Not Well | A Comedy Podcast
424 episodes - English - Latest episode: 10 days ago - ★★★★★ - 52 ratingsJoin Bobby and Jim on 'Not Well', where fearless conversations meet humor and wisdom in an explosion of topics ranging from the latest celebrity gossip to the intricacies of gay issues and politics. With Bobby's unconventional wisdom, often fueled by his adventures with edibles, leading us into the most random and taboo subjects you'd never dare to bring up, and Jim's sharp intellect providing insightful commentary, there's never a dull moment.
Our podcast is a bold, inclusive space that welcomes gay men, straight women, and straight men alike, especially those who are curious about a wide array of discussions—including the candid exploration of sex and men's bodies. Bobby and Jim create a safe haven for laughter, connection, and sometimes the outright bizarre, ensuring our listeners feel happy, engaged, and part of a larger community.
Every Thursday we dive deep into everything under the sun, from the most controversial topics to the day-to-day quirks of life. Our unique content mix, featuring listener voicemails and the funniest Tik Toks, complements our discussions, making 'Not Well' more than just a podcast—it's a movement towards embracing our not-so-perfect selves.
Subscribe now and join our community where being 'not well' is celebrated, and discovering the joy in life's randomness is a weekly adventure. Experience the dynamic duo of Bobby's wild tangents and Jim's smart insights, and see why our listeners can't get enough of our unapologetic take on the world.
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Keep Your Respite / Gay Community and Gay Bars
September 17, 2019 21:00 - 45 minutes - 31.6 MBFor they gave me respite from labor and rested me and refreshed my spirit as well as yours. Deeply appreciate and thoroughly know and fully recognize such men. -1 Corinthians 16:18 Community is a feeling of fellowship with others, as a result of sharing common attitudes, interests, and goals. Sometimes it takes us until we are adults to find our community and sometimes it comes easy. For LGBT members the community can give us respite from the glare of society and everyday troubles that we c...
Keep Your Respite / Community and Gay Bars
September 17, 2019 21:00 - 45 minutes - 31.6 MBFor they gave me respite from labor and rested me and refreshed my spirit as well as yours. Deeply appreciate and thoroughly know and fully recognize such men. -1 Corinthians 16:18 Community is a feeling of fellowship with others, as a result of sharing common attitudes, interests, and goals. Sometimes it takes us until we are adults to find our community and sometimes it comes easy. For LGBT members the community can give us respite from the glare of society and everyday troubles that we c...
Keep Your Respite / Gay Community and Gay Bars
September 17, 2019 21:00 - 45 minutes - 31.6 MBSend us a Text Message. For they gave me respite from labor and rested me and refreshed my spirit as well as yours. Deeply appreciate and thoroughly know and fully recognize such men. -1 Corinthians 16:18 Community is a feeling of fellowship with others, as a result of sharing common attitudes, interests, and goals. Sometimes it takes us until we are adults to find our community and sometimes it comes easy. For LGBT members the community can give us respite from the glare of society and ev...
I Feel Like the Universe is About Me...So...I Just Am...About the Universe - Gay Rural Talk / All Over the Place
September 11, 2019 00:00 - 1 hour - 45 MBSend us a Text Message. Could this be the best worst episode in SNDSW history (all 5 episodes worth of history). Hold on tight for a real roller coaster of information and back and forth banter and laughter. In this week's episode we meet Dave, a fellow LGBT member who grew up in small town America. How did he come out? What was his town like? Find out the answers to these and more. This week's episode also has its first phone question. The boys explain how they got their name while they w...
I Feel Like the Universe is About Me...So...I Just Am...About the Universe - Rural Talk / All Over the Place
September 11, 2019 00:00 - 1 hour - 45 MBCould this be the best worst episode in SNDSW history (all 5 episodes worth of history). Hold on tight for a real roller coaster of information and back and forth banter and laughter. In this week's episode we meet Dave, a fellow LGBT member who grew up in small town America. How did he come out? What was his town like? Find out the answers to these and more. This week's episode also has its first phone question. The boys explain how they got their name while they went on their ski trip to ...
I Feel Like the Universe is About Me...So...I Just Am...About the Universe - Gay Rural Talk / All Over the Place
September 11, 2019 00:00 - 1 hour - 45 MBCould this be the best worst episode in SNDSW history (all 5 episodes worth of history). Hold on tight for a real roller coaster of information and back and forth banter and laughter. In this week's episode we meet Dave, a fellow LGBT member who grew up in small town America. How did he come out? What was his town like? Find out the answers to these and more. This week's episode also has its first phone question. The boys explain how they got their name while they went on their ski trip to ...
Uniquely Ordinary - Mental Health When You are Gay
September 03, 2019 21:00 - 52 minutes - 36 MBSend us a Text Message. Have you ever felt anxious or depressed? What about feeling pressure from society and family to be what they want you to be? Join us this week as we discuss what triggers our anxiety and how we have gotten through some of the harder times. We will then sit down with Ryan West to discuss his upbringing, what issues he has had with his church and community and what he did about it. This one is a bit heavy but also has some really good information. See below for more in...
Uniquely Ordinary - Mental Health When You are Gay
September 03, 2019 21:00 - 52 minutes - 36 MBHave you ever felt anxious or depressed? What about feeling pressure from society and family to be what they want you to be? Join us this week as we discuss what triggers our anxiety and how we have gotten through some of the harder times. We will then sit down with Ryan West to discuss his upbringing, what issues he has had with his church and community and what he did about it. This one is a bit heavy but also has some really good information. See below for more information on Ryan's Non-P...
Uniquely Ordinary - Mental Health
September 03, 2019 21:00 - 52 minutes - 36 MBHave you ever felt anxious or depressed? What about feeling pressure from society and family to be what they want you to be? Join us this week as we discuss what triggers our anxiety and how we have gotten through some of the harder times. We will then sit down with Ryan West to discuss his upbringing, what issues he has had with his church and community and what he did about it. This one is a bit heavy but also has some really good information. See below for more information on Ryan's Non-P...
Actually, I Don't - Heartbreak/ Ending a Wedding
August 27, 2019 22:00 - 44 minutes - 30.3 MBHeartbreak hurts and you don’t even know why sometimes. Bobby & Jim decide to dive into the world of heartbreak, because why not. Looking back on breaking up and feeling sad, sometimes it's needed to grow. The universe has funny ways of telling us something, even if at the time it's killing us on the inside. Tune in for the usual shenanigans and also listen to an interview with Bobby’s friend Michelle who decided to end her wedding. Introduction Serious matters First a street intervi...
I'm a Bear and I am Hot - Gay Educational Terminology
August 27, 2019 22:00 - 43 minutes - 29.8 MBTwink? Bear? Otter? Chubby Chaser? U-Haul Lesbian? Queer? Are you as confused as we are? Bobby and Jim look into the world of specific gay cultures and terminology. What do they mean? Tune in to find out how not so familiar they are with the terms and actually how bad the list really is. Hot tub shopping Blake the sales man Getting sold to Laying in a dry hot tub Street interview Whale calls Fucked in front of Jesus He was so fucking big Twink Bear Otter Bottom Shami...
I'm a Bear and I am Hot - Gay Educational Terminology
August 27, 2019 22:00 - 43 minutes - 29.8 MBSend us a Text Message. Twink? Bear? Otter? Chubby Chaser? U-Haul Lesbian? Queer? Are you as confused as we are? Bobby and Jim look into the world of specific gay cultures and terminology. What do they mean? Tune in to find out how not so familiar they are with the terms and actually how bad the list really is. Hot tub shopping Blake the sales man Getting sold to Laying in a dry hot tub Street interview Whale calls Fucked in front of Jesus He was so fucking big Twink Be...
Actually, I Don't - Heartbreak/ Ending a Wedding
August 27, 2019 22:00 - 44 minutes - 30.3 MBSend us a Text Message. Heartbreak hurts and you don’t even know why sometimes. Bobby & Jim decide to dive into the world of heartbreak, because why not. Looking back on breaking up and feeling sad, sometimes it's needed to grow. The universe has funny ways of telling us something, even if at the time it's killing us on the inside. Tune in for the usual shenanigans and also listen to an interview with Bobby’s friend Michelle who decided to end her wedding. Introduction Serious matters...
I'm a Bear and I am Hot - Educational Terminology
August 27, 2019 22:00 - 43 minutes - 29.8 MBTwink? Bear? Otter? Chubby Chaser? U-Haul Lesbian? Queer? Are you as confused as we are? Bobby and Jim look into the world of specific gay cultures and terminology. What do they mean? Tune in to find out how not so familiar they are with the terms and actually how bad the list really is. Hot tub shopping Blake the sales man Getting sold to Laying in a dry hot tub Street interview Whale calls Fucked in front of Jesus He was so fucking big Twink Bear Otter Bottom Shami...
She's Got 99 Problems and a Bitch is One - Dating Gay & Straight
August 27, 2019 21:00 - 49 minutes - 33.9 MBEverybody dates and everybody hates it for the most part. In this episode Bobby and Jim dive in and talk about their experiences dating. As you know the conversation goes in many different directions.Tune in to listen to the hilarious, random, anxiety ridden, banter between Bobby & Jim. Cousin weekend update Cousins festival Street interview preformed outside a gay bar He had his own home Power Bottom Poppers Date Rape Horrible transition into regular dating Awful worl...
She's Got 99 Problems and a Bitch is One - Dating
August 27, 2019 21:00 - 48 minutes - 33.1 MBEverybody dates and everybody hates it for the most part. In this episode Bobby and Jim dive in and talk about their experiences dating. As you know the conversation goes in many different directions.Tune in to listen to the hilarious, random, anxiety ridden, banter between Bobby & Jim. Cousin weekend update Cousins festival Street interview preformed outside a gay bar He had his own home Power Bottom Poppers Date Rape Horrible transition into regular dating Awful worl...
She's Got 99 Problems and a Bitch is One - Dating Gay & Straight
August 27, 2019 21:00 - 49 minutes - 33.9 MBSend us a Text Message. Everybody dates and everybody hates it for the most part. In this episode Bobby and Jim dive in and talk about their experiences dating. As you know the conversation goes in many different directions.Tune in to listen to the hilarious, random, anxiety ridden, banter between Bobby & Jim. Cousin weekend update Cousins festival Street interview preformed outside a gay bar He had his own home Power Bottom Poppers Date Rape Horrible transition into re...
Please Take A Moment And Search For The Nearest Exit
August 21, 2019 01:00 - 23 minutes - 16 MBMeet Bobby and his best bud Jim. Grab your white-claw and listen along as they talk about a couple of different topics. Bobby talks about how much he hated his voice growing up and just wanted to "sound" straight instead of just being himself. They go into how they would never be able to accept an award and podcast award show but only have 6 listeners. Getting to know Bobby and Jim are the main topics of this episode.
Please Take A Moment And Search For The Nearest Gay Exit
August 21, 2019 01:00 - 24 minutes - 16.9 MBSend us a Text Message. Meet Bobby and his best bud Jim. A recipe for disaster stemming from an unexpected encounter in a Denver Panera, She’s Not Doing So Well is an irreverent yet empathetic look at everyday life through an LGBTQ+ lens. Co-hosts Bobby and Jim, both gay, provide insightful discussions on topics ranging from allyship to mental health while incorporating edgy humor to leave their listeners begging for more. These hour-long episodes delve into commentary and experiences tha...
Please Take A Moment And Search For The Nearest Gay Exit
August 21, 2019 01:00 - 24 minutes - 16.9 MBMeet Bobby and his best bud Jim. A recipe for disaster stemming from an unexpected encounter in a Denver Panera, She’s Not Doing So Well is an irreverent yet empathetic look at everyday life through an LGBTQ+ lens. Co-hosts Bobby and Jim, both gay, provide insightful discussions on topics ranging from allyship to mental health while incorporating edgy humor to leave their listeners begging for more. These hour-long episodes delve into commentary and experiences that inspire their audience ...
She's Not Doing So Well - WHO ARE WE? COME FOLLOW US
August 16, 2019 01:00 - 36 seconds - 481 KBHilarious and unique to put it nicely. When we launched the comedy-oriented “She’s Not Doing So Well” podcast in summer of 2019, we wanted to bring to light unpopular opinions and obscure takes on what it means to be queer. We initially began as a Columbus-based duo (Bobby Griffith and Jim the Unicorn), but became a trio after meeting NYC’s “The Miz” (Anthony Villiotti) through his personal podcast, “Miz the Podcast.” We knew there was something special between all three of us, and The Miz b...
She's Not Doing So Well Season 1 Trailer
August 16, 2019 01:00 - 1 minute - 938 KBInformation on She's Not Doing So Well. Podcast with Bobby and his buds talking about LGBTQIA issues as well as everyday topics that most people can relate to or are curious about. Get information on how to get a hold of the podcast. Call in and ask your questions or just call in for a quick comment. We won't judge if you even try to prank call us.
She's Not Doing So Well Trailer
August 16, 2019 01:00 - 1 minute - 896 KBInformation on She's Not Doing So Well. Podcast with Bobby and his buds talking about LGBTQIA issues as well as everyday topics that most people can relate to or are curious about. Get information on how to get a hold of the podcast. Call in and ask your questions or just call in for a quick comment. We won't judge if you even try to prank call us.
She's Not Doing So Well - WHO ARE WE? COME FOLLOW US
August 16, 2019 01:00 - 36 seconds - 481 KBSend us a Text Message. Hilarious and unique to put it nicely. When we launched the comedy-oriented “She’s Not Doing So Well” podcast in summer of 2019, we wanted to bring to light unpopular opinions and obscure takes on what it means to be queer. We initially began as a Columbus-based duo (Bobby Griffith and Jim the Unicorn), but became a trio after meeting NYC’s “The Miz” (Anthony Villiotti) through his personal podcast, “Miz the Podcast.” We knew there was something special between all t...