This is a must listen if you're living in fear for your safety because of your partner, especially if you have children. Is there someone you know who needs to hear the following information? ... What is a Protective Order? How do you get one? Is it completely confidential? What if something happened only one time? How much does it cost to get one? Where do I go? How long can I wait to get one if the abuse happened a while ago? What's included in a Protective Order? How is is enforced? If you live in the United States, there is help.