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Savage Lovecast

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Dan Savage, America's only advice columnist, answers your sex questions and yaps about politics. To record a question for Dan to be answered in a later podcast, record your question and send it to [email protected], or call 206-302-2064. For a much longer version of the show, with no ads, visit savage.love and get yourself a subscription.

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Savage Love Episode 450

June 09, 2015 08:00 - 53 minutes

An 18 year-old man and his girlfriend are learning how to get it on. She can make herself come, but he can’t get her there himself. Would a vibrator be such a bad idea?  Dan welcomes comedian, writer and actress Ophira Eisenberg (host of NPR’s “Ask Me Another”) to discuss the wisdom of face tattoos and the sexiness of mansplaining.  On the Magnum, a family tiptoes around their gay son’s atrocious behavior because they’re afraid he’ll call them homophobic.  Hey penis-havers! Do you ever have a...

Savage Love Episode 449

June 02, 2015 08:00 - 53 minutes

The complicated nature of abusive relationships: Dan speaks with Seattle author Jason Schmidt about his memoir A List of Things That Didn’t Kill Me, a raw, honest look at the mix of neglect, abuse and fierce love in his own upbringing. You should buy this book, and then read it.  Also, a gay man is about to go to drama school at a conservative Christian college. Should he stay in the closet just long enough to graduate and then begin the lifelong project of exacting his revenge? On the Magnum...

Savage Love Episode 448

May 26, 2015 08:00 - 51 minutes

Mom has been having an affair for 17 years, and dad just found out about it. How can this beleaguered daughter support both of her parents?  A gold star lesbian fell into bed with a man, and discovered that…she liked it. A lot. Now what?  On the Magnum, what makes people rat out their friends or family for infidelity?  Dan speaks with Dr. Dan Kruger for a “What You Got?” about why people blow the whistle.   Also, a woman is dating a man who happily accepts blow jobs, but won’t go down on her ...

Savage Love Episode 447

May 19, 2015 08:00 - 47 minutes

A woman finds herself in the middle of a poly free-for-all when she falls for a guy who is sleeping with every woman he can get his mitts on. Is this the poly lifestyle, or just a dude with a harem?  A woman is nursing a crush on a man she suspects to be gay. Is there any way she can divine the truth?  On the Magnum, Dan speaks with Dr. Andreas Baranowski for a “What You Got” on what happens to women when you take fear out of casual sex in a sexy, sexy laboratory. (Warning! The sound quality ...

Savage Love Episode 446

May 12, 2015 08:00 - 47 minutes

This week we delight in welcoming the incomparable poet, writer and filmmaker Sherman Alexie. He and Dan discuss white chicks who embrace “Native American spirituality,”  how to pretend to be abstinent to placate your psychopathic preacher, and whether it’s creepy to ask your younger girlfriend to call you “daddy.” Sherman is a treasure and this is not to be missed.  This episode is brought to you by NatureBox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get a free sample, by visi...

Savage Love Episode 445

May 05, 2015 08:00 - 48 minutes

Conservatives smile with their mouths. But liberals smile with their eyes. So says social psychologist Andreas Wojcik in a "What You Got" proving once and for all that lefties are happier than right-wingers.  A young man suffers from CUNNILINGUS LOCKJAW. Although Dan has never experienced this particular ailment, he nonetheless  has some advice to give. On the Magnum, Dan chats with trans rights activist Chelsea Poe about straight cis men who are attracted to transwomen.  A woman used to cut ...

Savage Love Episode 444

April 28, 2015 08:00 - 54 minutes

A priest and a rabbi come onto a podcast… This week Dan welcomes the retired gay Episcopal Bishop of New Hampshire, Gene Robinson, as well as a Rabbi Jeremy Gerber to tackle some thorny religion/sex issues.  How should straight men act at gay pride parades?  Are facials inherently misogynist? A woman has just discovered that her husband had an affair. But when they finished fighting about it, the sex was hotter than ever! A married man notices that when he and his wife fight, she tends to wit...

Savage Love Episode 443

April 21, 2015 08:00 - 48 minutes

After a long dry spell, a woman's husband is finally going down on her. But his stubble is causing considerable discomfort! Dare she use her words and suggest he take a razor blade to his pretty face?  A teen girl in Utah has just discovered feminism. She realizes she has only seen images of passive women on the tee-vee, and worries that she won't know what to do in bed. How can she learn to take an active role?  On the Magnum, are you ready to rumble? From our live show in Portland this year...

Savage Love Episode 442

April 14, 2015 08:00 - 51 minutes

Can Dan convince a young woman to accept and forgive her father for having a 9-year-long affair with a married woman?  Listen in as Dan deftly navigates through the kind of  theoretical quandary that only a conservative silly person could present.  Dan interviews Laura Anderson about her Slate article covering the history of condoms and why they could be so much better.  On the Magnum, fall down the poly rabbit hole with us, won't you? Dan chats with poly activist and lawyer Diana Adams about...

Savage Love Episode 441

April 07, 2015 08:00 - 56 minutes

This week, we are delighted to welcome Dr. Kara Cadwallader from Planned Parenthood to answer a backlog of medical questions about herpes, meningitis, IUDs and the good ole flu.  When you cheat and cheat and cheat, is it time to call yourself poly?  On the Magnum, Dan chats with writer, journalist, and transgender woman Parker Molloy, about seeking the understanding and acceptance of family members when dating a trans person.  And, a gay man wants to try a threeway with a woman included. Does...

Savage Love Episode 440

March 31, 2015 08:00 - 49 minutes

Her fiancé would rather enjoy congress with an unwashed blow-up doll than his betrothed. Does this spell ruin, or just a happy companionate marriage?  Hear the steamy tale of the nude model, the super-hot art teacher and the things he does with his laser pointer.  On the Magnum we've been saving up parenting questions for the indomitable Amy Lang, sex educator and creator of Birds + Bees + Kids, to help parents talk to their kids about s-e-x.  And, Dan interviews Alison Stevenson about her ar...

Savage Love Episode 439

March 24, 2015 08:00 - 53 minutes

Trapped in LA, Dan chitty-chats with comedian Jeffery Self about self lubricating, bossy slaves, "little brother" role playing and three-ways with celebrities among other things. The Gay is strong with this one.  Also, on the Magnum Dan talks with Sex and Family Educator Stephanie Mitelman about the struggles people on the autism spectrum have with sexuality and dating.  206-201-2720 Today's Lovecast is brought to you by MeUndies.com: High quality, super-comfortable, good looking undies. Get ...

Savage Love Episode 438

March 17, 2015 08:00 - 51 minutes

The Lovecast is delighted to welcome Mistress Matisse. Dan and our favorite dominatrix/sex-worker rights activist talk about getting started with domination, the perils of being a sex worker and (what else?) 60 Shades of Grey.  When planning a three-way with your wife and a friend of yours, how do you choose the lucky friend? And how can you minimize the awkwardness when you make the ask?  On the Magnum, hear the spooky tale of a mother-in-law's mysterious vibrating couch.   206-201-2720 This...

Savage Love Episode 437

March 10, 2015 08:00 - 49 minutes

A self-professed "pervert" is married to a self-professed "Christian." He wants to keep watching his porn in peace, she forbids it. Should he sneak to see Hump, or fess up and invite her along?  A hand-wringing lesbian feels guilty whenever she gets the foot massages that turn her on so.  Dan chats withJonathan Capehart (of the Washington Post and MSNBC)  about homophobia in black culture, and the CONSPIRACY to destroy black families by making black men gay.  On the Magnum, Dan welcomes Histo...

Savage Love Episode 436

March 03, 2015 09:00 - 50 minutes

The Lovecast welcomes Anna Sale from WNYC's "Death, Sex & Money" podcast to pick over the nuances of Dan's thinking on non-monogamy.  We check in on a caller from last year who has recurring cancer, and a boyfriend who wasn't quite ready to marry her. Learn how she is doing, and whether they tied the knot.  Hear the tale of yet another deflowered, "abstinence-only" Christian. (It's kind of hot…)  So much. Always so much.  206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the...

Savage Love Episode 435

February 24, 2015 09:00 - 47 minutes

An amputee is offended when her new boyfriend warns his brother about her disabilities. Is she being too sensitive?  A man is being ask to lie about his sister-in-law's abortion. How should he handle the complicated family dynamics?  How do gay people happen? Do mommies cause them?  On the Magnum version of the show, a very smug Dan Savage interviews Dr. Amy Muise about her recent paper which proved, (PROVED!) that being GGG is beneficial to relationships. Science says so.  A woman is horrifi...

Savage Love Episode 434

February 17, 2015 09:00 - 50 minutes

A married woman has lost all sex drive. Her husband is willing to let her be with other men. But the thought of her husband with another woman makes her so jealous that her mouth goes dry. Is this gonna work out ok? A straight man with a newly issued hall pass is having a hard time meeting ladies who will sleep with him because they know he's in a relationship. Why must it be this way? Why?!  On the Magnum, Dan chats with author Johann Hari, on our silly little drug war, and how drug abuse re...

Savage Love Episode 433

February 10, 2015 09:00 - 48 minutes

A kinkster is worried that her feminist mother will see some bruises and assume the worst about her boyfriend. How can she explain that they are in a loving, mutually satisfying Dom/sub situation?  A woman doesn't like to swallow her boyfriend's come. Is this a rare condition?  On the Magnum, Dan chats with Zoë Tersche from the website ThisWink.com about how to comport yourself at kinky play parties.  And, a man with a heart condition is sick of his lovers going easy on him in bed. Can he eth...

Savage Love Episode 432

February 03, 2015 09:00 - 54 minutes

Gather round, heathens: It's Bible study time! Dan and gay Evangelical Christian Matthew Vines talk about how gay Christians can help the less "affirming" churches to come around to tolerance. They also geek out about the Bible like you wouldn't believe.  206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale. This episode is also brought to you by Squarespace.com. They make it easy to build a website or b...

Savage Love Episode 431

January 27, 2015 09:00 - 51 minutes

On this, the week of Dan and Terry's 20th anniversary, Dan grapples with some tricky, tricky questions: At exactly what point in the dating process would it be polite to disclose that you are already in an open relationship?  A woman likes to be thin. Her man prefers a more hefty physique. How can she deal with his compliments if they only come when she feels bad about herself?  And, a woman's boyfriend is losing his hair, and plans to get a buzz cut. But she really likes a head of long, luxu...

Savage Love Episode 430

January 20, 2015 09:00 - 46 minutes

It's the Getting Women to Come Show! Sometimes ladies can't come and want to. Sometimes ladies can't come and they don't want to. Dan sure talks a lot about female orgasms on this show, considering he's never been near one.  Bad Science Alert! Female Ejaculate: Is it pee? Dan speaks with fearless blogger Amy Luna Manderino about some annoying hyperventilation in response to a recent study on squirting.  On the Magnum, Dan chats with Cooper Beckett from the Life on the Swingset podcast about t...

Savage Love Episode 429

January 13, 2015 09:00 - 49 minutes

How can you tell when a slap to the face is welcome or unwelcome in a BDSM situation? A weepy slapper wants to know.  How much trouble can naughty photos on Tumblr cause your new boyfriend?  Chest tattoos: hot or not? Dan welcomes Heather Havrilesky of "Ask Polly" to tackle this one in a Second Opinion. And on the Magnum, does a woman have a right to ask about her new boyfriend's prescription for Cialis? Nancy weighs in!  206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the...

Savage Love Episode 428

January 06, 2015 09:00 - 53 minutes

A husband can't be bothered to bring his wife to orgasm. Why? It's too much work! His hand gets tired! A man is pretty sure his nephew is gay. The rest of the family is homophobic. How can he soften the ground with the family, and let him know he has support without outing or embarrassing him?  On the Magnum, Dan welcomes comedian Mike Birbiglia to tackle a question about REM sleep disorder. Also Annie.  A woman is willing to be a sub in the bedroom, but when her new boyfriend barks out order...

Savage Love Episode 427

December 30, 2014 09:00 - 54 minutes

A drunken lass has intellectual crushes on her professors. How can she express her "love for their intellect?"  A man is totes bummed when a date ditches him after discovering that he smokes cigarettes. Is this just what online dating is like?  One condom. Three people. Does this math add up?  On the Magnum, Dan chats with uber-lesbian author and sex educator Allison Moon about female ejaculation and the geyser that sometimes results.  And, listen to a cavalcade of remedies for PMS! This podc...

Savage Love Episode 426

December 23, 2014 09:00 - 1 hour

Come all ye faithful. It's the Lovecast Live Christmas Extravaganza!  Recorded at Seattle's Neptune Theatre, this show features singer-songwriter Rachel Lark, comedian Derek Sheen, and a suddenly recruited, unwitting therapist! And Dan uses the scientific method to prove once and for all that Christmas. Isn't. Sexy.  But you be the judge. Photos are at www.thestranger.com/LovecastChristmasPics 206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by ExtremeRestraints.com. Go buy something, and be sure ...

Savage Love Episode 425

December 16, 2014 09:00 - 49 minutes

If you're a bisexual man in a monogamous relationship with a woman, is a little twink porn so wrong?  When mothers move in: A woman's libido plummeted right around the time that her boyfriend's mother moved in to the apartment below them. Coincidence?  In an action-packed Magnum, Dan welcomes rival advice-giving powerhouse Carolyn Hax to grapple with some serious poly drama and super-freaky, non-communicative parents.  Also, all hail Evan Wolfson! He's the architect of the national gay marria...

Savage Love Episode 424

December 09, 2014 09:00 - 47 minutes

A bi man from a conservative Christian family had been through conversion therapy twice as a child. Strangely enough, it didn't work. He's all grown up now and coming out for real. How can he maintain a decent relationship with his "family?" A high school teacher and his entire class is horrified to see a female student masturbating in class. How can he teach her the timeless lesson that wanking in pubic is more trouble than it's worth? On the Magnum, Dan speaks with a researcher on the scien...

Savage Love Episode 423

December 02, 2014 09:00 - 50 minutes

A woman dating a water-sports enthusiast is having a hard time, just "letting go." A straight man is horrified by misogynistic, abusive porn. Why is it popular? How can he avoid it?  In another instance of straight male bewilderment, a man in his 50s doesn't "get" bondage. How can he find a woman who isn't interested in 50 Shades of anything?  On the Magnum, Dan spars with family therapist Damon L Jacobs on the PREP controversy.  And a sad tale of yet another rape at a fraternity, with a vict...

Savage Love Episode 422

November 25, 2014 09:00 - 51 minutes

If you or someone you love is considering coming out over Thanksgiving, you simply must listen to the Magnum version of the show. A lesbian's father is a religious leader, who begged her to stay in that deep, dark closet or he might lose his "job." He's gonna have a rough holiday this year. Stay tuned.  Dan welcomes Erika Moen, graphic artist and creator of "Oh Joy, Sex Toy," a must-read comic.  And, Dan issues a public service announcement for all you pee drinkers out there.  And so much mor...

Savage Love Episode 421

November 18, 2014 09:00 - 51 minutes

Wait. You haven't yet heard "My Brother, My Brother and Me?"  Well, we've rectified that situation, as Dan joins forces with the Brothers McElroy for a Second Opinion on how to change your boyfriend's look, the cruel practice of "sexile" and a cold hard look at the institution of the "dude's night out."    On the Magnum, hear Dan try to talk some sense into a young man whose fuckbuddy is a heroin enthusiast. She's twitchin' and scratchin' but he's "leaning toward eating her pussy." Hhhhot!  T...

Savage Love Episode 420

November 11, 2014 09:00 - 50 minutes

This week Dan speaks with Janet Yassen from the national rape support organization RAINN about recovering your sexuality after a sexual assault.  A father struggles to explain his affair to his 12 year old daughter. On the Magnum, Dan dishes with Dan Pashman, host of WNYC's The Sporkful on the connection between food, sex, and general deliciousness.  And, does the HPV really vaccine work? The answer is yes. But in case you are still skeptical, Dan brings on an expert to confirm.   206-201-272...

Savage Love Episode 419

November 04, 2014 09:00 - 49 minutes

Dan and the incomparable RuPaul chat about Drag Race, foot fetishes and living in Wyoming.  A man's girlfriend wants to seize control of his alcohol intake. But… he's a brewer.  A woman's boyfriend has a nasty, ill-tempered dog that licks and licks and licks him. Yuck?  On the Magnum, Dan speaks with Dr. Brock Bastian about his study which shows how pain brings people together. Awwww.  And, the developing story of "The Cuddle, the Nipple and the Ask. " 206-201-2720 This episode is brought to ...

Savage Love Episode 418

October 28, 2014 08:00 - 47 minutes

It's the triumphant return of Dr. Barak, here to reassure us that drinking pee is still "pretty darn safe."  Is guzzling jizz the equivalent of drinking a protein shake?  Should a man rat out his boss for watching porn on his phone after work?  On the Magnum version, Dan speaks with Katha Pollitt about her new book, Pro: Reclaiming Abortion Rights.  And more.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you byHarrys.com. Get $5 off your first purchase by entering the code "Savage"when you check o...

Savage Love Episode 417

October 21, 2014 08:00 - 50 minutes

Delusion and disfunction; this episode has more than it's fair share. Inevitable break-ups, sexless marriages, cheating and scheming. Feast your ears!  On the sweet, sweet Magnum, Dan chats with sex party luminary Polly Superstar! Also, in a "What You Got?" Dan chats with Dr. Rachel Jones from the Guttmacher Institute about the much maligned withdrawal method. 206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get a free sample, b...

Savage Love Episode 416

October 14, 2014 08:00 - 1 hour

It's the Savage Lovecast LIVE from Vancouver BC. Featuring the super-delightful sex researcher Dr. Lori Brotto and the incomparably filthy singer-songwriter Rachel Lark.    You only live once... 206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free postage and a digital scale. This episode is also brought to you by AdamandEve.com. Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping when you enter offer code "Savage". This episode is also brought ...

Savage Love Episode 415

October 07, 2014 08:00 - 47 minutes

A man is getting a yucky feeling from his best friend's new girlfriend. They've never met, mind you. But she seems kind of superficial? On social media? Should he speak up to protect his friend, or butt out already?  A very naughty woman is sexting with her ex-boyfriend. AND HE DOESN'T KNOW IT'S HER.  On the Magnum, Dan and comedian Cameron Esposito yak about straight men in lesbian bars, pathetic closet cases, and a woman who is trapped in and oppressed by her given name.    Cameron's got a ...

Savage Love Episode 414

September 30, 2014 08:00 - 55 minutes

This week, Dan brings on heavy-hitter advice columnist Margo Howard (daughter of THE Ann Landers…) to cackle and spar about cooking your way into your boyfriend's heart, and TANTRIC SEX of all things.  Also, a very sad call about a woman who can only get off when she watches realistic date rape porn.  On the Magnum, Dan brings on super lawyer Diana Adams to discuss custody battles and whether your open relationship can be held against you in court.  And a lot more.  206-201-2720  This episode...

Savage Love Episode 413

September 23, 2014 08:00 - 51 minutes

A man's wife uses their dom/sub relationship as ammo when they are fighting. And THAT AIN'T FAIR!  Should it be a deal-breaker if your boyfriend doesn't like your sense of humor? (Hint: YES.)  A gay man is having some complicated orgy issues. Don't we all?  On the Magnum, Dan chats with Sarah Mirk- the online editor of Bitch Magazine about feminist-friendly porn; how to find it, and how to avoid the bad stuff.  And more, more, more.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Le Tote- the...

Savage Love Episode 412

September 16, 2014 08:00 - 49 minutes

Hey Dan Savage! What do you think about waiting to have sex until marriage? Dan? Good idea?  A woman enjoys sharing naked photos of herself. Her friends warn her against it. But it gets her off, so why should she listen to them?  On the Magnum, we welcome Debby Herbenick to discuss the vibrator addiction epidemic plaguing ladies across the land.  And, a ton of kind, thoughtful responses from our listeners to the lass who was trapped in a hot & cold relationship with a cold-blooded sociopath. ...

Savage Love Episode 411

September 09, 2014 08:00 - 48 minutes

A woman is shocked to learn that her best friend is a trans woman. Why did she keep it secret? Should the caller feel betrayed?  Hear the tale of the French maid outfit that destroyed a relationship.  A college lesbian is horrified to discover that her roommate is an aggressively anti-gay Christian. A woman's former rapist continues to harass her online. In both cases the archangel Dan Savage raises his mighty sword to do some smiting.  We love a good smiting. 206-201-2720   This episode is b...

Savage Love Episode 410

September 02, 2014 08:00 - 51 minutes

What do you do when your potential new roommate comes with his very own stalker?  Dan chats with Dr. Vy Chu about the real risks of sleeping with honest, HIV-pos guys. On the Magnum, we are delighted to bring back fashion force-of-nature Simon Doonan, to discuss the feminist implications of camel toes.  And a ton more.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get a free sample, by visiting Naturebox.com/savage This epis...

Savage Love Episode 409

August 26, 2014 08:00 - 48 minutes

Dan and his old co-host Mary Martone talk about cat jealousy, mate poaching, and have an epic, drag-out battle over fat-shaming.  This episode is brought to you by AdamandEve.com. Get 10 free gifts, plus free shipping when you enter offer code "Savage". This episode is also brought to you by Babeland. Get 10% off plus free shipping when you enter the offer code "Savage" at checkout.  This podcast is also brought to you by Stamps.com. Click on the microphone and enter "Savage" for $55 free pos...

Savage Love Episode 408

August 19, 2014 08:00 - 49 minutes

This week, Dan welcomes author Joan Price to talk about sexuality for older folks. Meanwhile, back in high school, a gay lad is suffering because his boyfriend has suddenly decided he's straight.  On the Magnum, Dan chats and spars with prolific freelance writer Jillian Keenan about whether kink is a sexual orientation.  And, how can a gentle giant figure out how to dominate his lady in the way she really wants?  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription servi...

Savage Love Episode 407

August 12, 2014 08:00 - 50 minutes

Take it from us, whatever you do- don't offend the adult baby.  Also, how should you respond when you get hit on by a 13 year-old?  On the Magnum, Dan speaks with "Lazlo" -organizer of the Orgy Dome at Burning Man about sex at the sandy festival.   And, welcome to yet another abstinence-before-marriage train wreck.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get 50% off your first order, by visiting Naturebox.com/savage Th...

Savage Love Episode 406

August 05, 2014 08:00 - 45 minutes

Starting the show, Dan invites co-ranter Congressman Patrick J. Murphy to discuss why democrats treat military personnel better than the Rs.  A gay man is getting cat-called by his horn-dog neighbor. How can he politely tell him to knock it off? On the Magnum, you'll hear a "What You Got" with Sociology Professor Elizabeth Armstrong, about how rich girls slut-shame poor girls on college campuses. Also, does anybody have a lead on really great Slovakian dating sites?  206-201-2720 This podcast...

Savage Love Episode 405

July 29, 2014 08:00 - 48 minutes

Dan and infectious disease doctor/science writer Jonathan Golob talk about people who are anti-vaccine and whether you should have sex with them.  On the Magnum, Dan chats with YouTube sensation Arielle Scarcella about the wide, wide world of lesbians.  Also, spunk up the nose; big problem, or little problem? Also, Dan knows NOTHING about he Bible.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you byHarrys.com. Get $5 off your first purchase by entering the code "Savage"when you check out. This ep...

Savage Love Episode 404

July 22, 2014 08:00 - 44 minutes

Dan and his buddy Lucy chat about spanking, cheating, pervy cousins and sleeping with the cab driver.  206-201-2720 This episode is brought to you by Naturebox: the subscription service dedicated to smarter snacking. Get 50% off your first order, by visiting Naturebox.com/savage

Savage Love Episode 403

July 15, 2014 08:00 - 48 minutes

When a guy uses concert tickets to entice you to spend time with him, should you accept, even if you feel no attraction? Or would that make you mercenary?  A lesbian wonders how to let her potential employers know that she's gay during her job interview.  On the Magnum, Dan chats with Japanese bondage trailblazer Midori, about getting what you want out of a kink relationship.  Also, is the X-men character Mystique bisexual or what?  And more.  206-201-2720 This podcast is brought to you by Ex...

Savage Love Episode 402

July 08, 2014 08:00 - 44 minutes

Dan welcomes special guest ranter Martha Plimpton to talk about Hobby Lobby. A gay male couple were locked in a pattern of cheating to get revenge on each other. Now that they've cut it out, how can they bring in some trust?  On the Magnum, how much do little children remember? WIll they remember the trip to Disneyland? Will they remember their first day of kindergarten? Will they remember the home video of mommy they stumbled on where she shows her bum-bum? Also, Dan chats with perversity ex...

Savage Love Episode 401

July 01, 2014 08:00 - 43 minutes

A gay man appears to be a straight man magnet. Straight men declare their love for him more than gay men do. Why? And how can he make it stop?!  Meanwhile, in the mountains of Alaska, a couple have reached the divide where one of them wants kids and the other doesn't. One of them will win. One will lose.  On the Magnum, it's our second Second Opinion! This time, with "Ask Amy's" Amy Dickinson who braves some raunchy territory with naughty Dan Savage.  Also, Alice Dreger on talking to your kid...