Purpose Driven Mom Show
451 episodes - English - Latest episode: 3 days ago - ★★★★★ - 156 ratingsThe Purpose Driven Mom Show is for all moms - stay at home moms, work at home moms, or working moms! The goal is to help you find systems and routines to manage your home, go after your goals, feel less stressed and have more joy in your home and parenting!
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How to Overcome and Embrace Fear
August 11, 2022 09:00 - 44 minutes - 36.3 MBLet’s talk about why fear gets in the way of our goals, and how we allow fear to stop our progress. Let’s also talk about what we can do about overcoming our fears! Today Cara is sharing with you a behind-the-scenes in one of her programs called the 'Purpose Driven Mom Club Plus Coaching Program' as an extension of what we do in the Purpose-Driven Mom Club. It's a higher level, high-touch mindset-based program where club members, who've kind of gone through the club program understand ...
Behind the Scenes Coaching Session! How do you decide what to do for your business?
August 08, 2022 09:00 - 39 minutes - 31.5 MBAre you newer in business? Or struggling to get your business moving and grooving? When I started my business I was throwing spaghetti at a wall for a long time. I had no idea how to help people and felt like I wasn't qualified at all. And maybe you've been there too? Today on the podcast, I'm sharing a behind-the-scenes coaching episode where. I talk through with a member of the Purpose Driven Mom Club about how to figure out where to start with a business idea. The 15 Minute...
Using Trello for Back to School Planning
August 04, 2022 09:00 - 16 minutes - 18.6 MBThe 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/goals A PURPOSE-DRIVEN MOM SHOW NOTES: apurposedrivenmom.com/podcast250
Setting Up Your Routines for Back to School Success
August 01, 2022 09:00 - 19 minutes - 20 MBIt can be hard to start to know how to get ready for back to school. With summer coming to an end it’s important to create a back-to-school routine that you can slowly ease your family into. Depending on your kids’ ages and grades, this will look different in every home but, no matter what, I believe it’s so key to have a routine. So let's jump into today's episode! The 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurpos...
What Happens When You Lose Your Habits?
July 28, 2022 09:00 - 17 minutes - 16 MBToday we're answering a question that I think happens to a lot of us. What do you do when you feel like your habits are there — Your routines are solid — And then all of a sudden you get thrown off and everything goes haywire.? This episode you are gonna hear is a behind-the-scenes coaching call with a member of the purpose-driven mom club. She asked a really great question and that is "What do you do when your routines and habits feel solid but now I'm struggling with it as soon as I add...
What To Do If You Have No Vision For Your Goals
July 25, 2022 09:00 - 20 minutes - 17.7 MBWhat do you want? Because if you DON'T know where you wanna go, if you don't know WHY you wanna get there, and if you're NOT SURE the steps to take, then your journey's gonna be a lot harder. The 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/goals A PURPOSE-DRIVEN MOM SHOW NOTES: apurposedrivenmom.com/podcast247
How To Be A Leader In Your Life With Sara Dean
July 21, 2022 09:00 - 42 minutes - 34.2 MBHow can we identify our core values as a mom and define what that looks like? And does it really make a difference to do this work? We’ve been sitting in a pandemic for a few years, trying to manage everything at home and we feel a little lost. If you're someone who's thinking, “I do not have time to come up with my values and vision.” then this episode is perfect for you. Today we are chatting with Sarah Deam from the Shameless Mom Academy Podcast, and we are going over values and vis...
Ditching Mom Guilt When It Comes To Your Goals
July 18, 2022 09:00 - 20 minutes - 18.5 MBThe 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/goals A PURPOSE-DRIVEN MOM SHOW NOTES: apurposedrivenmom.com/podcast245
Why Intentional Relationships Matter with Devon Moody-Graham
July 14, 2022 09:00 - 40 minutes - 34 MBLet's talk about the entrepreneurial roller coaster. How do you build authentic relationships? What do you do when you need to make money now, but you also want a long-game strategy in place? Today we are chatting to Devon as she gives us so many great tips on how to be your authentic self in your business. She shares about what it's like growing up in an entrepreneurial family and now raising her kids with an entrepreneurial mindset. You're gonna wanna notepad. The 15 Minute For...
How to Get Out of a Slump
July 11, 2022 09:00 - 16 minutes - 16.1 MBHow can you get out of a slump when you feel stuck in one? We have a couple of tips in our episode today that will help you de-slump. Now your slump could happen for a lot of different reasons. ➡️ Sometimes it's because we're coming off vacation or somebody's sick. ➡️ Sometimes you need a mental health break. So, let’s dive in. The 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/goals A PURPOSE-...
How to Gamify Your Business
July 07, 2022 09:00 - 48 minutes - 35.8 MBHow do you gamify your business goals? How does it help the struggling, scattered, and overwhelmed entrepreneur? This interview episode is Cara coaching in Gloria’s program. Gloria works with women entrepreneurs who have ADHD. And these ladies talked about how to use gamification within Cara’s 15-minute formula systems to conquer the next business steps. Making work less scary, and kind of step-by-step, especially when it comes to things like batching and breaking down goals. The...
How to Create Goals for Your Business When You're Just Getting Started
July 04, 2022 09:00 - 24 minutes - 23.5 MBWe talked about this concept of, Learn-Plan-Do and where to start creating goals for your business. Are your business ideas any good? How do you start breaking business goals down? That's where Cara's Learn-Plan-Do framework comes in. You can use this framework for any goal that you have, that you really don't even know the steps to. ➡️ if you're thinking about starting a business ➡️ or you already have a business ➡️ or if you are not sure if your business idea is valid ➡️...
Understanding Why We Self Sabotage with Veronica Cisneros
June 30, 2022 09:00 - 38 minutes - 30.1 MBWhy are we getting in our own way? Why do we stand in front of ourselves when really we should be, cheerleading ourselves on? How much time do you have for your self-care? If you're someone who struggles with getting in the way of your own goals, you're going to love this episode and walk away with some gems. We need to be able to identify why there's resistance, and where the resistance is in our lives that is keeping us from accomplishing the goal that we set out to do. A huge piece ...
Getting Started with Writing a Book With Siobhan Jones
June 23, 2022 09:00 - 42 minutes - 30.8 MBAre you writing a book? Do you dream of starting to write a book? This is a huge, amazing dream that so many moms have BUT probably won't act on. What happens is we can get frozen in that dream of writing a book because of all the things our brain is telling us. Trying to keep us safe. Mindset is everything when writing a book! That’s what we are talking about in today’s episode. About being a busy mom and finding time to write, and overcoming the fears to write. Finally getting ...
Time blocks to Add Into Your Day (The 15 Minute Formula Chapter 5)
June 20, 2022 09:00 - 23 minutes - 20.2 MBIn today's episode, Cara is talking all about additional time blocks to add into your week. Time-blocking is an incredible strategy that she loves to teach on, but it wasn't until she added separate blocks inside her blocks, (super meta) that she was able to amplify her productivity. And today she is sharing these time blocking hacks here. Listen in. The 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/...
Efficient Goal Setting for Mom Entrepreneurs with Tee Forever
June 16, 2022 09:00 - 44 minutes - 34.8 MBHow do we set goals efficiently? How do we set big goals that are realistic, but also fit our dreams and our current lives? What do you do when you start to go after your goals and you fail? In today’s episode, we are talking with Tee about these things as well as how we as entrepreneurs can stay singularly focused but also work on fun projects. If you've been wondering,--- how do you achieve your big goals and dreams as an entrepreneurial mom? you're going to love this interview! I...
Maximizing Your Daily Bookends
June 13, 2022 09:00 - 38 minutes - 37.1 MBLet's talk about bookends! What they are and how they hold your life together. We can't control a lot of what happens in the middle of our day, but we can control the first and the last pieces of our day. These are called "our bookends" and in this episode, Cara is going to walk you step-by-step through the process of the how what and why of creating your own personal bookends. This can make or break your day! So let's get started. The 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https...
5 Keys to an Organized Life with Danielle Adams
June 09, 2022 09:00 - 33 minutes - 28.4 MBHow can we manage our time and get organized with our business? In this interview, we are going to focus on the five keys to a more organized life. Including the part of your life that is your business. We are going to be talking about: - the “how” - going to go from overwhelmed to organized - creating a plan and THEN implementing it - strategic “to-do” lists Listen in to this interview Cara did with Danielle, as she teaches step-by-step what it takes to ditch the “I can’t do this ...
How to Batch Plan for the Summer
June 06, 2022 09:00 - 19 minutes - 18 MBCara had a question come in about summer planning. How does she do it? How does she get ahead? And so, in today's episode, we wanted to show you. Let's jump in. The 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/goals A PURPOSE-DRIVEN MOM SHOW NOTES: apurposedrivenmom.com/podcast233
Creating Your Monthly Business Plan
June 02, 2022 09:00 - 16 minutes - 16.5 MBWe've got tons of stuff here on the podcast about personal goals, but what about your business goals? How is planning for business goals different from planning personal goals? And with family and business in the same space how do you plan for business while carting for your family? Listen in to today’s episode as Cara breaks down her monthly planning routine that she does to stay focused on her business and knock out the goals she needs to hit. She also walks through all of this in a ...
Creating Family, Personal and Business Mission Statements
May 30, 2022 09:00 - 13 minutes - 13.2 MBThe 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/goals A PURPOSE-DRIVEN MOM SHOW NOTES: apurposedrivenmom.com/podcast231/
Monthly Reflection Systems
May 26, 2022 09:00 - 35 minutes - 30.3 MBIf we have all of these plans for our goals, do we ever look back? Do we ever think about what went well with our goals? What didn't go well and why not? What about when we make great action plans that go with our goals but things don't work out? What about instead of trying the exact same plan again and again and hoping our willpower and motivation will pull us through --- What if we try something different? Have you been there too? The "try-the-same-goal-again" cycle? Have you ever sto...
Ditching Perfectionism With Your Business
May 23, 2022 09:00 - 25 minutes - 24.5 MBHow do I manage my time at home doing work with my kids around? Let's go over the proactive and the reactive ideas that you can use today to really help this process of time management with kids at home. In this episode, Cara goes over some easy mompreneur strategies to help you figure out how to work smarter not harder. Listen in. The 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/goals A PURP...
Why I Decided To Switch My Focus With A Purpose Driven Mom
May 19, 2022 09:00 - 21 minutes - 18.8 MBWe're making some switches here and you're going to be the first to know. When I started my business five years ago, I did not know what I was doing. Let me tell you it was a mess. I was throwing spaghetti at a wall. Literally. I had recipes on my website, and, if you know me you will know that I cannot cook. But now …five years later I have so many lessons I want to share. And I really want to share them with you, my purpose-driven mom, as you are figuring out how to create space and tim...
3 Years of the Purpose Driven Mom Podcast
May 16, 2022 09:00 - 25 minutes - 23.2 MBWe are celebrating 3 years of the Purpose Driven Mom Podcast and today Cara is chatting through the ups and downs of the last 3 years here BUT mostly importantly she is sharing her best tip's and tricks for starting and maintaining a podcast. Listen in. The 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/goals A PURPOSE-DRIVEN MOM SHOW NOTES: apurposedrivenmom.com/podcast227/
Productivity Made Easy with Lori Oberoeckling
May 12, 2022 09:00 - 34 minutes - 27.3 MBThe 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/goals A PURPOSE-DRIVEN MOM SHOW NOTES: apurposedrivenmom.com/podcast226/
Getting Up Early Won't Solve Your Problems
May 09, 2022 09:00 - 20 minutes - 19.8 MBPeople say "The only way to be successful, is to get up at 5 am." Today Cara is saying "NO!" to this huge misnomer that is floating around the goal crushing space with feelings of shame and disappointment. Getting up early is not going to solve all your life's problems. As busy moms getting up early may not even be an option. So you failed before you even started?! Do you give up? Do you need to wait to accomplish anything until your unicorn schedule comes together and "allows" you to? ...
Ask me Anything - WAHM Q&A
May 05, 2022 09:00 - 43 minutes - 35.8 MBLet’s talk business! How can you hit your business goals, manage your time and manage your family! Yikes. It’s a lot and the overwhelm can stop new businesses before they even get started. Join Cara in this coaching call episode from the business roundtable — which is a recent addition to the Purpose Driven Mom Club! We are chatting through: How do you know what tasks to work on first in your new business - when it feels like there are a zillion? How can you realistically plan out yo...
How Knowing Your EQ Can Change How You Conquer Your Goals
May 02, 2022 09:00 - 20 minutes - 17.4 MBWhy do you behave the way that you do? How do your emotions impact others and how can you understand your emotions? This all is called emotional intelligence, and this is what we are talking about today. The biggest takeaway is that it is possible to change and grow as you become aware of your emotional intelligence. Let's dive into today's episode. The 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom....
How Do I Work At Home When I Have A Sick Kid? Q&A with Cara
April 28, 2022 09:00 - 20 minutes - 19.9 MBHow the heck do I get my work done at home, with kids around? What happens when I have my day planned out and then something unexpected throws everything off. Like a sick kid at home? This is a great question that was asked in our FB group, and this is the question that Cara is answering in today’s episode. You’ll hear Cara go through some proactive and reactive strategies of what to do when the kids are home sick AND you still have to work. Going through the steps of both the proac...
Using Incentives for Your Goals {Chapter 11 of the 15 Minute Formula}
April 25, 2022 09:00 - 15 minutes - 15.7 MBUsing Incentives for Your Goals Now that we've talked about your vision and how to create a breakdown for your goals, let's chat about some of the fun things to add to your goal action plan to help make them stick. I used to think that if I struggled with a goal, it just wasn't meant to be and I was unmotivated. But what I realized was that my way of looking at tools was missing a few steps and components to help me complete it. Pre-identify your obstacles Use incentives to keep going...
Intentional Connection Routines with Your Kids with Dr Alisa Van Langeveld
April 21, 2022 09:00 - 39 minutes - 32.5 MBHow do we create a deeper connection with our kids? How do we do that connection without the overwhelmed and adding more tasks to our already full day? Today we are sharing a summit interview that we had with Dr. Alisa Van Langeveld where she shares her expert advice about “attachment theory” and how we can easily and effectively bring this into our day. If you are a parent that is struggling to figure out where you are wanting to fit in time with each child one-on-one then the 1...
Creating Boundaries When You Work at Home
April 18, 2022 09:00 - 46 minutes - 42.9 MBDo you want to maximize your productivity and achieve your goals without burning out, or adding more to your already full to-do list as a working mom? In this podcast episode, Kelli chats with Cara, an amazing mom, a former teacher, and mom empowerment and productivity coach whose mission is to provide women with the tools, resources, and community to reach their goals, empower themselves, find their happiness, and live a life by design. She does this via her blog, podcast, virtual com...
How to Unleash your Inner Joy
April 14, 2022 09:00 - 49 minutes - 43.2 MBHow can you impact your emotions and switch to joy? How can "pausing" change your behavior pattern? Join us in this fantastic episode where Cara teaches a class about finding your inner joy. From recognizing the negative conditioning that affects you and your emotions to the positive conditioning that is called joy. Cara goes through practical steps that you can take when you have only a little joy and need a little more to when your body is in full freaking out mode and there's nothin...
The 4 Days To Take Off After A Big Project Or Launch
April 11, 2022 09:00 - 14 minutes - 15.2 MBI’m coming out of my post-summit high. It was an amazing event and we’ve opened doors to the purpose-driven mom club for our spring cohort. And I’m tired. But here is the thing. I knew this was going to happen. So I planned for it. Here’s the thing. Hustling all the time will lead us to burnout, be overwhelmed, and quit. I know this because I’ve been there. But if you want to grow your business, you’ve got to work hard. So why not instead, create a plan to take care of wha...
Routines to Rock Your Goals {Inside a Purpose Driven Mom Panel}
April 07, 2022 09:00 - 40 minutes - 36.1 MBToday we are talking about routines around productivity, time management, and goals. How the heck do I get it done as a busy mom? Today in episode 216 we are airing an expert panel of routines and mindset from our recent 2022 A Purpose Driven Mom Summit We are going to dive into topics like: How do you focus on a goal when your brain feels like it has 15 tabs open? How do you work on a goal when you feel like you are failing over and over again at moving forward on the same goal? How...
Introducing the Purpose Driven Mom Club
April 04, 2022 09:00 - 11 minutes - 12.4 MBLearn all about the support you can get when you join the Purpose Driven Mom Club. Personal goal coach anyone?! The 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/goals A PURPOSE DRIVEN MOM SHOW NOTES: apurposedrivenmom.com/podcast215/
From Overwhelmed To In Control - Hear From Members Of The Purpose Driven Mom Club
March 31, 2022 09:00 - 32 minutes - 35.1 MBThis episode is for you when you need to hear from other moms that have accomplished it! And by “it” we mean: Their goals Their to-do list ➡️ Guess what?! ➡️ You can do it too! These moms have changed things around in their lives — from being overwhelmed and out of control with their time — to feeling hopeful and excited about what’s to come with their goals. Listen in, to hear about these club members’ transformation about how they were able to put the S.O.A.R. framework that Ca...
Ask Me Anything - Q&A with Cara
March 28, 2022 09:00 - 20 minutes - 21.7 MBThe 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harveyhttps://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/goals A PURPOSE DRIVEN MOM SHOW NOTES: apurposedrivenmom.com/podcast213/
Using the Microwave Minute to Maximize Your Time
March 24, 2022 09:00 - 36 minutes - 30.4 MBHow about a super helpful technique that you can use to get those tiny tasks done? Around here, we call it the microwave minute! Today Cara is on Jennifer Booth’s podcast show! Jennifer is from the Planning Women and you are going to love this episode where Cara dives deep into the microwave minute technique. This is all about establishing a routine that is always there for you, so that when you get thrown off track — that’s totally fine ➡️ because your routine for “getting-things-done...
What To Do When You're Afraid Of Rejection
March 21, 2022 09:00 - 30 minutes - 27.1 MBWhen I'm trying to tie my worth and my works together ... that's exactly the opposite of what the Bible says. You don't need to prove yourself. You don't need to prove yourself to anyone ... even yourself. The 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/goals A PURPOSE DRIVEN MOM SHOW NOTES: apurposedrivenmom.com/podcast211/
The Best Routine Tips for Busy Moms
March 17, 2022 09:00 - 37 minutes - 32.4 MBWhat is the best routine that you have in your home? What are the best routines that other moms can’t live without? Well, today we are talking to the A Purpose Driven Mom Summit speakers and panelists as they share their favorite routines. How about… ➡️ A nighttime routine that will create a super solid morning? ➡️ A family routine that will help clear off the table post-supper? ➡️ Creating your personal mental health routine? ➡️ A Sunday planning routine to set your week up for ...
What To Do When You Keep Pushing Off Your Goals
March 14, 2022 09:00 - 31 minutes - 30.1 MBA lot of us don't look at it this way, but perfection - that all-or-nothing mindset - is actually a form of procrastination ... and we will procrastinate our goals, our dreams because it doesn't look perfect. ➡️ Listen in to today's episode about smashing out those goals. The 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/goals A PURPOSE DRIVEN MOM SHOW NOTES: apurposedrivenmom.com/podcast209/ter.
How to Reclaim Your Time and Energy as a Working Mom with Eva Mcmanmon
March 10, 2022 10:00 - 34 minutes - 29.4 MBWant a sneak peek into the A Purpose Driven Mom Summit 2022! Coming to you on March 28?! With the overwhelm of “doing it all” as a working mom, how are we ever going to find more time? Because that’s what we need! More time! So then, we make a list of all the things we need to do and everything on that list feels really urgent. The mental load of the working mom can be the hardest. - So how do we reclaim our time and energy as a working mom? - How do we have joy and energy PLUS man...
How to Create a Routine Stacked Plan
March 07, 2022 10:00 - 18 minutes - 18.1 MBToday we are talking about the foundations of a routine stacked plan. Essentially this is a slow and steady method for not getting overwhelmed with your goals and so you are not jumping in with both feet and feeling super overwhelmed. When you are coming up with your routine stacked plan you are going to want to walk that plan through the 5 pillars of goal setting ... Listen in! The 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: ...
What To Do When You Over Plan And Struggle To Take Action
March 03, 2022 10:00 - 33 minutes - 28 MBLet’s talk about productivity and motherhood — together. How can we bring both of these two very different sides together to get the results we need? What do we do when we are not motivated? What do we do when we have no plan? Where do we start? What do we do when our goal is massive? What do we do when we don't know what to do next? Join Cara in her interview with Jesse Larson from Positivity You Podcast. Where these ladies talk about what to do when we get off track with our goal...
Why You Need To Stop Relying On Your Motivation (Chapter 3 of the 15 Minute Formula)
February 28, 2022 10:00 - 13 minutes - 14.3 MBYour motivation is not going to help you be successful. We rely so much on our motivation. We think that if we want it bad enough, we'll just do it. Your productivity is based on more than just your motivation. The 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/goals A PURPOSE DRIVEN MOM SHOW NOTES: apurposedrivenmom.com/podcast205/
Readjusting Your Goals for the End of the Quarter
February 24, 2022 10:00 - 19 minutes - 20 MBGetting the goal accomplished can be SO hard! Yes, we can make the goal! Yes, we can map out a plan! But what about completing the goal and checking it off?! That’s the hard part. Sometimes we forget about the goal and the small steps needed every day in our 15 minutes chunks. Sometimes life just happens and there is zero room. Sometimes we tried but getting to the end of our quarter means we are still not done with our goals. Argh! Another goal NOT done! So … How do we co...
How to Grow in Confidence
February 21, 2022 10:00 - 16 minutes - 18.1 MBHow you can grow in confidence when you feel discouraged when you are feeling down, and when you feel like you can't achieve your goals? We moms, try so hard at what we are doing that when we fail --- it feels like "Why am I bothering?" These are super common feelings and here is what you can do to be encouraged and grow in confidence. The 15 Minute Formula Book by: Cara Harvey https://apurposedrivenmom.com/book FREE GOAL SETTING SERIES: https://apurposedrivenmom.com/goals A PURP...
How To Determine Your True Desires
February 17, 2022 10:00 - 25 minutes - 23.6 MBAre you standing in your own way of success with goals? Maybe you make goals but never actually achieve them? If yes, we want you to know — it’s not your fault! And here’s why … We have had years, and years of conditioning placed on us, with other people's (and our own) expectations, about what we should and shouldn't do! What happens if you actually achieve an amazing goal? Would a relationship change, or your partner not approve? Would you have to set some boundaries for the fir...