The Art of Legacy Driven Parenting with Dr. Patricia Tibbs

“Parenting is the easiest thing in the world to have an opinion about, but the hardest thing in the world to do.” It is indeed one of life's most challenging yet rewarding roles. It is undeniable that raising children comes with many challenges and sacrifices. From sleepless nights with a newborn to the emotional rollercoaster of the teenage years, parents face constant tests of patience and resilience. Moreover, every parent, especially mothers who strive to balance parenting and the demands of their chosen career understands the unique pressures of juggling both roles. 

The journey of parenting requires not only love and care but also intentionality and purpose. Being a parent means making countless decisions daily, big and small, that shape your child's future. It means allowing your child to make choices and learn from them, asking and accepting help from people you trust, and learning that parenting involves constant adjustments. Remember, children are not a distraction from more important work. They are the most important work.

Dr. Patricia Tibbs is an author, writer, mentor, speaker, mother, and wife. She has lived in Africa, Europe, and North America and has traveled widely. Dr. Tibbs is a Board Certified Pediatrician practicing in Mississippi, with a Master of Public Health in Maternal and Child Health. She is also a Fellow of the American Academy of Pediatrics. Dr. Tibbs has authored five books, aiming to entertain, educate, and provide practical wisdom for navigating life's challenges, focusing on children's stories and reflections on parenting. At the heart of her journey is a commitment to family and nurturing future generations. 

In this episode with Dr. Patricia Tibbs, we will learn of her inspiring journey as a mother, author, and pediatrician. She will share invaluable insights on parenting, emphasizing the importance of being intentional and purposeful, and discuss how her experiences as a mother and physician have shaped her perspective on raising children and balancing career demands. Her books entertain with captivating children's stories and provide practical guidance for families facing life's challenges. Tune in as Dr. Tibbs offers insights on nurturing strong family connections and promoting resilience in children.

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“Let your children know who their people are and let them have a good relationship with the people who are theirs because that is part of becoming legacy building for your family.”– Dr. Patricia Tibbs

Topics Covered:

(00:00:32) Introducing our special guest, Dr. Patricia Tibbs

(00:02:35) Expectations vs. Reality: Early Thoughts on a Medical Career

(00:04:15) The inspiring father of Dr. Patricia

(00:06:48) Overcoming the challenges of medical education

(00:07:46) Meeting Mr. Patrick Tibbs

(00:09:19) Passion for pediatric care

(00:12:17) Importance of family connections

(00:14:15) The power of words

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(00:16:28) The legacy-driven parenting

(00:18:48) Balancing parenthood and career demands

(00:20:59) Parents need help

(00:23:37) Dr. Patricia Tibbs's writing journey and inspiration.

(00:29:01) The enduring legacy of reading.

(00:30:14) Final TimeOut with Dr. Patricia Tibbs: How do we start from today to build a legacy for us and our children well?

Key Takeaways: 

“There's a way words fly out of your mouth when you're in passion, anger, irritation and they just kind of loiter around and they drop around and break people's hearts in ways you can't bring back.”– Dr. Patricia Tibbs

“There's a lot of ways in which you can build your family and there's very a lot of ways in which you can just damage it with a few poorly chosen words.”– Dr. Patricia Tibbs

“Always asking the question, what's the worst thing that could happen if I allow this to happen?”– Dr. Patricia Tibbs

“It's amazing how when you're in crisis and you're thinking outside the box and you're wondering what to do and you're praying about it, things happen.”– Dr. Patricia Tibbs

“You are not going to be able to be everything for everybody.” – Dr. Derrick Burgess

“There's this fallacy out there that if you're not at your child's everything, you're not a good mother.”– Dr. Patricia Tibbs

“Whatever it takes, build your team.”– Dr. Patricia Tibbs

“People have written books about Children, but none of our Children read those books properly and so you uniquely have to work with the character of each child.” – Dr. Patricia Tibbs

Connect with Dr. Patricia Tibbs:

Website: https://drpatriciatibbsbooks.com/ 

Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/patricia.tibbs.9619 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/patricia-tibbs-2584a523b/

Books: https://drpatriciatibbsbooks.com/book/camel-learns-a-lesson/; https://drpatriciatibbsbooks.com/book/camel-learns-a-lesson/; https://drpatriciatibbsbooks.com/book/cords-reflections-on-weaving-the-tapestry-of-life/ 

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Website: https://www.drderrickthesportsdr.com/

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YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCHGDu1zT4K_X6PnYELu8weg

Email: [email protected]

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