Why Am I Still Single ? - Rosemary Cunningham

Paul is joined by Rosemary Cunningham to talk about relationships and why the pair of them are still single, is it by choice or circumstance? There’s a lot of confusion around this topic, or even from people stuck in the wrong relationship.

KEY TAKEAWAYS

I’ve been single for over 10 years now. It wasn’t something I anticipated, I thought I’d be married with children, but it didn’t happen. I’ve seen more and more of my friends who always were in relationships go to being happily single and making different choices to the ones we thought we would be making years ago, and doing so happily.
I’ve started going onto dating apps for the first time in several years, and that’s been hugely exciting some times and massively overwhelming others, and very different to the experience I had in my 30s and 40s, much more discerning, much more slow paced and thoughtful and attracting people, for the most part who I can have deep conversations with… which wouldn’t have happened before!
I did a lot of internet dating in my 30s and 40s because I wanted to have a family with a partner, I didn’t want to be a single Mum. I had a lot of friends who were consciously becoming single Mums because they wanted the children more than a partnership, for me I wanted both. I think that came from a place of fear, scarcity, I’m not good enough and compromise, and it got to a point where my sister died and my menopause started and I realised that was never going to happen. From that point on I’ve barely looked, instead my higher self has taken me on quite a profound spiritual path instead.
All our beliefs are formed and set by the time we’re 8, and I remember looking at my Mum and Dad and getting a sense that things weren’t quite right – they stayed together for 51 years. You’re observing them and you want to please them and keep them happy, and forms our beliefs around self-worth and that is directly associated with net worth. If we don’t feel good about ourselves it’s really challenging managing our weight, finances or relationships, they’re all reflections of the same thing, they’re all connected and all go back to us before the age of 8 and what we took on as our truths. In 2022, we need to choose not to take that with us.

BEST MOMENTS

‘We live a lot more working from home and I’ve had the most phenomenal Zoom. We now don’t need to be in the same room to look into someone else’s eyes and connect with them deeply.’

‘Women still have work to do to honour ourselves and allow ourselves to dream and have a vision of something much more than we have at the moment.’

‘I naturally look after people, I’m an ex-nurse, I like to help people to be safe and do what they want to do and find independence, growth, autonomy and sovereignty, and for women that often means having their own money that no one can touch.’ 

‘The old idea of having just one life partner is still true for some people, but not for most now.’

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (UK): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Emerging-Forest-Pain-Purpose-Mastering/dp/1719373272

Paul’s Story: Emerging From The Forest (USA): https://www.amazon.com/Emerging-Forest-Pain-Purpose-Mastering/dp/1719373272

Mastering The Game Of Life Book (UK): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Mastering-Game-Life-Paul-Lowe/dp/1782227679

Mastering The Game Of Life Book (USA): https://www.amazon.com/Mastering-Game-Life-Paul-Lowe/dp/1782227679

Speaking From Our Hearts Books: Volumes 1-3 (Available on Amazon)
World Game-Changers Group

ABOUT THE GUEST

Rosemary Cunningham’s first career was nursing, but she had problems with her hands which meant it couldn’t be her full time career. 

She founded her own complementary therapy business in 1993 where she helps women who want to find their passion and purpose and create a business that brings all of themselves into one pot.  She’s a healer, a business and money coach, a nurse, she can be very grounded and extremely spiritual too.

Rosemary has always loved her work but it has been very challenging.  Her mission now is to help her clients find a much easier path. Business can be fun, light and even easy… it’s all about mindset. 

Recently, Rosemary studied brain training and conscious creation and this is part of her coaching.  She helps her clients find new ways of thinking and speaking to create a very different reality, the one they really want, not the one they think they deserve  or have been taught is for them. 

She left her part time nursing job in 1999 to run the business full time and now works with women who really want to make a difference.

Websites: http://www.rosemarycunningham.co.uk/ and https://womenwinningonline.com/ 

LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/rosemarycunningham/?originalSubdomain=uk 

Email: [email protected] 

ABOUT THE HOST

Paul has made a remarkable transformation from existing for many years in dark, desperate despair; to now living a really healthy, happy and fulfilling life.

From an early age, he was in the vice-like clutches of the demon drink and constantly embroiled within a dark cocktail of toxic beliefs, self-hate and destructive violence.

Along with his empathetic and dedicated team of world-class coaches and mentors, Paul’s purpose is deeply transformational:

Creating New Life Stories...

He is extremely passionate about helping others to find their purpose, have a voice and ultimately, make a real difference.  

This has been built on a long and distinguished history of heart-centred coaching and mentoring.  He has also been responsible for raising significant amounts of funds for many charities and good causes around the world; positively impacting and inspiring thousands of children – mainly from challenging backgrounds – within the UK & worldwide.

Through this World Game-Changers podcast and books, he has been involved in – including being a best-selling co-author – Paul also helps others to get their own inspirational messages and stories out into the world; as well as offering support to many charitable organisations, in their development & fund-raising.

CONTACT METHODS

Tel: +44 (0) 7958 042 155

E-mail: [email protected]

Web: https://www.Paul-Lowe.com

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