Men, Sex & Pleasure with Cam Fraser
294 episodes - English - Latest episode: 1 day ago -The intention with this podcast is to platform people who perhaps haven't been part of the discourse around masculinity and sexuality in the mainstream, spiritual, Tantra and sacred sexuality communities. From sex workers, male strippers, and relationship coaches to psychosexual therapists, transgender educators and indigenous men. "Men, Sex, and Pleasure" is a podcast discussing all things masculinity, sexuality, male bodies and men's experience of pleasure.
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#195 The Importance of Rites of Passage for Men (with Jeddy Azuma)
January 07, 2024 04:06 - 1 hour - 61.5 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jeddy Azuma. Jeddy is the Founder of The Rising Man Movement, a Wilderness Rites of Passage Guide, and Men’s Leadership Mentor & Coach. Since 2008, Jeddy has been in the field of Men’s Empowerment and mentored a wide-range of men: from High-Powered Tech Founders and Corporate Leaders to hard-working family men and vision-driven millennials. He has impacted the lives of thousands of men on his mission to initiate an entire generation into purpos...
#194 How to Overcome Premature Ejaculation (with Jasper Brown)
December 31, 2023 01:47 - 56 minutes - 52.3 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Jasper Brown. Jasper is a men’s coach whose work has guided hundreds of men to embody a conscious approach towards masculinity. For almost a decade, he has dedicated himself to facilitating the evolution of men through embodied masculinity, finding a higher purpose, and healing their relationships. Key Points: - Jasper introduces himself - Jasper’s journey overcoming premature ejaculation - Jasper’s most important insights - Practices for ...
#193 Reclaiming Pleasure After Trauma (with Dr. Holly Richmond)
December 24, 2023 12:00 - 57 minutes - 52.8 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Holly Richmond. Dr. Richmond is a Somatic Psychotherapist, Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist (LMFT), Certified Sex Therapist (CST) and Certified Sex Therapy Supervisor. She sits on the Clinical Board of Directors for Dame Products, and is the Associate Director of Modern Sex Therapy Institutes. This unique combination of credentials enables her to focus on clients’ cognitive processes as well as mind-body health. Her book Reclaiming Plea...
#192 The Impact of Asian Culture on Masculinity and Sexuality (with Maxi Xie)
December 17, 2023 12:54 - 1 hour - 56.3 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Maxi Xie. Maxi is a relationship counsellor and sex therapist. They’re here to infuse you and your partner’s journey with deeper love, heightened passion, and profound understanding. Maxi is bilingual and fluent in both Mandarin and English. They’re proudly kink and fetish-friendly, as well as poly-friendly, and aim to create a judgment-free space for you and/or your partner to explore desires, pleasure and much more. Maxi is also a strong advo...
#191 Communication Skills for Better Sex and Intimacy (with Shana James)
December 10, 2023 10:47 - 59 minutes - 55.1 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Shana James. For 15 years Shana has coached more than a thousand leaders, CEOs, authors, speakers and people with big visions who step into more powerful leadership, start and grow businesses, create more effective teams, increase their impact, get promoted, find love, rekindle spark, create a legacy, and become more personally inspired and fulfilled. Referred to as a secret weapon, Shana cuts through distraction and provides direct access to y...
#190 What Is Your Relationship with Porn? (with Tyson Adams)
November 26, 2023 10:53 - 1 hour - 68.7 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Tyson Adams. Tyson is a trauma-informed IFS men’s coach, somatic bodyworker, and psychedelic facilitator. After spending 20 years addicted to pornography, he outgrew it seven years ago and has found his passion and purpose in helping other men master their lifeforce energy. He also co-facilitates men’s work leadership intensives and works with couples experiencing intimacy challenges. When he’s not working, you’ll catch him on a rock wall or ri...
#189 Rediscovering Pleasure and Intimacy After Addiction (with Eve Milford)
November 19, 2023 11:56 - 1 hour - 56.8 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Eve Milford, The Sober Sex & Relationship Coach. Eve is also a certified Somatic Attachment Therapist, Women's Pelvic Health Specialist, and Reiki Master. In 2015, her journey of recovery from addiction paved the way for her incredible transformation. Eve's path to sobriety unveiled a profound link between her own trauma and her experiences in sex, love, and relationships. This revelation ignited her passion to guide others through these intric...
#188 Gender Equity and Reconciliation (with Esther and William Diplock)
November 09, 2023 23:10 - 57 minutes - 53.6 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Esther and William Diplock. Esther and William are senior trainers and facilitators for Gender Equity and Reconciliation International (GERI), as well as program coordinators for the GERI work in Australia. They are two of the co-authors of the book ‘Gender Equity and Reconciliation: Thirty Years of Healing the Most Ancient Wound in the Human Family’. Alongside this, Esther and William are Individual & Couple Therapists, Educators and Superviso...
#187 Sexual Energy: Leaky, Creepy, and Needy (with Ella Hall)
November 03, 2023 12:32 - 1 hour - 57.9 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Ella Hall. Ella is an intuitive coach and leader in her field who supports high-performance professionals and entrepreneurial men and women quantum leap their current results in life, love and business by stepping into Masculine and Feminine Alignment (the integration of their heart, mind and sexual energy) – so they can take back their authentic power, break through the glass ceiling, live a life of meaning, leave a legacy and dramatically inc...
#186 Decolonising Societal Sexual Expectations (with Toya Ricci)
October 20, 2023 11:53 - 55 minutes - 51.8 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Toya Ricci, BSocSc(Psych), PgDipCEAT, MSexol. Toya is a sex therapist and sexuality educator who passionately believes in embracing, nurturing, and creatively expressing sexuality as a fundamental component of overall health and wellbeing. Drawing on a solid background in counselling, psychology, and creative & experiential arts therapy, Toya brings a diverse range of experience and skills to her practice. She adopts an inclusive and eclectic a...
#185 Anti-Racism Education: Woke, Critical Race Theory, & Decolonialism (with Kokayi Nosakhere)
October 13, 2023 02:30 - 1 hour - 56.3 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with anti-racism educator and American historian Kokayi Nosakhere. Since relocating to Southern Oregon in 2018, lifelong activist, Kokayi, has chosen to go on his healing journey, addressing the “on-going trauma of being Black in America.” A paradigm-shift on the American landscape is happening. It is happening while you and I are alive. You and I can choose to participate in helping the American populace walk towards greater humanity by committing ...
#184 Healing from Child Sexual Abuse (with Lachie Samuel)
October 06, 2023 02:28 - 1 hour - 57.6 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Lachie Samuel. Lachie is the Managing Director of the FIFO Mental Health Group, co-founder of The Association for Mental Health in Mining Australia, and host of the Open Up podcast. On this episode, Lachie opens up about being sexually abused as a child by another boy and how this impacted both his masculinity and sexuality as an adult. We also discuss the feelings of shame and fear associated with this as well as men’s body image issues and ne...
#183 How To Date: Flirting, Sexual Tension, and Rejection (with Sarah Jeavons)
September 29, 2023 07:57 - 1 hour - 60.8 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Sarah Jeavons. Sarah is a Dating Coach for Men. She is dedicated to helping men build confidence & land their dream relationships. The two of us talk about her history with Real Social Dynamics and why she decided to pursue a career as a dating coach. We discuss the general state of the industry and how Sarah’s approach to dating coaching is unique, as it involves mock dates and opportunities to practice your flirting skills in real time. She a...
#182 Men’s Fashion and Dating Advice (with Celeste Moore)
September 22, 2023 13:46 - 1 hour - 61.3 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Celeste Moore. Celeste is an Image Consultant and a Dating Coach who helps midlife men who have been married to their careers or recently divorced and forgot how to date by providing discreet dating and image consulting to improve their appearance, relationships, and confidence. She helps them learn to navigate this crazy modern dating world we live in. She's also the host of The Down and Dirty Podcast, the show gets down and dirty every week a...
#181 Masculinity: Relationships, Culture, and Evolution (with Ruwan Meepagala)
September 15, 2023 12:20 - 1 hour - 66.4 MBOn this episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Ruwan Meepagala. Ruwan hosts the Ruwando Podcast: Psychology For Men with Brains and Balls, and History of Man: How Men Came to Be. He lives in Mexico with his wife and child. We speak about a whole range of things, from his experience with OneTaste to becoming a father to relationship dynamics to evolution and masculinity. Ruwan and I have different viewpoints about some of these topics but we found some middle ground. Key points:...
Quicky #42 Sex Toys vs Tools (with Jeff Bennett)
September 12, 2023 11:42 - 4 minutes - 3.94 MBThis Quicky is a throwback to episode 44 with sextech entrepreneur Jeff Bennett. You can listen to the full episode here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0VqkWJeGJXEjxOVPF7wfZl?si=5RDp4yYaTrGuwqVkWSfYfA
#180 Why We Need to Educate About Porn (with Dr. Caroline Heldman)
September 08, 2023 09:03 - 1 hour - 63.7 MBOn this episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Dr. Caroline Heldman. Dr. Heldman is a professor of Critical Theory & Social Justice at Occidental College in Los Angeles. She is also Executive Director of The Representation Project and a political commentator for Spectrum and CNN International. Dr. Heldman has published six books on gender justice and politics, and her work has been featured in numerous documentaries, including Miss Representation and The Mask You Live In. She co...
Quicky #41 Pussy Whipped (with Kristopher Lovestone)
September 03, 2023 23:47 - 3 minutes - 3.39 MBThis quicky is a throwback to episode 43 with Kristopher Lovestone. Listen to that episode here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/3UIOto5GmrCxlhYJA6thbD?si=otEL3dgZQHy698pTFFX0RQ&nd=1
#179 Power Play and Healthy Dominance (with Luna Matatas)
September 01, 2023 08:44 - 58 minutes - 54 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Luna Matatas. Luna is a Sex and Pleasure Educator with over 15 years of experience teaching sex and empowerment workshops. She celebrates body confidence, self-adoration and building shame-free pleasure in and out of the bedroom. She teaches 30+ sexy skills topics; including threesomes, BDSM and sexual confidence. She created Peg the Patriarchy® and Meditate Medicate Masturbate® brands as part of her sex-positive and feminist merchandise. Key ...
Quicky #40 The Universality of Sexual Anxieties (with Jeff Abraham)
August 29, 2023 10:25 - 6 minutes - 6.38 MBThis is a throwback to episode 42 with Jeff Abraham from Promescent. Listen to the full episode here: https://open.spotify.com/episode/0RQobYuSFabSEtMsgwA3b5?si=UD2jRjWISP2aV4hltf6J3g
#178 The Libido Gap in Relationships (with Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy)
August 24, 2023 23:21 - 1 hour - 56.5 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Lauren Fogel Mersy. Lauren is a licensed psychologist and AASECT certified sex therapist. She has been a sex and relationship specialist for 10 years. Her work focuses on helping individuals, couples, and partners improve their relationships, both emotionally and sexually. Lauren’s mission is to support people in creating relationships that are more secure, joyful, and fulfilling. The two of us discuss the topic of her new book, Desire: An ...
Quicky #39 Pain and Pleasure (with Karis Topkin)
August 22, 2023 01:00 - 2 minutes - 2.52 MBQuicky #39 is an excerpt from Season 3, Episode 11: #41 The Mother Archetype: Holding Space for Men (with Karis Topkin) Today on the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Karis Topkin. Karis is a mother, a lover, and a healer, helping people to reclaim their pleasure and heal their traumas, allowing them to follow their own heart-led path and create a life that feels deliciously good, connected, and rooted in pleasure and wholeness. Karis and I talk about her work with men in South Africa an...
#177 Masculinity & the Body: Cinesomatics® for Men (with Andrew Daniel)
August 17, 2023 02:26 - 1 hour - 63.5 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Andrew Daniel. Andrew is an award-winning and international bestselling author and director at the Center for Cinesomatic Development. His Cinesomatics® workshops are held internationally from New York to London, Tuscany to Switzerland—helping professionals see the elusive patterns that hold them back. This methodology leads the world in cinematic movement diagnostics and advanced intuition development integrating approaches from embodiment, sh...
Quicky #38 Sexual Pressure (with Lola Jean)
August 15, 2023 01:00 - 8 minutes - 8.18 MBQuicky 38 is an excerpt from Season 3, Episode 10: #40 Squirting, Pegging and Sexual Pressure (with Lola Jean) On episode 40 of the #mensexpleasure podcast I chat with Lola Jean. Lola is a Sex Educator, Mental Health Professional, Wrestler, Domme and World Record Holder for Volume Squirting (solo.) providing the No Frills Sex Education we both need and deserve. Lola brings a refreshing understanding to sex, sexuality and kink to push individuals past what they think they are capable of. Lol...
#176 BDSM, Therapy, and Trauma (with Anisa Varasteh)
August 11, 2023 03:42 - 54 minutes - 50.2 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Anisa Varasteh. Anisa is a Clinical Sexologist, the Director of Relate Sexology, and the President of the Society of Australian Sexologists (SA/NT branch). Anisa provides therapy to individuals and partners as well as consultancy and training on mental health and sexuality related topics to clinicians and organizations. She is passionate about her work as a sexologist as she has the privilege to be part of people's journey to discover and re-di...
Quicky #37 Common Beliefs about Mens Sexuality (with Sarah Hunter Murray Ph.D.)
August 08, 2023 01:00 - 8 minutes - 8.18 MBQuikcy #37 is an excerpt from Season 3 Episode 9: #39 Debunking Myths About Men and Sex (with Sarah Hunter Murray, Ph.D.) On today’s episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I have a great discussion with Sarah Hunter Murray about the most common myths surrounding masculinity, sexuality and men. Sarah holds a Ph.D. in Human Sexuality from the University of Guelph and is a Registered Marriage & Family Therapist in private practice in Winnipeg, Manitoba. She is the author of the book "Not Alwa...
Quicky #37 Common Beliefs about Mens Sexuality
August 08, 2023 01:00 - 8 minutes - 8.18 MBQuikcy #37 is an excerpt from Season 3 Episode 9: #39 Debunking Myths About Men and Sex (with Sarah Hunter Murray, Ph.D.) On today’s episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I have a great discussion with Sarah Hunter Murray about the most common myths surrounding masculinity, sexuality and men. Sarah holds a Ph.D. in Human Sexuality from the University of Guelph and is a Registered Marriage & Family Therapist in private practice in Winnipeg, Manitoba. She is the author of the book "Not Alwa...
#175 Circumcision Harm and Foreskin Restoration (with Tim Hammond)
August 07, 2023 19:45 - 54 minutes - 104 MBTim Hammond is a grassroots human rights activist who has been involved in numerous social change movements. As a teenager conscientiously opposed to fighting in Vietnam, he wrote copious letters to Congress urging an immediate end to the war. Tim has been committed to Congressional passage of the U.S. Peace Tax Fund Bill, which would re-direct the military portion of one's taxes (currently 50% of every dollar spent by the U.S. government) toward life-sustaining human services. He was active...
Quicky #36 Alter Egos (with Tamica Wilder)
August 01, 2023 01:00 - 5 minutes - 4.79 MBQuicky #36 is an excerpt from Season 3, Episode 8: #38 Parenthood and Modelling Healthy Sexuality (with Tamica Wilder) On today’s episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Tamica Wilder, a somatic sex coach and muti qualified complimentary therapist with over a decade of group work, facilitation and coaching experience. Tamica leads with passion, embodied wisdom and playful curiosity in all that she does. She believes that our social and cultural narraitives aound sex and embodiment need a da...
#174 The Power and Pleasure of Pegging (with Ruby Ryder)
July 31, 2023 13:14 - 1 hour - 66 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Ruby Ryder of PeggingParadise.com and TheArtofPegging.com. Ruby is a podcaster, blogger, sex worker, sex educator and a published writer of erotic fiction. She has been educating people about pegging for the last 13 years. She moderated panels at CatalystCon East and West, and presented at DomCon LA. Ruby’s erotica is in Violet Blue’s ‘Best Women’s Erotica 2014.’ She also appeared in an episode of Comedy Central’s ‘Not Safe with Nikki Glaser’. ...
Quicky #35: The Stigmas of Bisexuality (Zachary Zane)
July 25, 2023 01:00 - 6 minutes - 6.41 MBQuicky #35 is an excerpt from Season 3, Episode 7: #37 The Stigma of Bisexuality & Polyamory (with Zachary Zane) On today’s episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast I chat with Zachary Zane, a Brooklyn-based columnist, speaker, activist, and sex expert whose work focuses on sexuality, lifestyle, and culture. He has a weekly sex advice column at Men’s Health titled “Sexplain It,” where he answers a diverse range of questions pertaining to masculinity, ethical non-monogamy, sexual insecurities,...
#173 Fetishization and Body Worship (with Yael Rosenstock Gonzalez)
July 20, 2023 01:00 - 55 minutes - 51.6 MBYael R. Rosenstock Gonzalez (she/her/ella), known as YaeltheSexGeek, is a queer, polyamorous, neurodivergent Nuyorican (Puerto Rican New Yorker) Jewish pleasure activist (a term popularized by adrienne maree brown) who believes that sexual wellness and sexual liberation involve our whole selves. In her coaching and educational offerings she centers identity, values, and social positioning work, playful exploration, and intimacy with self and others. She is the founder of Kaleidoscope Vibratio...
Quicky #34: Hypnosis for Sexual Dysfunction (with Alexandra Holovitz)
July 18, 2023 01:00 - 9 minutes - 8.82 MBQuicky #34 comes Season 3, Episode 6: #36 Hypnosis for Sexual Dysfunction (with Alexandra Holovitz) On this episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Alexandra Holovitz. Alexandra is a tantric sex coach & hypnotherapist. She is known for her honest, passionate and authentic coaching style. She works with career-minded men helping them to heal, express and empower thought tantra and self-compassion. She believes awakening sexual energy can support you to have deeper connection, und...
#172 Giles Brindley, the Needle, and the Penis (with Callum Fraser)
July 12, 2023 23:33 - 1 hour - 63.9 MBOn this special episode of #mensexpleasure, I welcome with my brother, Callum, and we do something a little different. I regale him with a story about British physiologist, Giles Brindley. This is our foray into the history/comedy genre of podcasting. As such, we have a few drinks and a bit of fun. Key points: - Welcome Callum - Who is Giles Brindley? - Visual prostheses and eye experiments - Spinal prostheses and side effects - The hour lecture that changed sexual medicine - Brindley...
Quicky #32: Taking Responsibility for Your Own Pleasure (with Parish Blair)
July 11, 2023 01:00 - 6 minutes - 5.63 MBQuicky #32 is an excerpt from Season 3, Episode 5: #35 Taking Responsibility for Your Own Pleasure (with Parish Blair) On today’s episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Sex Goddess and Master Manifestor, Parish Blair. Parish has studied psychoneuroimmunology and practices a variety of healing modalities for over 25 years, with dramatic results of synergy between the mind, body and spirit. As well as offering unique one-on-one sessions, such as Sensual Synergy and Orgasmic Grati...
#171 From Pleasure to Politics: Sex Work and Autonomy (with Pomma)
July 08, 2023 02:24 - 49 minutes - 92.2 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Pomma. Pomma does various forms of sex work and is a huge advocate for decriminalizing and destigmatizing sex work. They make educational content about sex workers’ rights in hopes to humanize sex workers and their needs to people and systems who commonly overlook sex workers. It’s very important to Pomma that sex workers’ voices are at the forefront of legislation and conversations that affect their lived realities since they’re often excluded...
Quicky #32: The Menstrual Cycle (with Kristin Murray Alexi)
July 04, 2023 01:00 - 6 minutes - 5.86 MBQuicky #32 is an excerpt from Season 3, Episode 4: #34 Go With The Flow: Libido And The Menstrual Cycle (with Kristin Murray Alexi) Today on the #mensexpleasure podcast, I chat with Kristin Murray Alexi. Kristin has a bachelor’s degree in international studies with a focus on women in history, culture and religion, and a post graduate diploma in sexology. She is a certified Yoni Massage practitioner and trainer, and certified Sex Coach and trainer. She also works in the realm of priestessin...
#170 Three Things People Get Wrong About Men (with Sarah Martin)
June 27, 2023 23:30 - 1 hour - 72 MBOn this episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast I welcome back a really lovely colleague and friend of mine. Her name is Sarah Martin. You might recall her from episode number 135, where we talked about her research regarding pick up artists. In this episode, we do something a little bit different and discuss a project we've been collaborating on, known as a sexual attitude reassessment (SAR). We talk about the three major assumptions that we see practitioners often make, whether they be sex ...
Quicky #31: Finding your Purpose (with Nic Warner)
June 27, 2023 01:00 - 4 minutes - 5.41 MBQuicky 31 is an excerpt from Season 3, Episode 3: #33 Performing Masculinity: What Does A Man Look Like? (with Nic Warner) On this episode of the #mensexpleasure podcast, I talk with Nic Warner. Nic is a men’s work, plant medicine and breathwork facilitator, and a sacred intimacy mentor. Using the tools that helped him rise out of the ashes, Nic coaches both individuals and couples. Supporting them on their healing journey, to integrate and deepen their relationship with themselves, and eac...
#169 Embracing Healthy Masculinity: Empowering Boys and Challenging Norms (with Brendan Kwiatkowski, Ph.D.)
June 22, 2023 01:42 - 1 hour - 118 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Dr. Brendan Kwiatkowski. Brendan is a researcher and educator focused on the social-emotional wellbeing of adolescents and understanding the role that gender plays in that equation—particularly masculinity. His PhD research from the University of Edinburgh investigated teenage boys’ experiences and beliefs about being male and compared their experiences based on their levels of emotional expression. He is a mixed-methods researcher and believes...
Quicky #30: Confidence (with Kenneth Play)
June 20, 2023 01:00 - 8 minutes - 10.2 MBQuicky 30 is from Season 3, Episode 2: #32 Sex Hacking: Confidence and Calibration (with Kenneth Play) Kenneth Play is an international sex expert and sex educator. From a deeply insecure Asian immigrant to over 8 million views on PornHub and being named the World’s Greatest Sex Hacker by GQ, Kenneth develops sex techniques to help couples learn new ways to connect and overcome challenges in the bedroom. His newest course features over 70+ videos and 12 hours of content, and was describ...
#168 Men’s Mental Health: Anxiety and Fear (with Ahmad Jooma)
June 15, 2023 01:20 - 1 hour - 123 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Ahmad Jooma. Ahmad is the creator of SHOOK MAN®, a character who represents our fears, anxieties and is an engaging way for young men to talk about their mental health. Ahmad understands men who feel powerless in life - He used to be that guy! For 10+ years Ahmad studied the best courses on human nature. He has coached 100+ people around the world and produced podcasts, events and courses. Key points: Amhad introduces himself Creating "SHOOK...
Quicky #29: Energetic Boundries (with Lorin Krenn)
June 13, 2023 01:00 - 9 minutes - 10.9 MBQuicky #29 comes from Season 3, Episode 1: #31 From Surface Level Sex to Deep Intimacy (with Lorin Krenn) On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Lorin Krenn, a Deep Intimacy coach and Writer. Lorin helps men and women all over the globe understand masculine/feminine dynamics in their intimate relationships to experience deep intimacy through 1-on-1 coaching, workshops and masterclasses, and social media appearances. He has some Deep Intimacy virtual masterclasses coming up specific...
#167 The Aesthetics of Erotic Ritual (with Aubrey Aurora)
June 08, 2023 01:00 - 53 minutes - 102 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Aubrey Aurora. Aubrey is an Erotic Ritualist and event curator based in British Columbia. She has spent the better half of a decade creating luxury erotic experiences and initiations for people from all walks of life. With a gift of deep attention to ambience and atmosphere, her work is often described as a portal into the depths of your most sensual fantasies. The two of us talk at length about what an erotic ritual looks like as well as discu...
Quicky #28: Reframing Masculine Intimacy (with Brenden Durell)
June 06, 2023 01:00 - 7 minutes - 8.25 MBQuicky #28 is from Season 2, Episode 14: #30 Sacred Masculinity for Modern Men (with Brenden Durell) Today, I chat with Brenden Durell. Brenden is a former professional athlete turned life aficionado. He nudges people with laughter and inspiration so they can understand nirvana and live in every moment. Brenden also plays the game of life by being a Cacao & Breathwork Ceremonialist. He’s also a dedicated White Tantra student. His motto is “peace is the ultimate pleasure.” Brenden resides co...
#166 Tantric Touch for Men’s Trauma (with Michelle Roberton)
June 01, 2023 01:00 - 52 minutes - 100 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Michelle Roberton. Michelle has shared her work with many, for 20 years, specialising in Sexual Trauma & Intimacy as a Tantric educator, body worker and counsellor for adult survivors of childhood sexual abuse Her passion stems from her own journey of discovering the medicine in the poison as she set it upon herself to reclaim her body, her breath, her sexuality and sensuality and express that in new, life enriching ways. Michelle very much bel...
Quicky #27: Imposter Syndrome (with Stevon Lewis)
May 30, 2023 01:00 - 10 minutes - 11.8 MBQuicky #27 comes from Season 2, Episode 13: #29 Imposter Syndrome and Perfomance Anxiety (with Stevon Lewis) On this episode of #mensexpleasure, I talk with Stevon Lewis. Stevon is a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist, speaker, and corporate consultant. In his private practice, he specializes in working with adults struggling with Impostor Syndrome. He has been a featured expert for various major television and media platforms, including the Oprah Winfrey Network, Bustle Magazine, Thriv...
#165 Sex Work: Rights, Not Rescue (with Elle Stanger)
May 25, 2023 23:36 - 56 minutes - 106 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Elle Stanger (she/they). Elle is a queer, mid-thirties nonmonogamous, parent, sex worker, AASECT Certified Sex Educator, and media producer. She has worked as a porn shop manager and product buyer, pole dancing stripper, consultant for anti-trafficking organizations, professional cuddler, porn maker, writer, podcast host, and certified sex educator. The two of us talk about their advocacy for sex workers’ rights as well as the nuances of the de...
Quicky #25: Understanding the Space Between Male & Female (with Toby Whittington)
May 23, 2023 01:00 - 9 minutes - 11.1 MBQuicky #25 is from Season 2, Episode 12: #28 Intersex: Understanding the Space Between Male & Female (with Toby Whittington) Today on the podcast, I chat with Toby Whittington. Toby, who uses they/them/he/him pronouns, was diagnosed with Klinefelter Syndrome (47 XXY karyotype) in 2010. Among other issues, Toby found out that they were not able to father children and that they don’t produce enough of their own testosterone. He started on Testosterone Replacement Therapy which set him on a pa...
#164 Self-Pleasure Practices for Sexual Fitness (with Will Tantra)
May 18, 2023 01:01 - 58 minutes - 112 MBOn this episode of #mensexpleasure, I chat with Will Tantra. Will is a sex and intimacy coach living in Los Angeles. He is also a naked yoga instructor and massage instructor. He now mainly teaches through video and at Tantra retreats around the world. Will is known for his practical and hands on approach to sex education and for providing men with easy to follow exercises designed to teach how to give and receive more pleasure. Teaching men how to exercise their bodies and masturbate in a w...