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Suburban Urban Mom

28 episodes - English - Latest episode: about 2 years ago -

Blending a family can be one of the most daunting tasks that you and your family will face. Add to that the complications of raising teenagers, toddlers, children of different races, and a high-conflict bio-parent and you have a potential recipe for disaster. There is no handbook to how to be a perfect wife, mom, or stepmom but I do have a few tips and tricks that will help your household run more smoothly, your step-kids bond more naturally, and your mind to be more at ease.

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Episodes

The Fear of Motherhood

May 06, 2022 18:00 - 34 minutes - 23.7 MB

What was the defining moment in your motherhood journey that changed you? Support the show

Are We Really Prepared For Our Children To Grow Up?

February 07, 2022 16:00 - 20 minutes - 14.3 MB

Are they still children or are they adults? This episode is about finding balance between raising children to knowing when they are raised.  Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

Welcome Moms

September 21, 2021 14:00 - 19 minutes - 13.6 MB

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I'm Getting Too Old For This...

September 21, 2021 14:00 - 26 minutes - 18.5 MB

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Evil Stepmom

September 21, 2021 14:00 - 24 minutes - 17.1 MB

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Normalize 18 Still Being A Child

September 14, 2021 16:00 - 1 hour - 46 MB

Who told these kids that 18 is grown? What did you allow to happen JUST because they turned 18 years old? Over here, not much has changed. These kids still have to crawl before they walk. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

Back to School

August 10, 2021 14:00 - 49 minutes - 34.2 MB

Time for the kiddos to get back to school and for me to dish what's been going on with me in the last 3 months. Check it out.  Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

To Spank Or Not To Spank...That Is The Question

May 10, 2021 13:00 - 45 minutes - 31.2 MB

Do you spank your kids? What are your thoughts? Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

I Felt Unsafe On the Southside of Chicago

May 04, 2021 17:00 - 42 minutes - 29.5 MB

How many times have we heard about racial bias and microaggressions? The older I get, the more thin my patience gets with people and their literal racial ignorance.  Listen to my latest podcast to find out why! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

Why Do Women Take Relationship Advice From Men?

March 23, 2021 16:00 - 34 minutes - 23.4 MB

I had to comment on the recent hypocrisy of the infamous relationship "expert" cheating on his wife. *side eye, deep sigh, and everything in-between*   Why do women constantly take advice from men on how to get, keep, and please a man?  Listen to my thoughts and leave your comments on any of my listening platforms and/or social media accounts.  Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

Can Someone Who Was Raised With Love Handle Someone Raised From Survival

February 23, 2021 21:00 - 36 minutes - 25 MB

When I met my husband, he was as close to a feral child as you can get. He was raised poor, in a home where the adults didn't communicate to each other or the child, he wasn't told he was beautiful, smart, kind or loved. My childhood was just the opposite. I knew he was worthy of receiving love but he had to want to receive it and also be capable of giving it. Check out the latest episode to hear my thoughts! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

Proper Preparation Prevents Procrastination

February 08, 2021 16:00 - 21 minutes - 14.8 MB

Are your kids struggling in school? My son shared with me his thoughts on how he struggles with procrastination. Listen to my little tips on how to help your kiddo with the 4 P's of life.  Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

The Story Behind The "S" On Your Chest

February 01, 2021 16:00 - 38 minutes - 26.7 MB

Are you a parent or caretaker of a special needs child? Have you ever felt angry, sad, or depressed about your situation? Do you compare your kid to other "normal" kids?  Listen to this weeks episode as I share my own personal experience with being a mom of a special needs child.  Share your own stories in the comments below.  Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

Keeping Up With The Kids

January 26, 2021 16:00 - 27 minutes - 18.9 MB

Do you find yourself always comparing your kids success and milestones with that of their peers? If so, you are not alone. Listen to my advice on the "Keeping up with the Joneses" mentality.  Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

Fresh View On Old Love

January 11, 2021 17:00 - 27 minutes - 19.1 MB

Have you ever looked back at old pics and videos of you and your partner and wonder what happened to that young, happy, go-lucky couple? Long-term relationships/partnerships/marriages pose all types of challenges that sometimes make you re-evaluate (constantly) whether you really want to do this thing called forever. Listen to today's episode for tips on refreshing your old love! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

Emotional Abuse

January 05, 2021 15:00 - 1 hour - 46.3 MB

This episode touches on the topic of emotional abuse inflicted on a child from a parent. This happens more often than we think. Often times we make excuses for the abuse. Not today and not this mama! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

Holiday Cheer...?

December 07, 2020 17:00 - 47 minutes - 32.9 MB

On this episode I discuss my struggle with the holiday blues and tips that I use to cope with depression, isolation, Covid-19 gathering regulations, and grief. Please share your thoughts on how this holiday is affecting your mental and/or emotional health (good or bad). Suburban Urban Mom is here to be a listening ear. Happy Holidays! Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/suburbanurbanmom Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/suburbanurbanmom/ Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburba...

What Have I Done? - Episode 9

October 27, 2020 13:00 - 41 minutes - 28.5 MB

Are you raising ungrateful teens? Do your children take you for granted? I think we've all been there. This past weekend I had to teach my children a lesson on gratitude...which meant emancipating them for a few days just to get a dose of their own medicine.  Happy Listening! Send me your thoughts and opinions about this method at https://www.facebook.com/suburbanurbanmom or [email protected] Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

The Politics of Marriage - Episode 8

October 19, 2020 14:00 - 26 minutes - 18.4 MB

Corrected episode ------- Is it OK to discuss politics and/or religion with your spouse? What if their beliefs are different from yours? What about discussing this with friends? When is it politically correct to discuss politics? Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

Happy Fall Episode 7

September 22, 2020 19:00 - 21 minutes - 14.5 MB

This week I open up about the sometimes strained relationship between my son and my husband. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

Covid Mama - Episode 6

September 14, 2020 18:00 - 26 minutes - 18.2 MB

I got COVID-19! I share my symptoms and more.  Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

HCBM 2.0 - Episode 5

August 12, 2020 19:00 - 36 minutes - 24.8 MB

What do you do when the HCBM just won't leave you alone? What do you do when the HCBM constantly sends threats and vile messages? Tune in to find out. Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

High Conflict Birth Mothers - Episode 4

July 28, 2020 04:00 - 25 minutes - 17.3 MB

Do you have a HCBM? Today I share my most recent experience with the narcissist known as my step-daughter's birth mother. I wish we could all get along but unfortunately that is not the dynamic of our blended family. THE WOMAN IS INSANE!  Take a listen to her crazy drama and feel free to share your crazy HCBM moments as well. Thanks for listening! Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

Nacho Kid, Nacho Problem - Episode 3

July 14, 2020 00:00 - 24 minutes - 17.2 MB

Which NACHO style works best for you? Basic Nacho - Beginner's level nacho. Stepparent does certain tasks and responsibilities. Nacho Grande - Steps back considerably and places more responsibility on biological parent.  Nacho Supreme - Steps allllllllllllll the way back. Only there to make sure house doesn't burn down. Only steps in when it absolutely necessary.  Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

Nacho Kid, Nacho Problem

July 14, 2020 00:00 - 24 minutes - 17.2 MB

Which NACHO style works best for you? Basic Nacho - Beginner's level nacho. Stepparent does certain tasks and responsibilities. Nacho Grande - Steps back considerably and places more responsibility on biological parent.  Nacho Supreme - Steps allllllllllllll the way back. Only there to make sure house doesn't burn down. Only steps in when it absolutely necessary.  Support the show (https://www.patreon.com/suburbanurbanmom)

Evil Stepmoms - Episode 2

July 05, 2020 21:00 - 24 minutes - 16.6 MB

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Let Me Introduce Myself - Episode 1

July 02, 2020 00:00 - 19 minutes - 13.6 MB

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Welcome Moms

July 01, 2020 23:00 - 2 minutes - 1.76 MB

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