Shooters Gotta Shoot
192 episodes - English - Latest episode: 9 months ago - ★★★★★ - 610 ratingsComedian Erica Spera brings on a guest each week to talk about dating and relationships. In 2019, Erica publicly came out about having herpes, and how that has affected her dating life. Since then, no topic is off limits. She takes a sports mentality when it comes to dating, and instead of throwing in the towel she breaks down different relationship books, research, tricks and tips with her guests to see what is real and what is B.S. Support this podcast: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/shootersgottashoot/support
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#132 The Science of Rewiring Your Heart 💜 Breakup Bootcamp w/ Amy Chan
March 31, 2022 04:43 - 57 minutes - 79.5 MBAuthor Amy Chan joins Erica this week to discuss her book Breakup Bootcamp, and how to rewire your brain and your heart after a breakup. They talk about the Sunk Cost Fallacy theory, the differences in how men and women fall in love, if you should give someone a heads up before calling it quits, how to deal with shame in dating, and so much more. The end of the episode features a Patreon preview. Get extra exclusive episodes & your questions answered by Erica on the Patreon: https://www.pat...
#131 Surprise Pregnancy 😲 w/ Jon Fisch
March 24, 2022 07:46 - 52 minutes - 72.5 MBComedian Jon Fisch joins Erica this week to discuss his journey into fatherhood, and how life isn't always what you planned. They talk about his initial reaction to the news, telling your parents, the financial pressures of settling down, what online dating opener hooked his fiance, and much more. The end of the episode features a Patreon preview. Get extra exclusive episodes & your questions answered by Erica on the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Follow us on Instagra...
#130 Signs They're Serious About You w/ Chris James
March 17, 2022 06:54 - 54 minutes - 75.2 MBComedian Chris James joins Erica this week to discuss Matthew Hussey's "11 Signs He’s Serious About You". They talk about what gestures really mean something, what men consider important in relationships, how men will put up with inconveniences when they like you, what makes men want to settle down, and much more. The end of the episode features a Patreon preview. Get extra exclusive episodes & your questions answered by Erica on the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Foll...
#129 Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus w/ Jourdain Fisher
March 10, 2022 08:32 - 1 hour - 84.3 MBComedian Jourdain Fisher joins Erica this week to talk all about some highlights from the book Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. They discuss what the major differences are between how men and women communicate, the differences in how they feel love, how they can use the same word but have entirely different meaning, why you should never say "we NEVER go out", and much more. The end of the episode features a Patreon preview. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS...
#128 Navigating Bipolar Disorder w/ Matt Pavich
March 03, 2022 07:38 - 1 hour - 91.1 MBComedian Matt Pavich joins Erica this week to talk all about Bipolar Disorder; How he was diagnosed, advice on disclosing to others, why he's now sober, why you should visit someone you know in the psych ward, and so much more. They finish up the episode answering some fun questions about dating pet peeves, uncircumcised penises, go-to spots for first dates, and how Matt shot his shot with his now girlfriend. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.co...
#127 The Last Dance w/ Molly DeMellier
February 24, 2022 06:43 - 1 hour - 119 MBWe’ve reached Molly’s final episode of the podcast this week so we’ve turned the tables and Erica interviews her as her first guest. The two discuss how far they’ve come over the last two and a half years and the way their perception of dating has or hasn’t changed in certain scenarios. Molly also spills on who were her favorite guests, top episodes, new outlooks she has for herself, what she would tell “The Rules” founders if she had the chance, and much more. 20% off your order at Sunset ...
#126 Do Women REALLY Want a "Nice Guy"?
February 17, 2022 05:52 - 48 minutes - 66.9 MBThis week we dive back into Bruce Bryans' work to discuss his book "What Women Want in a Man." Erica and Molly discuss Chapter 2: How to Become the Man that She Needs and debate where power dynamics should play into relationships. The two also share their own opinions on what behavior from men is most attractive to them and whether nice guys really do lose out in dating. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discoun...
#125 What Your 'Type' Actually Says About You
February 10, 2022 06:43 - 57 minutes - 78.5 MBDo you have a 'type' or pattern in your dating life? Have you ever wondered what that might actually say about you? Well we do. So this week we dive into the article '10 Different Types of Guys -- And What Your Attraction To Them Says About You' by Paul Carrick Brunson. Erica and Molly discuss the types of guys they believe they most often attract and debate the ways their own behaviors may perpetuate their problems in love. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at Su...
#124 Smart Dating w/ Bela Gandhi
February 03, 2022 07:34 - 52 minutes - 71.6 MBThis week we’re joined by founder of Smart Dating Academy Bela Gandhi (TODAY Show, GMA, The Steve Harvey Show) to talk all about making better choices in dating. Bela shares with Erica and Molly how she came to launch Smart Dating Academy, the common mistakes she sees clients making in their dating lives, the advice she gives them to help solve these problems, and more. Bela even tells a story of how she shot her shot with her now husband. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CO...
#123 The Art of Matchmaking w/ Talia Goldstein
January 27, 2022 14:12 - 49 minutes - 67.7 MBThis week we’re joined by Three Day Rule Matchmaking Founder Talia Goldstein to talk about the business of love. Talia shares with Erica and Molly how she went from setting up friends and colleagues at dinner parties to launching her own business, how Three Day Rule determines compatibility, tips for first dates, dating trends in the Covid era, the bold move she made to reel in her husband, and much more. Join Three Day Rule's free database or matchmaking services here: threedayrule.com/eri...
#122 Am I The A**Hole? w/ Sara Levine
January 20, 2022 06:31 - 48 minutes - 66.3 MBThis week we welcome back to the pod Sara Levine (Betches Media) to chat through a few "Am I the A**hole?" scenarios. Sara chats with Erica and Molly about if and how to tell a partner they smell bad, body shaming, lying about height, first date nightmares, and more. After each scenario the three cast their vote for who is the a**hole in the situation. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the P...
#121 Dating Advice...From TikTok?
January 13, 2022 06:26 - 55 minutes - 75.7 MBWelcome back to the best day of the week fam! This week we're turning to TikTok to play a little game of rapid fire using recent viral dating advice videos. Erica and Molly chat about the extent to which they agree or disagree with the advice and speak to examples from their own lives. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our ne...
#120 Dating w/ a Confident Mindset
January 06, 2022 08:08 - 49 minutes - 68.2 MBWe're stepping up the confidence in 2022. This week Erica and Molly dive into Matthew Hussey's video "3 Confident Female Mindsets That Drive Guys Wild." The two debate his advice and share their own experiences that have and haven't gone quite according to plan. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our new blog posting every Sun...
#119 💘20 Ways to Find Love in 2022
December 30, 2021 05:18 - 1 hour - 93 MBHappy (almost) New Year everyone! We're ready for a clean slate and are looking at ways to reset our dating mindsets in 2022. In this episode, Erica and Molly look at the AskMen article "20 Ways to Find Love in 2022" by Danielle Paige and discuss the tips shared by various dating expert and therapist sources. The girls also share a few of their own tips and new intentions for finding love in the new year. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get...
#118 Calling in The One
December 23, 2021 07:52 - 57 minutes - 79.1 MBHappy Holidays fam! This week we're diving back into the book "Calling in The One" by Katherine Woodward Thomas and have a fresh view. Patreon gang knows all too well the introspection that Molly has been up to lately and this week she shares her journey so far in going through the exercises from the book. Together she and Erica unpack the fourth lesson in the book called, 'Love for Love's Sake' and discuss what motivates them to give and receive love, overcoming the subconscious mind, "Esse...
#117 Just Make Your Move w/ Jon Birger
December 16, 2021 05:00 - 56 minutes - 77.6 MBThis week Erica and Molly return to “Make Your Move” and “Date-onomics, but this time sit down with author Jon Birger to chat about his work. Jon explains the lopsided dating pool that he discovered in his book “Date-onomics” and the challenges it presents for singles today. The three also discuss whether gender matters when making the first move in relationships, dating apps, how to make bold moves to find your life partner, and much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO C...
#116 Make a Dating Profile That Scores w/ Finding Mr. Height
December 09, 2021 08:59 - 1 hour - 67.4 MBThis week we are joined by the mastermind behind the viral @FindingMrHeight - Ali Jackson. Ali chats with Erica and Molly about how to really stand out on your dating profiles and in the messages you send. She also dives into her texting scripts and when to use a script and move on. The ladies also discuss some major red flags as well as the green flags to look for in new dating prospects. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive...
#115 A Man’s Guide to Holiday Gifts w/ Nathan Macintosh🎁
December 02, 2021 05:47 - 1 hour - 84 MBT’is the season… to stress over what to get your S/O for the holidays. The very funny Nathan MacIntosh (The Tonight Show, Colbert), joins Erica and Molly this week to talk about buying gifts and fills the girls in on what men really want at the holidays. They chat about the best and worst gifts they’ve given and received as well as what point in the relationship to buy a gift, if you should set a budget, and much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLa...
#114 Knowing When a Vacation Flame is Real w/ Kacie Burns
November 25, 2021 05:11 - 47 minutes - 64.7 MBHappy Thanksgiving everyone! We’re calling across the pond for this American holiday and chatting with everyone’s favorite ex-pat TikToker Kacie Burns. We talk with Kacie about how a solo trip to Italy a few years ago led her to her dream man, their long distance relationship that unfolded after just 3 days together, and how she ended up becoming a viral TikTok sensation living in Florence, Italy with her boyfriend. Kacie shares some of the cultural differences she experienced while building...
#113 Flirt Alert ⚠️ The Science of Flirting
November 18, 2021 05:17 - 53 minutes - 73.6 MBThis week we dive into Founder of Flirtology Jean Smith’s “The Science of Flirting: Being a H.O.T A.P.E” - and it’s bananas. Erica and Molly debate the flirting tactics outlined by the acronym and share some of their personal wins and losses in the flirting game. They also talk about how this theory differs from typical advice that’s often given to women in dating and debate which tactics would be more effective for men as opposed to women. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO C...
#112 Rules For Breaking Up & Herpes Scares W/ Steve Furey
November 11, 2021 08:19 - 58 minutes - 80.8 MBBuckle up for this one kids. This week we’re joined by the very funny Steve Furey (World on Drugs Podcast, Hulu) who shares some stories that he’s been saving just for the Shooters Gotta Shoot fans. We talk break up nightmares, herpes scares, how long to wait before sleeping with someone you’re interested in dating, women making the first move, and much much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by j...
#111 Find Your Dating ‘Why?’ w/ Case Kenny
November 04, 2021 09:07 - 56 minutes - 51.7 MBThey say there’s power in numbers, but could being single really be your greatest superpower? This week we’re joined by Case Kenny (New Mindset, Who Dis? Podcast) to talk about his workbook “Single is Your Superpower.” Case discusses with Erica and Molly how being single can create opportunities to be more mindful about what you need from a relationship and shares tips on how to set better intentions for your dating life. The three also chat about the importance of being introspective about ...
#110 How to use Matthew Hussey's "Invest then Test" Method
October 28, 2021 06:03 - 59 minutes - 54.7 MBYour girls have had a week and we needed some Matthew Hussey wisdom (read: hot accent) in our lives. We dive into two of his videos about how to get that sought after commitment from your partner. We discuss how to invest in your partner when it's still early in your relationship, how to test their response, times we've done too much for partners who weren't reciprocating our investments in them, and much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.co...
#109 Make Your Move
October 21, 2021 06:45 - 58 minutes - 53.7 MBThis week we dive into a listener recommended book, "Make Your Move: The New Science of Dating and Why Women Are in Charge" by Jon Birger. We discuss the chapter 'The Make Your Move Offline Dating Challenge' and tips for meeting new prospects while on a dating apps cleanse. Erica and Molly talk about how to be direct in shooting your shot, making - and ranking- lists of offline dating prospects, when rejection is a good thing, and the power of vulnerability. They also debate an interesting '...
#108 Effective Communication Based on Your Attachment Style
October 14, 2021 05:51 - 58 minutes - 54 MBThis week the girls revisit a tried and true book "Attached: The Science of Adult Attachment and How it Can Help You Find and Keep Love." Specifically they discuss the chapter on effective communication and explore how various attachment styles both struggle and succeed in communicating with their partners. The girls also share their own experiences with communication efficacy and breakdowns in past relationships. Erica approaches the conversation having tested as a 'secure' attachment style...
#107 Are You Being Emotionally Blackmailed? 💌
October 07, 2021 04:48 - 50 minutes - 46.3 MBNew Book City. Population: Us. This week Erica and Molly dive into "Emotional Blackmail: When the People in Your Life Use Fear, Obligation, and Guilt to Manipulate You" by Susan Forward, Ph.D and Donna Frazier. The two talk about the times they've experienced emotional blackmail in their relationships (in both small and big ways), what constitutes emotional blackmail, the role victims play in this game of emotional rollercoasters, and much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PR...
#106 Love or Survival?
September 30, 2021 04:31 - 58 minutes - 53.1 MBYour two favorite nerds are back in the books and take on Ty Tashiro's "The Science of Happily Ever After." Erica and Molly debate what actually is true love, talk about biological and societal occurrences that have shaped modern dating and how marrying for love is a relatively new concept for the human race. They also discuss the qualities that were originally considered most attractive in a mate and how they have or have not changed today. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO ...
#105 Slide in Their DMs w/ Ben Higgins
September 23, 2021 04:45 - 42 minutes - 38.7 MBThis week we are joined by Ben Higgins (The Bachelor) and although all of the roses have been given out, there are still many more stories to tell. Ben dishes to Erica and Molly about his engagement and upcoming wedding, as well as about how he made a bold move on his now fiance. Ben also shares how his experiences on The Bachelorette and as The Bachelor impacted his future relationships, what he learned about dating from the shows, and even tells stories of shooting his shot and missing. T...
#104 Your Brain in Love 🧠
September 16, 2021 06:04 - 53 minutes - 48.7 MBThis week we take a fan recommendation and dive into Helen Fisher's TedTalk "Why we love, why we cheat." We unpack the MRI studies of human brains when individuals are in love and when individuals are experiencing heartbreak. Erica and Molly also discuss the biology behind love and attachment, the three brain systems of romantic love, and much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts by joining the Patr...
#103 Grandma Knows Best w/ Kim Murstein & Grandma Gail
September 09, 2021 05:17 - 51 minutes - 47.2 MBYou were always told to listen to your grandma, but on dating advice too? This grandma- absolutely. This week we’re joined by Kim Murstein and her Grandma Gail, (co-hosts of Excuse My Grandma Podcast) to chat about old school vs new school dating. Grandma Gail offers her wisdom, while Kim, Erica and Molly bring their experiences - and challenges - with modern dating to the conversation. This episode is sponsored by Sunset Lake CBD. Use Promo Code: SGS20 at https://sunsetlakecbd.com/ for 20%...
#102 The Rules w/ Sherrie Schneider 👰🏻
September 02, 2021 06:26 - 1 hour - 60.4 MBThis week we are joined by none other than co-author of The Rules series, Sherrie Schneider. Erica and Molly have cracked open The Rules at various points over the years and in this episode chat with Sherrie about what inspired her and her co-author Ellen Fein to write the books, what rules have worked in her own relationships and eventual marriage, if she has ever broken rules, what’s different in today’s dating scene, and much more. This episode is sponsored by Sunset Lake CBD. Use Promo ...
#101 Relationships Can Have Many Lives w/ Danielle Silverstein
August 26, 2021 05:05 - 53 minutes - 48.7 MBGrab the vodka and olives and pour one out as you listen, because our guest this week holds nothing back. Danielle Silverstein (Marriage and Martinis Podcast) joins us to talk about wedded bliss and when it's a miss. We discuss overcoming challenges in relationships like mental health, financial inequality, severe illness, loss of intimacy and much much more. Danielle also chats with Erica and Molly about her new eBook "Date Night Questions" and when to take them on with your partner. This ...
#100 The One Where "Friends" Weigh In
August 19, 2021 04:00 - 44 minutes - 41.1 MBWe're celebrating 100 episodes this week by taking a look back on what we've learned and how far we've come since launching the pod. Erica has also been a Friends rewatch binge lately, so the girls dive into the Bustle article "The Best Dating Advice From Your 'Friends'" to give their take on advice from the iconic show. They also share advice that their own friends have given them through the years that has stuck with them. In celebration of 100 episodes we're giving away a free Womanzier ...
#99 What Turns Women On?
August 12, 2021 04:56 - 48 minutes - 44.1 MBWe've brought you the Hot Girl Summer of episodes people, so pour a drink on ice and settle in for this one. Erica and Molly dive into Dr. Emily Morse's (Sex w/ Emily) article published in AskMen "What Men Need To Know About The Female Body." The girls share what they think is most important for men to know about how to turn women on, what they think most men don't know, and debate the tips in the article based on their own experiences -- good, bad and of course the mind blowingly sexy. 20%...
#98 What's Your Love Anatomy?
August 05, 2021 04:51 - 47 minutes - 43.1 MBThis week we're talking all about the anatomy of love and our individual personality traits that make up the way we express ourselves. Erica and Molly took Helen Fisher's Personality Test, which tests the degree to which a person expresses four broad styles of thinking and behaving, each associated with one of four basic brain systems: the dopamine, serotonin, testosterone and estrogen systems. The girls discuss the traits that they believe have been complimented and hindered in past relatio...
#97 Rules of Breaking Up w/ Breakup Bestie Kendra Allen
July 29, 2021 05:26 - 57 minutes - 52.4 MBIt’s been a minute since either of your girls have gone through a breakup (or locked someone down), so with plenty of time to process the demise of our past relationships we’re chatting with Kendra Allen, also known as the Breakup Bestie. We talk about some of the biggest mistakes that people often make fresh off of a breakup, if you should cut ties with your exes friends and family, what it means when your ex watches your Instagram stories, "winning the breakup" and so so much more. This e...
#96 FOMO vs. FOBO in Relationships w/ Patrick McGinnis
July 22, 2021 05:12 - 53 minutes - 48.9 MBIt’s the best day of the week once again and your girls are talking all about FOMO and FOBO with the creator of the terms himself, Patrick McGinnis (TEDX). They discuss the difference between The Fear of Missing Out (FOMO) and The Fear of a Better Option (FOBO) and how both can negatively impact modern dating. They talk about how to make better decisions in relationships and how being more decisive can actually make you a better partner. They also chat about outside factors that can increase...
#95 Bringing Out Your Man's Hero Instinct 🦸♂️
July 15, 2021 04:25 - 52 minutes - 48.1 MBThis week Erica and Molly unpack relationship psychologist James Bauer's Hero Instinct Theory. They dive into the article "19 Ways to Unveil the Hero Instinct in Men" and discuss ways they feel they have failed and succeeded to bring out the Hero Instincts of men in their past relationships. They also debate whether the pieces of advice given in the article would be well received by men and suggest ways to approach certain situations. The two also discuss the difference between needing a man...
#94 Are Summer Flings Real?
July 08, 2021 07:31 - 40 minutes - 37.2 MBThe best day of the week is back and your girls are talking all things summer flings. Erica and Molly unpack summer fling do’s and don’ts recommendations from relationship expert Bela Gandhi. They discuss whether summer flings are still a thing, the difference between a fling and hot girl summer, if you can make a summer flame a longer term relationship, and much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 at SunsetLakeCBD.com Get extra exclusive episodes & discounts...
#93 Get Him to Put A Ring on It 💍 w/ Hannah Berner
July 01, 2021 05:49 - 1 hour - 55.6 MBThe hilarious HANNAH BERNER (Bravo, Berning in Hell, Giggly Squad) is back and showing off some new hardware. Since Hannah was last on the podcast she’s stepped into the next chapter of her relationship with an engagement to comedian Des Bishop and away from Summer House. Erica and Molly chat with Hannah about her tips for women hoping to get engaged, the challenges of a pandemic relationship, how to tell your partner what you want in an engagement, navigating her relationship through the sc...
#92 Does a Woman's Value Decrease with Age? w/ Jourdain Fisher
June 24, 2021 06:22 - 1 hour - 59.8 MBFan favorite JOURDAIN FISHER (The Tonight Show) is back this week with Erica and Molly to unpack advice from image consultant and YouTuber, Kevin Samuels. The three discuss clips from Kevin's YouTube video, "Single Women Are Getting Older, Educated, And Aren't Willing To Settle." They talk about whether age should factor into the value that women bring into relationships and if society views older men the same way. They also debate how socio-economic status impacts relationships, the differe...
#91 Is It a Woman's Job To Keep a Man Loyal? 🤔
June 17, 2021 05:23 - 44 minutes - 41.1 MBOn Thursdays we take down the patriarchy. This week Erica and Molly dive into Bruce Bryan's book "The 7 Irresistible Qualities Men Want in A Woman" to upack Chapter 7: An Attribute That Keeps Him Loyal (A Woman's Secret Weapon." The two call out that women feel pressure to "keep" a man loyal, when fidelity should be an individual responsibility, They also debate the author's recommended tactics for how women can make themselves irresistible, discuss what is means to be a "proactive lover", ...
#90 You Can't Manifest a Relationship 🔮
June 10, 2021 06:38 - 48 minutes - 44.3 MBYour girls are on one this week as we dive into the book "Calling in The One" by Catherine Woodward Thomas. Erica and Molly take a deep read of Chapter 23: 'Setting an Intention' and debate what it really means to date with intention. They discuss whether you can actually manifest what you're hoping for in a relationship by adjusting your outlook and attitude as well as how to take consistent action in order to get what you want. To no one's surprise, the pair has some hard opinions on "spea...
#89 Polyamory 101 w/ Rachel Wright
June 03, 2021 07:12 - 1 hour - 61.1 MBDon’t sleep on this one folks! This week we sit down with Rachel Wright, a licensed sex therapist and sex educator, to talk all about polyamory / ethical non-monogamy. We break down the terms to understand the difference between the two, as well as other lifestyles. Rachel shares details of her current relationship, what led her and her husband to open up their marriage after nearly 8 years, navigating jealousy in an ENM relationship, the "agreements" of non-monogamous relationships, and muc...
#88 Once a cheater, always a cheater?🤷🏻
May 27, 2021 04:38 - 53 minutes - 49.2 MBThis week we're talking about all things infidelity! We debate tips shared by Steve Harvey from his Good Morning America segment, "Why Do Men Cheat?" and Erica and Molly discuss their own experiences with cheating. They also answer the questions: Should you ever stay with a cheater? What makes a person cheat? Would you date someone who has cheated on a past partner? Is emotional cheating worse than physical cheating? And much more. 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS...
#87 When to walk away w/ Matchmaker Maria 👩🏼❤️👨🏼
May 20, 2021 07:23 - 1 hour - 57 MBThis week we sit down with Matchmaker Maria of Agape Matchmaking (@matchmakermaria) to discuss dating in the post pandemic world, how a matchmaker can help you find your person, when to sleep with a new partner, when to walk away from a relationship, and much more. Maria also gives her professional opinion on the questions: Is it ever ok to just hook up with someone? Is there a difference between exclusive and in a relationship? 20% off your order at Sunset Lake CBD with PROMO CODE: SGS20 a...
#86 Getting better sex after getting herpes w/ Ella Dawson
May 13, 2021 05:06 - 52 minutes - 72.3 MBThis week the incredibly talented Ella Dawson (TedX Talks, MTV) joins Erica and Molly to talk all about herpes. Ella talks about how she became “herpes famous” and how she reclaimed the narrative of her diagnosis to play a positive, empowering role in her life. The three discuss methods of how and when to disclose to partners, slut shaming, as well as why people with herpes can and should still participate in hookup culture and more. Support the podcast & get extra exclusive episodes by joi...
#86 Getting better sex after getting Herpes w/ Ella Dawson 💦
May 13, 2021 05:06 - 52 minutes - 48.2 MBThis week the incredibly talented Ella Dawson (TedX Talks, MTV) joins Erica and Molly to talk all about herpes. Ella talks about how she became “herpes famous” and how she reclaimed the narrative of her diagnosis to play a positive, empowering role in her life. The three discuss methods of how and when to disclose to partners, slut shaming, as well as why people with herpes can and should still participate in hookup culture and more. Support the podcast & get extra exclusive episodes by joi...
#85 Why Men "Play it Cool" 👀
May 06, 2021 04:46 - 46 minutes - 42.5 MBWe're back baby! Today Erica is another year older and the wisdom shows in this one as she along with Molly debate reasons why men "play it cool." The pair dive back into Sherry Argov's book "Why Men Love Bitches" and discuss how calculated male actions are at the beginning of a relationship, if women really hold the power, and things that can turn men off. Support the podcast & get extra exclusive episodes by joining the Patreon: https://www.patreon.com/Shootersgottashoot Check out our n...
#84 Nothing Happens When You Least Expect It
April 29, 2021 07:29 - 44 minutes - 41.2 MBThe best day of the week is finally here and your favorite pair is back. Erica and Molly open up this week with a fan email about whether it's a red flag to not have a lot of dating or relationship experience. They discuss how and when to tell someone you're interested in about your dating history (or lack of). They also dive into Blythe Roberson's book "How to Date Men When You Hate Men" and talk about how being single for long periods of time doesn't necessarily mean you're unfulfilled or ...