Your Marriage Matters
209 episodes - English - Latest episode: 12 days ago - ★★★★★ - 17 ratingsThis podcast is for couples that are engaged to be married or seriously dating with an eye on getting married. We are here to help you prepare for a long life together before you even say I do!
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YMM 189 ... The Fundamentals for Building A More Vibrant, Healthy Marriage!
May 03, 2024 11:13 - 19 minutes - 37.9 MBThe Fundamentals for Building A More Vibrant, Healthy Marriage! Hey gang ... Welcome to Your Marriage Matters episode 189 - The Fundamentals for Building A More Vibrant, Healthy Marriage! Since we are doing a new YouTube channel. we felt like it was important to go back to the fundamentals as a reset for everything we are going to be covering in the days and weeks ahead! The fundamentals we are going to be covering during this episode are simple but powerful! They are: Create a "shared v...
YMM 188 I Am NOT the Enemy ... The Power of Solving Problems As A Team!
April 26, 2024 09:48 - 15 minutes - 30.8 MBProblems, struggles, and conflict are signs of a healthy relationship! Two imperfect people working to build a life together in an imperfect world are bound to face struggles. This is due to the mere fact that they: Are male and female Grew up in different households Have different personality styles Have different views on sex, money, household roles and responsibilities, parenting, and a dozen other subjects. All of this, and more, means there will be conflict! What matters is ho...
YMM 187 ... 3 Life Lessons From the Road!!!
April 19, 2024 07:44 - 26 minutes - 52.2 MBJoin Jim & Christie Jacobus on episode 187 of Your Marriage Matters as they delve into the profound lessons learned from their adventurous journey as full-time RV travelers. In this insightful episode, 3 Life Lessons From the Road, they explore: Beauty Everywhere: Explore the breathtaking landscapes of America through the eyes of seasoned travelers. Discover how every corner of this country holds its own unique charm and beauty, reminding us to appreciate the world around us. People's Spl...
YMM 186 ... The Trust Factor: 5 Essential Keys for a Thriving Relationship!!!
April 12, 2024 07:56 - 28 minutes - 54.8 MBWelcome back to Your Marriage Matters with Jim & Christie Jacobus! In this episode, we delve into the crucial topic of trust in marriage and why it's the cornerstone of a strong, enduring relationship. Trust isn't just a nice-to-have; it's the foundation upon which emotional connection, communication, stability, and growth thrive. In this episode, we discuss: Foundation of Emotional Connection: How trust lays the groundwork for deep emotional intimacy. Enhances Communication: The role o...
YMM 185 ... The 5 R’s of Spring Cleaning Your Marriage!
April 05, 2024 11:06 - 7 minutes - 17 MB🎙️ Join Jim and Christie Jacobus on Your Marriage Matters as they dive deep into "The 5 R’s of Spring Cleaning Your Marriage"! 🌷 In this episode, they discuss practical strategies to revitalize your relationship and create a stronger bond this spring. From reorganizing your time together to renovating your finances, refreshing appreciation, revitalizing shared goals, and renewing your commitment, Jim and Christie provide actionable tips for couples to strengthen their marriages. Tune in ...
YMM 184 ... This 1 Idea Can Be A Game Changer In YOUR Marriage!
March 29, 2024 10:00 - 24 minutes - 48.8 MBIn this episode of Your Marriage Matters podcast with Jim & Christie Jacobus we talk about the one habit that can change your marriage. We are going to introduce couples to the idea of having a weekly meeting. Doing so is a great habit and can help get couples on the same page in a busy day to day life. Weekly meetings can ,,, Improved Communication: Regular meetings provide a dedicated time for couples to discuss important matters, express their feelings, and share updates about thei...
YMM 183 ... Avoid These 5 Relationship Pitfalls or Risk Losing Your Marriage!!!
March 22, 2024 06:11 - 30 minutes - 60.3 MBJoin Jim & Christie Jacobus as they dive deep into the crucial topic of the 5 things that can slowly erode the foundation of your marriage. In this eye-opening episode, they discuss: Communication Issues: Uncover the secrets to effective communication that can transform your relationship. Lack of Appreciation: Discover the power of showing gratitude and appreciation to reignite the spark in your marriage. Ignoring Conflict Resolution: Learn practical strategies to resolve conflicts con...
YMM 182 ... Unlocking the Secrets of a Thriving Marriage Through Worship!
March 15, 2024 10:02 - 33 minutes - 65.2 MBJoin Jim & Christie Jacobus on a transformative journey in this episode of Your Marriage Matters. Discover the profound truth that a great marriage is deeply rooted in worship, illuminating three essential facets of worship: Worship God as Creator: By acknowledging God as the creator of all things, including your marriage, you unlock the door to understanding the divine design behind your relationship. Worship God as Sovereign: Embrace the sovereignty of God in your marriage, recognizing H...
YMM 181 ... The Heart of Marriage: Insights from the One Night For Oneness Conference
March 08, 2024 11:31 - 24 minutes - 47.8 MBTune in to this episode of Your Marriage Matters, where we reflect on our recent participation at the One Night For Oneness Marriage Conference. Delve into the profound lessons we shared, including the significance of the apple tree analogy in understanding marriage dynamics. Explore why conventional approaches like threats, manipulation, and guilt fail to address the core issues in relationships, and how focusing on the heart is the key to lasting change. Gain valuable insights into recogni...
YMM 180 ... Love's Echo: Insights from One Night For Oneness Marriage Conference!
March 01, 2024 10:04 - 20 minutes - 40.4 MBIn this highly anticipated episode, Jim & Christie Jacobus take you on an enlightening journey through the heart of marriage. Fresh from their engaging presentation at the One Night For Oneness Marriage Conference, they delve into profound truths that form the bedrock of enduring relationships: Romance as a Result, Not a Cause: Discover why Jim & Christie believe that romance isn't just a spark but the radiant outcome of a robust foundation in marriage. Accountability in Communication: Jo...
YMM 179 ... Love IS: Unlocking the Secrets to Lasting Love With Paul Tripp!
February 23, 2024 14:34 - 22 minutes - 44.6 MBWelcome back to Your Marriage Matters! As we wrap up February, the month of love, we're diving into the profound wisdom of Paul David Tripp's "Love is" statements. Join us as we break down these five powerful statements to help strengthen and deepen your relationship. Being Committed to Unity: Learn why it's more important to prioritize unity and understanding over winning arguments or being right. Discover how embracing unity can transform your relationship dynamics. Investing Time in Com...
YMM 178 ... One Size Doesn't Fit All! How To Custom Fit YOUR Marriage
February 16, 2024 10:59 - 36 minutes - 66.9 MBIn this week's episode of Your Marriage Matters, hosts Jim and Christie Jacobus dive deep into the dynamics of relationships, armed with insights from The 5 Love Languages, Relational Needs, and DISC personality profiles. Discover how understanding and embracing our differences can strengthen the bond between partners. By recognizing and honoring each other's unique ways of expressing love and fulfilling relational needs, couples can foster deeper connection and harmony in their marriages....
YMM 177 ... The 5 Stages of Marriage: Embracing the Journey of Growth
February 09, 2024 21:26 - 24 minutes - 48 MBWelcome to Your Marriage Matters with Jim & Christie Jacobus! Embark on a journey through the dynamic stages of love with us as we explore the intricacies of relationships and the beauty of enduring commitment. Join us as we delve into the fascinating phases every couple encounters: · Infatuation/Honeymoon Phase: Experience the exhilarating rush of passion and adoration as couples revel in the blissful haze of newfound love. Discover the magic of spontaneous gestures and the joy o...
YMM 176 ... Three Ways To Make This Your “Best Valentine’s Day Ever”!!!
February 02, 2024 11:00 - 11 minutes - 23 MBYour Marriage Matters Podcast with Jim & Christie Jacobus: Pre Valentine's Day Edition! Are you ready to elevate your Valentine's Day experience? Join the dynamic duo, Jim and Christie, on this week's podcast episode, where they unravel the secrets to making this romantic occasion truly unforgettable. • Be Proactive: Don't settle for ordinary! Jim and Christie advocate for breaking free from the last-minute scramble and share insightful tips on being proactive in finding that perf...
YMM 175 ... Beyond Beliefs: Crafting a Love-Filled Marriage with Positive Habits!
January 26, 2024 09:00 - 19 minutes - 38.1 MBWelcome to another episode of the Your Marriage Matters podcast with Jim & Christie Jacobus! In episode 175, we dive into the essence of building critical habits in your marriage. 🌟 Building upon our recent discussions on how core beliefs shape thoughts, actions, and ultimately habits, this episode is a must-listen for anyone seeking to create positive habits from the foundation of their core beliefs. 🤔 Understanding the Power of Habits: Discover the profound impact habits have on ...
YMM 174 ... Believe, Think, Act: How To Create a Positive Marriage Mindset!!!
January 19, 2024 11:00 - 25 minutes - 49.2 MB🚀 Join us in this eye-opening episode of "Your Marriage Matters." Together, let's delve into the fascinating interplay between our core beliefs, thoughts, and actions within the intricate tapestry of marriage. 🔄 The Core Belief Cascade: In this episode we unpack the profound impact of core beliefs on the trajectory of a marriage. We will unravel how negative core beliefs, such as viewing marriage as a trap, can set off a chain reaction leading to negative thoughts and actions. Converse...
YMM 173 ... Going Beyond Beliefs: Crafting the Right Mindset for An Awesome Marriage!
January 15, 2024 17:48 - 21 minutes - 42.1 MBIn episode 173 of Your Marriage Matters podcast, Jim and Christie Jacobus delve into the critical importance of cultivating the right thoughts about marriage, oneself, and one's partner. This episode serves as a follow-up to their previous discussion on how core beliefs significantly impact our thoughts. Jim, drawing on his expertise as a professional speaker, and Christie, as an online counselor, explore the profound influence thoughts have on actions and the overall dynamics of a relatio...
YMM 172 ... The Marriage Blueprint: How Core Beliefs Shape Our Life Together (Both Good and Bad!)
January 05, 2024 10:32 - 30 minutes - 59.9 MBWelcome to another episode of "Your Marriage Matters" with Jim and Christie Jacobus, where we dive deep into the foundations of a healthy marriage. In today's episode, we're exploring the significance of core beliefs in fostering a strong and lasting marital bond. Core beliefs are the fundamental convictions and principles that shape our perspectives and guide our actions. In the context of marriage, they form the bedrock of the relationship, influencing how partners interact and navig...
YMM 171 ... Ask Yourself These 4 Questions To Make 2024 Your Best Year Ever! Part 2
December 29, 2023 08:40 - 29 minutes - 57.4 MBThis is part 2 of our "4 Questions" annual process we go through to make sure 2024 is going to be the best year ever. We trust you will enjoy questions 3 and 4! Repeat of last week's show notes ... People often ask us how we manage to stay in sync as a couple and maintain that synchronization over time. The key to our success lies in one word: communication. We firmly believe in the power of open, transparent and frequent communication, which allows us to be on the same page. One of t...
YMM 170 ... Ask Yourself These 4 Questions To Make 2024 Your Best Year Ever!
December 22, 2023 12:24 - 29 minutes - 55.8 MBPeople often ask us how we manage to stay in sync as a couple and maintain that synchronization over time. The key to our success lies in one word: communication. We firmly believe in the power of open, transparent and frequent communication, which allows us to be on the same page. One of the effective processes we've implemented is what we call "The 4 Questions." We initiated this practice over two decades ago, and it has become a yearly ritual for us. As we approach the end of each y...
YMM 167 ... The Wedding Chronicles: Joy, Surprises, and Lessons Learned From 2 Recently Married Couples!
July 06, 2023 21:17 - 50 minutes - 48.8 MBIn this exciting and fun episode, join our hosts as they sit down with two extraordinary couples, Mindy and Chris Harris, and Hannah and Austin Pierce. Get ready to delve into the depths of married life and uncover the invaluable experiences and wisdom these newlyweds have to share about their wedding day and everything that went into it!. Discover the emotions as Jim & Christie ask the question, "How does it feel being married?" Listen in awe as Mindy and Chris, along with Hannah and Aust...
YMM 166 ... The Power Couple Blueprint Part II: 3 Core Skills for an Extraordinary Marriage!
June 29, 2023 08:07 - 41 minutes - 38.4 MBLast week we discussed Jim's favorite topic for a great marriage - mindsets! This week we look at Christie's fav topic - skill sets! One is worthless without the other so we trust you will enjoy! In this podcast you will discover the secrets to a thriving relationship on the latest episode of Your Marriage Matters podcast! Join relationship experts Jim & Christie Jacobus as they unveil the three essential skills that will revolutionize your love life. In this episode, you will learn: E...
YMM 165 ... The Power Couple Blueprint: 10 Mindsets for an Extraordinary Marriage!
June 22, 2023 08:17 - 45 minutes - 42.3 MBWelcome to YOUR Marriage Matters, where we explore the essential mindsets for a thriving and enduring marriage. In this episode, we'll dive into the 10 critical mindsets that form the foundation of a successful partnership. Commitment: Approach marriage with unwavering dedication and understand that it requires effort and perseverance. Cultivate a deep commitment to your partner and the relationship to ensure its strength and longevity. Communication: Prioritize open and honest communicati...
YMM 164 ... The Power of Shared Faith: Strengthening Your Marriage Through Spiritual Habits!
June 15, 2023 15:19 - 40 minutes - 37.5 MBOf all of the habits we have been discussing this series just how important are the spiritual habits we develop? We believe they may be more important than all of the rest! In this episode of Your Marriage Matters, Jim and Christie Jacobus explore the importance of cultivating spiritual habits within a marriage. They discussed a variety of practices and activities that can enhance the spiritual connection between partners, ultimately leading to a stronger and more fulfilling relationship. ...
YMM 163 ... Love, Trust, and the Almighty Dollar: The Essential Guide to Financial Well-Being in Your Relationship!
June 08, 2023 16:02 - 29 minutes - 27.6 MBAre you ready to take your relationship to the next level? Join hosts Jim and Christie Jacobus on their podcast, Your Marriage Matters, where they share valuable insights and practical advice on building a strong and prosperous marriage. In this episode, they uncover the secrets to healthy financial habits for engaged or seriously dating couples. Money can be a sensitive subject, but Jim and Christie are here to guide you through the journey of financial harmony. They emphasize the importa...
YMM 162 ... Preparing for a Lifetime Together: Strengthening Emotional Health In Your Relationship!
June 01, 2023 08:00 - 32 minutes - 29.7 MBWelcome to another episode of Your Marriage Matters, the podcast where we explore the keys to a successful and fulfilling marriage. I'm your host, Jim Jacobus, and I'm joined by my wonderful co-host and partner, Christie Jacobus. Summary: In today's episode, we dive into the essential elements of a healthy relationship. We'll discuss effective communication, healthy conflict resolution, mutual respect, emotional support, quality time, boundaries and independence, shared responsibilities, p...
YMM 161 ... Wellness Warriors: Uniting as a Couple for Optimal Health and Happiness!
May 25, 2023 19:22 - 29 minutes - 27.6 MBDoes your physical health impact the health of your relationship? Simple answer - absolutely! Join us on a journey to prioritize your physical health as a couple and strengthen your bond like never before. We are thrilled to present ten essential habits that will revolutionize your approach to physical well-being. Are you ready to embark on this exciting adventure together? 1️⃣ Regular Exercise Together: Discover the joy of shared physical activities. Whether it's taking leisurely walks,...
YMM 160 ... The Relationship Blueprint: Mastering 5 Habits for Sustained Success!
May 18, 2023 05:23 - 32 minutes - 29.7 MBWelcome to "The Relationship Blueprint: Mastering 5 Habits for Sustained Success!" with your hosts, Jim and Christie Jacobus! Join us for an exciting podcast episode where we explore the fascinating world of habits and how they can shape your life. In this special series spanning five weeks (and possibly more!), we'll guide you on a journey towards building incredible habits that will amplify the magic in your relationship. Are you ready to make your dreams a reality? Our first habit is a...
YMM 159 ... Tired of Struggling to Get Things Done Together? Try This!!!
May 11, 2023 15:14 - 30 minutes - 28.1 MBDo you want to learn how to achieve big things in your life without putting your relationship at risk? Well, you're in luck! In this podcast, we reveal the secret behind our success in working together as a couple. We call it the I D E A process, and it's a simple yet powerful tool that can help you achieve your goals without sacrificing your relationship. I D E A stands for: Inspiration Discussion Education Action We'll guide you through each step and show you how to apply it to b...
YMM 158 ... 10 Key Moments In A Wedding Day You Absolutely Want To Get Right"!
May 04, 2023 13:37 - 21 minutes - 20.3 MBWhat moments in a wedding day are critical to your personal enjoyment and the enjoyment of your guests? Well, Jim did a wedding this past weekend and on our way home we started discussing all of the great moments that were had by the couple and the guests and we had so much fun reliving the event we thought ... "why not do a podcast about it"! So, here are 10 Key Moments In A Wedding Day You Absolutely Want To Get Right"! We trust you will enjoy! Let us know if you have any questions ...
YMM 156 ... Unlocking the Potential of a Shared Vision for Your Life Together!
April 25, 2023 17:46 - 29 minutes - 27.2 MBWhat is one of the most important skills a couple can develop to keep their lives together vibrant and exciting? That is learning to create a shared vision for their futures both as individuals and as a couple. We always talk about being intentional. In this podcast we discuss how important it is to have: A clear mission! A clear vision! A clear set of shared values! A set of goals both individual and as a couple And committing to be a great team! We also encourage you to sit do...
YMM 157 ... Becoming Your Best Self: The Key to a Strong, Fulfilling and Lasting Relationship!
April 20, 2023 17:21 - 32 minutes - 29.8 MBEver wondered what it would be like to be in a relationship with or marry someone who is fully committed to being the best version of themselves and is always growing and improving in every aspect of their life? It would be pretty awesome, don't you think? There's a quote that we often use to guide our search for the right person to share our life with: "become the person the person you are looking for is looking for." So, if we want to find someone who is always growing, we must also be o...
YMM 155 ... Cultivating Emotional Intelligence: Empowering Tools for Managing Conflict and Challenges in Your Marriage!
April 06, 2023 08:00 - 48 minutes - 44.6 MBLet's get this straight ... you will have problems, challenges and outright conflicts in your relationship! It is inevitable!!! How you handle them will be the key to the success in your lives moving forward! Handling them well will actually enhance the strength of your connection as well as creating a deeper level of intimacy you won't be able to ever experience without these skills and principles! So, here is what you will find in this podcast: Conflict is a normal part of a healthy r...
YMM 153 ... Mastering the Power of Great Communication In YOUR Relationship!
March 23, 2023 15:55 - 37 minutes - 34.8 MBIs there any more critical in a relationship than being able to effectively communicate openly and transparently with each other? NOPE!!! There is not! That is one of the reasons we are constantly doing podcasts about communications, teaching workshops that always include communications and, work very hard about improving our own communications. It is that critical! In this podcast we: Share with you two very important skill sets in the form of our Speaker Checklist and our Listener Chec...
YMM 152 ... What Is It Like To Be Engaged?
March 16, 2023 08:15 - 41 minutes - 38.2 MBWhat better way to answer that question than going straight to two "Nearlywed" couples that are just weeks away from saying :I do" and interview them? Hannah and Austin Mindy and Chris In this week's episode we ask these guys some great, even tough, questions about what their seriously dating and engagement phases have been like! You will hear them answer, very candidly, the following questions: Why do you want to get married? What have been some of the struggles you have faced w...
YMM 151 ... The 4 Foundations of A Great Relationship!
March 09, 2023 17:24 - 30 minutes - 28.2 MBHey gang! In this podcast episode we preview a series we have entitled The 4 Foundations of A Great Relationship! It is intended to do exactly what the title says. As you are seriously dating or engaged we want you to begin working on the 4 things that will become the backbone of you experiencing everything you hope for if/when you walk down the aisle together to say "I DO"! We will be covering the following: Communication Conflict resolution and/or problem solving Creating a shared...
YMM 150 ... 5 Reasons To Absolutely Hit the STOP Button On Getting Married!
March 02, 2023 11:00 - 28 minutes - 26.1 MBAre we excited about you getting married? Yes, we are! Are there reasons to hit the STOP Button on getting married? Absolutely! Are these "life sentences"? Now way! But, if not dealt with before you walk down that aisle and say "I DO" they will cause you a world of hurt. If not dealt with now they could very easily lead to a divorce at a later date. What are good reasons to hit the STOP Button? Addiction Abuse Response to internal or external pressures Thinking marriage will fix your...
YMM #149 ... 5 (at least!) Good Reasons To Get Married!!!
February 21, 2023 00:25 - 25 minutes - 23.7 MBWhy get married? That is a question we have been asking our seriously dating and engaged couples for years. Their answers are as varied as there are colors in a sunset! Some of those reasons are clearly well thought through while some give reason for pause. The good reasons do not guarantee success nor do the not so good reasons mean certain failure. That said, it pays to have a serious conversation or two or three or (you get where we are coming from) about the most important decision ei...
YMM #148 Happy Valentine's Day ... And AN Exciting New Direction For YOUR Marriage Matters!!!
February 14, 2023 08:59 - 20 minutes - 18.7 MBWe have two awesome things to share with you this week!!! First, happy Valentine's Day!!! In this podcast we cover the 5 Love Languages and give you some ideas on how to use them to make Valentine's Day, or any day, very special this year! And then we share with you a new direction we are taking with the YOUR Marriage Matters podcast! We have a new focus we are so excited about so check it out and let us know what you think! We appreciate all of your support and are so excited about t...
YMM 147 ... What's The One Thing You Can Do To Change the Trajectory of YOUR Marriage?
May 27, 2022 08:37 - 26 minutes - 48.2 MBWhat's The One Thing You Can Do To Change the Trajectory of YOUR Marriage? Well, when we started thinking about it we couldn't come up with just one ... we came up with four of them!!! Each of these in their own way can make a huge difference in your marriage. If you can, do it together even if you both choose a different one. If your spouse isn't on board then pick one and do it yourself! If either member of the relationship gets better then the marriage gets better! The four are simple...
YMM 146 ... 3 Great Ways To Invest In Your Marriage!
May 20, 2022 08:00 - 21 minutes - 39.3 MB"You Are Not Likely To Protect YOUR Marriage If You Don't Believe There Is Any Danger" Rick Reynolds - The Affair Recovery Center Last week we did our podcast on The 5 Early Warning Signs That Your Marriage Could Be In Trouble! A lot of the feedback was ... what can we do to get ahead of these early warning signs?!? This week we are going to give every 3 strategies, or 3 Great Ways To Invest In Your Marriage! While they are simple, they are by no means easy! Here you go ... Invest in ...
YMM 145 ... 5 Early Warning Signs YOUR Marriage Could Be In Trouble!!!
May 13, 2022 08:00 - 21 minutes - 40.5 MBYOUR Marriage, just like your health, has early warning signs when something isn't just right! Identifying what those signs are, looking to see if they are present in your marriage and then taking action to fix them can save you and your partner a whole lot of grief!!! 5 Early Warning Signs YOUR Marriage Could Be In Trouble!!! In this podcast we look at 5 specific warning signs we look for in the couples we work with. They are ... Losing our connection with each other! Avoiding spendi...
YMM 144 ... Someone Is Getting Called Out! It Could Be You!!!
May 06, 2022 08:00 - 15 minutes - 21.4 MBWe are calling YOU out! But, we are calling ourselves out first!!! We are frustrated, mostly Jim is frustrated, by what we perceive as a lack of interest people have in investing in their marriages! That is until they get into a crisis situation. That has made itself real to us many, many times through the years. That is why we began this podcast in the first place ... to keep couples out of Christie's counseling room and Jim's Divorce Care class! Someone Is Getting Called Out! It Could ...
YMM 143 We Made A BIG Decision! Another Life Lesson "From the Road"!!!
April 27, 2022 08:17 - 15 minutes - 28.9 MBTo live the "life of your dreams" you are going to have to make some big decisions! You may also have to change direction sometimes ... even when the direction you are going is exciting and compelling!!! The question is how do you go about making these types of decisions and/or change direction? For a while now we have been using, and teaching, a process we came up with called I D E A! It goes like this ... Inspiration - you have a compelling idea. Discussion - you talk about it togethe...
YMM 142 ... Travel Day With Team Jacobus! (Some "Lessons From the Road")
April 06, 2022 07:50 - 11 minutes - 20.6 MBWhat is "travel day" like with Team Jacobus? What can we learn about marriage from how these two live out their full time RV'ing lifestyle? Travel Day With Team Jacobus! (Some "Lessons From the Road") It turns out, in this raw and uncut podcast, that there is a tone we can learn about the power of living out a dream and a shared vision! We can also learn a lot about how a ton of stuff has to get done and their approach to a shared workload! Tune in and hear what "travel day" is like...
YMM 141 ... If I Am Not the enemy ... Then What Am I?!?
March 30, 2022 08:00 - 21 minutes - 39.1 MBAs we wrap up our "I Am Not the Enemy" series we look at what role do we play when it comes to dealing with conflict and struggles in a healthy and productive manner! In this podcast we will share with you 6 positive roles we each play in the lives of our spouse and in the life of our marriage! Each of these roles lead to us successfully navigating the inevitable rough spots every relationship will experience! Learning to embrace these strategies will not only help with problem solving bu...
YMM 140 - A Professional Counselor's Wisdom for Dealing With Conflict!
March 23, 2022 08:06 - 28 minutes - 52.5 MBChallenges come at our relationship from one of two directions - outside forces of life just happening or inside the marriage where two imperfect people struggle with the give and take of growing up as a couple together! In this Your marriage Matters episode 140 we get A Professional Counselor's Wisdom for Dealing With Conflict! Christie has been a Licensed Professional Counselor, or LPC, for over a decade and currently serves clients via two online platforms ... Talkspace and BetterHelp...
YMM 139 ... Two Great Problem Solving Strategies You Can Use TODAY!
March 16, 2022 08:00 - 17 minutes - 32.5 MBThis week we continue the "I Am Not the Enemy" series with YMM 139 ... Two Great Problem Solving Strategies You Can Use TODAY! The are our two favorite , real world, techniques we use regularly when Team Jacobus is working our way through a difficulty or a when a not so clear decision needs to be made! Struggles are part of the deal! Disagreements are part of the deal! Even arguing, when done in a healthy way, are a part of any deeply committed relationship! How we handle these normal pa...
YMM 138 ... Our Best Marital Advice? Fight NAKED!
March 09, 2022 09:03 - 20 minutes - 38.6 MBWhen asked what is our best marital advice we always answer the same ... "Fight Naked"! While taken literally it can be a very effective methodology ... after all, who wants to fight with a naked person! All kidding aside the NAKED part is an acronym for 5 great things to remember to keep our disagreements both civil and productive at the same time. The 5 steps look like this: N stands for "nothing up your sleeve" or no hidden agendas. A stands for "assume the best" which we went into in...
YMM 137 I Am NOT the Enemy ... The Power of Solving Problems As A Team!
March 02, 2022 09:15 - 20 minutes - 37.4 MBProblems, struggles and conflict are signs of a healthy relationship! Two imperfect people working to build a life together are bound to have struggles by the mere fact that: They are male and female Grew up in different households Have different personality styles Have different views on sex, money, household roles and responsibilities, parenting and a dozen other subjects All of this and more means there will be conflict! What matters is how we handle it!!! This entire month we wil...