ONE Extraordinary Marriage Show
817 episodes - English - Latest episode: 29 days ago - ★★★★★ - 1.6K ratingsIs your marriage everything that you want it to be? Are you ready to make a change? Join Tony and Alisa DiLorenzo to create a strong marriage so you can have mind blowing intimacy inside and outside the bedroom. Marriage is not always easy but it's so worth it. Come and make your marriage EXTRAORDINARY!
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413: LIKE A BROKEN RECORD
January 30, 2018 08:01 - 31 minutesLearn what happens when you feel like areas of your marriage are a broken record, playing the same negative scenes over and over again and what you can do to start to create change. | "You can’t change what’s going on around you until you change what’s going on within you." —Anonymous FREE E-BOOK: 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerfu...
412: HOW ABOUT THESE POSITIONS
January 23, 2018 08:01 - 31 minutesLearn how you can change the atmosphere inside and outside your bedroom when you have more than one sexual position. | "Variety is the spice of life. We all want surprises." —Tony Robbins FREE E-BOOK: 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commons...
411: FORGIVENESS WILL SET YOU FREE
January 16, 2018 08:01 - 31 minutesIt’s time to change how you view forgiveness. Learn about the destructive nature of unforgiveness and what happens when you let forgiveness into your heart. | "When you hold onto anger and unforgiveness you can’t move forward." —Mary J Blige FREE E-BOOK: 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marria...
410: FIND YOUR PRECIOUS MOMENTS EACH WEEK
January 09, 2018 08:01 - 31 minutesLearn about making time for the two of you as a couple, why you need to do this and where you can find those precious moments. | "The greatest gift you can give someone is your time. Because when you are giving your time you are giving a portion of your life that you can never get back." —Anonymous Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
409: WHAT CAN I DO
January 02, 2018 08:01 - 33 minutesIf you want to create an extraordinary marriage, it starts with one question and only one question...What Can I Do? | "It’s easy to blame others when things are broken. The hard part is recognizing the part you played in it all." —Anonymous FREE E-BOOK: 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriag...
408: WRAPPING UP THIS SEASON
December 26, 2017 08:01 - 31 minutesLearn about transitioning from one season to another and how you can make the next season the best ever in your marriage. | "There will come a time when you think everything is finished. That will be the beginning." —Louis L’Amour Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
407: SEXY GAMES TO HEAT THINGS UP
December 19, 2017 08:01 - 32 minutesLearn how you can heat things up in your bedroom by playing some sexy games together. | "Just play, have fun, enjoy the game." —Michael Jordan FREE E-BOOK: 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encouraged by its commonsense approach. Tony & Alisa DiLorenzo’s prov...
406: FAKING IT
December 12, 2017 08:01 - 31 minutesLearn what happens when you are faking your happiness during the holidays, in social situations and with your spouse in the bedroom. | "Saying you’re happy isn’t the same thing as being happy." —Anonymous FREE E-BOOK: 6 Pillars of Intimacy: The Secret to Intimacy That Last In the 6 Pillars of Intimacy, you will discover secrets that have transformed countless marriages. Its ideas are simple, practical and powerful. You’ll be inspired to look at your marriage through a new lens and be encourag...
405: WE DID IT! NOW WHAT?
December 05, 2017 08:01 - 31 minutesLearn what comes after you complete the 7 Days of Sex Challenge and how you can continue to grow and strengthen the physical intimacy in your marriage. | "I didn’t come this far to only come this far." —Anonymous Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
404: ROCK YOUR SEX LIFE
November 28, 2017 08:01 - 32 minutesLearn how you can rock your sex life and change the dynamics in your marriage in just seven days. | "A lot could happen in a week. Just look at the last one." —Julia Quinn Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
403: A THANKFUL HEART
November 21, 2017 08:01 - 31 minutesLearn about the impact being thankful has on your marriage and how you can increase your gratitude awareness any time of the year. | "When I started counting my blessings my whole life turned around." —Willie Nelson Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
402: HOLIDAY MARRIAGE HACKS
November 14, 2017 08:01 - 31 minutesLearn about those special marriage hacks that you can do to make this the most amazing holidays you will celebrate with your spouse. | "It’s not the load that breaks you down, it’s the way that you carry it. "—Lou Holtz Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
401: MOAN OUT LOUD
November 07, 2017 08:01 - 32 minutesLearn about the impact you have on yourself and your spouse when you moan and verbalize your pleasure during sexual intimacy. | "There’s nothing more exciting than hearing your spouse moan in pleasure and knowing you are responsible for it." —Anonymous Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
400: HUGS FROM NEAR AND FAR
October 31, 2017 07:01 - 35 minutesOver the last 399 shows you have meant a lot to the ONE Family. And this show is all about you as we share hugs from near and far! | “Remember to celebrate milestones as you prepare for the road ahead.” —Nelson Mandela Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
399: WORK SPOUSE DANGER
October 24, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesThe slippery slope of having a work spouse is real. Learn what you need to do to put guardrails around yourself and marriage to protect yourself. | "Most people involved in emotional affairs will downplay the seriousness of the event by claiming that they are just friends or it’s not big deal, nothing happened." —Anonymous Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
398: THE HOLIDAYS ARE COMING
October 17, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesThanksgiving and Christmas are almost here. Learn what you can do to get on the same page with your financial intimacy as the holidays approach. | "Planning for Thanksgiving and Christmas should take place months in advance. They are not a surprise." —Dave Ramsey Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
397: FEELING REJECTED
October 10, 2017 07:01 - 32 minutesLearn what to do with those feelings you have when you are rejected or when you reject your spouse and what you can do to create change in your marriage. | "Rejection doesn’t mean that you aren’t good enough. It means the other person failed to notice what you have to offer." —Sam Keen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
396: HONOR YOUR WORDS
October 03, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesYou spoke your vows on your wedding now now learn what you can do to honor those words you spoke through tough times and good times. | "You come to love not by finding the perfect person BUT by learning to love an imperfect person perfectly." —Sam Keen Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
395: THAT TIME OF THE MONTH
September 26, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesA woman's period happens every month. Learn how you can stay connected physically and emotionally when it’s that time of the month in your home. | "A great marriage is made of two people who continuously put their vows ahead of their feelings." —Anonymous Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
394: TOTALLY EXHAUSTED
September 19, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesThe truth is that we spend so much time being exhausted that often we don’t even realize that it’s impacting our marriages. | Survival mode is supposed to be a phase that helps save your life. It’s not meant to be how you live your life. —Michele Rosenthal Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
393: IS YOUR VIBRATOR A CRUTCH?
September 12, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesLearn how the vibrator might be a crutch for your sexual intimacy and what it might look like to consider a different path. | "Don’t be afraid to give up the good to go for the great." —John D. Rockefeller Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
392: CAN'T SEEM TO DO ANYTHING RIGHT
September 05, 2017 07:01 - 32 minutesIf you find yourself in a place where you can’t do anything right OR thinking that your spouse can’t do anything right your marriage has a big problem. | "Why can’t my spouse see just how much I am trying." —Anonymous Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
391: LUBE IT UP
August 29, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesPull out the lubricant and get ready to enjoy some special one on one time together. | "...friction is likely to generate heat instead of progress." —George Eliot Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
390: ENOUGH DRAMA ALREADY
August 22, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesCreating drama can hurt your marriage. Learn what you can do instead to build up, strengthen and support one another. | Don’t start drama and then say you hate drama. —Anonymous Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
389: WE CAN HANDLE IT
August 15, 2017 07:01 - 32 minutesThe two of you can handle the storms in your marriage while becoming united in your commitment to one another like never before. | Relax. Don’t be so hard on yourself. You are living and learning. Forgive yourself and grow from the experience." —Anonymous Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
388: SHOULD AN ORGASM BE THE ULTIMATE GOAL
August 08, 2017 07:01 - 32 minutesShould an orgasm be the ultimate goal for you and your spouse every time you have sex? | Once your learn to appreciate the small victories there is no need for a finish line. —Anonymous Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
387: WHAT ARE YOU LOOKING AT?
August 01, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesStop looking down at your phone. It's important to know where your eyes are looking and the message that they send to your spouse. | I love the look you give me when you really want me." —Anonymous Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
386: RULES FOR A BETTER MARRIAGE
July 25, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesLearn what you can do now to make your marriage better tomorrow, next week and for years to come. | It’s not about being the best. It’s about being better than you were yesterday. —Anonymous | Subscribe to the show today! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
385: WHAT DO YOU WANT IN THE BEDROOM?
July 18, 2017 07:01 - 32 minutesLearn the different ways to let your spouse know what you like about your sexual intimacy in the bedroom. It's worth every word. | We all need people who will give us feedback. That’s how we improve. —Bill Gates Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
384: BEING SENSUAL
July 11, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesLearn what you can do to be sensual and how you can share these ideas with your spouse. | Being sensual in your marriage doesn’t end on the honeymoon, your marriage needs all 5 senses working throughout. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
383: CANCER CAN'T STOP THE ADVICE FROM A FATHER
July 04, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesLearn the responsibility and impact a father has to give sound advice to his children on living a marriage for years to come. | Son, don’t cheat. I’ve had plenty of opportunities over the years but it’s like this...why would I go out for a hamburger when I have a steak at home. —Carmen DiLorenzo Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
382: FOREPLAY FUN
June 27, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesLearn why foreplay is a powerful skill you need to know as you lead up to intercourse. | Go down a water-slide without any water and you will understand why foreplay is important. —Anonymous Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
381: SUMMER FUN
June 20, 2017 07:01 - 32 minutesLearn a number of different date ideas you can enjoy so your marriage doesn’t take a vacation during all your summer fun. | Remember the tans will fade but the memories will last forever. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
380: THE ULTIMATE MARATHON
June 13, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesLearn how your commitment to marriage is the ultimate marathon with an unknown finish line. | Your marriage vows say for as long as life shall last NOT until you get tired or you don’t want to anymore. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
379: WHEN HE CAN'T ORGASM
June 06, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesYou are not just waiting in vain. There is a purpose behind every delay. —Mandy Hale | Learn about the reasons why he can’t orgasm and how the two of you can get through this together. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
378: LET'S HAVE MIND-BLOWING SEX
May 30, 2017 07:01 - 32 minutesYour life does not get better by chance it gets better by change. —Jim Rohn | Learn how you can have mind-blowing sex and surprisingly it has very little to do with the act itself. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
377: I'M OFFENDED
May 23, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesIf you take everything personally, you will remain offended for the rest of your life. What other people do is because of them, not you. —Vivian Benson | Learn what happens when you are offended and how to work through offense with your spouse. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
376: THOSE PARENTING BEHAVIORS
May 16, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutesEach generation will reap what the former generation has sown. —Chinese Proverb | Learn how to break free of those negative parenting behaviors that have held you back from having the extraordinary marriage you desire. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices
375: WHEN TRANSITIONS HAPPEN
May 09, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutes"Honor the space between no longer and not yet." —Nancy Levin When you are married, transitions don’t only affect you, they also affect your spouse. Transitions can impact the different intimacies in your marriage. Marriage is full of transitions: First house First baby Moves Job changes Job losses Taking care of kids Taking care of your parents One income Two incomes Kids becoming adults And the list goes on You can seemingly be going along thinking... "Ah, life is good, we’ve got everything...
374: YOU’VE LOST THOSE LOVING FEELINGS
May 02, 2017 07:01 - 32 minutes"Never stop showing someone how much they mean to you." Over time you have lost the anticipation and excitement of your relationship. Your marriage has become something you have to tolerate, something you have to survive or make it through. For some it's like the song from the Righteous Brother’s “You’ve Lost That Loving Feeling”. You may have lost that loving feeling and you're wondering on what to do next. Do you remember when the two of you were courting one another? There was anticipation...
373: ARE YOU UP FOR A SEX CHALLENGE
April 25, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutes"Never be afraid to try something new BECAUSE life gets boring when you stay within the limits of what you already know." The first sex challenge we completed happened 9 years ago in the fall of 2008. We had been married 11 years and these years were not the best years. Two kids ages 2 and 5 years old had taken up much of our times We lived as roommates with little to no intimacy. It was at this time that we decided to take on the 60 Days of Sex Challenge. A bit crazy... Yes. Worth it... Abso...
372: STOP THE NAGGING
April 18, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutes"She's not nagging. She's trying to tell you something. The only reason she's being persistent is because she cares. When she stops nagging, you should be worried because at that point she no longer cares." Nagging usually doesn’t start out as a problem in marriage. As time goes on though you begin to share things with your spouse that are bothering you. You don't see any change in behavior so you repeat yourself, over and over again. Then you get demanding. Sometimes you get mean and angry. ...
371: YOU CAN BE A SPONTANEOUS LOVER
April 11, 2017 07:01 - 31 minutes"Success isn’t a result of spontaneous combustion. You must set yourself on fire." —Arnold Glasgow For the most part your day-to-day activities are ruled by your calendars, by schedules, and by alerts popping up on your phone. It doesn’t matter how you stay organized, the fact is that you have ways to keep your time organized and keep you moving to the next thing. And then... It comes to your sex life. You desire spontaneity and yet your life is ruled by schedules. Or you are waiting for the ...
370: CHANGE STARTS WITH ME
April 04, 2017 07:01 - 32 minutes"Being vulnerable is not a sign of weakness rather it is a sign of strength. It takes courage to let others into your world." —Anonymous As a couple you may be stuck. You may be stuck in the same routines. Maybe you're stuck in the same fights. Or you've noticed that your marriage is stuck in the same cycles. It’s as if every day is groundhog day. You wake up and the same day is repeated over and over again. This repetition in your marriage leads to feelings of boredom, discontentment and a l...
369: MEN NEED FRIENDS
March 28, 2017 07:01 - 32 minutes"Men who trust other men will make fewer mistakes than he who distrusts them." —Camillo de Cavour When you think about your friendships as a kid and as an adult a few things stand out and the research is supporting this. During childhood both boys and girls have friends and often make deep friendships. From roughhousing on the playground to building with Legos, from competing on the sports field to running to winning the debate, there is a connection that boys have that as children often look...
368: LAST LONGER IN BED
March 21, 2017 07:01 - 32 minutes"We don’t grow when things are easy, we grow when we face challenges." —Anonymous You want to last longer and yet most of the time you ejaculate quicker than you'd like. When you orgasm within 1-3 minutes of penetration this is general considered premature ejaculation. 20-30% of men (and their partners) are impacted by what is considered the most common type of male sexual dysfunction. Here’s the thing... you are not alone. 60% of US men feel that this is embarrassing which equate to roughly ...
367: I CAN’T TALK ABOUT SEX
March 14, 2017 07:01 - 34 minutes"When you can’t talk about your sex life there’s a connection that the two of you are missing out on." —Anonymous The world that you live in is hypersexualized and yet couples struggle with talking about their sex life with each other. How-to talk about sex is everywhere... it's on TV, on magazine covers, right here on the internet, with your friends but, when couples are asked if they are talking about sex the answer more often than not is "no". As a spouse in a committed relationship you ma...
366: LET’S GO TO BED
March 07, 2017 08:01 - 32 minutes"The moment when he rolls over, puts his arm around me and pulls me closer, in his sleep. I like that." —Country Thang Many marriages are suffering from some lack of connection. Often it’s due to our busy schedules and the commitments that keep us running around like crazy. Maybe it’s the kids or your parents who have you running around. Work, volunteering and keeping the house inside and out add a lot to your plate. Then the end of the day comes and all you want to do is veg out. Not just fr...
365: I HAVE A HEADACHE… LET’S HAVE SEX
February 28, 2017 08:01 - 32 minutes"Sex solves most problems including headaches." —Anonymous You have a crazy headache, while on vacation, with plans to have sex, on the only night you have away from your kids. You take a nice nap to see if that would take care of it and it didn’t. You still have a headache. You're still in the hotel room you booked. And... you still have a spouse with the expectation that this is your opportunity for sex. What if having sex during this time will help your headache go away? Most of the times ...
364: VACATION EXPECTATIONS
February 21, 2017 08:01 - 31 minutes"In life it’s not where you go, it’s who you travel with.” —Charlie Schultz There are times when your vacations don’t always go as planned. You have your expectations for everything. From how relaxing it’s going to be to how often the two of you are going to have sex. You think about the adventures you are going to go on, the shows you will see, the relaxing you are going to do and the money you will spend during your trip. And then, you have instances like we have had on our last couple of v...