Struggle Well School
427 episodes - English - Latest episode: 5 months ago - ★★★★★ - 1.2K ratingsThe podcast that helps you love your actual life so you don’t need to run away from home. Join your friend Emily each week to practice thought work guaranteed to yield perspective shifts which will move you from struggling to struggling WELL.
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#267: Five Bebes is Just Perfect
January 25, 2021 09:00 - 1 hourWhat do you wish you knew before heading to the hospital to have a baby? What invaluable nuggets did you learn when you had your little nugget? Since our sweet Rebecky had her fifth baby Smith this week it was the perfect time to talk about how to Struggle WELL with bebes. We shared our personal stories with adoption and childbirth and our amazing Strugg community came with crucial advice for what NOT to do after baby comes! WHAT WE CHAT ABOUT: The joy of dermoplast and the practicality of...
Dog Food Robe Pigment
January 18, 2021 12:00 - 4 minutesWhat you are hearing right now is a small portion from our Patreon episode that went out this week. If you want to join the Patreon community, head on over here to receive this full episode and many many more! You'll also get the unedited video version of each Patreon episode if you want to see all of the bloopers before your very eyes. You won't regret it, see you soon! *Disclaimer: As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. CONNECT WITH REBECKY: website | instagram | patr...
#266: Struggling Well in 2021
January 11, 2021 12:00 - 57 minutesWhat will you leave behind in 2020? What will you bring with you into the New Year? Join us as we talk about Struggling WELL in 2021! WHAT WE CHAT ABOUT: The Anti-Anxiety Notebook Printique *Disclaimer: As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. CONNECT WITH REBECKY: website | instagram | patreon CONNECT WITH KATIE: instagram | website | patreon CONNECT WITH EMILY: website | instagram | facebook | patreon EPISODE SPONSORS: Sakara: 20% off your first order Prose:...
Patreon: Hoarding, Homesteading & Hatchbacks
January 04, 2021 10:00 - 3 minutesThis week we are talking about what is giving us life with the segment What’s in Your Pantry? Some of the ways we are struggling WELL in the kitchen: Rebecky put all those kids of hers to good use and started a meal planning committee at her house. Emily has been eating raw fish and suggests spicing up sandwiches with a panini press and Katie feels strongly about the phrase “pop a broccoli”. What you are hearing right now is a small portion from our Patreon episode this week. If you want t...
Patreon Sneak Peek: Carrot Fingers
December 28, 2020 10:00 - 38 minutesWe are sharing a full episode this week that the Struggs loved over on Patreon earlier this year. Since it’s the holidays and our personal lives are a bit turned upside down, we knew that you all would understand us taking a breather! We can’t wait to return with a new episode in two weeks on how we plan to Struggle WELL in 2021! Rebroadcast from October 19, 2020 Patreon Episode: Few cool things happening around here! This is the first episode with our new segment songs from the one and on...
Carrot Fingers
December 28, 2020 10:00 - 37 minutesWe are sharing a full episode this week that the Struggs loved over on Patreon earlier this year. Since it’s the holidays and our personal lives are a bit turned upside down, we knew that you all would understand us taking a breather! We can’t wait to return with a new episode in two weeks on how we plan to Struggle WELL in 2021! Rebroadcast from October 19, 2020 Patreon Episode: Few cool things happening around here! This is the first episode with our new segment songs from the one and o...
Patreon: Serious Underwear Dishwasher
December 21, 2020 12:00 - 4 minutesThis is another off-week for the main show but we laughed so hard we had to share with you! Christmas is just around the corner. If you're not hanging out with us on Patreon, treat yourself this season! What you are hearing right now is a small portion from our Patreon episode this week. If you want to join the Patreon community, head on over here to receive this full episode and many many more! You won’t regret it.
#265: Struggle Well with Music
December 14, 2020 10:00 - 57 minutesHow do YOU Struggle Well with music? Are there misheard lyrics that you just can’t unhear? Have you ever played the Mooshi music game? Join us and learn about all three! WHAT WE CHAT ABOUT: Struggling Well with music for moms Struggling Well with music for kiddos Our Spotify Playlist created by Struggs Misheard Lyrics Rebecca’s Mooshi game *Disclaimer: As an Amazon Associate I earn from qualifying purchases. CONNECT WITH REBECKY: website | instagram | patreon CONNECT WITH KATIE: ...
Patreon: Fiddle Fail Cheater Demolition
December 07, 2020 10:00 - 5 minutesThis week we are talking about all of the Secret Santa fun and playing a Christmas round of Stash It or Trash It?! We accidentally left Rebecky out of the conversation and then eventually had to call PETA on her. We spilled the tea on tea and wrapped it up with an announcement regarding Honeybee! What you are hearing right now is a small portion from our Patreon episode this week. If you want to join the Patreon community, head on over here to receive this full episode and many many more! ...
Introducing: Little Stories Everywhere
December 02, 2020 15:11 - 7 minutesWondery’s newest podcast, Little Stories Everywhere, is the perfect immersive experience to share by the fireplace with loved ones this holiday season. Each episode will be the reading of a children’s classic - some of the most magical stories ever told, now reimagined with enchanting sound design for families to enjoy together or adults to enjoy on their own. Little Stories Everywhere is out now, premiering with A Merry Christmas, a collection of holiday tales by Louisa May Alcott that t...
#264: Gift Guide 2020
November 30, 2020 10:00 - 55 minutesDo you know what you’re getting your people this Christmas? We are offering up all of our best ideas for this cyber Monday and some sweet coupons too! WHAT WE CHAT ABOUT: Digital picture frames (like Nixplay) for grandparents Masterclass buy one get one memberships Photography classes and a digital camera for tech-curious kiddos Outschool if you want to hide educational value in a gift KiwiCo box subscriptions to keep those kids busy Oral-B toothbrushes with a timer MiiCreative paint...
Patreon: Leg Blouses and Popcorn Pie Pads
November 23, 2020 10:00 - 2 minutesThis time we played a round of are you into that and we talked about the fashion choices we are willing to make this coming winter. Spoiler alert: not many! Rebecky is sleep training, Katie had some tears and Emily has strong feeling about snacks. We laughed endlessly in this episode and we hope you love it! What you are hearing right now is a small portion from our Patreon episode this week. If you want to join the Patreon community, head on over here to receive this full episode and many ...
#263: Problem Solved - Thanksgiving 2020
November 16, 2020 10:00 - 1 hourThanksgiving might not go the way you want. This whole year hasn’t gone as planned. Let’s struggle well this Thanksgiving by blessing our mother-in-laws and our difficult cousins and our rude grandpas by JUST being happy to be there. Or maybe you are skipping Thanksgiving this year or turning it on it’s head and ordering Domino’s. Struggle well through that! Consider yourself challenged, friend. In response to every Thanksgiving decision or plan change or food mishap; have a perspective sh...
Patreon: A Flood, a Breakup and a Clown Car
November 09, 2020 20:21 - 2 minutesSometimes when there isn't a perspective shift in sight, you have to take another route. This week one of the Moms shared something that you probably have experience with as well: A breakup with a friend. The kind that impacts the whole family. It's the worst! This week we also stashed/trashed some fall treats that got a 10 out of 10 from all three Moms! Em tells the tale of her four-flood-wood-floors and Rebecky announced that she is begrudgingly giving up her clown car to perfect-picke...
#262: What's In Your Pantry?
November 02, 2020 10:00 - 47 minutesOverwhelmed with the pressure of providing healthy meals as a working mom? Maybe you’re in the pantry quite a bit these days since you’re home with kids. We want to know: Whats in your pantry? WHAT WE CHAT ABOUT: Self-care is for everyone shirts Em likes Rebecky’s Stitch Fix $25 off coupon In Motion Jacket with go go gadget arms Puss Caterpillars and Tussock Moth Caterpillar Rotating Meals for easy planning The complicated nature of food and burden of healthy eating Rebecky’s meal ki...
#261: The Alcohol Experiment with Annie Grace
October 26, 2020 10:00 - 53 minutesI’m sick of thinking about alcohol! I wonder if I could have fun socializing without it. Do I even enjoy drinking anymore? If any of this struck a nerve with you, you are not alone! These are things I wrestle with and I have just recently started sharing my struggles with this particular topic on the podcast. With the help of Annie Grace and the Alcohol Experiment, I have been exploring my relationship with Alcohol and I can feel a shift in my perspective. In this episode, you’ll hear more a...
#260: The Gift of Resistance with Anjuli Paschall
October 19, 2020 10:00 - 50 minutesWe tend to make Christianity complicated. Our relationship with God can feel rigid or only surface-deep. This week my friend Anjuli talks to us about the gift of resistance. Paying attention to the things that you’re trying your best to ignore; the things that feel like the scary deep end of the pool. But what if that deep end part of your story was the way to true intimacy with your Creator? Anjuli Paschall is the founder of The Moms We Love Club and writes regularly for (in)courage, a wid...
#259: iPhone A Capella Heart with the Moms Struggling Well
October 12, 2020 10:00 - 1 hourThis week is all about re-introductions plus another BIG announcement that Better Life Bags fans and long-time listeners of the show will LOVE! As we transition the show we thought it would be nice to have a refresher and find out: Who even are these Moms Struggling Well? We struggle hard in this episode and laughed so much that Rebecky’s sweet baby girl will probably never forgive us for the disturbance. WHAT WE CHAT ABOUT: getting to know all about Emily, Rebecca, and Kate - where we liv...
#258: Hope in the Seed Beneath the Soil with Ashlee Eiland
October 05, 2020 10:00 - 57 minutesDid you know there are practices that can actually help you slow your thoughts? Doesn’t seem like something you would need to practice but I sure do crave a calm mind. My guest today is a big fan of slowing it on down and bringing rest and togetherness back into the human experience. We talked some about our perspectives as working moms and some about ways to create mutually beneficial and empowering relationships with the POC in your life. You’re going to love Ashlee Eiland for her wisdom, ...
#257: Fight For Love with Rosie Makinney
September 28, 2020 10:00 - 52 minutesHow do you start the conversation with your spouse when you suspect that pornography is a problem in your marriage? Yep, we’re going there today! We're shedding some light on this dark subject and talking practical tips that you can implement when there is a hole in the boat. My guest Rosie gives us hope that it is attainable to have a porn-free marriage if addressed properly and shares all of the right steps to take. Rosie Makinney is a writer, speaker, and podcaster, who ten years ago ent...
#256: Hormones with the Moms Struggling Well
September 21, 2020 10:00 - 56 minutesEver feel like one day you’re flying high and the next you’re requesting a leave of absence from your motherly duties? Us too. Hormones, amiright? Today listeners share their hormone problems and we give it our best go. Oh yea, and there are THREE Moms Struggling Well now! We’ll get you all caught up in this episode about the new things happening around here at MSW. Thanks for coming along on our maiden voyage! WHAT WE CHAT ABOUT: the big show changes coming in November our upcoming MSW ...
#255: Walking Through Loss with Emily Honea
September 14, 2020 10:00 - 54 minutesWhat do you say when someone you love experiences loss? How is even possible to find the blessings when the pain of losing a loved one is your own? If you haven’t experienced grief yourself, you’re likely to have a friend who has and you’ll feel that urge to come alongside them. Today I brought on a listener who helped my sister Katie when she was blindsided with grief and I wanted her to come to share her insight. Emily Honea rides a pony. Not really, but Honea rhymes with pony, so now you...
#254: Hormones Reframed with Dr. Heather Rhodes
September 07, 2020 10:00 - 51 minutesHormones feel too complicated to understand and I don’t have the confidence to know where to begin when I’m feeling off. Heck, I can still be completely surprised by my cycle and I’m 40 years old! Whether you’re caught off guard like me or have a nagging feeling something isn’t quite right, you’re going to get something out of this chat. Dr. Heather Rhodes is a holistic pharmacist with a passion for women's health. She makes understanding your hormones simple and teaches you practical step...
#253: Bloom Where You're Planted with Tina Prenzi
August 31, 2020 10:00 - 1 hourYou know those people that are so full of life and easy to be around that you just feel lighter after spending time with them? That’s my neighbor Tina. And dang it, I miss her! We talk a lot in this episode about what it has done to our friendship to be on opposite sides of the spectrum when it comes to sheltering in place. You’re going to love her and her stories about the foot she was going to use for Christmas and the finger she lost in menopause. You can find Tina @themightydandelion o...
#252: Things Anew with the Struggling Sisters
August 24, 2020 10:00 - 42 minutesWhether you’re overwhelmed with all of the change in your life or you’re sick of the monotony, we are here to empathize! Emily is in a big season of change with a new job and a new house and frankly, too many new things to keep up with! Katie has nothing but groundhogs days so she has been forced to find ways to make things new again. WHAT WE CHAT ABOUT: what our kid's schooling looks like right now Emily prepping her new condo in the woods Katie making fancy coffees from home the books...
#251: The Lazy Genius Way with Kendra Adachi
August 17, 2020 10:00 - 56 minutesI don’t like it when people make me feel like I need to be more, buy more, or accomplish more. I also don’t like feeling out of control or like I’m falling behind. I am SUCH a fan of Kendra’s concept: Be a genius about the things that matter and lazy about the things that don’t. Striving towards movement vs. racing to achievement is the perspective shift we are talking about today. Kendra Adachi went to college to become a high school English teacher but instead became the Lazy Genius, pass...
#250: Our Favorite Things with Rebecky and Katie
August 10, 2020 10:00 - 48 minutes250 episodes were just begging to be celebrated this week! The three of us got together to bring back the popular “Favorite Things” episode, and to be honest, we really had to dig for things that we are absolutely loving in this wacky season. We hope you guys get a chuckle out of this one because we laughed the entire time! There is a special unedited video version of this episode over on Patreon for those Struggs who support the show. Thank you ladies for listening and being here to celebra...
#249: Practicing Adoration with Sara Hagerty
August 03, 2020 10:00 - 56 minutesIt can be so gratifying to look at yourself/family/spouse through God’s eyes. But the truth is, it’s really hard to let go of what you’ve envisioned for your life. Sara talks with us about the huge shift she has seen over the past few years while focusing on adoration and aligning herself with the Word. We talk a lot about idealism and perfectionism in this one which is something that I really struggle with. What’s the difference between the two, and what’s the big deal? Sara Hagerty is ...
#248: July Problem Solved
July 27, 2020 10:00 - 44 minutesHave you ever heard of the game: Thousand Ball Soccer? Are you looking for ways to keep kids off screens this summer or just looking to feel less awful when they are? Just listen to this episode here and you’re going to feel loads less alone! I am so proud of you ladies! Here in the middle of Endless Summer 2020 we asked for some problems and we were flooded with solutions you’ve already come up with. Could we be struggling any well-er? Any more well? Anyway… This time you all solved how...
#247: Getting to the Root of It with Rachel Scott
July 20, 2020 10:00 - 1 hourDo you ever feel lost as a Mom, like you can’t remember what your assignment is? Are you digging deep right now deciding how you will respond to racial inequality? Throughout this chat we hit on the ever-evolving nature of our relationships with our children, being a part of a blended family and even share what may be unpopular opinions on some hot topics but with each subject that comes up, Rachel keeps reminding me to self-reflect and get to the root. I am so thankful for my sweet friend...
#246: The Donkey Days of Summer with the Struggling Sisters
July 13, 2020 10:00 - 50 minutesThink back to your earliest summer memory. Was it something sweet like picking strawberries in a straw hat or was it more like hot lava seat belts and CDs melting to your dashboard? We’ve all made it to July! This week we celebrate that by reminiscing about scorching Arizona summers and squash some myths about the Southwest. We also share summer recipe ideas, dunk on our Mom a bit, reveal a code word (shhhh, don’t tell Rebecky) and Emily re-imagines her life as Foop founder, Claire. WHAT...
#245: Adventuring Together with Greta Eskridge
July 06, 2020 10:00 - 58 minutesGreta Eskridge is a homeschooling mom of 4. She loves to fill her family’s days with reading, making art, and being outside as much as possible. Her favorite places to be are on a hiking trail or at the tide pools--preferably with a La Croix or iced coffee in hand. Greta loves laughing, having adventures, and talking about the things that really matter. She and her husband, Aaron, have been married for 22 years and make their home in sunny southern California. Greta is also an author and sp...
#244: June Problem Solved
June 29, 2020 10:00 - 48 minutesYep, there are large problems in the world. And while we educate ourselves and our families on how to help with those problems (more on that in this episode), these pesky non-problem problems are still creeping up. People wrote in and asked things like: How often should I be practicing “bland face” for when my teenager tells me shocking things and How naked is TOO naked when pelotoning with friends? WHAT WE CHAT ABOUT: Emily enjoying her kid-free 2 weeks various and assorted mask proble...
#243: The Becoming Years with Ruth Chou Simons
June 22, 2020 10:00 - 50 minutesDo you feel like your life is on hold as you raise small children? Might you spend too much time idolizing the wrong things? Find yourself fixating on a clean house? Maybe pointing out imperfections in others? You will never want this episode to end! Ruth shares with us what she has ascertained as a parent to SIX boys over the past 18 years. We talk: resolving conflict, the actual purpose, and the importance of memorizing scripture, why your job is so important, and an overall reminder of wh...
#242: Grace for the Children with Matt Stanford
June 15, 2020 10:00 - 45 minutesAre you watching your adolescent struggle with mental health? Are you ever torn between faith and your own mental health recovery? Matt Stanford works right at that intersection. He reminds those of us who have adolescents dealing with mental and emotional health issues to check our preconceived notions at the door. Forgetting where they should be and helping them recover gracefully. Matthew S. Stanford (PhD, Baylor University) is CEO of the Hope and Healing Center & Institute in Houston, T...
#241: Struggling Sisters: Comparison
June 08, 2020 10:00 - 46 minutesWhere do you feel like you fall short? Just a little honest conversation about comparison going on over here today. It only makes sense to get into a rousing game of Would you Rather during our comparison chat and boy, it’s a tough one. Emily praises Katie for being a sandwich artist and Katie encourages Em to become a plant artist… because she has always wanted to be one. WHAT WE CHAT ABOUT: the ways we struggle with comparison how celebrating others helps us understand our own value ...
#240: No Better Mom for the Job with Becky Keife
June 01, 2020 10:00 - 46 minutesYou know, I don’t feel like I’m cut out for this Mom thing. I am angry ALL the time and it can feel completely overwhelming to be in charge sometimes. But the truth is, we have been chosen to be the mothers of our children. The perspective shift for today is to stop thinking about all of the ways you are falling short and to start focusing on how you have already been equipped for this job. Becky Keife is the Community Manager for DaySpring’s (in)courage, a widely followed online community ...
#239: A Better Life with Rebecca Smith
May 25, 2020 10:00 - 38 minutesAre you racing towards your goals? Running away every chance you can? I sure do. We could all use a gentle reminder to slow down and listen to what God may be telling us. This week we are bringing you an exclusive interview with our very own Rebecky! There are no problems this month as we celebrate Rebecca Smith’s vulnerable and sweet page-turner that launched this week. In A Better Life: Slowing Down to Get Ahead, Rebecca tells us many personal stories of how she took baby steps and follo...
#238: Mental Health and a Sweet Boy with Kate James
May 18, 2020 10:00 - 56 minutesIt’s every young parent's nightmare and it’s some parents' reality. My guest this week shares with us her family’s story through her son's addiction, overdose, and recovery. She describes what it looks like through the eyes of a faithful mother who did all of the right things but still found herself in the middle of a war. We talk about her struggles with bipolar disorder and her husband's experience with Coronavirus. She has sweet encouragement for all of us moms - we are not alone in these...
#237: Struggling Sisters: What About Summer?
May 11, 2020 10:00 - 56 minutesWill the pools be open? What about the beaches? What are we going to DO this summer!? We found ourselves asking all of these questions so we decided to get on the mic and talk through it like sisters do! We tried out two new recipes with our kids to pass some time and learned more than expected in that experience. We also talked about what swimsuit trends we may be rocking in our back yards this year and how to make limoncello like the Italians do. This episode was magnifico! WHAT WE CHAT...
#236: The Heroic Homeschooler with Erin Weidemann
May 04, 2020 10:00 - 52 minutesAre you homeschooling by choice or by force? What “counts” as school, anyway? Maybe you just need some basic guidelines to keep your sanity. Erin shares with us 5 things that you can do right now to improve your homeschool experience plus ways to re-frame this unique situation to find the good. One of my favorite parts of this chat is where she shares the practice of placing value on “unique ability time” and I know it got me thinking of ways to switch things up at home for my kiddos. Erin...
#235: April Problem Solved
April 27, 2020 10:00 - 39 minutesEmily doesn’t look forward to grandchildren and Rebecky has started cussing during quarantine. These are just the down and dirty facts, and we can’t hide them any longer. We talk about conflicting opinions on arugula, the good and bad days during a pandemic, and jaw-dropping chalk art. I would like to formally thank Rebecky for our shiny new explicit rating and for keeping things… fresh around here. WHAT WE CHAT ABOUT: when the pandemic became real for Rebecky and how she’s handling it ...
#234: Grace Looks Amazing on You with Amy Seiffert
April 20, 2020 10:00 - 59 minutesDoes someone in your family have a chronic illness? Could you use a perspective shift towards grace when it comes to your children? I was so happy to hear from my guest today because she has practical ways to get in the bible no matter what your spiritual maturity and that was just the motivation I needed. She shares with us her wisdom on the subject of grace and her family’s journey navigating Crohn’s disease. Amy Seiffert is an author, writer, and teacher. She currently is on the teachin...
#233: Struggling Sisters: Not Talking About Friendship
April 13, 2020 10:00 - 55 minutesFriendship is hard in quarantine! How are other people connecting right now? Should I change my face to a potato on a Zoom call? Before we ever got to the actual subject of friendship we found out that Emily has experienced Tiger King’s property first hand and how Katie’s at-home art class became more educational than planned. We also did stash it or trash it on Aha Black Cherry + Coffee Sparkling Water and Caramel Coconut Oreos. WHAT WE CHAT ABOUT: Katie Roadrunner-legging right out of...
#232: Treasured with Courtney DeFeo
April 06, 2020 10:00 - 56 minutesRaising daughters is amazing/overwhelming. Today we are focusing on pre-teen girls but we also touch on the general wellness that all of us mothers are trying to maintain over here. In Courtney’s experience, our girls turn a corner around first and second grade - when things aren’t just about cool tutus and everyone being friends. Courtney is really passionate about this time in life, so with her girls, she tackles 6 subjects: identity, friendship, body, emotions, and technology in a fun an...
#231: Don't Overthink It with Anne Bogel
March 30, 2020 10:00 - 47 minutesWHAT WE CHAT ABOUT: how putting down our phones can help us stop overthinking not letting our disappointments turn into comparisons that lead to shame how Anne is helping guide her family through quarantine Anne’s struggle with overthinking the link between perfectionism and overthinking determining when you’re giving something the attention it deserves vs. overthinking it ways to stop overthinking values-driven decision making mental tricks to help you make decisions stopping the ...
#230: Set Free with Alison Storm
March 23, 2020 10:00 - 49 minutesWaiting well through the adoption process, working towards financial freedom for your family and battling comparison as a parent of a child with delays are just a few of the topics we hit on today with my guest Alison Storm. She talks to us about her season of waiting and her distaste for the phrase “it happens in God’s time”. Alison saw child slavery first hand on a trip and it started a fire in her to change her parenting to battle entitlement. She founded an organization that can get your...
#229: Quarantine WELL
March 16, 2020 10:00 - 26 minutesWHAT I CHAT ABOUT: giving your anxiety to the Lord; He is near finding things to be grateful for waiting well - be aware of what you look to for comfort while you wait expecting well - trust that God is working all things for our good looking again - find opportunities to share hope leaning in - make the next right choice moment by moment and embrace the opportunities God is providing LINKS MENTIONED: Every Moment Holy CONNECT WITH EMILY: website | instagram | facebook | patreon...
#228: A Journey to Sobriety with Liz Hardy
March 09, 2020 10:00 - 1 hourHave you ever wondered if you may have a substance dependence issue? Maybe you have a child or loved one dealing with substance abuse and could use some advice on how to love them well through that. My friend and neighbor Liz came to sit with me on my bedroom floor and tells us about her journey through alcohol use and rehabilitation. She shares when she came to faith and the conditions she made up to help keep her sober. We talk about pride, abortion, neglect, and denial in this bittersweet...
#227: February Problem Solved
March 02, 2020 11:00 - 49 minutesThank you to each and every one of you that wrote in with your vulnerable and funny problems to solve surrounding love and marriage. Rebecky and I had to take this one in a different direction because it turns out as we have been solving YOUR problems, OUR problems had been stacking up! WHAT WE CHAT ABOUT: what’s going on with Rebecky and Emily if Emily should haze the new patients at her job solving Rebecky’s pet problem canceling Emily’s double gym membership Rebecky’s new vs. used...