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Sober Dating Is A Superpower! With "Drinking Games" Author, Sarah Levy

Today’s guest is Sarah Levy; she’s a writer in recovery and author of the new book “Drinking Games.” At the age of 28, Sarah, on paper, looked like she had it all together, a great job – and a successful life that was on track. The truth was she felt empty and alone, suffered from blackouts, and repeatedly put herself in dangerous situations. Sarah thought using alcohol helped heal her broken heart, empowered her to date, and quenched her thirst for validation. But drinking only numbed her p...

Why Sober Dating Is A Superpower When Searching For Love With "Drinking Games" Author, Sarah Levy

Today’s guest is Sarah Levy; she’s a writer in recovery and author of the new book “Drinking Games.” At the age of 28, Sarah, on paper, looked like she had it all together, a great job – and a successful life that was on track. The truth was she felt empty and alone, suffered from blackouts, and repeatedly put herself in dangerous situations. Sarah thought using alcohol helped heal her broken heart, empowered her to date, and quenched her thirst for validation. But drinking only numbed her p...

Are You Dating? Great News! 2023 Astrological Forecast With Astrologer Jill Jardine

In this new calendar year, what are we going to do differently? And what tools do we need to get from where we are to where we want to go? When we show up differently, what shows up for us is different. Today, we discuss the astrological forecast for the new year with well-known astrologer Jill Jardine. Jill will explain why love is in the cards for you in 2023 while sharing her predictions about romance and identifying the best times to date, how to set the tone for the upcoming year, and s...

Change Your Radius & Radically Change Your Dating Life With Dating Coach, Lori Mendelsohn

Do you want to change your dating life and are looking for love - then change your location! Or you could drive to your closest city and change the radius on your dating app, try out a new neighborhood hot spot, or do what this week’s guest Lori Mendelsohn did. Lori Mendelsohn packed up her two dogs at age 66 and moved from Wisconsin to Maine. As a result of this bold and brave move, she started dating someone new and tripled her business. Lori shares how changing her environment changed eve...

Life-Changing Results Discovered In Unusual Places With Dating Coach, Lori Mendelsohn

Do you want to change your dating life and are looking for love - then change your location! Or you could drive to your closest city and change the radius on your dating app, try out a new neighborhood hot spot, or do what this week’s guest Lori Mendelsohn did. Lori Mendelsohn packed up her two dogs at age 66 and moved from Wisconsin to Maine. As a result of this bold and brave move, she started dating someone new and tripled her business. Lori shares how changing her environment changed eve...

A Memoir Of Love: How To Embrace New Chapters With Novelist Elin Hilderbrand

Today's episode is titled "A Memoir of Love: How to Embrace New Chapters with novelist Elin Hilderbrand”. Elin Hilderbrand is the author of 28 best-selling books and the queen of the beach read. She’s in town working on her last revisions for book #29! Her muse is the magical island of Nantucket, and her novels include stories of romance, friendships, ex-wives, passionate affairs, and matchmaking. People often wonder how much of Elin's real life is behind these pages - if you think the chara...

Memoir Of Love: Embracing New Chapters With Novelist Elin Hilderbrand

Today's episode is titled "A Memoir of Love: How to Embrace New Chapters with novelist Elin Hilderbrand”. Elin Hilderbrand is the author of 28 best-selling books and the queen of the beach read. She’s in town working on her last revisions for book #29! Her muse is the magical island of Nantucket, and her novels include stories of romance, friendships, ex-wives, passionate affairs, and matchmaking. People often wonder how much of Elin's real life is behind these pages - if you think the chara...

When In Doubt, Don't Send The Text! With Redo Love Founder, Flora Ong (Part Two)

Today, we welcome back Flora Ong, the incredible dating coach and founder of Redo Love! And she discusses how to stop responding to low-effort behavior. Engaging in low-effort behavior creates more of the same. It also shows others what we will accept or tolerate. Unfortunately, we avoid cutting off low-effort behavior because we don't want to feel empty or lonely or have to look within ourselves to figure out why we were accepting this kind of behavior from the beginning. Flora shares how u...

How To Stop Living Off A "Meme Or A Dream" With Redo Love Founder, Flora Ong

Today we’ll discuss dating faux pas with Flora Ong, dating coach and founder of Redo Love. Flora feels one of the most unattractive things you can do is tell people who you are instead of showing them. People with a lot of unhealed trauma tend to live behind what Flora calls “a meme and a dream."  Flora shares tips around communicating better, trusting yourself, and learning why you attract the kind of people you do. She also shares what she’s learned from multiple failed dating episodes, an...

Stop Living Off A "Meme Or A Dream" With Redo Love Founder, Flora Ong

Today we’ll discuss dating faux pas with Flora Ong, dating coach and founder of Redo Love. Flora feels one of the most unattractive things you can do is tell people who you are instead of showing them. People with a lot of unhealed trauma tend to live behind what Flora calls “a meme and a dream."  Flora shares tips around communicating better, trusting yourself, and learning why you attract the kind of people you do. She also shares what she’s learned from multiple failed dating episodes, an...

Avoid An Inquisition & Loss Of Interest With Date Detective Randy "Moose" Gomez

Today's topic is how to avoid questions that lead to interrogations. Getting to know someone is one thing but placing a person in the hot seat can be stressful and off-putting. Many ask Q&A-style questions because they need to know, but in the early stages of dating, you're on a need-to-know basis. There's a better way to gain information, and that's by listening! This week's guest will lend his expert ear and share strategies for gathering data. His name is Randy "Moose" Gomez, and he's the...

How To Avoid An Inquisition & Loss Of Interest With Date Detective Randy "Moose" Gomez

Today's topic is how to avoid questions that lead to interrogations. Getting to know someone is one thing but placing a person in the hot seat can be stressful and off-putting. Many ask Q&A-style questions because they need to know, but in the early stages of dating, you're on a need-to-know basis. There's a better way to gain information, and that's by listening! This week's guest will lend his expert ear and share strategies for gathering data. His name is Randy "Moose" Gomez, and he's the...

How Love Can Find You With 14th & 2nd Author, Charlie Cifarelli

This week I have the privilege to highlight the incredible story of Charlie Cifarelli. Charlie had everything in life he set out to achieve until one day; his world fell apart over a national story about a dog named Star. What started as a journey to save a dog, in turn, would save him. Star taught Charlie everything he needed to learn about love. Charlie went from having a transactional life with value on useless things and realized what he thought he wanted didn’t make him happy. We look f...

Love Can Find You With 14th & 2nd Author, Charlie Cifarelli

This week I have the privilege to highlight the incredible story of Charlie Cifarelli. Charlie had everything in life he set out to achieve until one day; his world fell apart over a national story about a dog named Star. What started as a journey to save a dog, in turn, would save him. Star taught Charlie everything he needed to learn about love. Charlie went from having a transactional life with value on useless things and realized what he thought he wanted didn’t make him happy. We look f...

Dating Fatigue: How To Cope And Conquer With Business Coach Michelle Oliver

Today's topic is how to avoid dating fatigue. Are you burned out from swiping, uninspired by conversations over text, or feeling hopeless when it comes to dating? This week's guest is going to shift our mindset, and her name is Michelle Oliver, she's a business coach, and she's going to show us how we can reframe our thinking so we can cope and continue on our journey (that doesn't need to be so difficult) of finding love. Michelle will share strategies around being open to the unexpected, n...

Hungry For Love? With LunchDates Executive Matchmaker Jill Vandor

Finding that connection and being in a relationship is one of the most critical things in our lives. The million-dollar question is, how do we find that? Or is there another way to find love other than a dating app? Today we’ll find out! This week's guest is Jill Vandor, she’s a dating and relationship coach, love extraordinaire and executive matchmaker at LunchDates - Boston's locally owned matchmaking service that is celebrating 40 years in business. She's been responsible for relationship...

Cosmic Kick Off Of Cuffing Season With Astrologer Jill Jardine

Today's guest is Astrologer and psychic healer Jill Jardine, and today she'll discuss why the fall is the perfect timeto fall in love. Autumn has arrived, and you knowwhat that means it’s Cuffing Season! The search to shack up is on! Many are looking for a new love interest to stay warm during these colder months. The fall equinox is an incredible time to take things to the next level if you're single, and Cuffing Season is when singles are more inclined to settle into a serious relationship...

Cosmic Kick Off Of Cuffing Season With Astrologer Jill Jardine

Today's guest is Astrologer and psychic healer Jill Jardine, and today she'll discuss why the fall is the perfect timeto fall in love. Autumn has arrived, and you knowwhat that means it’s Cuffing Season! The search to shack up is on! Many are looking for a new love interest to stay warm during these colder months. The fall equinox is an incredible time to take things to the next level if you're single, and Cuffing Season is when singles are more inclined to settle into a serious relationship...

Single & Loving It! How To Use This Sexy Solo Time As Your Superpower With Breakup Coach Janice Formichella

Today, we're discussing breakups, broken heart, and moving on – and this week’s expert is Janice Formichella. She’s a breakup coach, writer and host of the podcast the Ex-Philes (with a PH, not an F). When you're in the process of a painful breakup, you forget how much power you have and how much is in your control. Believe it or not, you are in charge of how you’ll handle moving forward and can choose how you feel each day. It's common to feel sorry for yourself, and many of us lose our ide...

How To Find Love In 60 Seconds With Bravo's Great Love Debate Host Brian Howie

Let’s face it, Dating can be discouraging and feeling hopeless is (ALL TO) common. Often, we don’t know what we’re doing on these dating apps. So, Today’s goal is to find the hope that we’ve lost. With that said, I’m excited to announce this week’s guest Brian Howie. Time Magazine named Brian - America’s #1 Dating Enthusiast, and he’s the creator of The Great Love Debate, A Live show featured on Bravo. The premise of the show is to sell hope. The Great Love Debate World Tour is just that … W...

Find Love In 60 Seconds With Bravo's Great Love Debate Host Brian Howie

Let’s face it, Dating can be discouraging and feeling hopeless is (ALL TO) common. Often, we don’t know what we’re doing on these dating apps. So, Today’s goal is to find the hope that we’ve lost. With that said, I’m excited to announce this week’s guest Brian Howie. Time Magazine named Brian - America’s #1 Dating Enthusiast, and he’s the creator of The Great Love Debate, A Live show featured on Bravo. The premise of the show is to sell hope. The Great Love Debate World Tour is just that … W...

How To Sort Through Profiles Like A Pro With Amy Nobile - Founder Of Love, Amy

This week, we welcome back Amy Nobile, the founder of Love, Amy, a dating concierge service based in NYC that helps you find love. Did you know amazing people are disguised as mediocre profiles all over these dating apps? Today, Amy shows us how to sort through profiles like a pro, clarify our core values and why we shouldn't be so quick to judge. She shares why it's important to show who you are every step of the way and how to put the fun back into dating. Showing up as yourself - not your...

Freedom From Fear And Danger When Dating With The Date Detective Randy "Moose" Gomez

Did you know that people are the most vulnerable regarding their love life? And safety is a real concern for online daters. This week’s topic is how to be alert on these dating apps and how to avoid dangerous situations when you do go out on a date. We have control over the narrative and our safety, Today’s guest is the “Date Detective” Randy Gomez, lovingly known by his nickname Moose. Moose spent 30 years as a bail bondsman and 25 years as a private detective and now uses all the skills he...

How To Avoid The Tinder Swindler With The Date Detective Randy "Moose" Gomez

Did you know that people are the most vulnerable regarding their love life? And safety is a real concern for online daters. This week’s topic is how to be alert on these dating apps and how to avoid dangerous situations when you do go out on a date. We have control over the narrative and our safety, Today’s guest is the “Date Detective” Randy Gomez, lovingly known by his nickname Moose. Moose spent 30 years as a bail bondsman and 25 years as a private detective and now uses all the skills he...

How First Dates Should Be With Bravo’s Millionaire Matchmaker Host Marisa Saks, & Founder Of Caviar Lifestyles Dating App

Today’s topic is all about connecting with like-minded people. It’s proven that people connect by having similar interests and with the things they have in common. This week’s guest is Marisa Saks. She’s the former host of Bravo TV’s Millionaire Matchmaker and the founder of Caviar Lifestyles, a social networking and dating app. Caviar’s goal is to have lifestyle experiences as the center of social connection thus solving many of the user frustrations with traditional dating apps. People are...

First Date Cheat-Sheet With Bravo’s Millionaire Matchmaker Host Marisa Saks, & Founder Of Caviar Lifestyles Dating App

Today’s topic is all about connecting with like-minded people. It’s proven that people connect by having similar interests and with the things they have in common. This week’s guest is Marisa Saks. She’s the former host of Bravo TV’s Millionaire Matchmaker and the founder of Caviar Lifestyles, a social networking and dating app. Caviar’s goal is to have lifestyle experiences as the center of social connection thus solving many of the user frustrations with traditional dating apps. People are...

How First Date’s Should Be With Bravo’s Millionaire Matchmaker Host Marisa Saks, & Founder Of Caviar Lifestyles Dating App

Today’s topic is all about connecting with like-minded people. It’s proven that people connect by having similar interests and with the things they have in common. This week’s guest is Marisa Saks, and she’s the former host of Bravo’s TV’s Millionaire Matchmaker and the founder of Caviar Lifestyles, a social networking and dating app. Caviar’s goal is to have lifestyle experiences as the center of social connection solving many of the user frustrations with traditional dating apps. People ar...

Staying Together: Oscar Winner Chris Cooper & Marianne Leone Cooper, Actor/Writer Talks Highs Of Hollywood, Trading Off In Tough Times And Being A Team

Today's topic is staying together. Every love story is profoundly different and unique. And for those who don't find everlasting love, we head to the movies to be reminded that it is possible and does exist. Movies teach humanity and make us feel less alone. They lift us up and instill hope. And sometimes we need movies so we can momentarily forget our lives and have a good cry or laugh so hard we forget why we were crying in the first place! If you are a great actor – their words and story ...

Staying Together: Oscar Winner Chris Cooper & Marianne Leone Cooper, Actor/Writer Talks Highs Of Hollywood, Trading Off In Tough Times and Being A Team

Today's topic is staying together. Every love story is profoundly different and unique. And for those who don't find everlasting love, we head to the movies to be reminded that it is possible and does exist. Movies teach humanity and make us feel less alone. They lift us up and instill hope. And sometimes we need movies so we can momentarily forget our lives and have a good cry or laugh so hard we forget why we were crying in the first place! If you are a great actor – their words and story ...

At Last! How To Fall In Love With The Right One With Khaliq Glover And Raven Blair Glover

Today is part two of Raven Blair Glover's inspiring story. She's the talk show maven and founder of the Raven International Broadcast Empire and Power Me Up Radio Talk 24/7 on iHeart Radio. At age 60, she found love with Grammy Award-Winning Mixing Engineer Khaliq Glover. Khaliq will join Raven and share his thoughts on love. They'll share how falling in love with the right person changed their lives. Many positive things happen when you find your soul mate…you become a better version of you...

That Attractor Factor: Raven Blair Glover Interviews Kerry Brett

This week is a special bonus episode! Kerry Brett, the host of Shot@Love is interviewed by Raven Blair Glover, the Talk Show Maven and the founder of Power Me Up Radio, on iHeart Radio. We discuss the biggest challenge single’s face and that is fear. Fear of the unknown–that potentially someone won’t like us, or that no one will love us. But once we realize these are just storylines we tell ourselves as a form of protection, and it’s simply not true. If we believe these lies, it only serves ...

How To Have That Attractor Factor: Raven Blair Glover Interviews Kerry Brett

This week is a special bonus episode! Kerry Brett, the host of Shot@Love is interviewed by Raven Blair Glover, the Talk Show Maven and the founder of Power Me Up Radio, on iHeart Radio. We discuss the biggest challenge single’s face and that is fear. Fear of the unknown–that potentially someone won’t like us, or that no one will love us. But once we realize these are just storylines we tell ourselves as a form of protection, and it’s simply not true. If we believe these lies, it only serves ...

Don’t Wait To Be Great - How To Give Yourself Permission To Go For It! With Talk Show Maven Raven Blair Glover

It’s never too late for a new beginning or to live the life of your dreams. Just ask Raven Blair Glover, the Talk Show Maven, founder of Raven International Broadcast Empire, and Power Me Up Radio Talk 24/7. After years of searching for her purpose, Raven began to fulfill her lifelong dream by creating a show on a hospital computer at the age of 55 at her mother’s bedside at the Methodist Hospital in Texas – a show she took all the way to the top! Jack Canfield calls her the best interviewer...

Don’t Wait To Be Great - How To Give Yourself Permission To Go For It! With Talk Show Maven Raven Blair Glover

It’s never too late for a new beginning or to live the life of your dreams. Just ask Raven Blair Glover, the Talk Show Maven, founder of Raven International Broadcast Empire, and Power Me Up Radio Talk 24/7. After years of searching for her purpose, Raven began to fulfill her lifelong dream by creating a show on a hospital computer at the age of 55 at her mother’s bedside at the Methodist Hospital in Texas – a show she took all the way to the top! Jack Canfield calls her the best interviewer...

Date More Stress Less With My Little Black Book Co-Founders Billie Prisby and Melissa Gross

Today's guests are Billie Prisby and Melissa Gross, the co-founders of the new app–My Little Black Book–The Dating Organizer launching in August. This app will revolutionize the complicated world of online dating.   The truth is–dating apps can be overwhelming, time-consuming, and unorganized. Billie and Melissa share how they’ve developed an organizational productivity system, so you can enjoy dating in a fun, easy, and safe way so finding love won’t feel like a full-time job!   Billie Pri...

Date More Stress Less With My Little Black Book Co-Founders Billie Prisby and Melissa Gross.

Today's guests are Billie Prisby and Melissa Gross, the co-founders of the new app––My Little Black Book–The Dating Organizer launching in August. This app will revolutionize the complicated world of online dating.   The truth is––dating apps can be overwhelming, time-consuming, and unorganized. Billie and Melissa share how they’ve developed an organizational productivity system, so you can enjoy dating in a fun, easy, and safe way so finding love won’t feel like a full-time job!    Billie P...

Searching For A Unicorn In An Online World: 10 Things Women Wished You Knew With Writer, Mara Stefan.

In this week’s episode we discuss 10 tips for showing up online as yourwonderfully unique and attractive self. Today’s guestisMara Stefan who wrote the article that was published in the Good Men Project titled Searching for a Unicorn in an Online World: 10 Things Women Wished You Knew. We discuss how to make the task of sorting through all of the profiles a little easier, why the eyes have it, why you should smile in your photographs, be available emotionally and for God sake keep your cloth...

Searching For A Unicorn In An Online World: 10 Things Women Wished You Knew With Writer, Mara Stefan

In this week’s episode we discuss 10 tips for showing up online as yourwonderfully unique and attractive self. Today’s guestisMara Stefan who wrote the article that was published in the Good Men Project titled Searching for a Unicorn in an Online World: 10 Things Women Wished You Knew. We discuss how to make the task of sorting through all of the profiles a little easier, why the eyes have it, why you should smile in your photographs, be available emotionally and for God sake keep your cloth...

Flip The Victim Mode Script And Get In Your Power With Author & Therapist Jill Sylvester

Too often, we default to victim mode when dating, and falling into this mindset hurts our results. Today's guest is Jill Sylvester, a licensed therapist and author of the book, Trust Your Intuition. Jill helps us avoid staying stuck, feeling bad about our past mistakes, and how to find confidence in our abilities. Summer is the time to be out dating, and there is no reason to hold ourselves back. Why are we waiting months, weeks, or days to find love? Jill shares how she helps her clients re...

Summer Dating Tips - An Interview With Kerry Brett On Trust Your Intuition Podcast - Special Episode

Kerry Brett is in the hot seat! This week Kerry appears as a guest on Jill Sylvester's podcast Trust Your Intuition. Kerry lays it all out there and gives you her best advice to find love this summer! Kerry shares tips and strategies that worked for her and the people she's helped. Trust Your Intuition Podcast can be found on all platforms. Stay tuned for Shot@Love's upcoming episode with Jill Sylvester, where she shares advice that Jill gives to her clients as a licensed mental health coun...

You Have To Believe Things Will Get Better With Author & Therapist Jill Sylvester - Remastered

This episode aired two years ago and is still current today. It’s packed with great information! And tune in next week when we bring Jill Sylvester back for more powerful tips around online dating.  Jill Sylvester is a licensed mental health counselor and author of "Trust Your Intuition." In this week’s episode, Jill teaches us the importance of trusting yourself and listening to your intuition when dating. Jill shows us how to transform anxiety and depression for stronger mental health. It...

Why You Have To Believe Things Will Get Better With Author & Therapist Jill Sylvester - Remastered

This episode aired two years ago and is still current today. It’s packed with great information! And tune in next week when we bring Jill Sylvester back for more powerful tips around online dating.  Jill Sylvester is a licensed mental health counselor and author of "Trust Your Intuition." In this week’s episode, Jill teaches us the importance of trusting yourself and listening to your intuition when dating. Jill shows us how to transform anxiety and depression for stronger mental health. It...

Leading With Loneliness? Change Your Energy & Be A Magnet For Love With Celebrity Energy Healer Annie Parker

Are you leading with loneliness? Let’s find out! Today’s guest is Annie Parker. She’s a Reiki Master, Hypnotherapist, and Intuitive Healer, who helps you clear blocks from the past so you can be a magnet for love. In this week’s episode, she’ll teach you how to regain your power, close that door on an ex and make room for your future and use your intuition when dating to attract the love you deserve. Remove feelings of lack and loneliness because sometimes, when swiping, it feels like you h...

Reiki Master and Shamanic Healer Annie Parker Chats with Kerry

Are You Leading With Loneliness? How To Change Your Energy & Be A Magnet For Love With Celebrity Energy Healer Annie Parker

Are you leading with loneliness? Let’s find out! Today’s guest is Annie Parker. She’s a Reiki Master, Hypnotherapist, and Intuitive Healer, who helps you clear blocks from the past so you can be a magnet for love. In this week’s episode, she’ll teach you how to regain your power, close that door on an ex and make room for your future and use your intuition when dating to attract the love you deserve. Remove feelings of lack and loneliness because sometimes, when swiping, it feels like you h...

Nice Guys DO Exist! How To Find Them On Match.Com With Kristine Brennan

Do you think your life needs to be perfect to find love? This is not true, and today's episode will prove otherwise while instilling hope in humanity and changing your negative beliefs around online dating. Sometimes life throw's so many things at you that it's impossible to handle them on your own, and when you think things can't get any worse, you can catch a break, and an amazing knight in shining armor can ride up on a horse because you swiped right! This week's guest is my oldest friend...

Did Your Last Relationship Fail? Things You Need To Know About The Answer With Psychologist Richard DiNapoli

Today, we'll discuss fascinating psychological insights from psychologist Richard DiNapoli, who has 30 years of experience helping is clients in the area of relationships. A psychologist studies how we think, behave and feel. His job is to listen to people’s issues and guide them accordingly, but you don't need a Ph.D to be a good listener; trust your instincts, feelings, or emotions. In this week’s episode, Rich will share his expertise around the tell tale question why did your last relati...

Why Did Your Last Relationship Fail? Things You Need To Know About The Answer With Psychologist Richard DiNapoli

Today, we'll discuss fascinating psychological insights from psychologist Richard DiNapoli, who has 30 years of experience helping is clients in the area of relationships. A psychologist studies how we think, behave and feel. His job is to listen to people’s issues and guide them accordingly, but you don't need a Ph.D to be a good listener; trust your instincts, feelings, or emotions. In this week’s episode, Rich will share his expertise around the tell tale question why did your last relati...

Why Did Your Last Relationship Fail? Things You Need To Know About The Answer With Psychologist And Relationship Counselor Richard DiNapoli

Professional Astrologer Jill Jardine Shares Her Summer Of 2020 Love Forecast with Key Dates