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Restored 2 More

99 episodes - English - Latest episode: 8 months ago - ★★★★ - 7 ratings

This podcast is dedicated to restoring marriages and relationships to wholeness in Christ after being affected by pornography and sexual brokenness. Every episode is filled with rawness and transparency as Clinton and Charity intertwine their story while interviewing professionals and others about what it takes to rebuild connection after betrayal takes place. They focus on restoring safety and trust, rebuilding connection and intimacy, and ultimately reflecting God's ability to heal and redeem. Listen now for hope and guidance to start your journey of becoming Restored 2 More.

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Taking Your Marriage From Surviving to Thriving With Matthew and Joanna Raabsmith

June 02, 2021 08:00 - 47 minutes - 32.5 MB

Wondering how to have a marriage full of intimacy, deep connection, and a thriving relationship? Matthew and Joanna walk us through the Intimacy Pyramid, a structure they created that walks couples through how to build a relationship from the ground up! The wisdom shared in this podcast equips couples with the knowledge of creating safety, serving in love, engaging in healthy ways, and creating a desirable and enjoyable marriage. More Resources: https://renovatelife.us/ Our Resources: htt...

Looking Back to Move Forward with Clinton & Charity Munoz

May 26, 2021 06:00 - 45 minutes - 31.5 MB

In this episode, we take time to answer questions from you! You asked us, "are you still afraid of a relapse happening?" "how do you handle unwanted sexual thoughts in the bedroom?" and "how do you handle triggers and being patient in the process?"Also, an inside look at what's next for R2M and how together we are changing the world one couple at a time! Resources: https://restored2more.com/ https://www.instagram.com/restored2more/ https://www.facebook.com/Restored-2-More-108863067511392/?m...

Using The Power of Community Against Porn with Carl Thomas

May 19, 2021 08:00 - 44 minutes - 30.3 MB

Carl Thomas is the Founder of Live Free Ministries, Live Free Wives and is the new CEO of XXX Church.  Carl started these ministries to help people live their best life  without the pain that porn ensues. He talks today about the power of community how it is one of the biggest ways to achieve freedom. We also chat about how the church is way behind on having honest conversations about sex and how if we can't talk about it amongst other believers, the next generation will be educated by socie...

What is God's View Of Sex? with Dr. Juli Slattery

May 12, 2021 08:00 - 44 minutes - 30.3 MB

What does gospel-centered sexuality mean? What is God's view of sex, and why does it matter? In this episode, we ask Dr. Juli Slattery,  founder of Authentic Intimacy,  to shed light on the topic of healthy sexuality and how our understanding of God's view of sex drastically impacts our lives. Also, check out her newest book, "Re-Thinking Sexuality," it is a game-changer! More Resources: https://www.authenticintimacy.com/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/java-with-juli/id1116000318 Ou...

Building a Friendship With Your Spouse During Recovery with Bonny Burns

May 05, 2021 08:00 - 47 minutes - 32.4 MB

Bonny Burns shares an amazing well-rounded understanding of what God desires for marriage! She has been researching and writing about God’s design for healthy sexual intimacy since 2012 on the blog Oysterbed7.com and on the popular podcast, Sex Chat for Christian Wives. We discuss how she was able to build a friendship with her spouse during the 90-day abstinence plan and the recovery journey. Be sure to check all that she is working on in the links below! More Resources: https://strongwi...

Part 2 with Mark Kastleman Healthy Recovery and Talking to Kids About Porn

April 28, 2021 08:00 - 30 minutes - 20.8 MB

In this week's episode, we continue our conversation with Mark Kastleman about healthy recovery while in a relationship. He elaborates on the purpose of daily check-ins and not letting our emotions get the best of us. One of our favorite moments was when he explains how to create a shame-free home and how to know what is appropriate when talking to kids about pornography and healthy sexuality in an over-sexualized culture. More Resources: https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/ Our Res...

Why Can't He "Just Stop" Watching Porn? with Mark Kastleman Part 1

April 21, 2021 08:00 - 44 minutes - 30.4 MB

How does porn affect the brain? Is it possible to have an addiction and a chemical dependency in the brain, making it near impossible to " just stop"?  In this episode, we ask how to change neuropathways and develop healthy ways to communicate and meet our needs compared to using coping mechanisms. We talk about why addiction can make us forget about life's most important things; our relationship with Jesus, our spouses and children, and our calling. More Resources: https://www.reclaimcoun...

How Do I Know If He Is Getting Better? with Michael and Kristin Cary

April 14, 2021 08:00 - 52 minutes - 36.1 MB

Michael and Kristin get it. By God's grace, Kristin was able to heal and meet Michael and have a thriving relationship after her first marriage was a casualty to sexual addiction. Today they help men, women, and couples discover freedom through various tools and a tremendous amount of wisdom. Listen now to hear how they answer tough questions about safety, boundaries and how we find the restoration Jesus intends us to have. More Resources: https://living-truth.org/ Other Resources: https:...

The 3 Stages of Recovery with Cat Etherington

April 07, 2021 08:00 - 52 minutes - 35.8 MB

We talk with Cat Etherington about her role at Naked Truth Project and how she created both the WholeHearted Partner Program and the Whole Life Recovery Program. Her experience from her own recovery enables her to empathize with the addict's story and come alongside those facing betrayal.  More Resources: https://www.nakedtruthrecovery.com/ Our Resources: https://restored2more.com/ https://www.instagram.com/restored2more/

Interviewing Your Lust with Jay Stringer

March 31, 2021 06:00 - 48 minutes - 33.5 MB

Jay Stringer gives insight on the primary drivers for unwanted sexual behavior and how studying our sexual brokenness can provide us with a roadmap to healing. He further explains how most of our unwanted sexual behaviors are rooted in past experiences, and as we peel back those layers, we can understand what needs were unmet and what pains have been neglected or medicated. More Resources: https://jay-stringer.com/ https://www.thejourneycourse.com/ Our Resources: https://restored2more.com...

The 7 Different Affairs with Dr. Morgan Cutlip

March 24, 2021 07:00 - 44 minutes - 30.8 MB

We talk with Dr. Morgan Cutlip about the 7 different affairs, healthy boundaries after infidelity, and the process of forgiveness. She talks about how there is an opportunity after recovery to build resilience in your marriage that many couples don't get to experience. More Resources: http://www.lovethinks.com/ Our Resources: https://restored2more.com/ https://www.instagram.com/restored2more/ https://www.facebook.com/Restored-2-More-108863067511392/?modal=admin_todo_tour

How to Enjoy Sex After Betrayal with Dr. Clifford & Joyce Penner

March 17, 2021 04:00 - 52 minutes - 36.1 MB

What does healthy sex look like? How do we cultivate a healthy desire for sex and experience sex the way God intended us to? How does sexual betrayal affect our sex life with our spouses, and how do we heal? As we discuss these topics with Dr. Clifford & Joyce Penner, their insight and wisdom help us realize how we can move forward, rebuild trust, and have a thriving marriage and sex life. More Resources: https://passionatecommitment.com/ Other Resources: https://restored2more.com/ https:/...

There’s Still Hope with Mark & Beth Denison

March 09, 2021 08:00 - 49 minutes - 34.1 MB

Mark & Beth share their intimate story of betrayal while being in pastoral ministry. They explain how the church often misses the opportunity to come alongside leaders and how Mark lost his job, relocated with his family, and was dismissed from the church after finding out about his struggle. Yet through it all, God showed them how to let their problem be a platform to lead others to hope and healing.   Through their ministry, There's Still Hope, they have helped thousands of people discover...

Rebuilding Self-Worth After Betrayal w/ Evelyn James

March 03, 2021 05:00 - 46 minutes - 31.8 MB

Evelyn describes how devastated she was when she discovered her husband's pornography addiction during their honeymoon by finding images on his computer.  For the first time ever she shares with us their story, she opens up about their restoration journey and how they were able to build safety and trust back into their relationship. Today, she passionately teaches women how to discover a newfound sense of self-worth and self-esteem that leads to wholeness. More Resources: https://heyevelynj...

Repairing A Relationship After An Affair with Linda MacDonald

February 17, 2021 17:00 - 50 minutes - 34.5 MB

Linda has been an LMFT helping couples reconcile their marriages whenever possible for over 33 years.  She is an author, speaker, and counselor who shares a passion for helping the broken discover healing. Listen to her wisdom and experience of what works vs. what doesn't when repairing a relationship post-affair. More Resources: https://www.lindajmacdonald.com/ Our Resources: https://restored2more.com/ https://www.instagram.com/restored2more/ https://www.facebook.com/Restored-2-More-10886...

Girls Struggle With Porn Too With Crystal Renaud Day

February 17, 2021 03:00 - 47 minutes - 32.4 MB

Crystal shares the added shame she felt from the church being a girl addicted to pornography. But when another woman opened up about her addiction, Crystal was finally able to admit her own struggle and sought help.  Today she owns and runs SheRecovery helping thousands of women by relating to their struggle and empowering them with what they need to know to walk in freedom.  More Resources: https://sherecovery.com/ Our Resources: https://restored2more.com/ https://www.facebook.com/Restor...

The Difference Between Sobriety & Recovery with Lyschel Burket

February 10, 2021 05:00 - 44 minutes - 30.9 MB

Lyschel Burket shares a powerful testimony of God's redemptive power as she describes her healing journey from betrayal trauma and what it took for her to experience reconciliation in her marriage. She explains how God's promises were crucial to her healing and how her family of origin greatly impacted her recovery journey.  Today she leads a non-profit called Hope Redefined, giving women tools and guidance through coaching, groups, and retreats that equip them for their individual healing p...

Military Wife, Mother and Almost Divorced with Liz Andersen

February 02, 2021 16:00 - 45 minutes - 31.1 MB

Liz shares the exact moment that she was ready to walk out on her marriage. The military was already hard enough, now adding a loss of her marriage from betrayal. She takes us through her journey of healing and how they both had to grieve their old marriage. She shares with us how infidelity opened up doors in their relationship that needed to be addressed to move forward together. More Resources: https://www.prodigaltoprincess.com/ Our Resources: https://restored2more.com/coaching-and-sp...

When A Wife Betrays Her Husband with Rick & Tiffany Bulman

January 27, 2021 00:00 - 50 minutes - 34.8 MB

This time it was the wife who betrayed her husband. Tiffany, a senior pastor's wife, and worship leader, shares alongside her husband Rick how a 3-year affair caused their relationship and family to nearly implode. Listen to how God helped mend their relationship with each other and their four kids, all of whom were old enough to understand the betrayal. More Resources: https://www.mended-ministries.org/ Our Resources: https://restored2more.com/coaching-and-speaking/#workshop https://www....

Questioning Behaviors Before Condemning Them with Ben Bennett

January 19, 2021 03:00 - 44 minutes - 30.3 MB

Ben shares how today's youth need us to normalize the struggle of mental health issues and be willing to admit our own issues with pornography. When someone shares their shortcomings, we need to commend them for their transparency, not condemn them for their behaviors. Listen now to hear about what Ben and Resolution Movement are doing to help individuals find hope, community, and healing. More Resources: https://resolutionmovement.org/ Our Resources: https://restored2more.com/coaching-an...

The War on Porn with Matt Cline

January 13, 2021 06:00 - 48 minutes - 33.2 MB

Matt Cline shares with us his journey of how porn robbed him of his creativity, friendships, and passion. Today, as the founder of Restored Ministries, he fights back, helping men and women find freedom in Christ so they can pursue their God-given abilities and live life without shame. In this episode, he also talks about God's design for sex and how it has beauty and value beyond description in the bond of the covenant.  More Resources: https://www.restoredministries.ca/ https://www.purevi...

The War on Porn with Matt Cline

January 13, 2021 06:00 - 48 minutes - 33.3 MB

Matt Cline shares with us his journey of how porn robbed him of his creativity, friendships, and passion. Today, as the founder of Restored Ministries, he fights back, helping men and women find freedom in Christ so they can pursue their God-given abilities and live life without shame. In this episode, he also talks about God's design for sex and how it has beauty and value beyond description in the bond of the covenant.  More Resources: https://www.restoredministries.ca/ https://www.purevi...

What the Church Needs to Know About Pornography with Nick Stumbo

January 06, 2021 10:00 - 47 minutes - 32.8 MB

Studies show that over 50% of pastors struggle with pornography. In this episode, we talk to Nick Stumbo, the Executive Director of Pure Desires, about his journey to freedom as the previous senior pastor of his church and his experience disclosing his struggle to the entire congregation. He explains how the church needs to respond to leaders who are struggling with porn and what Pure Desires is creating to help them and others find healing. More Resources: https://puredesire.org/ https://...

My Wife's Response to Infidelity Changed Everything with Jonathan Daugherty

December 30, 2020 05:00 - 45 minutes - 31.4 MB

A heart-wrenching story filled with tears, laughter, and hope. Jonathan shares with us his story of infidelity and how his wife embodied Jesus through her forgiveness.  Learn about Be Broken Ministries and how they come alongside individuals and couples to find healing and freedom. More Resources: https://bebroken.com/ https://www.puresexradio.com/ https://www.instagram.com/bebrokenministries/ Our Resources: Couples Workshop: https://restored2more.com/coaching-and-speaking/#workshop Websit...

A Pastor, Pornography, Infidelity and Restoration with Mark & Gwen Brague

December 23, 2020 02:00 - 56 minutes - 39.1 MB

One morning as Gwen walked into a church meeting and saw Mark, her husband, and pastor, gently touching another woman's face, she immediately knew why he had felt distant for years. Embarrassment, shock, and sickness overwhelmed her body and spirit in an instant.  Join us as we listen to their story of restoration and how God is using their transparency to help other church leaders heal. More Resources: https://reconnectinglives.org/ Our Resources: Couples Workshop: https://restored2more....

A Pastor, Pornography, Infidelity and Restoration with Mark & Gwen Brague

December 23, 2020 02:00 - 56 minutes - 39.1 MB

One morning as Gwen walked into a church meeting and saw Mark, her husband, and pastor, gently touching another woman's face, she immediately knew why he had felt distant for years. Embarrassment, shock, and sickness overwhelmed her body and spirit in an instant.  Join us as we listen to their story of restoration and how God is using their transparency to help other church leaders heal. More Resources: https://reconnectinglives.org/ Our Resources: Couples Workshop: https://restored2more....

Can Divorce Be An Act of Love? With Tray and Melody Lovvorn

December 16, 2020 08:00 - 1 hour - 41.7 MB

In this Podcast, Tray and Melody Lovvorn share their story of experiencing healing through the pain. After being married for 11 years, divorced for 6 years, and now remarried for 12 years, they talk about how Melody’s choice to divorce Tray was an act of true love. Their story of being undone redone gives tremendous hope while relating to the most broken of situations. More Resources: https://undoneredone.com/ https://undoneredone.com/essentialshift http://www.lifebeyondbetrayal.com/ Our ...

Porn Kills Love with Mark & Rosie Makinney

December 09, 2020 08:00 - 59 minutes - 40.9 MB

Rosie educates us on the 3 most important steps a wife can take after discovering porn or infidelity in the relationship. She believes that what we need is an army of proactive wives standing firm against the porn that enslaves their husbands' hearts and minds. Mark shares with us how porn destroys men's masculinity and is used as the solution to their problem, but more often than not, it is not the problem itself. Mark believes the answer to true freedom is living in the light.  Together,...

Forgiveness with Stephanie Broersma

December 02, 2020 07:00 - 58 minutes - 40.2 MB

One of the hardest things for a broken bride to do is to forgive her husband. Stephanie shares how it is the entry point to being set free from the bondage of bitterness and resentment. She also shares how forgiving her husband didn’t immediately heal or change the relationship, but it allowed her and the relationship to begin the groundwork for restoration. More Resources: Website: www.reclaimedministry.com Get the book: https://reclaimedministry.com/reclaimed-book/ Instagram: https://www....

Intimacy Ignorance with Dr. Randell Turner

November 23, 2020 23:00 - 59 minutes - 41.1 MB

We yearn to have intimacy spiritually, emotionally, physically, intellectually, and socially but unfortunately, most of us aren’t taught how to cultivate it.   Most men are self mentored and have developed an intimacy ignorance. It’s not that we don’t want it. It’s that we have no idea how to establish it. Listen now to Dr. Randell Turner as he shares how to create and cultivate the rich intimacy God created us to walk in. More Resources: https://transformingfamilies.org/ Our Resources: h...

How Sex Addiction Stints The Ability To Be Intimate with Nate Larkin

November 18, 2020 06:00 - 59 minutes - 40.6 MB

Nate Larkin shares the process and journey of how his marriage went from devastation to thriving after sex addiction was discovered by his wife. He shares practical ways to begin having conversations that build trust. He also shares how porn use stints the ability to be intimate and why intimacy is the key to long term freedom. Nate created the Samson Society and shares how today there are over 10,000 men connected experiencing real intimacy and finding freedom. More Resources: samsonsocie...

The 15 Tools To Rebuilding Intimacy With Debbie Laaser

November 11, 2020 03:00 - 43 minutes - 30.2 MB

Listen to Part 3 as we wrap up the 15 tools to rebuilding intimacy with Debbie Laaser. We talk about safety, realizing that having feelings doesn’t mean you’re weak and how to own a person’s triggers. Steps 5- 15 are an absolute game-changer in learning how to rebuild what was lost after infidelity occurs.  These topics have been the underlying motivation for the different intensives offered by Faithful & True and have helped thousands of couples. Listen today to be empowered and uplifted. T...

An Intimate Story of Hope After Infidelity with Pastors Jeff and Megan Webb

November 04, 2020 04:00 - 59 minutes - 41.1 MB

We interview Jeff and Megan, pastors of the Vineyard Community Church in Chilliwack Canada, and hear their story of restoration after infidelity. They get real and raw about how she found out about the affair and sexual addiction and what change she needed to see not to walk away from the relationship. Megan shares how, in the midst of brokenness, God replaced her husband on the throne of her heart, helping her deeper her faith in God's promises after betrayal. Jeff shares how being vulnerab...

What Sex is Supposed to Be VS. What It Has Become With Michael & Julianne Cusick

October 25, 2020 16:00 - 57 minutes - 39.6 MB

We talk to  Michael & Julianne Cusick, founders of Restoring the Soul, about how both sides of a broken relationship face shame and how to overcome it. They share their insight on unhealed wounds and how to deal with them healthily. We also ask, "what does God say about sex, and what does sex say about God?" revealing an amazing perspective on God's character and how sex reveals attributes rarely talked about.   More Resources: https://restoringthesoul.com/ https://podcasts.apple.com/us/po...

Post Traumatic Growth with Debbie Laaser Part 2

October 20, 2020 22:00 - 49 minutes - 34.2 MB

Debbie Laser talks about how the Post Traumatic Growth Model makes trauma a “Both And.” What does that mean? While trauma creates great distress, it can also lead to an incredible amount of growth. This model and mindset backed by years of data and research describe how it is possible that trauma and transformation can co-exist! When we believe we can experience renewal, it allows us to change the question from, “why God?”  to, “what God, can I learn from this?” Listen now for a powerful mes...

How to Help Her Heal with Therapist Carol Juergensen Sheets

October 14, 2020 03:00 - 52 minutes - 36.3 MB

We have a conversation with Carol Juergensen Sheets about how it is possible to achieve intimacy after infidelity. One key component is creating empathy, and she explains the tools she has created from her most recent workbook: Help. Her. Heal. We discuss how couples don’t have to stay stuck in pain and how their best moments are still to come even after infidelity. We hit on the AVR model that breeds intimacy, and the truth guys can tell themselves, so they are better equipped to handle the...

How to Help Her Heal with Therapist Carol Juergensen Sheets

October 14, 2020 03:00 - 52 minutes - 36.4 MB

We have a conversation with Carol Juergensen Sheets about how it is possible to achieve intimacy after infidelity. One key component is creating empathy, and she explains the tools she has created from her most recent workbook: Help. Her. Heal. We discuss how couples don’t have to stay stuck in pain and how their best moments are still to come even after infidelity. We hit on the AVR model that breeds intimacy, and the truth guys can tell themselves, so they are better equipped to handle the...

Old Wounds Enhance Present Pain with Dr. Karl Lehman

October 06, 2020 23:00 - 55 minutes - 37.9 MB

It is always easier to stuff emotions deep down and not face the deep hurts and wounds of betrayal. We can even ask ourselves, "why would a loving God allow addiction and trauma to occur in the lives of people He loves?" In this episode, Dr. Karl Lehman, board-certified psychiatrist and author of "outsmarting yourself" shares his wisdom and insight as we hear wonderful testimonies of restoration and healing. We dive into the healing power of God's love and His desire for us to become trans...

Old Wounds Enhance Present Pain with Dr. Karl Lehman

October 06, 2020 23:00 - 54 minutes - 37.8 MB

It is always easier to stuff emotions deep down and not face the deep hurts and wounds of betrayal. We can even ask ourselves, "why would a loving God allow addiction and trauma to occur in the lives of people He loves?" In this episode, Dr. Karl Lehman, board-certified psychiatrist and author of "outsmarting yourself" shares his wisdom and insight as we hear wonderful testimonies of restoration and healing. We dive into the healing power of God's love and His desire for us to become trans...

When A Woman Realizes They Aren't Causing The Addiction- with Debbie Laaser

September 30, 2020 05:00 - 59 minutes - 40.6 MB

Listen to Debbie as she shares her story of her husband's infidelity and the symptoms her body underwent after discovery. Today she walks us through the pain, the journey of becoming educated, and explains the healing power of understanding that she wasn't the major cause of addiction. Listen to what her journey of restoration looked like and how her marriage went from broken to beautiful. More Resources: https://faithfulandtrue.com/ Our Resources: https://restored2more.com/ https://www.i...

How Trust Can Be Rebuilt After Betrayal with Cindy Beall

September 23, 2020 03:00 - 54 minutes - 37.7 MB

Cindy Beall is a speaker, mentor, and author of “Healing Your Marriage When Trust is Broken” and “Rebuilding a Marriage Better Than New.” In this podcast, she relates to the broken-hearted women that have been blinded by their husbands’ actions and behaviors. She shares what her process of healing looked like and what her husband, Chris, did to rebuild trust in their relationship. We cover topics such as finding a couple’s individual roles, how to feel safe after betrayal, and how to have ...

Experiencing Joy Changes Everything With Chris and Jen Coursey

September 16, 2020 02:00 - 55 minutes - 38.1 MB

Chris and Jen Coursey talk about how important it is to have our relational circuits on (scientific brain term!) and how dangerous it can be when they’re off.  Impulse decisions, hurtful words, and self-preservation are only a few of the outcomes if they’re off. Learn how to know if yours are off and what you can do to turn them back on! Also, joy is the most euphoric drug that our brain craves but unfortunately, our culture and society constantly settle for pseudo joy and we are hardly taug...

A Story of Hope and Restoration with Jaime and Liliana Garcia

September 09, 2020 02:00 - 59 minutes - 41.2 MB

Jaime and Liliana share how infidelity and sex addiction nearly destroyed their family. Liliana explains how God softened her heart and led her to forgiveness through betrayal trauma while Jaime describes how he fought for freedom and was patient in rebuilding trust with his wife. Listen to how God not only brought healing to their relationship but how they are able to use their pain for a greater purpose. This is a story of hope, restoration, and healing. More Resources: https://www.canaa...

Lies vs. Truth and How Joy Plays a Part in Rebuilding Intimacy with Dr. Marcus Warner

September 02, 2020 04:00 - 58 minutes - 40.4 MB

Have you ever wondered how to stop the spiral of lies that make even the truth seem false? Dr. Marcus Warner talks about how to uproot lies and replace wrong thinking with the truth. He explains how compartmentalization and relational circuits enable a person to turn on and off an identity, a key component for those struggling with pornography. Lastly, he educates us on joy, how to create it, and why it is a key ingredient for rebuilding intimacy. More Resources: https://deeperwalkinternati...

We Talk Church, Pornography, Sex and Recovery with Pastor Darrell Brazell

August 26, 2020 06:00 - 1 hour - 44.9 MB

Shame is eating the church alive. Almost every person has some kind of sexual shame in their life, and unfortunately, there aren't places to go and share it, even within the church. In this episode, we talk strategies of fighting shame and the power of releasing a secret. Pastor Darrell shares how God created sexual pleasure for enjoyment but how our culture has taken it out of context, which is why it has produced more pain than joy. Our Resources: Couples Workshop: https://restored2more....

Tina Konkin: Learn Why Compassion and Community are the Keys to Restoration

August 19, 2020 02:00 - 1 hour - 42.2 MB

How does someone forgive their spouse after infidelity has taken place? Is it even possible for a marriage to heal and achieve intimacy after trust is broken? According to Tina Konkin, internationally acclaimed leader and speaker on the topic of relationships and author of How God used "the Other Woman," she says it comes down to compassion. You can’t re-write the facts, but you can re-write your perspective. In this episode, we talk about forgiveness, compassion, the importance of safe rela...

How Neurotheology Can Help Us Heal with Dr. Jim Wilder

August 12, 2020 07:00 - 50 minutes - 34.6 MB

Have you ever wondered why the fear of loss isn't enough to motivate someone to change? Why is it that men and women get "stuck" in recovery? In this episode Clinton and Charity interview Dr. Jim Wilder, author of 18 books and the chief Neurotheologian of Life Model Works. He answers these questions with incredible insights and helps us understand how the brain reacts to trauma and the brain's way of using addiction to cope with relational damage. https://lifemodelworks.org/ Our Resources:...

His Side

June 11, 2020 05:00 - 55 minutes - 37.9 MB

Clinton shares about how sexual addiction plagued his life for over 15 years. He talks openly about how it deeply affected his marriage and how he almost lost everything. Today he shares how a new perspective led to freedom.  Our Resources: Couples Workshop: https://restored2more.com/coaching-and-speaking/#workshop Website: https://restored2more.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/restored2more/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Restored-2-More-108863067511392/?modal=admin_todo_tour

Her Side

March 21, 2020 23:00 - 58 minutes - 40.1 MB

In this episode, Charity shares her side of the story. Infidelity.Betrayal.Trauma. She never thought marrying Clinton would lead to this. Sexual Addiction plagued their relationship for nearly 5 years, and today she is ready to share her side of the story. Our Resources: Couples Workshop: https://restored2more.com/coaching-and-speaking/#workshop Website: https://restored2more.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/restored2more/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/Restored-2-More-1088630...