Seeing a friend or loved one going through the process of healing from sra is very difficult and the love for the person can make one impatient for the time it takes to hurry up. Charisse Milan has an amazing analogy that she has published on her blog called "A Snake in the Path," and can be found at www.forthesilencedones.com. The layers within this analogy gives a much better understanding of what the survivor is going through and why it takes as long as it does. God's process can be trusted, even in its length and intensity.