Curious never condemning steps to complete self healing

The real comforter of our lives:

I use to really allow my own jealousy to hinder and hurt so many of my relationships.

I hate the way jealousy made me feel,
Unattractive,
Undesirable 

 I considered
Where is all this coming from?

I’ve learned,

You gotta look at things like jealousy, as unnecessary self inflicted pain. 
You wouldn’t purposely stab yourself, aware of the consequences…
So why do it to your feelings and mind? Because the pain isn’t physical present before your eyes?

Jealousy is really a put down of yourself making another person’s opinion of you more important than your opinion of you.

Ask yourself what does this say about me?
Be curious not condemning?

Once you put a label on yourself you’re no longer willing to do anything that would contradict that label because a part of operating in our ego is believing that we’re right and so in order for the ego to continue to feel it’s egoism it must always believe it is right so when the ego says I am (blank)a label I have to operate in that label/energy so that I can always be right which feeds the ego. Also Scripture says that we have the power to call a thing that be not as though it were, ( Romans 4:17), so even though I think I’m just speaking I’m actually calling that into existence, thus manifestation.

Ego remember is Edging God Out
When we edge God out , normally that desire is rooted in pride and fear. 

The need to control our circumstances comes from the fear of reproducing undesireable past experiences.

We think, if we can “control” we also can predict.

The only omnipresent omnipotence entity or energy is God (her) himself; so the need or desire to control is an illusion with in itself.
Meaning, the individual who desires to control, is chasing a falsity and that’s why that individual’s life does not produce results, it produces predictable cycles and experiences.
Because the behaviors are the same which yield Predictability.


The opposite of Ego then can we say is surrender or Faith.

I created an acronym for faith. F.A.I.T.H.

•Fearless - God has not give us the spirit of Fear (2 Timothy 1:7).
•Alignment - God will order my steps (psalms37:23-24).
•Intentional - in all Thy doing do it diligently ( 2John 1:8).
•Thinking / Thankful - through prayer, supplication and thanksgiving ( Philippians 4:6).
•Healing- Harness my creative power and operating in it. - Call a thing that be not as though it were (Romans 4:17). 
Imagine what type of life this individual is creating….

I’m sure there’s less predictability and more spontaneity.😄

Do you know what the definition of spontaneity is according to Google who is most of our best friends spontaneity is, “(Of a person) having an open, natural, and uninhibited manner.”

That definition reminds me of a similar phrase we use or term “intuition.”

Intuition is our ability to hear inside.

The Bible says that God said he will leave you with a comforter. To always be with us, to guide us. 

I started to consider what is our comforter?

Was it that small voices side that we call “ gut feelings”,  or intuition. 

But, because, often the world likes and accepts scientific evidence over spiritual providence God is removed from the conversation and instead of calling it “ Holy Spirit” we started calling it our gut feeling or intuition.


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