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Phoenix and Flame Podcast

111 episodes - English - Latest episode: 7 days ago -

Phoenix and Flame is a podcast by Dana Skaggs, M.A. She is called the "Queen of Boundaries" as well as the "Sassy Psychotherapist." Her podcast is about pushing through and transforming even when you feel like a pile of ash. If you feel alone in your struggle, check out the candid interviews with inspiring guests.

You’ll hear their authentic journey through struggle, what helped them, what hurt them, and how they finally rose from the ashes. Dana asks direct, thought-provoking questions infused with snarky humor and therapeutic commentary, designed so her listeners will take away useful and applicable rubber-meets-the-road coping strategies.

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Episodes

Healing From Narcissistic Abuse

April 21, 2024 22:45 - 42 minutes - 38 MB

Have you ever been in a relationship with a narcissist?  It is quite the experience!  Do you wonder if you are but aren't sure because of all the gaslighting?  Are you second-guessing yourself a lot and blaming yourself for issues they created?  Then you definitely want to listen as Nikki LaCroce describes her journey with a wonderfully open, transparent delivery. Nikki's podcast Nikki's IG

"Sigh, See, Start": The ShouldStorm Antidote

April 07, 2024 19:19 - 36 minutes - 31.2 MB

Are you a parent living in fear of "messing up" your child?  Do all the "shoulds" have you in a stranglehold?  Listen as pediatrician, Dr. Alison Escalante, describes her prescription for the ShouldStorm. https://sighseestart.com Dr. Escalante's book

Trauma Impact: From Codependency to Self-Mastery

March 24, 2024 19:23 - 39 minutes - 36.8 MB

Are you keenly aware of others' moods?  Do you struggle to validate your own thoughts and feelings due to threatened rejection and abandonment by others?  Have you been told what is acceptable behavior and try your best to please those around you?  Listen as Amanda Kate discusses her trauma, resiliency, managing the 5 F's and learning the value of Self-Mastery. https://amandakate.com.au

Entrepreneurial Success: Habits of a Maverick

March 10, 2024 20:31 - 35 minutes - 32.6 MB

How does a 30 yr-old become an entrepreneurial success?  Listen as Eric McHugh, president of SHOPX web3 ecommerce, describes his persistent habits of setting boundaries, prioritizing peace, and training his thought life.   https://shopx.co https://dataing.io https://www.instagram.com/ericdmchugh/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/ericdouglasmchugh/ https://twitter.com/ericmchugh0

Finding Yourself: Ascension From Childhood Dysfunction

February 25, 2024 22:15 - 36 minutes - 31.4 MB

Do you feel tethered to childhood dysfunctional dynamics?  Would you like to know who you are without all that baggage?  Listen as Lolita Guarin explains how she finally found herself and set liberating boundaries so she could strengthen and grow. https://beamazingyou.com Lolita's book on Stress Management for ACOA Lolita's book on work stress

My Life: The Rewrite!

February 12, 2024 00:23 - 38 minutes - 36.4 MB

Is your life script in desperate need of a rewrite?  Are you frustrated and irritated with all your life's narratives that seem to keep you in bondage?  LIsten as Deanna Moffitt explains how liberation, peace, and strength can be yours by challenging your life "stories."   https://deannamoffitt.com

I Get To Be Me! The Freedom of Inclusion

January 28, 2024 22:38 - 36 minutes - 28.1 MB

Do you view your diagnoses as disabilities?  Learn how to experience your unique qualities as assets designed to help you thrive!  Katherine McCord discusses how neurodiversities should be not only accepted but embraced!   https://kmccordspeaking.com https://jointheneuroverse.org  

From Drug Dealer to "Good" Man: The Transformation

January 14, 2024 22:07 - 41 minutes - 37.7 MB

Nico Lagan shares his transformational journey from being an addict and drug dealer to living a life of faith while being a fearless champion of strong men.  He addresses toxic masculinity and what traits make a "good" man and why. https://nicolagan.com  

From the Edge of Suicide to the Grace of Grief

December 31, 2023 23:40 - 37 minutes - 32.2 MB

Are you frustrated by trying to live your life as defined by others?  Have you ever been pushed to the point of suicide or felt totally adrift in the pain of grief?  Listen to Portia Booker's story of navigating a toxic work environment followed by her mother's death and how she found grace in her grief.   https://mysoundwise.com/soundcasts/1665929514723s https://www.instagram.com/portiathegriefgrantor/ https://www.facebook.com/pbookali https://www.linkedin.com/in/portiabooker/

Say "No" Like It's Your Job!

December 10, 2023 22:06 - 35 minutes - 26.3 MB

Do you struggle with people-pleasing?  Is it hard for you to say "No?"  Listen to Jennifer Schwytzer's story of using boundaries to reduce stress, honor her own opinions, and extend kindness to herself. https://kindfulnesscoaching.com  

Vision Boards, Comedy, and Motivational Firewood

November 26, 2023 20:54 - 36 minutes - 34.2 MB

Do you feel stuck, discouraged, or hopeless?  Listen to Steve Gamlin's experience of losing his job, relationship, home, and financial stability.  Find out why his phoenix rides a pogo stick and how he found inspiration and motivation to rise from the ashes. https://www.SteveGamlin.com  

Transforming Trauma: Interview with Marshall Zweig

November 12, 2023 21:51 - 39 minutes - 34.2 MB

Have you experienced trauma and feel there is no way out?  Listen as Marshall Zweig, a survivor of sexual, emotional, and psychological traumas, speaks about his transformational journey through manipulation and gaslighting to forgiveness and love.     https://marshallzweig.com

Journey In My Body: Interview with Rachel Lavin, author of "The Doughnut Diaries"

October 29, 2023 17:54 - 35 minutes - 28 MB

Do you simultaneously love and hate your body?  Have you lost the directions to the Land of Body Positivity?  Listen as Rachel Lavin talks about her 3 Pillars of Fitness:  Nourishment, Movement, and Rest. https://rachellavinwellness.com https://a.co/d/81OfR6t

Change Is Possible! Dai Manuel and the Five F's

October 15, 2023 15:00 - 38 minutes - 31 MB

Dai Manuel shares his journey from obesity and alcohol use struggles to finding resiliency and transformation with his five F's:  Fitness, Faith, Family, Finances, and Fun.   https://www.facebook.com/CoachDaiManuel/ https://www.linkedin.com/in/daimanuel/ https://www.instagram.com/daimanuel/

Listening To Your Body's "Voice": Interview with Falyn Morningstar

October 01, 2023 15:41 - 35 minutes - 47.3 MB

Falyn Morningstar connects the dots between sexual trauma, emotional shut-down, insomnia, fatigue, hair loss, and more!  Learn how to shift from disconnection and self-loathing to power and vitality. https://calendly.com/power-fal/30min [email protected]  

Journey To Success: Eradicating Stress with Lori Saitz

September 17, 2023 18:00 - 36 minutes - 31.5 MB

Are you frustrated with your life and wish you could be more successful?  Listen as Lori Saitz describes rising above stress, practicing gratitude, and centering via meditation can elevate your vibration frequency and magnetize success!   https://zenrabbit.com

Teaching Outside the Box: Lois Letchford's Identity Salvation

September 05, 2023 14:52 - 37 minutes - 30.7 MB

Were you ever labeled "stupid" or "slow?"  Do you know someone who struggled to keep up in school and was subsequently ostracized and called demeaning names?  Listen to Lois Letchford's champion journey of helping her son transform from "the worst child ever" to achieving a doctorate! https://loisletchford.com

From Fragile to Fierce: Rebecca Whitman's 7 Pillars of Abundance

August 20, 2023 23:20 - 35 minutes - 28.4 MB

Do you feel beaten down, hopeless, or lost?  Rebecca Whitman shares her 7 Pillars of Abundance which may help you shift your mindset, make stronger choices, and step into your own power!   https://www.rebeccaelizabethwhitman.com https://linktr.ee/rebeccawhitman  

Blair Abee: How Meditation Saved His Sanity

August 07, 2023 18:05 - 34 minutes - 23.2 MB

Blair was fired from a 25-year job after whistleblowing against an abusive situation.  After losing his job, income, and identity in one fell swoop, he relied on yoga and meditation to restore his peace, strength, and hope.   https://hicmeditation.com  

From Toxic Family to Triumph: Interview With Susan Gold

July 24, 2023 00:15 - 38 minutes - 33.2 MB

Susan's journey begins with a toxic family environment and traverses through alcohol abuse, depression, suicidal ideation, and codependency before culminating in her resilient triumph of finally standing in her own victory and value.     https://susangold.us

Superhuman - Adam Lucero's Rise From the Ashes

July 09, 2023 18:13 - 38 minutes - 32.3 MB

After Adam Lucero was brutally stabbed in a movie theatre he was reduced to the cognitive level of a four year-old.  This is his story of a resilient rise from the ashes and refusal to become a victim. https://superhumanceo.com

From Suicide Plans to 20 Years as Tony Robbins' Firewalk Captain: Dave Albin's Amazing Journey

July 02, 2023 23:52 - 43 minutes - 39.6 MB

Have you ever thought you weren't going to make it, that you didn't have it in you anymore?  Have you been beaten down by life and your own choices?  Listen to Dave Albin's honest, transparent, and genuine account of how he went from planning his own death to going on a Tony Robbins' firewalk then being promoted to Firewalk Captain and helping others face their fears for 20 years.   https://firewalkadventures.com

Walking Away From Big Law Success: Danielle Sunberg's Journey of Transformation

June 19, 2023 00:26 - 43 minutes - 37.7 MB

Are you burnt out at your job?  Do you feel like something is missing or you lack the passion of your co-workers?  Do you wonder if there is something else out there for you?  Danielle Sunberg walked away from a successful law practice to embark on a journey of self-discovery and realignment of her life goals.   https://daniellesunberg.com Atlas of Being by Danielle Sunberg The Power of Now by Eckhart Tolle The Four Agreements by Don Miguel Ruiz

Food, Love, Hate, and Your Body: Interview With Shelley Loving

June 12, 2023 00:09 - 28 minutes - 22.4 MB

Have you ever punished yourself with food?  Do you see food as your enemy, life preserver, or buffer against pain?  Do diet plans seem too complicated?  Shelley Loving helps clear the fog and encourages us to develop a positive relationship with food and our bodies.   @shelleyloving https://shelleycanhelp.com

Troy Hadeed: A Yoga Expert's View on Christ, Religion, and Divine Connection

May 28, 2023 23:57 - 46 minutes - 40.5 MB

Have you struggled with different views on Christ, religion, and spirituality?  Do you hold some resentment for "church hurt" or wonder why you've struggled with forgiveness?  In this episode Troy Hadeed shares his wonderful insights including his poignant question re dysfunctional relationships:  WHAT is being loved? https://www.troyhadeed.com  

From Child Abuse, Drug Trafficking, and Decades In Prison to Being On Fire For Christ: Interview With Steven Snook (Part 2 of 2)

May 15, 2023 00:07 - 41 minutes - 38.6 MB

Steven was the second child born to a 15 yr-old mother who put her children on the side of the road and called the police to take them.  Thus began a spiral of child abuse, drug abuse, drug trafficking, and decades in prison before Steven gave his life to Christ and turned everything around.  This is part two of his amazing story!   JesusSpeaksLLC.com

From Child Abuse, Drug Trafficking, and Decades in Prison to Being On Fire For Christ: Interview with Steven Snook (Part One of Two)

April 30, 2023 23:46 - 40 minutes - 38.5 MB

Steven Snook was the second child born to a 15 yr-old mother who put her children on the side of the road and called the police.  This started a spiral into child abuse, drug trafficking and spending decades in prison before Steven gave his life to Christ and put it all on the line. This episode is part one of two.   JesusSpeaksLLC.com

Journey From Addict to Award-Winning Author: Interview with Melanie Yates

April 16, 2023 17:13 - 40 minutes - 36.3 MB

Listen as Melanie describes her journey from addiction and codependency to becoming a life coach and award-winning author! https://happyjoyousandfree.org/

Surviving HIV, an Abusive Marriage, and Fostering a Teenage Daughter: Interview with Martina Clark

April 02, 2023 20:57 - 39 minutes - 34.4 MB

Martina was diagnosed at age 28 (3 decades ago) with HIV and told she had 5 years to live.  This is her story of navigating the stigmata of HIV and the isolation of being a female with HIV.  Her memoir, "An Unexpected Life" follows her journey of being marginalized, ignored, and then emotionally abused by a mentally ill husband while trying to foster a teenage daughter.   www.martina-clark.com

Queer Rights, Mental Disability, and Suicidal Ideation: Zane Landin's Journey of Advocacy

March 19, 2023 18:37 - 44 minutes - 39.2 MB

Have you ever felt that you don't "fit in?"  Do others criticize and judge you?  Are you struggling with thoughts of suicide?  This episode may help!   https://www.linkedin.com/in/zane-landin-b2417a187

Overcoming Two Back Surgeries: Interview with Brad Williams, Personal Trainer and Gym Owner

March 13, 2023 00:01 - 30 minutes - 29.8 MB

Have you had surgery and feel as if you'll never be the same?  Are you over 40 and fighting to stay in shape?  Check out this episode!   https://www.over40fitnesshacks.com

Thriving After Loss: Kim Sorrelle's Story of the Transformational Power of Love

February 27, 2023 00:22 - 43 minutes - 38.9 MB

If you've lost someone close to you and can't imagine moving forward then this episode is for you!  If you have perhaps become confused or jaded about love and wonder if it's even real then this episode is for you! https://www.kimsorrelle.com https://www.facebook.com/Kim-Sorrelle-392015434145527 https://www.linkedin.com/in/kim-langlois-sorrelle-11079523/ https://www.instagram.com/kimsorrelle/?hl=en https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCa097sxQXqa9Oafbay9FCiw https://www.amazon.com/L...

Coaching the Parents Coaches the Child: Interview with Austin Wheeler

February 12, 2023 22:17 - 45 minutes - 32 MB

Coach Austin Wheeler takes us behind the scenes of youth coaching and how reaching out to the parent can be key to helping the child reach his/her potential.

Healing Beyond All Expectations: Interview with Danielle Matthews

January 30, 2023 00:24 - 36 minutes - 30.2 MB

After being hit head-on by a drunk driver and sustaining a traumatic brain injury, Danielle was amazingly able to recover and heal far beyond her doctors' predictions.  Listen to her story! BrainBodySelf.com/ebook danielle.teamasea.com InstaGram:  _daniellematthews_ [email protected]

God's Voice In Your Life: Interview with Margaret Agard

January 15, 2023 22:45 - 38 minutes - 28.9 MB

Do you ever feel lost as if your life has little meaning or direction?  Have you wondered if it's possible to be more connected with the presence of God?  This episode may help! https://inhisfootsteps.com

Dare to Live Your Dream: Interview with Debby Kruszewski

January 01, 2023 22:24 - 45 minutes - 37.2 MB

Are you burned out at work or feel you made a wrong turn and ended up in a job you hate?  Have you lost hope of ever being excited to go to work?  Check out this episode and Debby's wonderful words of wisdom and experience!   Soul Meets Body by Debby Kruszewski Precious and Fragile Things by Debby Kruszewski Live to Tell by Debby Kruszewski https://debbykrusz.com  

Surviving Toxic Relationships: Interview with Shannon Petrovich

December 18, 2022 22:07 - 45 minutes - 40.6 MB

Are you struggling with a toxic relationship?  Do you feel as if you're in an inescapable loop of pathology?  Check out this episode!   Out of the FOG into the CLEAR, Journaling to Help You Heal from Toxic Relationships by Shannon Petrovich Therapist Talks (YouTube channel) https://therapisttalks.com  

Faith, Fear, or Frustration?

December 12, 2022 01:10 - 18 minutes - 16.3 MB

Are you tired of being stuck in fear but don't know what to do or how to do it?  This episode examines the Apostle Peter and how he was able to walk on water.

Leveling Up One Hack At A Time: Interview with Joel Evan

December 05, 2022 00:40 - 41 minutes - 37.2 MB

Do you feel stuck at your weight, in your job, or with your lot in life?  Are you worn out from trying to change and failing?  Check out this interview with Joel Evan!

"They Called me 'Monster' and 'Freak': Dorsey Ross's Journey of Faith and Resiliency

November 20, 2022 23:39 - 31 minutes - 24.8 MB

Dorsey Ross tells his story of being born with Apert's Syndrome, struggling with bullying, trying to fit in, and ultimately following God's plan for his life.   www.dorseyrossministries.com Overcomer by Dorsey Ross

Transformation and Spiritual Alignment: Interview with Harmony Kwiker

November 07, 2022 01:32 - 41 minutes - 33.1 MB

Do you mentally berate yourself?  Does your body feel burdened by anxiety and fear?  Would you like to emerge anew?  This episode may help!   https://thespirituallyaligned.com Reveal:  Embody the True Self Beyond Trauma and Conditioning by Harmony Kwiker

Journey from Trauma to Value: Interview with Danielle Bernock

October 23, 2022 19:17 - 40 minutes - 33.8 MB

Do you feel as if you have no value and never will?  Do you wonder why you are on this planet at all?  Listen to and be encouraged by Danielle's story!   Emerging with Wings:  A True Story of Lies, Pain, and the LOVE that Heals  Danielle Bernock Because You Matter:  How To Take Ownership of Your Life So You Can Really Live  Danielle Bernock https://www.daniellebernock.com https://victorioussouls.com  

Ladies: Shoot Your Shot!

October 16, 2022 17:38 - 25 minutes - 21.4 MB

Why do women tend to resist "shooting their shot?"  In this generation of female empowerment, why arent' more ladies putting it out there and going after what they want?  This episode examines why and how to change that dynamic. 

Agape Garcia and Post Traumatic Growth: Triumph Over Domestic Violence

October 09, 2022 21:34 - 56 minutes - 47.8 MB

Have you or someone you know been victimized by domestic violence?  Are you scared and feel alone?  Check out this episode!   https://beyourincredibleself.com  

The Struggle Is Real: Leveling Up

October 02, 2022 18:08 - 27 minutes - 22.8 MB

Are you trying to accomplish more, rise higher, or expand your horizons and wonder if you have what it takes to cross the finish line?  Are you worn out and about to give up?  This episode may help!

A Journey Through Bipolar Disorder: An Interview with Susan Johnson

September 25, 2022 22:51 - 43 minutes - 36.4 MB

Have you ever struggled with significant mood swings that cause problems in your relationships or jobs or are you in a relationship with someone who sometimes seems like three people in one?  This episode may help!   https://www.sjohnsonauthor.com/

Sara Webb: Her Triumphant Journey Through Rape, Addiction, and Coming Out As Gay

September 11, 2022 23:10 - 37 minutes - 30.5 MB

Do you have traumas you don't want to face?  Are you reaching for alcohol, sex, or work to numb the pain?  This episode may help! https://www.amazon.com/Look-Lush-Sara-Maya-Webb-ebook/dp/B0BF4N99NZ/ref=sr_1_1?crid=19UKN42RKQD70&keywords=look+lush+by+sara+webb&qid=1663256266&sprefix=%2Caps%2C62&sr=8-1 https://www.balboapress.com/en/bookstore/bookdetails/845177-look-lush https://www.barnesandnoble.com/w/look-lush-sara-maya-webb/1142196553 https://SaraWebbSays.com Instagram @SaraWe...

Victory Over Quadruple Amputation: Interview with Wendy Wallace

August 28, 2022 23:13 - 38 minutes - 33.7 MB

Have you ever thought you couldn't go on?  Did you feel so overwhelmed you saw no way out?  Listen to this episode and how Wendy persevered after having both hands and feet amputated.   https://oneexceptionallife.com  

Our Body's Trauma Experience: Amanda Love's Journey

August 14, 2022 20:37 - 33 minutes - 28.8 MB

Have you experienced events that scared you or caused you to feel helpless?  Did long-term insecurity, sensitivity, or physical ailments follow?  This episode may help!   Amanda Love's podcast (and fb page) "Physical Emotional Health Secrets"

From Rock Bottom to Mountain Top: Interview with Kevin Palmieri

July 31, 2022 22:49 - 47 minutes - 44.1 MB

Do you feel discontent, hopeless, or stuck?  Does it seem like everyone else is moving on but you?  Check out this episode and Kevin Palmieri's practical steps to breaking through and leveling up.   https://nextleveluniversity.com

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