155. BTS: How can we implement consequences that teach, not just punish, our kids?

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English - November 30, 2023 10:00 - 35 minutes - 49.1 MB - ★★★★★ - 74 ratings
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Beyond the Sessions is answering YOUR parenting questions! In this episode, Dr. Rebecca Hershberg, Dr. Emily Upshur, and I talk about...

5:02 - Your tone of voice and way you communicate the consequence to you child is important.

6:45 - Is there a difference between a consequence and a punishment?

7:33 - How being attuned to your unique child will help you determine what the appropriate preparation and consequences should be.

11:32 - The difference between a planned versus a reactive consequence makes a big difference.

13:22 - Do consequences work well for tantrums, aggressive behaviors, and other dysregulated actions?

17:50 - How can parents be consistent, even in unpredictable situations.

25:30 - How to think creatively to find the incentive that will motivate your child best.

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