In order for a porn addict to move into "real" recovery, AND a spouse to begin healing her betrayal trauma, as a couple you MUST begin setting BOUNDARIES! Why? Because the MOST connected relationships are those with boundaries. 

First, there must be boundaries that create "safety" in the relationship. Without safety, intimacy (into-me-you-see) is impossible. Some of the most important boundaries creating safety are SEXUAL BOUNDARIES.Mark and Steve talk raw and real about HOW to set sexual boundaries--the do's and dont's; dealing with awkwardness, resistance and old sexual attitudes that no longer belong in your relationship. A SPECIAL ASSIGNMENT that will help you talk openly about your sexual relationship and what you want it look and be like in your marriage.  

Visit the PBSE website at: pbsepodcast.com 

Find out more about Steve Moore at:  Ascension Counseling
Learn more about Mark Kastleman at: Reclaim Counseling Services

Part of setting sexual boundaries is knowing the differences between "True Intimacy" and "Sex" in the marriage relationship—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/true-intimacy-vs-sex-in-marriage

A CRITICAL boundary in the marriage relationship is NO secrets and full disclosure porn addiction behaviors—https://www.reclaimcounselingservices.com/no-more-secrets-in-your-marriage