Ep 621: Unlocking Resilience: Keys to A Trauma-Free 2024 with Bob Gardner

In this episode of The Sisterhood of Sweat, host Linda Mitchell engages in a thought-provoking conversation with Bob Gardner, an expert in trauma resolution. Bob shares valuable insights on freeing oneself from PTSD and trauma without the need for extensive talk therapy or lifelong commitments. The duo explores practical tools for individuals facing trauma, offering unique perspectives on managing difficult situations. They delve into the science behind trauma responses, emphasizing the importance of challenging the stories we create about our experiences. Bob's innovative approach to addressing trauma involves separating emotions from conversations, allowing for a more intentional and empowered response.

Questions I asked:

·      What are some tools for people facing trauma and abuse?

·      How can individuals deal with berating or abusive situations when they can't escape?

·      Can you provide tips for women dealing with intense conflicts, especially with family members or close relationships?

·      What is the science behind trauma responses, and how do they develop?

·      How can people navigate situations where someone is goading them for a response without getting drawn into the conflict?

·      What are some ways people can free themselves from PTSD and trauma right now?

·      Where can people find you online?

Topics Discussed:

·      Overcoming addiction and trauma.

·       Using breathing techniques to overcome addiction and trauma.

·       Managing emotions and overcoming depression.

·       Managing emotions and reactions to difficult situations.

·       Managing stress and creativity through unconventional methods.

·       Trauma response and its impact on the brain and body.

·       Managing emotions and taking control of reactions.

·       Communication, intimidation, and emotional responses.

·       Communication methods and their effects on relationships.

·       Challenging and reframing traumatic experiences.

·       Healing from childhood trauma and abuse.

Quotes from the show:

·      "Honestly, just do it louder. If you interrupt the conversation with heavier breathing and bigger movements, the other person would be like, 'What are you doing?'" Bob Gardner @SisterhoodofSweat

·      "A lot of the training and the stuff that I developed came out of martial arts training, it came out of looking at how people resolve conflict psychologically." Bob Gardner @SisterhoodofSweat

·      "Leave the person in confusion because when they're confused, they're looking for you to lead the situation." Bob Gardner @SisterhoodofSweat

·      "People might look at you weird, but especially if you're older, you have permission to be weird." Bob Gardner @SisterhoodofSweat

·      "Survival first, even with special operatives, get out of there, then learn to do it better." Bob Gardner @SisterhoodofSweat

How you can stay in touch with Bob:

·      https://www.facebook.com/thebobthegardner

·      https://www.facebook.com/thebobgardner

·      [email protected]

·      https://www.thefreedomspecialist.com/

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