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Unleash The Man Within

810 episodes - English - Latest episode: 30 days ago - ★★★★★ - 136 ratings

Ready to experience a life of confidence, success, and sexual integrity?

Unleash The Man Within provides principles, tools and practical insights that help professional men unlock their potential by developing a bulletproof inner life. If you want thriving relationships, a strong connection with God, and freedom from sexual misbehavior, this podcast is for you.

With 5 episodes per week featuring leading experts, real-life stories, research-based findings and Bible-backed teachings, UMW is the #1 weekday men‘s health podcast. Past guests include Jon Gordon, Dr. Robert Glover, Dr. Trish Leigh and many more globally-acclaimed experts.

Your host, Sathiya Sam, is a world-renowned coach, international speaker, and author, who specializes in helping professional men overcome porn addiction. His signature program, DeepClean™, has helped athletes, doctors, pastors, executives and entrepreneurs experience long-term freedom by resolving the root issues of sexual misbehavior.

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160 - Why Shamelessness Is A Futile Endeavor

November 26, 2021 10:00 - 21 minutes - 23.6 MB

We know that the goal in recovering from sexual misbehavior is to abolish shame, but did you know there is a difference between shamelessness and being unashamed? Today's episode explains that only one of these qualities is desirable for long-term success, and how we can easily trick ourselves into thinking we're free of shame when in reality we have simply masked it. At the end, you're given a few questions to assess whether or not you are shameless or unashamed. If you are intere...

159 - Frank Rich on Overcoming Drug, Alcohol & Porn Use, The Power of Physical Fitness In Recovery, and Why Fasting Could Be The Key To Long-Term Success In Life

November 25, 2021 10:00 - 1 hour - 49.6 MB

Frank Rich is a former body builder entrepreneur, men's health coach and the host oh The Super Human Life Podcast. After living with and battling addiction, depression and anxiety for almost 20 years, he is no won a mission to help men who are suffering from the same issues take back control of their lives though the power of faith and fitness. In today's interview, Frank details his story of recovery from several addictions and his awe-inspiring story of salvation (which was actual...

158 - A Hidden Benefit of Social Media In Recovery

November 24, 2021 10:00 - 15 minutes - 17 MB

While social media is often a gateway to porn consumption and other sexual misbehavior, it can serve a useful purpose in recovery. Today's episode explains that the reasons we engage with social media often run parallel to the reasons we consume porn. By identifying the underlying causes of our social media use, especially when it is out of control and problematic, we gain insights into the same roots that are driving our desire for porn, ultimately empowering you to find an alterna...

157 - What If I Have No Community To Support My Recovery?

November 23, 2021 10:00 - 18 minutes - 21.1 MB

Today's episode contrasts a porn-free community versus an everyday community and the role that each plays in short term success and long-term recovery. While porn-free communities are often emphasized in our environments, the value of meaningful connection with even one friend outside a porn recovery context could be the difference between struggle and success. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast gu...

156 - The Basics of Getting Rid of Porn

November 22, 2021 10:00 - 12 minutes - 10.4 MB

Today's episode is back to the basics as Sathiya explains the cause of porn addiction, the classic mistakes most men make trying to get free, and the true solution for long-term recovery. Whether you are fully free, just beginning, or somewhere in between, this episode is a good reminder of the importance of taking an inside-out approach in life. If you are interested in the Austin meet-up, please write [email protected] Get A VIP experience with our podcast guests, coaching f...

155 - Unwanted by Jay Stringer (Book Review)

November 19, 2021 10:00 - 22 minutes - 24.8 MB

Unwanted by Jay Stringer is one of the most important books written about porn addiction recovery in the last 10 years. Today's episode explores the main message of the book, the brilliance of Jay Stringer, and a few key takeaways that could be useful in your long-term recovery. Internalizing these concepts and executing them in your day-to-day life almost guarantees that your recovery will be taken to new heights. Read Unwanted by Jay Stringer If you are interested in the Austin m...

154 - Shiraz Siddique on Discerning The Calling On Your Life, Why 90% of People Get Stuck Pursuing Their Dreams, and How To Make The Most of Each Season

November 18, 2021 10:00 - 51 minutes - 39.9 MB

As a Pastor, John Maxwell Certified Coach and Serial Entrepreneur, Shiraz Siddique helps people illuminates a path for possession of the promises God has for us. Shiraz completed his Masters of Theology from Tyndale Seminary, hosts Pursuing Fullness on Canada's biggest Christian radio station, and is the founder of Christian Business Harvest Network. In this interview, Shiraz explains how to find your purpose in life, how to take practical steps towards fulfilling it, and common pi...

153 - How To Identify The Origins of Your Porn Addiction

November 17, 2021 10:00 - 25 minutes - 27.7 MB

In today's episode, Sathiya explains the three dimensions of recovery – solo logic, trigger awareness, and origins. While the first two dimensions are useful, true long-term freedom will always take place in the third dimension. There are three great questions to ask yourself if you want to tap into the third dimension and experience healing. If you can, pull out your journal and work through these questions as you listen to the episode – it just may lead to your next breakthrough. ...

152 - How To Overcome People Pleasing

November 16, 2021 10:00 - 25 minutes - 28.2 MB

Today's episode explores a common issue many men face today – people pleasing. Ironically, people pleasing behavior is usually done to protect the relationship, when in reality, it causes long-term damage. If you cannot show up authentically in a relationship, it will suffer. This episode gives you the following four questions to ask yourself if you are struggling with people pleasing behavior of any kind, using a personal example from Sathiya's life to illustrate their application:...

151 - The Reason Why You‘re Viewing Things That Disgust You

November 15, 2021 10:00 - 22 minutes - 24.2 MB

If you've ever engaged in pornography, you know that it can be a slippery slope. Thresholds for pleasure and content intensity can increase, leading us to places we never imagined were possible. It is important to know that for starters, you are not defined by what you watch, no matter how dark/intense it may be. There are neurological concepts at play that often drive us to these places, namely: 1) Novelty enhances pleasure 2) Neural associations form in moments of curiosity Today...

150 - How To Appropriately Use An Internet Filter

November 12, 2021 10:00 - 17 minutes - 19 MB

A lot of the messaging in this podcast and DeepClean can come across as "anti-filter", when in reality, internet filters can have an essential place in the porn recovery process. The mistake men commonly make is relying exlusively on the filter – this can lead to disastrous outcomes. When a filter is supplementary to an inner transformation process (program, counseling, coaching, etc), it can be highly beneficial, provided it is used appropriately. Today's episode explains exactly h...

149 - Shawn Bonneteau on Dealing With Erectile Dysfunction, Experiencing Betrayal Trauma As A Man, and How To Design A Sexual Template

November 11, 2021 10:00 - 1 hour - 44.1 MB

Shawn Bonneteau is a passionate speaker, certified mentor and founder of Secret Habit with his wife Helena. His mission is to help men struggling with pornography addiction, erectile dysfunction, and ultimately, sexual brokenness. He has been a guest speaker/writer with X3 Church, Bravehearts, Husband Material, Family Life Canada, and many more.  In this candid interview, Shawn details his experience with porn-induced erectile dysfunction AND a classic case of erectile dysfunction ...

148 - Anticipatory Expectation: The Root of All Addictions

November 10, 2021 10:00 - 26 minutes - 28.4 MB

Today's episode distills a fundamental neurological concept that more or less explains the essence of all addiction. When we are highly motivated, we will do things that even surprise us – sometimes good, sometimes bad. You will understand what is happening in your brain when you are motivated, and how to harness it for your good. While some of the terms and concepts around this matter are complex, this episode is purpose conveyed in simple-to-understand language that will give you ...

147 - The (Broken) Link Between Sexual Interest and Orientation

November 09, 2021 10:00 - 21 minutes - 22.7 MB

Generally speaking, people are quick to lump sexual interests, orientation and identity into one, when in reality these are three distinct subjects. Today's podcasts provides an overview of each concept while explaining how they can work separately and in conjunction with one another. A few important takeaways:  -Sexual interests are conditioned and changeable -Just because you watch same sex porn doesn't mean you are homosexual -Novelty and anxiety enhance pleasure - they do not ne...

146 - What If Someone Thinks Porn Is OK?

November 08, 2021 10:00 - 23 minutes - 25.5 MB

A majority of this world believes pornography is harmless and in some cases, useful. It is only a matter of time before you encounter people of this opinion, and today's episode focuses on equipping you with conversational tools to handle these situations effectively. Specifically, we talk about having the goal of understanding, the power of listening first, and sharing your story. These are universal principles for effective conversation around any controversial subject, porn inclu...

145 - Sweet Surrender: Every Man‘s Key For Permanently Dealing With Pain & Discomfort

November 05, 2021 09:00 - 17 minutes - 18.9 MB

You can only truly remedy pain and discomfort by embracing them – both persist as long as they are ignored or simply tolerated. Today's episode uses personal examples to explain the power of surrender and its necessity for breakthrough and growth. While logic tells us to simply endure pain, exercise willpower, or devise tactics to make it through, embracing pain head on goes a much further way to bringing about the results we want in any area of our personal development. Buy The 7 ...

144 - Dr. Eddie Capparucci on How To NOT Objectify Women, Leaving Corporate America To Pursue His Calling, and The Future of Porn Addiction Recovery

November 04, 2021 09:00 - 56 minutes - 40.9 MB

Dr. Eddie Capparucci is a licensed professional counselor who specializes in the treatment of sex and porn addiction and the author of the book, Going Deeper: How the Inner Child Impacts Your Sexual Addiction. In short, he is a legend in this space of porn and sex addiction recovery and this interview did not disappoint. Dr. Capparucci explains how he found this calling in the first place, why honoring God first allows you to see women the way He does, all while providing practical ...

143 - Being Humiliated Could Be The Best Thing For Your Growth

November 03, 2021 09:00 - 21 minutes - 24.2 MB

Today's episode is inspired by Stephen covey's Seven Habits of Highly Effective People, touching on the importance of understanding process and letting people into your specific place in a process. Male tendency is to put on a façade making it appear that we know more/are further ahead than we really are. As a result, we rob ourselves of gaining the knowledge necessary to simply move to the next step in the process, ultimately hindering our growth. When we embrace humility and learn...

142 - One Simple Question That Guarantees Relationship Success

November 02, 2021 09:00 - 22 minutes - 25 MB

Proverbs is often quoted for the famous saying, "where there is no vision, the people perish." While typically applied in a leadership and success environment, this same statement has major ramifications for our relationships. Today's episode explains the power of vision in selecting a future spouse, and the important role it plays in long-term success for a marriage. If you are high-profile, high-income and looking to get help with pornography, visit https://www.sathiyasam.com/min...

141 - Welcome To Unleash The Man Within!

November 01, 2021 09:00 - 25 minutes - 27.5 MB

Today marks day one of our newly branded podcast, Unleash The Man Within. Not to worry, this is merely an optics rebrand, the content, scheduling and cadence of the podcast will continue as it was previously. In this episode, Sathiya gives an overview of the podcast so far – including some milestones along the way, explains the embarassing story that led to the rebrand, and casts vision for the podcast moving forward. This is a highly recommended listen if you've found this podcast ...

140 - BONUS: How Chris Bielefeldt Almost Lost His Girlfriend, Rediscovered His True Worth, and Kicked Porn To The Curb For Good

October 29, 2021 09:00 - 30 minutes - 24.7 MB

Chris (USA) was given an ultimatum: The love of his life or porn. He knew he needed help, but now the pressure was on. It was time to fight for the girl he had waited almost 4 decades for. After working through wounds from the past, and working hard on his identity, Chris barely recognizes himself today - he truly is a new man. In this bonus episode, Sathiya sits down with Chris to hear more about his remarkable recovery through DeepClean. Become a DeepClean VIP Member Book A FREE ...

139 - Here‘s Why Artifical Consequences Won‘t Help You Quit Porn

October 28, 2021 09:00 - 20 minutes - 21.1 MB

Many well-intentioned men have introduced artificial consequences to curb their behavior. Sadly, they never work. Today's episode explains why, while offering an alternative approach that has a much higher chance of success. Become a DeepClean VIP Member Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter at www...

138 - The Snowball Effect of Recovery

October 27, 2021 09:00 - 13 minutes - 14.7 MB

A common mistake men make getting free of pornography is giving up too quickly. Today's episode uses a very Canadian metaphor to explain the recovery journey and why you just might be one step away from your next big breakthrough. Become a DeepClean VIP Member Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my newsletter ...

137 - Self Control 101

October 26, 2021 09:00 - 27 minutes - 29.7 MB

An often-overlooked fruit of spirit, self-control is maybe the most important of them all, especially in the journey to freedom from pornography. Today's episode looks at the concept of self-control through a biblical and anecdotal lens, offering fresh insights and perspective to help you grow in this area. Become a DeepClean VIP Member Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguid...

136 - Steve Sonderman (No Regrets) on Dating Your Wife, Church Relevancy, and The Importance of Finding Your Calling in Life

October 25, 2021 09:00 - 53 minutes - 43.7 MB

Highly regarded as one of the pioneers of the men’s ministry movement in America, Steve started one of the first ministries in the country for the growing church population at Elmbrook Church in Brookfield, Wisconsin. In 1994, he began the annual No Regrets Men’s Conference which today draws thousands of men across the country and around the world. Steve regularly consults churches on leadership issues and leads seminars helping to develop men’s ministries both in the US and abroad....

135 - What Is Sexually Appropriate In A Marriage?

October 22, 2021 09:00 - 21 minutes - 22.2 MB

Today, Sathiya tackles classic questions about where to draw lines for sexual intimacy in a marriage. The main questions tackled are: 1) Is porn ever OK in a marriage? 2) Is masturbation OK if you fantasize about your wife? 3) What about sexts/images with your wife? 4) Which positions/forms of sexual activity are acceptable? Whether you're single, in a relationship, or married, if you've ever wondered any of these questions this episode is for you! Book A FREE Strategy Call www.sa...

134 - How Real Men Handle Rejection

October 21, 2021 09:00 - 17 minutes - 18.2 MB

Fear of rejection is always undergirded by a lie that usually starts with "I Am...". Examples: I'm not good enough. I'm not worthy of love. Today's episode breaks down the fallacy of rejection/fear of rejection, offering practical encouragement to see your value regardless of how the people around you respond. Book A FREE Strategy Call www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights...

133 - The Day After Freedom

October 20, 2021 09:00 - 15 minutes - 16.8 MB

A client recently asked what you're supposed to do once you experience freedom from pornography? How do you move forward and press on? today's episode outlines that in clear detail, offering two very practical things that ensure you enter your new life with confidence. Book A FREE Strategy Call www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by signing up for my news...

132 - The Bane of Perfectionism

October 19, 2021 09:00 - 21 minutes - 23.4 MB

Today's episode discusses the issue of perfectionism, a subject that frequently comes up in the pursuit of sexual integrity. While the subject can come up covertly and overtly, perfectionism will rob you of joy, peace, and gratitude. Receive a simple encouragement from Sathiya today, reminding you of your true value and worth because of who God says you are. For more practical ways to resolve perfectionism, check out Episode 17 - Killing Your Inner Perfectionist Book A FREE Strateg...

131 - Paul Cole (Christian Men‘s Network) on Real Manliness, Leaving A Legacy Behind, and Secrets To Longevity In Marriage & Ministry

October 18, 2021 09:00 - 1 hour - 50.2 MB

Paul Louis Cole, D.Th., is a noted speaker, pastor, author and one of the world’s foremost experts on men’s issues. His mission is to rescue families, defeat fatherlessness and end child abuse by providing leadership tools and strategies to bring a clear and defining word to men. He has conducted seminars on wisdom, parenting and manhood in over 70 nations. In today's in-depth and personal interview, Paul details his process for staying grounded while handling prominence, why men g...

130 - The (Myth) of Toxic Masculinity

October 15, 2021 09:00 - 17 minutes - 15.5 MB

Toxic masculinity is the notion that all men should be tough, aggressive, antifeminine, and dominant. These characteristics can be true of men, but they are not a requirement, which is why they have been termed as 'toxic.' However, in response, a new male prototype has been created – one that is highly sensitive, feminine, soft, and passive. This pendulum swing has been equally problematic. Today's episode explores these concepts in greater detail while offering a different definiti...

129 - How Do I Experience Healthy Physical Touch When I‘m Single?

October 14, 2021 09:00 - 15 minutes - 13.2 MB

Gary Chapman's Five Love Languages have been monumental for many men in the DeepClean coaching community. But what happens when physical touch is your primary love language and you're single? Today's episode offers two trains of thought for handling this scenario (and other scenarios like it) to ensure that your love tank stays full even when your primary love language cannot be fully satisfied. 83 - How The 5 Love Languages Are Helping Guys Get Free Book A FREE Strategy Call - ww...

128 - How To Handle Transition Like A Boss

October 13, 2021 09:00 - 27 minutes - 24.3 MB

Whether it's a new stage of life, new location, new job, new church, or just a new shirt, life has this way of keeping us on our toes. While some revel in transition, others dread it. Regardless of your stance, today's episode explores a few keys for handling transition in a healthy way. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiration by s...

127 - The Difference Between Choosing And Deciding

October 12, 2021 09:00 - 18 minutes - 15.7 MB

While they sound the same, a choice and a decision are in fact quite different. Choices are reversible, decisions are not. Choices leave options behind, decisions eliminate them. Today's episode explores this concept in greater detail, offering specific insights into the journey to freedom from sexual misbehavior. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly in...

126 - Dean Brenton (Impactus/Promise Keepers) on Life Change During COVID, Keys To A Long Marriage, and Why Every Man Is A Leader

October 11, 2021 09:00 - 43 minutes - 35.5 MB

Dean Brenton became the President of Impactus | Promise Keepers Canada in January 2021, after serving for 30 years in pastoral ministry and denominational executive leadership. In today's interview, Dean explains what it was like taking over a prominent ministry during the pandemic while moving across the country, what it's like being the only male in a 5-person household, and how men can get resourced to walk further in their callings. This interview is especially for any guy who i...

125 - A Special Episode For Pastors (or those who have a pastor)

October 08, 2021 09:00 - 22 minutes - 25.8 MB

The stats are clear that pastors are struggling just as much as everyone else – in many cases, even moreso. In today's episode, Sathiya shares about his own struggles with porn as a pastor, the experience of being in a congregation led by a struggling pastor, and ultimately, what is required of pastors to get the help they deserve. While in many ways, pastors are ordinary people like everyone else, there are nuances to their role that must be handled with care in the recovery proces...

124 - Men Have One Job: Stay Present

October 07, 2021 09:00 - 17 minutes - 20.1 MB

If I asked you what is the one thing a man must do to be successful in his relationships, how would you answer? There is no right or wrong, but in today's episode Sathiya explains the fundamental requirement for all men in relationships to apply for long-term success. If you are in a relationship, this episode is for you.   Book A FREE Strategy Call -  www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Recei...

123 - Two Necessary Gauges For Morality & Good Decision-Making

October 06, 2021 09:00 - 22 minutes - 25.7 MB

Following yesterday's episode, Sathiya offers a practical and applicable strategy for evaluating whether a belief, action, decision or lifestyle is morally appropriate. If you live by these two gauges, you are guaranteed to make good decisions and experience long-term success in the areas that they are applied. Book A FREE Strategy Call -  www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insi...

122 - Why ”Do You” Is Awful Advice

October 05, 2021 09:00 - 26 minutes - 30.8 MB

Ethical relativism is the mantra of today's society, leading to the popularization of phrases like "do you." Although seemingly harmless, the philosophies behind these concepts are dangerous to our understanding of morality. Today's episode cautions against the fallacies of ethical relativism and provides a stark reminder to stand firm on the morals and values of the Bible. Episode 107 - Is Purity Culture Really That Bad? Episode 111 - Dan Martin (pureHOPE) on Talking To Kids About...

121 - Nicholas Bayerle (Billion Dollar Brotherhood) on Creating A 7-Figure Business, Learning To Take Risks, And The Power of A Network

October 04, 2021 04:00 - 52 minutes - 71.4 MB

Nicholas Bayerle has found a way to build his business around his life, instead of his life around his business. Coining the "3-Dimensional Businessman", he has started the Billion Dollar Brotherhood – a mastermind for value-driven entrepreneurs to grow their businesses and make a lasting impact on society. In this interview, Nicholas shares how he went from living at the poverty line to growing a successful business, including the personal development secrets he picked up along the...

120 - Why Did Sathiya Move To Jamaica?

October 01, 2021 09:00 - 22 minutes - 26.1 MB

In today's episode, Sathiya explains the underlying principles that guided his decision to move to Jamaica, and how it always comes back to freedom. You have a calling, dreams, and goals in life that will be better accomplished with freedom from sexual misbehavior. Furthermore, as you achieve freedom in these areas, you must also take small steps towards your dreams/goals/calling, and watch God bless it in the process. If you're looking to take some risks in life and step further in...

119 - The One Concept That Explains Productivity, Growth, & Progress

September 30, 2021 09:00 - 18 minutes - 16.9 MB

If you assess the life of someone who has been successful in a certain area of life long-term, it is because they have harnessed the power of positive feedback loops. Today's episode explores this concept in greater detail, with real-life examples. If you can apply this concept to your recovery journey (or any other area of life), the results will eventually speak for themselves. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn...

118 - Jesus Was Tempted In EVERY Way

September 29, 2021 09:00 - 21 minutes - 23.9 MB

Traditionally, we learn to condemn and shame ourselves for having bad thoughts, temptations, etc. Yet the experience of Jesus paints a different picture. He was tempted in every way, yet without sin. Understanding how this is possible offers us critical insights for living sinless, shameless, and without condemnation. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekl...

117 - Why Is Relapse A Part of Recovery?

September 28, 2021 09:00 - 16 minutes - 19.4 MB

Today's episode explains in greater detail WHY relapse is a part of recovery. The question at hand is "Can I recover without a relapse?" and the answer is a resounding yes, however, don't forget that relapses happen externally and internally. The goal for a full recovery is to no longer slip in both arenas, and this takes time. Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Rec...

116 - Ricardo Camara (OTR Business Consulting) on Solving Relationship Conflict, Instant Freedom From Porn, And Learning To Love Your Wife In A Godly Way

September 27, 2021 04:00 - 51 minutes - 70.9 MB

Ricardo Camara helps business leaders and teams restore and strengthen interpersonal relationships with colleagues and clients. His clients typically experience a personal and professional transformation through his coaching programs that utilize unique Relationship Intelligence (RQ) methodology, tools, and biblical principles and teachings. In today's episode, we discuss why conflicts exist in the first place, actionable steps towards resolving those conflicts, and Ricardo's absolu...

115 - How Good Leadership Prevents Slips

September 24, 2021 09:00 - 15 minutes - 17.2 MB

Leadership, leadership, leadership. This is a subject that often comes up, as poor leadership is the first domino to fall in a chain of events/thoughts that end as as lip. Growing as leaders is a mandate for the recovered man and today's episode explains why and how. 53 - Every Man Is A Leader Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-study Download The Ultimate Recovery Guide For Porn Addiction (URG) at www.ultimaterecoveryguide.com Receive weekly insights and inspiratio...

114 - The Difference Between Restoration & Reconciliation

September 23, 2021 09:00 - 19 minutes - 21.7 MB

Restoration is for the self. Reconciliation is for the relationship. Knowing the difference is critical in the recovery process, especially as you experience healing from wounds of the past. Today's episode gives you clear advice on how to approach the recovery process in both regards, as only one of these concepts is necessary to experience full freedom from sexual misbehavior. 60 - Who Should I Tell About My Porn Addiction? Book A FREE Strategy Call - www.sathiyasam.com/case-stud...

113 - How Much Can I Get Away With In My Relationship?

September 22, 2021 09:00 - 28 minutes - 32 MB

Warning, you are about to listen to a subject that is rather touchy for the host! Today's episode explains why "What can I get away with?" is a horrible question to ask in general, but particularly in relationships. There is a better alternative that is bound to lead to better decision-making and more fulfilling relationships. Sathiya uses his own personal experiences to explain both the classic mistakes and the alternatives that you can begin applying today. Book A FREE Strategy C...

112 - Your Strongest Desire vs Your Deepest Desire

September 21, 2021 09:00 - 15 minutes - 17.6 MB

Inspired by a recent interview featuring John Mark Comer and Carey Nieuwhof, Sathiya unpacks the statement, "Your strongest desire is not the same as your deepest desire." We are regularly tempted to cater to our strongest desires, as they are often the loudest and most present. While they are tempting, it is the fulfillment of our deepest desires that truly bring satisfaction in life. Today's episode explains this concept in more detail while offering some practical ways for you to...

111 - Dan Martin (pureHOPE) on Talking To Kids About Sex, Dismantling Purity Culture, and Learning From Past Mistakes

September 20, 2021 04:00 - 49 minutes - 68.5 MB

Dan Martin is Director of Training and Partnerships for pureHOPE. He is a frequent conference speaker and guest teaching Pastor on topics addressing Family, Parenting, Marriage and Technology. In today's episode, Dan talks with Sathiya about the detriment of purity culture, redefining healthy sexuality, practical ways for having conversations with your kids about sex, and many other subjects. It is a very rich interview. If you struggle with any kind of religious shame around sex, t...

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