23. Masculinity ft. Lance Gee & Eric Wu (Off the Wok)
Shit We Don't Tell Mom
English - April 25, 2021 09:00 - 1 hour - 51.8 MBMental Health Health & Fitness Society & Culture Personal Journals mental health wellness diaspora asian american millennial self-help self growth relationships chinese family Homepage Download Google Podcasts Overcast Castro Pocket Casts RSS feed
2 Asian men get vulnerable with us and share their fears, shames, and insecurities. Lance Gee and Eric Wu from over at Off The Wok discuss losing a job, feeling suicidal, de-sexualization of Asian men, and starting all over from failures. Check out this hilarious episode that takes a turn for a deep dive into the Asian male psyche as Lance and Eric get super vulnerable with us. Content warning: suicide
Highlights:
Going back to school and restarting a career with a familyEric’s fear of water (what?) but he takes showers every dayLosing your job as the “man” of the familyAsian male representation in media Lance and Eric overcoming the lowest points of their livesTakeaways:
The shame comes from comparisons and it ruins usOur judgements of others are projections of our own insecuritiesPeople don’t give a crap, so give a crap about yourselfProvide non-judgmental support and a safe space for the men in your lifeEveryone’s low point is different but they are all painful and validResources:
Off The Wok (Podcast)Off The Wok (Instagram)Why I’m Done Trying to Be “Man Enough” (Ted Talk)Crisis Centre Helpline (Canada)Suicide Prevention Lifeline (USA)Enjoyed this episode? Share with a friend! Hit subscribe to get the latest episodes. Leave us a comment or review and let us know your favourite episode!
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