Shift Your Perspective
585 episodes - English - Latest episode: 12 days ago - ★★★★★ - 155 ratingsAre you ready to break free from your painful cycle of fear and self-doubt caused by past traumas that have held you captive for far too long, reclaim your power, and begin to live the life you have been dreaming of for so long?
Subscribe to Shift Your Perspective, the podcast that helps you confidently confront those past cycles of abuse and the overwhelming grip of fear, anxiety, guilt, and shame, guiding you toward a life lived with unapologetic and unshakable self-confidence, inner peace and joy, to turn your dream into a reality.
Shift Your Perspective isn't just another self-help podcast filled with ego-fluffing and fleeting 'feel-good' highs; it's about cultivating a mindset that creates lasting resilience, strength, and unshakable self-belief; it's a show for those who dare to leave their past behind and defy the status quo of inherited limiting beliefs; it's a show for those who desire true personal freedom not dependant on others doing right by us.
This podcast is your lifeboat in the ocean of self-help content, flooded with fake gurus; it will help you navigate the treacherous waters of self-discovery and emerge on the shores of genuine and permanent transformation – no more flaying about and drowning in the sea of self-discovery, but guidance toward finally achieving personal transformation in your mindset and self-worth that will lead you into a new life that few ever reach.
Expect episodes filled with candid conversation and unconventional perspectives that challenge typical thinking around creating self-love and self-confidence. These episodes will dare you to think for yourself – it's time to stop seeking validation outside of yourself, to stop settling for a life dictated by the projected fear of others and their opinions about you – it's time to break through the barriers of inherited negative self-images and self-doubt and confidently live your life on your terms, following the guidance of your inner voice and intuition.
Are you ready to take back your life, leave behind ghosts of karmic ancestral patterns of self-doubt, and step into the brilliant truth of who you are?
Subscribe to Shift Your Perspective now and embark on a journey to reshape how you view yourself and the world around you. Your transformation begins here.
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Episodes
Quit Your Bitchin' And Play "The Game"
April 13, 2024 18:09 - 1 hour - 88.3 MBTo be free from the past and able to move into your 'new story,' you must say "YES!" to life, which means you must accept what "Life" really is. Because if you resist it, it will persist. Listen to learn wisdom gained from my out-of-a-life of violence and abuse.
Set Yourself Free, AKA: Stop Trying To Solve The Past
April 11, 2024 14:12 - 38 minutes - 53.6 MBRunning around in circles trying to figure out the past and why they did the things they did to you? You will be on that merry-go-round your entire life if you don't stop and see the truth of who you are. Listen in for wisdom gained from having been there myself.
How To Experience True Love, AKA: Dating Advice From ABBA
April 01, 2024 15:40 - 49 minutes - 68.9 MBYou are instructed to "calleth those things that been not as though there where," so, how are you to experience 'true love' or your "Sunshine Family" when all you've known is pain, betrayal, abuse, and violence? Listen in for wisdom learned in moving beyond the 'old story' of victim consciousness.
The Saga of The Grasshopper: AKA How To Enter The Promise Land
March 25, 2024 14:01 - 45 minutes - 64.2 MBImagine a life where you are free from the doubts and traumas of your past. A life where you have left "The Past" behind, crossed the Red Sea, and learned to be grateful, and now you have arrived at the gates of The Promised Land, AKA: your New Story—a life of "It's Possible for Me!" Even at this point, few will make it. Want to be one of them? Listen to the wisdom gained so that you can avoid the pitfalls and struggles many face. It's time to take control of your life and step into ...
Gratitude; Let's Talk About It
March 17, 2024 19:12 - 32 minutes - 46.3 MBThere is only one way you will make it beyond the life you are currently experiencing...that is the path of Gratitude. But what is gratitude really? Listen up because you're gonna need it.
Why People Bully You And How To Stop It
March 10, 2024 15:19 - 46 minutes - 64.6 MBWhy do people bully? There are different reasons why people bully, including: wanting to dominate others and improve their social status. But in reality, they have low self-esteem and want to feel better about themselves and to mask how they feel about themselves, people who bully focus their attention on someone else and try to tear them down to their level, which is rooted in the fear of them being rejected. So how do you stop the bully from bullying you? It isn't by fighting back. ...
Remain Caged Or Be Free, The Choice Is YOURS!
March 03, 2024 17:37 - 59 minutes - 82.5 MBThere is only one way to stop your karmic patterns, whatever they are. PERIOD. Listen in and learn and apply it to your own life, as needed.
Break Free From Your Past And NEVER Go Back This Time
February 29, 2024 15:50 - 56 minutes - 79.1 MBBonus episode to help prepare you for complete and lasting change: freedom from your past, freedom from your past childhood trauma, and a past version of yourself (based entirely on the projected image of you from others). Watch the reference video mentioned in this episode on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/reel/C379LUUoI5r/
It’s Okay To Let Go; It’s Okay To Be Free To Live Your Life
February 25, 2024 16:45 - 59 minutes - 82.8 MBSaying that you are committed to changing your life for the better is one thing, but doing the only thing that will truly change your life for good is something that few will ever do. Why? Listen to today’s episode and what it is and how you can do it for yourself.
New Attitude, New Mindset, New Way Of Living Life
February 21, 2024 16:35 - 59 minutes - 82.6 MBAre you ready to break free from your painful cycle of fear and self-doubt caused by past traumas that have held you captive for far too long, reclaim your power, and begin to live the life you have been dreaming of for so long? Subscribe to Shift Your Perspective, the podcast that helps you confidently confront those past cycles of abuse and the overwhelming grip of fear, anxiety, guilt, and shame, guiding you toward a life lived with unapologetic and unshakable self-confidence, inner pea...
It's Time To Move On And Live Again!
October 30, 2023 13:57 - 34 minutes - 47.7 MBThis part of my life, this journey of freedom from my past is over - it's time for me to create something new. NEVER forget that you are a Child of God and that valuable and worthy of a life beyond your fears, pain, and self-doubt. But you can never live your life beyond them if you don't walk away from them and begin anew. Listen in for my final thoughts and encouragement in hopes you will know the truth for yourself.
Recipe For Love – AKA: Changing Your Mating Call
October 22, 2023 15:48 - 59 minutes - 81.4 MBYou are not responsible for the inflected Childhood Trauma that is causing your perspective of “It’s Impossible for me!” (Those ‘sins’ are others to pay for, for THEY made THOSE choices!) However, you are responsible for maintaining that perspective, AKA: Your actual prayer request, that you are repeating in the center of God’s Temple, AKA: The center of yourself. (I Corinthians 3:16) nothing will change until YOU change the prayer yourself. Listen in as I show you a life beyond child...
The End Of The OLD Story – AKA: NEW Beginnings
October 14, 2023 22:37 - 36 minutes - 50.1 MBIn this experience, this life on planet Earth – AKA: “Fantasy Island, where all of your fantasies come true” – AKA: As you believe in your heart, so be it unto you (Proverbs 23:7) is yours to command (Deuteronomy 30), the only question you EVER need to ask yourself is, What the F*%k am I believe in!” Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Original Digital Seamless Pri...
Why Do You Hesitate When The Light Is Green?
October 08, 2023 16:34 - 1 hour - 87.5 MBPeople are free to choose the direction of how their lives will play out; some will fail, some will succeed. It is because some people are better or more blessed than others? No! It is because very few people have the courage to not listen to “the negative report” and simply run into and “seize the Promised Land.” And that boils down to whether they believe “it’s possible for me” or “it’s impossible for me.” And the same applies to you. So, what are YOU going to do? Listen in ...
What's The Story You’re Telling Yourself, Storyteller?
October 01, 2023 16:43 - 43 minutes - 60.5 MBThe Dream is continually unfolding. The only thing you need to be concerned with is which side of the Dream are you choosing. The version where the dreams crumble before your eyes, or the one where your Dream comes to fruition? I also have discovered a deep meaning of the Inherited Negative Self-Image Root. (Hint: It hasn’t anything to do with any patterns of abuse or trauma.) Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fear...
The Equation That Changes Your Life: AKA Making Your Dreams Come True
September 24, 2023 16:17 - 52 minutes - 72.3 MBWhat are you doing with your time? Spending it? (which, in reality, is wasting it.) Or are you investing it? I understand the initial engagement is uneasy, but I also know the flow takes over once engaged. So, how do you get yourself to “engage” with the Divine creative flow? Make yourself so bored you crave the relief of creativity. What do I mean, make yourself bored? Start observing your current behaviors of procrastination. Now, I have a different point of view on what procreat...
Maintaining Your Vision: Asking Yourself “Why?”
September 17, 2023 15:42 - 1 hour - 83.6 MBIf today makes your tomorrow, hadn’t you switched your focus from ‘past and future’ to ‘now,’ should you not stop and observe what you are thinking and doing, the choices you are making right now? So how do you do that? Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/ Link to Deep Hidden Meaning Show: ...
Who’s Life Are You Living, Theirs Or Yours?
September 11, 2023 12:47 - 52 minutes - 72.5 MBWho influences your thoughts about what is possible for you and your life? Do you use the opinions of others to put a limit on your dreams? What is done is done; the present moment is old news; it is old thoughts made manifest; make peace with it. And then let us focus on creating a new tomorrow but choosing carefully our thoughts and actions today. Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understa...
What Is Talent And The Careful Selection Of Outside Influences
September 03, 2023 15:11 - 56 minutes - 77.9 MBRemembering that we can achieve greatness if we take ownership of our actions and live in the present moment is crucial. We must stop shifting the blame to external factors when things go wrong and instead focus on our unique talents. It takes courage and passion to pursue our dreams and take risks, but the rewards are immeasurable. We must actively participate in life to discover our talents and find true joy in aligned purpose. Our talents shine in all their magnificent details ...
A Journey Of Self-Love: Who Am I?
August 27, 2023 16:29 - 43 minutes - 60.1 MBHow do you transmute negative experiences, so you don’t stay stuck in trauma? How do you live your life free from having to please people in order to “earn” their love? Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Click here to view my “official portrait” on Instagram. Click here to download from Google Drive my Spring/Summer 2008 Collection I mentioned in the episode. ...
The New Era Of Love Has Begun!
August 24, 2023 13:35 - 56 minutes - 77.5 MBThe past is the past, and the new is here now, waiting for you to create it. So, what are you creating? Listen in as I show you a life beyond childhood trauma, a life bolding walking through the wilderness, fearing not because you understand the power within you. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/
A New Beginning: Closing The Chapter On Trauma Once And For All
August 20, 2023 13:22 - 49 minutes - 68.6 MBSaying good-bye, but one last piece of wisdom before I leave it all behind… Listen to Episode 109: Prof. Bruce Lipton talks about how our environment shapes our lives and futures. Follow and engage with me on: https://www.instagram.com/the_billyj/
Love Is On The Other Side Of Fear
August 06, 2023 14:23 - 4 minutes - 6.63 MBLove is letting go of all fear. The fear of failure, rejection, and even the fear of releasing one’s false God – the martyr, the victim self-image that the world has told us we are. Love is to know who you are and not to be afraid of it. Love is to turn your back on the world and all of its lies. To throw off all of the mantles we have acquired on our journies and to be what we are – despite the objections, complaints, and attempts to tear us down from others. The foolish, ignorant, an...
Release Your Trauma And Set Free Your Inner Child; It’s Time!
July 30, 2023 14:29 - 1 hour - 116 MBYou have waited long enough for others to do right by you, to take accountability for what they have done to you, so you can live your life, and be who you know you’re supposed to be. You also cannot set yourself free by trying to undo what has already happened. You can only break the cycle of trauma and pain, of karma, by going through, by going forward, by completely the circle of the story of your life, of who you are. Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from ...
It’s YOUR Life; Don’t Let Them Make You Waste It!
July 23, 2023 16:10 - 1 hour - 106 MBYou have every right to be a victim (what they did to you was wrong and it will always be wrong), but what if I told you that pursuing your “justice” will only keep you trapped in the cycle of abuse? What I am saying? I am saying that if you want your life to change, to stop the karmic cycle, you must give it up; you must exchange it for something different, for something new. So how do you do that? Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of wal...
FREEDOM: No More Cycles of Abuse, Fear or Rejection
July 16, 2023 16:47 - 1 hour - 106 MBYou don’t “cut” cords to the toxic people and things in your life, you cut the cords to your old self-image of being a victim. If fact, you cut them at all – you burn them! If you don’t, those “cords” will seek to “re-attach” themselves to people and things that feed that victim consciousness; it must, it’s in its nature; that consciousness is fighting for its survival. So how do you “burn” those cords and free yourself from those cycles once and for all? Listen in as I share the tru...
How Do You Bridge The Gap Between Where You Are And Your Desire To Be?
July 09, 2023 15:41 - 1 hour - 110 MBEverything changes; all creation comes and goes. However, it seems as though nothing has changed; no matter where you go or whom you are with, you seem to be continuously abandoned, rejected, abused, and constantly failing to realize your dreams. This lack of change is due to your constant gazing at what is (AKA: the negative cycles in your life), all stemming from what was (AKA: your childhood trauma, AKA: your Inherited negative self-image root). Remember, what you focus on expands, so...
Patience And Fortitude: Having Faith In Your Dreams
July 02, 2023 15:36 - 1 hour - 97.9 MBWhen we want to change our lives and break free from trauma, abusive relationships, and karmic cycles, we often desire it in the face of our current circumstances (which is nearly always NOT what we want.) So what do we have to do to remain in faith (or even have it to begin with) that The Divine will bring to pass the promise of freedom from those experiences? Listen in as I share the truths of personal transformation from my discoveries of walking away from violence and abuse and o...
The Pain And Your Past; Leaving It All Behind You
June 25, 2023 18:10 - 1 hour - 98.6 MBHave you ever noticed how people try to keep you at their level, within their comfort zones, limitations, and beliefs, and how readily we agree with them? Why is that, do you think? Limiting yourself does not serve the world; there is nothing noble in dimming your inner light so others won’t feel insecure around you – God created you to shine in this world. So what are you afraid of; why deny your natural self? Is it out of fear of rejection? Guilt or shame? Listen in as I share ...
Will You Chose To Repeat Your Karmic Cycles Of Abuse This Time?
June 18, 2023 14:36 - 1 hour - 107 MBIf you believe in things like the Law of Attraction or ‘we become what we think about,’ have you ever stopped to wonder why you keep experiencing abusive relationships? I am here to tell you that unless you get to the root cause of it all, nothing will ever change in your life; no amount of reading, list writing, or other practices will create the change you seek. You only need to ask yourself, “What do I believe that I deserve to have and experience in this lifetime?” Listen in as I s...
You Trying To Stop Negative Thoughts Is Keeping You Stuck In Your Cycle.
June 11, 2023 14:19 - 1 hour - 95.9 MBIf you want to stay out of negative energy, you must stop resisting it and allow it to be. Once you stop fighting it, you must engage in a desired activity that holds your attention. When you focus on the desired task, it is not open to other distractions; concentrated thoughts narrow the bandwidth, blocking the negative energy naturally with no effect on your part. Listen in to learn more. Follow and engage with me on: https://twitter.com/The_BillyJ https://www.instagram.com/the...
Self Love: Letting Go Of Guilt, Shame, And Blame Of What Has Happened To You
June 04, 2023 15:26 - 1 hour - 92 MBWhy do you feel shitty about the things that other people have done to you? Why do you feel guilty for making the decision to protect yourself? Why do you feel bad for getting back up and moving forward? Those feelings come from the ‘5 stones’ of your negative self-image thrown at you as a child. How do you stop feeling that way; how do you throw back those stones and set yourself free? Listen in as I share my discoveries of self-transformation and freedom from the cycles of abuse...
How Do You Break The Cycle Of Abuse? By Pulling A Penelope!
May 30, 2023 11:59 - 51 minutes - 71 MBIf you are trying to heal that inner child, AKA: you are trying to get your loved ones to stop rejecting you and take accountability for what they did to you, things aren't going to change. So what are you supposed to do? "Pull a Penelope!" What do I mean by that? Listen in and hear what I have discovered on my journey of carving a path beyond fear and abuse and into the wilderness of self-sovereignty so that you can do it too! Follow me on Twitter for your "homework" and feedback on...
You Want To Stop The Cycle Of Abusive Relationships? Change Your Mating Call!
May 28, 2023 14:28 - 1 hour - 86.6 MBAll you’ve ever been doing is looking for a respectful, loving partner and friend to walk this life with. As a result, you’ve learned some hard lessons. The question is, “What will you do with that education?” It’s time to accept the dream you’ve been dreaming of. Let go of the past and begin anew. Don’t fear the unknown; the path can only evolve if you walk it in blind faith. The only guarantee is that you WILL arrive if you follow the path before you. Take a deep breath and...
How To Stop People Pleasing, AKA: Not Caring What Other People Think!
May 21, 2023 16:35 - 1 hour - 125 MBYou haven't given up yet, so why are you so worried about what other people think about you? Why are you beating yourself up for the things that other people have done to you?! In order to be unstuck from your karmic patterns, you have to be Enlightened. But what does that really mean? Listen in as I share lessons learned, but also a quick way to start breaking your karmic cycles and free yourself to start living the life you were born to live! Download Show Outline Note From Google...
Killing The Ancestral Karmic Pattern Of Abuse
May 14, 2023 18:28 - 1 hour - 132 MBIn order to free yourself from inherited conditioned patterns of limiting self-belief, worthiness, violence, abuse, and perpetual rejection, you going to have to go on a "bloody rampage of revenge." How can we use the journey of the 'Yellow-Haired Warrior' in Quentin Tarantino's film, "Kill Bill" as a guide to free ourselves from our personal hells and pasts into a life of our choosing? Listen in as I share lessons learned on my personal journey of transformation.
Don't Give Up; Love Is Straight Ahead!
May 07, 2023 15:54 - 1 hour - 116 MBYou want the truth? Only LOVE can pass through The Gates of Heaven! What do I mean by this? Listen in as I share the lessons learned from my transformational journey.
Releasing Trauma: It's THEIR Sh*t, NOT Yours!
April 30, 2023 17:50 - 1 hour - 97.5 MBWhy do we take on other people's crap when they do us wrong - why do we examine it, investigate it and try to figure out the reason they did it and what we did?! Why not call it what it is and do what we are supposed to do with crap - flush it down the toilet? Granted it isn't an easy thing to do, but what you are doing to 'heal' from it is actually keeping you stuck in the cycle of pain and abuse. Listen in as I share wisdom gained from my personal transformation.
It's YOUR Dream, Don't Let Them Turn It Into THEIR Nightmare
April 23, 2023 16:27 - 1 hour - 104 MBWhy are you 'holding on' and not 'letting go' of your past? Is it because of what others will think, say, or do? Or is it because you think 'this is just how life is' or 'it's always been this way, so it must be the truth?' Whether you realize it or not, this life is a journey of letting go of 'what was' for 'what is' and 'what will be.' Anything else will keep you stuck in your karma cycle of pain and frustration. Listen in as I share wisdom learned on this journey of self-transformat...
There's Nothing To Heal, There Are Only Things To Release
April 16, 2023 16:53 - 1 hour - 125 MBIf you keep focusing on your inner child wounds you are only going to keep yourself stuck in a cycle of the never-ending healing of childhood trauma. If you believe that what you focus on expands, why do you think it would be any different when you focus on things that happened in the past? (You've been doing that for a while now, right? How's that working out for you?) Listen in to lessons learned on this journey of self-empowerment, and transformation.
I've Been Following My Intuition So Why Does My Life Suck?!
April 09, 2023 17:01 - 1 hour - 121 MBI get it! Everybody is out here telling you to "follow your inner voice," to trust your Divine GPS. What most people don't know (or do and not telling you) is that your inner voice (AKA: God) is both the light and the dark, both positive and negative energy. So, if you are holding onto a negative self-image (AKA: your beliefs of failure and impossibility) the Divine will guide you towards that negative fulfillment - it's the Law! Then what can you do; how do you know if your intuition...
You Broke The Karmic Cycle (AKA You've Healed), Now What?
April 02, 2023 16:57 - 1 hour - 101 MBHave you ever noticed that people can be jealous of you? I am not talking about your gifts or skills, I am talking about your healing journey. You've done the work to break free from limiting beliefs and karmic patterns, so why are people envious when they should be happy for you? Listen in to hear lessons learned on this journey of living our lives beyond fear; beyond our past traumas.
The Light At The End Of The Tunnel
March 26, 2023 18:16 - 1 hour - 137 MBThe journey out of your personal hell; breaking free from your karmic pattern is tough. And though not everyone makes it, it can be done. Staying focused on your path out of darkness is critical, but there will be tests along the way that will provoke you to give up. How do you cross the threshold of old beliefs into a state of joy and peace; Heaven consciousness? Listen in for lessons learned on this journey of transformation.
Being Loyal To The Unloyal: The Burden Of Betrayal
March 19, 2023 16:25 - 1 hour - 95.7 MBWhy do we do it? Why do we stay loyal to those who have clearly chosen to betray us; why do we keep coming back for more abuse? And when we do walk away, why do we feel guilty for standing up for ourselves, for choosing ourselves over others' BS that they try to impose upon us? Listen in as I share lessons learned about the emotional ties that bind us to the cycles of abuse.
Get Up And Keep Moving Forward
March 12, 2023 16:49 - 1 hour - 89.8 MBYou've been through a lot; people have done some terrible things to you - I get it! But that isn't a good enough reason to stay down and accept life as it seems at this moment. And though you may not be able to see it at the moment, if you begin today to have the courage to get up and take tiny steps forward toward a brighter future, it will come to pass even quicker than you realize. Listen in as I share lessons on never giving up.
It's Not Me, It's You: Co-Dependent No More!
March 05, 2023 17:46 - 1 hour - 103 MBThere's only one way to release yourself, to break free from toxic cycles and individuals - you have to release your addiction to co-dependency. It's easier said than done, but the truth is it can be done, and here is how. Listen in to lessons learned about letting go of the past, and I mean all of your past.
Self Love: I'm Not Your F*cking Bitch!
February 26, 2023 17:35 - 1 hour - 102 MBPeople (family, friends, lovers, and society) tell you who you are, what you are capable of, and what you are worthy of; they attach labels to you, and they expect you to be a certain way. And if you are not careful, you might just end up believing them and lose control of your life; you'll end up being stuck in a cycle of abuse and neglect. But how do you reject those labels; how do you live your life according to your own self-definition? Listen in as I share lessons learned about o...
Don't Give Up; You're Almost There!
February 19, 2023 18:10 - 1 hour - 87.1 MBFeel like you're not getting anywhere; like everything you are doing isn't making a difference? Breaking away from the old, toxic relationships, families, friends, and even society, is a very hard thing to do - most people will never do it, so isn't it time to give yourself some credit?! Isn't it time you stop beating yourself up for always getting back up and trying to move forward? Listen in as I share lessons learned about leaving it all behind, without guilt, shame, or regrets.
Ending Toxic Relationships: Letting It All Go Once And For All
February 12, 2023 19:40 - 1 hour - 110 MBIt is hard to end toxic relationships, especially romantic ones. There is so much involved. Everything from the karmic family patterns and cycles to childhood traumas. Not to mention all of the guilt and shame of just being yourself. But there is hope; there is a way out. However, are you willing to face and give up the very thing that keeps you stuck? Listen in as I share lessons learned about being free and unshakably self-confident.
Your Life: It Isn't Going To Change Until You Take Back Control
February 05, 2023 16:20 - 1 hour - 100 MBYou want things to change; you want your suffering of the past to end and to begin experiencing a world filled with all of your dreams coming true. I get it! But it isn't going to happen until you take back control. Control over your mind and self-identity, AKA, YOUR LIFE! Listen in as I share lessons learned on this path of transformation.