie Kulay. Allie shares how she's helping women just like her take control of their health in positive and non-restrictive ways. We chat about the battle between wanting a particular body type but also being body-positive and the complications that stem from that. Hear how Allie helps her clients incorporate movement and mindfulne...

Let's Talk About HOT BABE ENERGY

February 28, 2022 19:00 - 27 minutes - 19.2 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we chat about HOT BABE ENERGY. It's been a cool couple of weeks since the heavy Valentine's Day episode. I chat about what HOT BABE ENERGY is all about and why it's a focus for me in 2022. Hear how I've owned being a babe, and incorporated it into my self love journey and my connections with others. We talk about the upcoming HOT BABE ENERGY comedy show coming up in March, and the movement ...

The Youngest Boys and the Oldest Men

February 21, 2022 22:00 - 28 minutes - 19.8 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we chat about the oldest and youngest men I've hooked up with. Inspired by recent events, I've been thinking a lot about my dating age range. How young is too young to hook up with? How old is too old? History has shown me that young men aren't usually impressive but that myth was busted this week after a fantastic hookup with a 23 year old. Hear about some of the poor experiences of the yo...

I Don't Want To Be My Own Damn Valentine

February 14, 2022 18:00 - 26 minutes - 18.1 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we chat about Valentine's Day. DISCLAIMER: This is a heavy, emotional episode. If you're not having a good mental health day, maybe skip this episode or come back to it later. A part of running this podcast is showing you my authentic self, and that means both the good days and the bad ones. Today is a bad one. I'm really struggling with Valentine's Day this year. In this episode, I share ...

The Wild World of Open Mic Comedy ft Kari Johnson

February 06, 2022 17:00 - 55 minutes - 38.2 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we chat with one of Jessie's favourite comedians and dear friend, Kari Johnson. Kari shares what it was like getting into comedy in Ireland and how she stumbled into it as a volunteer. Hear about her journey moving from the US to Toronto and what it was like working her way into the Toronto comedy scene. We unpack issues of toxicity in the industry and what we're hoping to impact in the fut...

Toronto, Tinder, & Taking Off On TikTok ft Hilary Henderson

January 30, 2022 14:00 - 54 minutes - 37.4 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode, we chat with one of Jessie's favourite local comedians, Hilary Henderson. Hilary shares how she shifted from being a Hamilton serial monogamist to trying things differently in Toronto. Hear how she got into stand up comedy, and why this recent lockdown spurred some TikTok fame. We talk about the trials of tindering in Toronto and why being monogamish just makes sense when you're in the 'cou...

Stop Having Orgasm-less Sex

January 23, 2022 17:00 - 40 minutes - 27.6 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode we talk about why you need to stop having sex that doesn't include your own orgasm. I know sex is different for everyone, but I'm sick and tired of women assuming it's normal to have sex without getting off. I talk about how I unlocked different levels of my own orgasms and how my own self pleasure played a huge part. I talk about how to communicate your needs with a partner and why you need...

How To Meet Partners IRL

January 16, 2022 22:00 - 31 minutes - 21.4 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode we talk about meeting partners IRL (in real life). I share five strategies I'm using this year to meet men in the real world. I hoping to meet someone wonderful this year, and truly don't believe I'll find him on an app. With Ontario still being fairly locked down, the odds are against us but I'm optimistic! Find out why I'm growing my network of platonic male friends and the value of a soli...

2021 in the Babe Cave: a Year in Review

January 09, 2022 14:00 - 34 minutes - 23.8 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode we look back on 2021 in the Babe Cave! In this ‘year in review’ episode, we talk about the most downloaded episodes in 2021! Hear the top 5 personal episodes and why you babes clearly love the spice. I share the top 5 guest episodes as well, and include shoutouts to Dan Udy, Bradley Hamilton, Dylan Tower from Oasis Aqualounge, Natalie Norman, and Kylee Francirek. Shoutout to some of my spon...

Saying Goodbye to Bae Savage

January 02, 2022 22:00 - 22 minutes - 15.4 MB

Well hello there, babes. Welcome back to Your Place or Mine, hosted by Jessie Olsen. In this episode I share a big announcement... saying goodbye to my alter ego name, Bae Savage! It's been a great ride but time to say goodbye to Bae Savage and come out at Jessie Olsen. In this episode, hear why I'm making this shift, why I decided to quit my job, and what 2022 is going to look like for me. Thanks for the support babes! NOTE: I mentioned my new insta name is @yourplaceormineto but it's act...

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