Who Am I

Life often throws bad things our way but it’s how we react that matters. In this episode, Paul reads an extract from his book Speaking From OUR HEARTS , where Kevin Searcey details some of the most difficult parts of his life. Listen for how to stay loving in your life, and how to learn from someone who has thought deeply about who they are. Who Am I? is a question we all ask ourselves, listen ahead to hear Kevin's answer to that question.

Key Takeaways

Who Am I? This is a question that we all ask ourselves at some point in our lives. Kevin tries to answers that question in terms of his own life.

Moving back with my parents it really hit home what his identity was. Changing from a husband and the bread-winner to moving home with his parents, as well as having a painful knee operation from a martial arts injury.  Kevin missed his kids extremely badly. This was when he first started questioning 'Who am I?

He sold his beloevd Reliant Robin. By now, he was feeling sorry for himself, with a crippling knee injury and a mind full of negative thoughts.  He believed his kids deserved a better dad.

Kevin's heart skipped a beat when he finally spoke to the blonde woman from the dance floor, who eventually turned out to be his soulmate. His world became challenged however, when she told me she was already married; although they did build a good friendship over the next few weeks.

Kevin then got a one bedroom flat from the housing association and tried to save money, so he could go to the nightclub 'Turners'; as well as being able to have some money to spend on his children. Over time, the two of them fell in love.

Prosperity is usually linked to financial rewards; but for Kevin, it couldn’t be further from the truth. Love and shared family are more important. He's now moving on and embracing his identity as a warrior.

Words Of Wisdom - It’s better to be a loving warrior than a nervous worrier

Best Moments

‘My parents were extremely supportive.’

‘I got some money and all I could think of was buying my kids a McDonalds.’

‘My world became challenged however when she told me she was married.’

‘We fell in love over the next few weeks.’

‘She’d tried to make it work, but couldn’t

‘Prosperity is usually linked to financial rewards, and for me that couldn’t be further from the truth’

‘I was running on emotional fumes.’

VALUABLE RESOURCES

Speaking From Our HEARTS (Paul's Book): https://www.amazon.co.uk/Speaking-our-Hearts-Mastering-game/dp/1781332819
Emerging From The Forest (Paul's Book): Paul Lowe - ‘Emerging From The Forest’
http://www.paullowehearts.com/

ABOUT THE HOST

Something that’s never been attached to Paul is the label ‘normal’ – for which he is immensely proud.  He definitely subscribes to being one of those mentioned – in the Steve Jobs quote:

“Here's to the crazy ones, the misfits, the rebels, the troublemakers, the round pegs in the square holes... the ones who see things differently -- they're not fond of rules... You can quote them, disagree with them, glorify or vilify them, but the only thing you can't do is ignore them because they change things... they push the human race forward, and while some may see them as the crazy ones, we see genius, because the ones who are crazy enough to think that they can change the world, are the ones who do.”

Paul Lowe is the founder of PaulLoweHEARTS – which has a three-fold purpose. 

Firstly, to help you make the transition from Pain to Purpose; secondly, to get your inspirational messages and stories out into the world and thirdly, to support charitable organisations in their development & fund-raising.

We achieve this by:

Delivering our empowering Mindset For Success programmes
Sharing your true-life inspirational messages and stories through our Mastering Life Podcast and our Speaking From Our HEARTS book series
Utilising our significant charitable knowledge and experience.

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Paul is totally committed to his HEARTS brand vision (an acronym) of:

‘Helping Everyone Achieve Results Towards Success’.

He has a long and distinguished track-record of raising significant funds for a multitude of good causes; positively changing the lives of many disadvantaged children within the UK and globally – drawing on his colourful and wide-ranging life’s experiences to help others do the same and achieve success in the game of life.

“Remember – Mastering Life Starts, By Embracing Our HEARTS!”

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