Love, Money & the Law
30 episodes - English - Latest episode: over 1 year ago -Welcome to Love, Money, and the Law, where we invite you to challenge the way you think about relationships, marriage and divorce. Join your host Cindy Hide as she explores topics in family law, finance, sexuality, psychology, and spirituality with experts in their field.
Cindy believes that understanding supports a compassionate, meaningful relationship. Join her for insights into prenups, cohabitation agreements, immigration, same sex issues, the elements of desire, child custody, and much more.
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Nothing here is legal advice. Love, Money & the Law is a registered trademark of LML Media, LLC.
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What Can Happen If Your Spouse Dies Without a Will
February 11, 2023 22:41 - 24 minutes - 270 MBThe sudden death of her husband who died without a will forces Clea and her young daughter to face unexpected practical and legal repercussions. Creditors surprisingly descended and probate took its time. Her husband's business interests only added complications and uncertainly about their future instead of providing a backdrop of security. Tune in to listen why estate planning with a trust, wills, and estate attorney is a must for everyone who has a home, a car, bank accounts, or any othe...
How to Get Ready to Testify in Your Divorce
May 24, 2020 22:15 - 23 minutes - 21.3 MBWhat does a judge or jury look for when a witness testifies? This episode helps you appreciate the value of a seasoned litigation expert at your side during a contentious family law case. If you're facing trial in a contentious divorce or other types of litigation such as a modification or temporary orders hearing, this is a do not miss episode. Rick discusses how to relax into the experience so that you can control your emotions while testifying and show up as the best version of you a...
Child Custody and Divorce
April 28, 2020 23:09 - 22 minutes - 21.1 MBWe discuss the following: What does "custody" really mean? The difference between joint custody and sole custody in Texas What issues are important to a court when considering a determination of custody? Do dads get a fair shot at custody in today's courts? Custom visitation and access schedules - the new creative frontier How does mediation play a part in settling a custody case? Child support and health insurance issues What happens when one parent doesn't follow the court's Final...
How Home Financing Works During Divorce : Refinancing, Purchasing & Buy-Outs
March 11, 2020 18:51 - 34 minutes - 31.3 MBHere are just some of the topics you'll hear about ... What happens in a divorce if your marital home is mortgaged? Can one party stay in the home, anyway? Why it's not always necessary to sell! How do you qualify for a loan? When is the best time to do it? How to raise your credit score in order to qualify for a loan. How can a stay at home mom refinance so your kids can possibly stay in their home? How and when does spousal support and child support figure into the equation? When do yo...
The Top 10 Reasons for a Having a Prenup
November 26, 2019 14:00 - 13 minutes - 12.9 MBIn this narrative Houston family law attorney Cindy Hide encourages to consider: Dreams and aspirations for your marriage Short and long terms goals Communication skills Creating a safe atmosphere to dialogue Intimate disclosures Rules for your partnership Surprises after the wedding Creating your own laws, not those of the state Reducing legal fees in the event of divorce Securing your privacy
Prenups, Sex and Money – Issues and Solutions for Marital Agreements
November 19, 2019 17:00 - 13 minutes - 12.9 MBIn this narrative Houston family law attorney Cindy Hide discusses: 4 “Must Ask” questions about your finances - Residence, Budget, Work-Life, and Income The sexier side of your marriage agreement – Getting Clear about What You Like and Who You Are
How to Ask for a Prenuptial Agreement
November 12, 2019 17:00 - 11 minutes - 11.6 MBIn this narrative Houston family law attorney Cindy Hide discusses: The five most common objections to prenups and how to address them The value of creating a prenup and why it can bring you closer together as a couple How to value a stay at home partner A prenup conversation template
What is a Prenuptial Agreement? Do I Need One? How Much Does One Cost?
November 05, 2019 18:40 - 13 minutes - 13.1 MBIn this narrative Cindy Hide discusses: The meaningful nature of a marital agreement and good reasons for having one What a prenuptial agreement is and the most common reasons for creating one How much it costs to create a prenuptial agreement
Reasons, Risks and Rewards of Cohabitation vs Marriage
October 22, 2019 13:00 - 6 minutes - 6.8 MBHere’s just a few issues in the long checklist of things to consider if you chose cohabitation over marriage: Health care Business transactions and businesses Asset protection Retirement benefits Life insurance issues Powers of Attorney What spousal equivalents are NOT entitled to enjoy
What Can Be Included in a Cohabitation Agreement?
October 16, 2019 04:00 - 10 minutes - 10 MBHere's a peek at just a few of the issues that can be included in a cohabitation agreement presented in this episode: Clearly state that you’re not married Define the boundaries and issues of home ownership, taxes and improvements What happens in the event of a split or death? Defining the financial framework for the relationship Dealing with your debts, loans and gifts What about the kids…and the pets?
Benefits and Reasons for Creating a Cohabitation Agreement
October 10, 2019 19:29 - 7 minutes - 7.31 MBCindy Hide introduces you to issues and solutions that are part of creating your cohabitation agreement, such as: What should be included in the financial obligations of your partnership? What about a stay at home partner’s financial needs? What happens is one of you suddenly dies? What happens if you split? How courts consider children and their issues as part of your agreement How courts view cohabitation agreements Questions to ask yourself before drafting your agreement Under wha...
What is a Cohabitation Agreement?... and ... What Isn't It?
October 02, 2019 13:00 - 6 minutes - 5.67 MBCindy Hide includes the following points in her narrative: Why a cohabitation agreement is especially important in states where common law marriage is recognized What consideration is needed for a cohabitation agreement? Why you may need a cohabitation agreement, including points about gifting, reimbursement rights, financial support, payment of debts, and children What states in the United States of America recognize these agreements Types of cohabitation agreements What a cohabitatio...
Overseas Brides Who Marry US Citizens and Find Themselves in an Abusive Relationship
September 17, 2019 16:16 - 26 minutes - 292 MBAbuse is a unique issue and recourse is available to victims of domestic violence. Learn how the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) can protect you if you qualify, even if you're from another country. Some of the issues in this episode include: Does it matter whether you marry abroad, come to the U.S. on a fiancee Visa or by some other means, if you find yourself in an abusive relationship after you arrive in the U.S? What about confidentiality with respect to your legal status? What are ...
009-Overseas Brides Who Marry US Citizens and Find Themselves in an Abusive Relationship
September 17, 2019 16:16 - 26 minutes - 292 MBAbuse is a unique issue and recourse is available to victims of domestic violence. Learn how the Violence Against Women Act (VAWA) can protect you if you qualify, even if you're from another country. Some of the issues in this episode include: Does it matter whether you marry abroad, come to the U.S. on a fiancee Visa or by some other means, if you find yourself in an abusive relationship after you arrive in the U.S? What about confidentiality with respect to your legal status? ...
The Elements of Desire in Relationship: How to Avoid Growing Apart
August 27, 2019 19:05 - 33 minutes - 30.3 MBActively affirming your partner's value is key to maintaining the spark that makes your relationship shine over time. What does that look like? What kinds of words do we use? How do you express your heart's desires? In this episode, you'll learn tips for ... - How to rebuild a relationship that that's falling apart - Examples of how to keep the love alive - Some big "no nos" to avoid sabotaging your relationship - How to express feeling loved and desired - Some healthy communication tips - T...
008 - The Elements of Desire in Relationship: How to Avoid Growing Apart
August 27, 2019 19:05 - 33 minutes - 30.3 MBActively affirming your partner's value is key to maintaining the spark that makes your relationship shine over time. What does that look like? What kinds of words do we use? How do you express your heart's desires? In this episode, you'll learn tips for ... - How to rebuild a relationship that that's falling apart - Examples of how to keep the love alive - Some big "no nos" to avoid sabotaging your relationship - How to express feeling loved and desired - Some healthy communication...
What is a Sham Marriage?
August 05, 2019 17:27 - 17 minutes - 194 MBSome of the topics we discuss include: • Deportation • Criminal penalties • Illegal entry to the US • Shocking examples of sham marriages • Employer liability for employing illegal immigrants • The importance of being truthful with your attorney • Immigration service interviews and background checks Nothing here is legal advice.
007 - What is a Sham Marriage?
August 05, 2019 17:27 - 17 minutes - 194 MBSome of the topics we discuss include: • Deportation • Criminal penalties • Illegal entry to the US • Shocking examples of sham marriages • Employer liability for employing illegal immigrants • The importance of being truthful with your attorney • Immigration service interviews and background checks Nothing here is legal advice.
006 - Unusual Prenup Clauses
July 16, 2019 16:00 - 24 minutes - 22.8 MBIf you're thinking about getting married, but you're still not sure about what your bank statements might look like in the future, then a prenup may be the way to insure a good night's rest. But wait...there's more! Did you know that you can also include a fidelity clause, parameters for personal appearances, birth control methods, marriage lifestyles and so much more? You're sure to learn about things you may not have thought to ask, and, get some answers to the more common issues ...
Unusual Prenup Clauses
July 16, 2019 16:00 - 24 minutes - 22.8 MBIf you're thinking about getting married, but you're still not sure about what your bank statements might look like in the future, then a prenup may be the way to insure a good night's rest. But wait...there's more! Did you know that you can also include a fidelity clause, parameters for personal appearances, birth control methods, marriage lifestyles and so much more? You're sure to learn about things you may not have thought to ask, and, get some answers to the more common issues that are ...
Who Gets the Pets When You Split?
July 11, 2019 16:00 - 9 minutes - 8.62 MBIf breaking up is hard to do, leaving your precious pet behind makes it even harder. This episode highlights some issues that a court will consider if the two of you can't agree on who will be the human in your pet's life. Did you know that it makes a difference if you live in a separate property state or a community property state? Cuddle up with your pet while listening and be sure to SUBSCRIBE to catch our next feature!
005- Who Gets the Pets When You Split?
July 11, 2019 16:00 - 9 minutes - 8.62 MBIf breaking up is hard to do, leaving your precious pet behind makes it even harder. This episode highlights some issues that a court will consider if the two of you can't agree on who will be the human in your pet's life. Did you know that it makes a difference if you live in a separate property state or a community property state? Cuddle up with your pet while listening and be sure to SUBSCRIBE to catch our next feature!
Protective Orders and Domestic Violence in Texas
July 03, 2019 18:18 - 24 minutes - 271 MBThis is a must listen if you're living in fear for your safety because of your partner, especially if you have children. Is there someone you know who needs to hear the following information? ... What is a Protective Order? How do you get one? Is it completely confidential? What if something happened only one time? How much does it cost to get one? Where do I go? How long can I wait to get one if the abuse happened a while ago? What's included in a Protective Order? How is is enforced? If yo...
004 - Protective Orders and Domestic Violence in Texas
July 03, 2019 18:18 - 24 minutes - 271 MBThis is a must listen if you're living in fear for your safety because of your partner, especially if you have children. Is there someone you know who needs to hear the following information? ... What is a Protective Order? How do you get one? Is it completely confidential? What if something happened only one time? How much does it cost to get one? Where do I go? How long can I wait to get one if the abuse happened a while ago? What's included in a Protective Order? How is is enforc...
Sperm Banks in the US - The Unregulated State of Affairs
June 21, 2019 11:00 - 19 minutes - 17.8 MBThe unregulated state of affairs of sperm banks in the U.S. leaves recipients who conceive through Invitro Fertilization with many unanswered questions and a lifetime of doubts. Aside from a contagious disease test required by the FDA, no more information is required of donors, leaving families no choice but to play a high risk game of "trust the registry." Listen carefully for the valuable hidden issues you may not have ever considered before moving forward with this method of having a chil...
003 - Sperm Banks in the US - The Unregulated State of Affairs
June 21, 2019 11:00 - 19 minutes - 17.8 MBThe unregulated state of affairs of sperm banks in the U.S. leaves recipients who conceive through Invitro Fertilization with many unanswered questions and a lifetime of doubts. Aside from a contagious disease test required by the FDA, no more information is required of donors, leaving families no choice but to play a high risk game of "trust the registry." Listen carefully for the valuable hidden issues you may not have ever considered before moving forward with this method of havi...
002 - A Psychotherapist's Perspective on Cohabitation (feat. Tobie Oidtmann)
May 30, 2019 22:30 - 23 minutes - 253 MBThe latest stats reflect that about 60% - 70% of couples live together before marriage. Listen to why living together without marriage may or may not affect a relationship long term. Psychotherapist Tobie Oidtmann includes information for adults of all ages, as well as, the effects cohabitation has on children who are a part of these modern unions. You'll also get a peak into how genders differ with respect to their expectations for the arrangement. It's a do not miss episode if thi...
A Psychotherapist's Perspective on Cohabitation (feat. Tobie Oidtmann)
May 30, 2019 22:30 - 23 minutes - 253 MBThe latest stats reflect that about 60% - 70% of couples live together before marriage. Listen to why living together without marriage may or may not affect a relationship long term. Psychotherapist Tobie Oidtmann includes information for adults of all ages, as well as, the effects cohabitation has on children who are a part of these modern unions. You'll also get a peak into how genders differ with respect to their expectations for the arrangement. It's a do not miss episode if this include...
Why You Need a Co-Habitation Agreement (feat. Sandra Williamson)
May 03, 2019 20:30 - 38 minutes - 418 MBIn this episode many unforeseen, surprising issues are revealed that lurked inside a long term relationship that had not included financial safeguards. Sandra's trusting nature and expectancy of a mutually beneficial investment, ended up costing her not only a heartbreak, but significant financial loss. Join us as we explore the multifaceted aspects of living together without the benefits of marriage and ways to protect yourself in the event you decide this is the choice for you. Here’s wha...
001 - Why You Need a Co-Habitation Agreement (feat. Sandra Williamson)
May 03, 2019 20:30 - 38 minutes - 418 MBIn this episode many unforeseen, surprising issues are revealed that lurked inside a long term relationship that had not included financial safeguards. Sandra's trusting nature and expectancy of a mutually beneficial investment, ended up costing her not only a heartbreak, but significant financial loss. Join us as we explore the multifaceted aspects of living together without the benefits of marriage and ways to protect yourself in the event you decide this is the choice for you. H...