Love Life with Matthew Hussey
885 episodes - English - Latest episode: 2 months ago - ★★★★★ - 2.3K ratingsRelationships are for heroes.
Join bestselling author—and host of the #1 YouTube channel for women’s relationship advice—Matthew Hussey and his brother Stephen Hussey, as they offer tips and insights on how to make sense of the beautiful mess that is finding and maintaining love, while nurturing the relationship you have with yourself.
In weekly episodes, they share practical advice, hard-won wisdom, and the occasional musing on relationships and the increasingly confusing world of modern dating. No matter your relationship status, the Love Life podcast will meet you where you are.
About the Hosts: Matthew Hussey is the New York Times bestselling author of Get the Guy, and host of a YouTube channel that has received 400+ million views. Get the Guy co-writer and YouTuber Stephen Hussey holds a Doctor of Philosophy degree from Oxford University.
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(Rewind): If You've Ever Had Trust Issues In A Relationship, Listen To This...
December 30, 2022 07:38 - 5 minutes - 7.29 MBWhen someone’s betrayed or hurt us—especially when we didn’t see it coming—it’s hard to avoid the lack of trust that latches on to us and shadows us into our next relationship. Is there an antidote to this? Is it possible to regain trust after heartbreak? In this clip, I share an important message about how you choose to set healthy boundaries in a relationship when you've been burnt in the past. Check it out and make sure you don't let your demons define your relationship dynamics go...
197: What If I Love Him But The Sexual Spark Is Gone?
December 27, 2022 15:46 - 24 minutes - 34.4 MBCan you have a relationship that starts great - but becomes sexually boring? Can it happen with someone you're truly meant to be with? It's always a hard moment if you're with someone who ticks many of your boxes, but one crucial aspect of the relationship isn't working. So how much should you work to get the spark back? Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson discuss why the spark fades, how to get more honest with your partner about your intimate needs, and strategies to inject sexual exci...
(Matt Monday): Should You Lower Your Standards?
December 26, 2022 08:09 - 6 minutes - 8.53 MBAs we roll into the New Year, it seems like as good a time as any to talk about our standards. We think of a new year as being a time where we reset our standards, don’t we? And yet, have you ever worried that you’re being too picky? And have you ever wondered if this “pickiness” is the thing that’s stopping you from finding a relationship? I was on stage when a woman stood up and asked: “Matthew, should I listen to my mum and lower my standards?” It’s a hard thing trying to figu...
(Rewind): Is Modern Dating Destroying Commitment?
December 24, 2022 18:11 - 8 minutes - 11.4 MBIn this week's rewind episode, I take a question from Khalani on why, in modern day dating, many people are hesitant to jump into a relationship. We also discuss how she can be more trusting when meeting men who are looking for more than a casual fling. Enjoy! ►► FREE download: “9 Texts You Can Send To Get More Attraction” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “Why Men Disappear” → http://www.WhyHesGone.com
196: When Is "Casual Fun" Dangerous in Dating?
December 21, 2022 13:48 - 47 minutes - 68.2 MBCasual relationships and hook-ups are more common than ever. Some even talk about a "hook-up culture". But even though we have more choice than ever, there are sometimes consequences we never anticipate. Society says we shouldn’t have stigma around hooking up and casually dating - and that's a good thing - but it can also be painful if we aren't honest about what we really want. We always have to ask the question: is this serving us? Am I feeling respected or am I doing something becau...
(Matt Monday): When You Should STOP GIVING SO MUCH to a Relationship
December 19, 2022 17:08 - 6 minutes - 8.78 MBOK, picture this . . . I’m in my local coffee shop, minding my own business—my business in this case is ordering an oat milk flat white (just in case we ever go to coffee and you want to know what my order is)—and I get talking to a woman who tells me she’s mad at me. She knows who I am, she’s a fan, she even said my program worked for her, and yet she told me she was mad at me. In this episode, I tell the full story . . . You’re going to want to listen to the full story, because...
(Rewind): 6 Behaviors That Kill Relationships
December 16, 2022 08:44 - 5 minutes - 7.69 MBDo you know what really makes relationships fall apart? I do. Having now coached for over 10 years on the topic of dating, I’ve seen the worst behaviors over and over again. And if we don’t work on eliminating these toxic relationship habits, it doesn’t matter how attractive we are: we’ll always find a way to self-sabotage and drive our partner away. I don’t know about you, but a lifetime of painful arguments and emotional mind games isn’t something I ever want to settle for in...
195: How Do I Get Over Anger When My Ex Betrayed Me?
December 14, 2022 08:24 - 29 minutes - 42 MBEver been betrayed by someone you love? How about having an ex start dating your best friend after putting you through a toxic relationship? It can be especially painful when you feel like someone has changed for the better...but only for their new partner AFTER you've already experienced the worst of them! In this episode, Matt and the JAMS crew discuss how to let go of your resentment, make peace with and forgive the past, and how to stop worrying about what a toxic ex does after yo...
(Matt Monday): 5 Reasons You're Single That Have Nothing to Do With Love
December 12, 2022 14:19 - 18 minutes - 24.8 MB“Why am I still single?!?” If you’ve asked yourself this question long enough, you might be starting to feel like finding love is simply a matter of luck. And sometimes that’s true. But most of the time, we may not realize that the way we’ve set up our everyday life and habits can inadvertently make it harder to find “the one.” If you’re struggling to figure out why you’re still single, in this week’s video, I give you 5 honest reasons why, plus some quick changes you can make to attrac...
(Rewind): Long-Distance Relationships: The Brutal Truth About How To Make Them Work
December 09, 2022 07:33 - 7 minutes - 11 MBFor a long time I thought it was crazy how many women asked me to talk about this topic. But now, I realize the reason is obvious: In 2022, more of us are doing long-distance relationships than ever. You meet a great guy on Instagram who doesn’t live in the same country... You start dating the perfect man in your city, only to find out he’s been offered a new job 1000 miles away… And suddenly, you find yourself having “Skype dates”, and you now spend half your work day sending si...
194: 5 Reasons You’re Still Single
December 07, 2022 08:00 - 1 hour - 101 MBYou might feel like you’re seeing all your friends in couples, and you wonder why it hasn’t happened to you yet. Although we can’t control the exact moment we’ll meet “the one”, there are things we can do that make it MUCH more likely we’ll find a great relationship by having the right habits and mindset. So in this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson discuss 5 reasons you’re still single and what you can do TODAY to maximize your chances of getting the partner you desire....
(Matt Monday): This Dangerous Guy Keeps You Single
December 05, 2022 14:31 - 14 minutes - 20 MBI’m curious if you can relate to this . . . You know you have a lot to offer someone, but you can’t seem to get out of the cycle of dating the wrong people—bouncing from one emotionally unavailable guy to the next. What you may not notice is that—without even realizing it—you’ve likely conditioned yourself to attract those types of guys. While a casual fling with someone like that may feel harmless, you may be surprised to learn just how much it can shift the way you approach dat...
(Rewind): How To Recover When Your Ex Moves On Too Fast…
December 02, 2022 10:04 - 8 minutes - 12.3 MBBreakups are hard. Really hard. Especially if you didn’t do the breaking up. You’re left with questions about your own self-worth. You punish yourself for your deficiencies. You retrace the steps of the relationship like a detective on a mission to find out where you screwed up. And so we meet Roy, the subject of our clip today. Now you know Roy’s story. What can he do to wake from this fever dream? Let’s find out. Please share this episode someone who needs to hear this message. P.S...
193: How To Handle A Toxic Relationship You Don’t Want To Lose
November 29, 2022 23:54 - 19 minutes - 27.1 MBDo you have a relationship that you are unwilling to lose, but that causes you daily resentment and frustration? Where you feel like you are giving, but not getting much in return? In this solo episode, Matt explains how to take a step back and reassess a toxic or difficult relationship we want to keep in our lives, whether it’s reasonable to expect someone to change, and what we can do to protect ourselves if we are going to endure relationships that drain our energy. --- Email us! Yo...
(Matt Monday): Confusing Sh*t Men Say (And What They Really Mean)
November 27, 2022 18:31 - 17 minutes - 23.9 MB“Let’s just take it day by day.” “We may not be ‘official,’ but I basically act like your boyfriend. Aren’t actions enough for you?” “I like you too much to be with you . . .” Any of these sound familiar? Trying to decode the excuses guys give for the reason why they don’t want an exclusive relationship can get incredibly confusing. How is it that you can have great communication with a guy in nearly every area . . . yet when it comes to talking about the relationship, you feel lik...
(Rewind): Never Make This Flirting Mistake In Conversation
November 25, 2022 14:04 - 5 minutes - 7.33 MBYou're on a date with someone. You're both sharing stories. He tells you that he plays the guitar. You notice that he seems really proud when he tells you about playing his first gig. Then without missing a moment, you start enthusiastically telling him about your friend who's also in a band, is the best guitarist you've ever seen, and has just released and album. Suddenly, his eyes narrow and he seems emotionally checked out, maybe even less interested. Why? What happened? In t...
192: Does Porn Count As Cheating??
November 23, 2022 08:44 - 1 hour - 91.5 MBThere may be few more controversial and divisive topics than that of watching porn in relationships. For some, it’s cheating. For others, it’s a useful way to balance out differences in sexual appetites. For others still, it can be a fun thing for couples to share and explore sexually together. So in this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson get together to discuss healthy vs unhealthy attitudes to porn, how to communicate your boundaries around porn in a relationship, and what to d...
(Matt Monday): The #1 Thing Men Say to Avoid Commitment
November 21, 2022 18:28 - 7 minutes - 9.92 MBIn the early days of dating, figuring out if someone is actually open to a relationship is key. But what does it mean when you ask them whether they're interested in a committed relationship and they respond, "I could be open to that. . . with the right person"? This sentence can make us feel safe to dive in, but do we really know whether they're truly looking for a relationship. . . or just telling us what we want to hear? In today's episode, I give you three things to look for in th...
(Rewind): The 3 Compliments That Make Someone More Attracted To You
November 18, 2022 17:37 - 4 minutes - 6.47 MBCompliments are like gifts. In fact, they’re even better, because the right compliment can be something the receiver never forgets. When in a relationship, most people don’t give enough compliments, despite them being so powerful in creating connection and making people feel loved. So here are 3 compliments men love to hear that can get you started! --- ►► FREE download: “9 Texts to Get Any Man” → http://www.9texts.com ►► FREE download: “5 Compliments to Get Him Addicted to You” → ht...
191: Confusing Sh*t Men Say (And What They Really Mean)
November 16, 2022 05:40 - 48 minutes - 69.6 MBHave you ever had a guy say things that give you completely mixed messages? Or you've heard a phrase several times and are left scratching your head wondering what it actually means? You're not alone. In this episode we asked YOU for your best examples of confusing phrases you've heard from guys and got together to crack the code once and for all! --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt o...
(Matt Monday): 7 Ways To Create Chemistry (Make Him Ask You Out Again)
November 14, 2022 16:31 - 11 minutes - 16.3 MBYou felt like the date couldn’t have gone better. They told you they had the best time, and as soon as you got home, you started counting down the minutes until you could see them again . . . Except you never got that second date. Why would someone disappear after saying they had a really great time? Today’s episode reveals the #1 reason why this happens, and what you can do about it. I’ll give you a hint: chemistry is the key factor that turns a first date into a second one—and in th...
(Rewind): If You’re Thinking About Other People In A Relationship, Listen To This…
November 11, 2022 12:30 - 9 minutes - 13.5 MBBack in ye olden times, the fear that a partner might be cheating was enough to keep someone up at night. But in recent years, we’ve added a new layer of anxiety to the mix: “micro-cheating,” a.k.a. “back burner relationships.” In fact, when Psychology Today recently polled people who are in a relationship, 56% revealed they had a back burner person: someone they’re in contact with who could be an option if their current relationship doesn’t go the distance. That’s not to say that ev...
190: How To Leave A Narcissist (Part 2)
November 09, 2022 06:55 - 27 minutes - 39.1 MBWhy are toxic relationships so hard to leave? One reason is because you hold onto the small good moments and fail to acknowledge the extent of the bad. And when we feel sympathy for someone, this also makes us doubt ourselves. We think "Maybe I'm wrong?", "Maybe I'm being too harsh on this person?", "Maybe it's actually ok?" In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about how to get the courage to let go of a narcissistic or toxic relationship and feel certain in your dec...
(Matt Monday): How to Stop Obsessing Over Someone You Want
November 07, 2022 20:57 - 16 minutes - 23 MBHave you ever created an entire relationship in your head before going on a date with someone? Perhaps you’ve been texting with them for weeks and have already deduced they could be “The One,” or maybe you live for the two minutes of conversation you have with them before spin class. And in order to fan the flames of your excitement, you turn into a social media detective, where their posts and information become “compatibility clues” that either build up or tear down the relationship you’...
(Rewind) The Obvious Red Flag You Should Never Ignore When Dating
November 04, 2022 17:44 - 9 minutes - 13.6 MBPeople always ask how to spot red flags in relationships. But often the red flags are right in front of our eyes - we just choose to ignore them. In this clip, Matt and Stephen explain why this happens and how you SHOULD respond when the warning signs appear. . . --- ►► FREE download: “3 Secrets To Love” → 3SecretsToLove.com --- Email us! You can in touch with the show and give your feedback/thoughts at [email protected] --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Fol...
189: The Difficulties Of Planning For Marriage And Kids (When The Outcomes Are Uncertain)
November 02, 2022 12:54 - 51 minutes - 72.9 MBIn a previous episode, we talked about the struggles dating can pose when women are thinking about their desire for children and their biological clock, and all the associated anxieties that can come with it. And we had some incredible and thoughtful responses to what is rightfully a very difficult and emotional topic to discuss (but also an essential one). In this episode, we take the conversation further and look at the disparity between men and women in future planning, why freezing ...
(Matt Monday): He Said He Wanted You Then Pulled Away? HERE’S WHY…
October 31, 2022 17:06 - 14 minutes - 20.2 MBIt’s Halloween time, and for the occasion, in today’s video I talk about what might be the most insidious form of ghosting. If someone ghosts you after a couple of tepid dates (which doesn’t feel good, don’t get me wrong) you can usually assume they just weren’t feeling the chemistry . . . But what does it mean when someone pulls away after saying they want to be exclusive, or after texting constantly and telling you they want to see you all the time? In this brand-new episode, I g...
(Rewind): Mindset Shifts for When You Think “They’re Out Of My League”
October 28, 2022 20:07 - 5 minutes - 8.18 MBEver notice how you completely fall apart when you try to speak to that guy you’re really attracted to? It’s like with your best friends you can be effortlessly funny, talkative, and smart, then suddenly you’re talking to this guy and your brain turns to mush. Then begins the negative self-talk: “I’m not pretty enough,” “I have nothing interesting to say,” “He’s not going to like me.” It’s like you instantly lose all of your game. You go into “impress” mode. You over-analyze everyt...
188: I'm Not Attracted To The Men Who Want Me
October 26, 2022 08:30 - 56 minutes - 79.7 MBWhat do you do when you're not attracted to men who want you, and the men you ARE attracted to are unwilling to commit? In life, as we get older, we can find the dating world changing around us. We want different things, we're not as young and carefree as we were in our twenties, and we feel like we want something serious in this phase of our life. In this episode, Matthew, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson go deep on the dilemma of attracting the wrong people when you want to get serious, how...
(Matt Monday): Keep Confusing Red Flags With Excitement?! WATCH THIS...
October 24, 2022 18:58 - 16 minutes - 22.2 MBDo you feel like your brain is wired wrong because despite your better judgment, you’re only attracted to the bad boys or the players? You know . . . you love the idea of a great, stable guy who treats you right, but somehow you’ve become so accustomed to the highs and lows of roller-coaster relationships that you can’t imagine feeling chemistry with such a man. At this point, you may be asking yourself if it’s possible to feel a spark with someone who isn’t always playing games with you...
(Rewind): Is Your To-Do List Making You Miserable?
October 22, 2022 00:25 - 6 minutes - 8.4 MBThe technique I give in this clip shows us how to feel connected to the things we have to do in our day so that we don’t become list-checking zombies with no real joy in our lives. You can use it to be ultra-productive AND happy at the same time. This technique has become an indispensable part of my daily practice. Perhaps it will for you too. --- Follow Matt on Insta @thematthewhussey Follow Stephen on Insta @stephenhhussey --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and ...
187: Have You Ever Fallen For THIS Guy??
October 19, 2022 15:17 - 44 minutes - 64.8 MBThere are certain types of romantic partners who present themselves as having amazing qualities: deep, thoughtful, self-aware, spiritually evolved… But, can these qualities be just another form of seduction that hides ego and selfishness? What if someone is good at appearing have all the right character traits, but then you find out yourself feeling neglected or hurt when you’re in a relationship with them? Matt, Steve, Audrey and Jameson talk about how you can get fooled by firs...
(Matt Monday): If He Pulls Away, This Will Make Him Chase You
October 17, 2022 18:36 - 10 minutes - 14.2 MBWhat can you do when you’re sick of the excuses and deep down want to see them more? Well, you can listen to this brand new Matt Monday, in which I’ll share with you how to avoid the most common mistake in this scenario and finally see some progress. --- Get the Exact Scripts to Communicate Confidently in Dating. Unlock a Chapter from How to Talk to Men for FREE → http://www.GetTheFreeChapter.com
(Rewind): If You Want To Heal Your Heartbreak, Listen To This...
October 14, 2022 13:54 - 11 minutes - 16 MBI’ll keep this short. If you’re experiencing any kind of pain right now from a “situation” or a relationship ending, this clip is a must-watch for you today. It could be the pain of having been ghosted . . . It could be the pain of someone you were seeing regularly going cold on you . . . Or it could be the terrible heartbreak of a long-term relationship falling apart when you didn’t want it to end. In this clip, my brother Stephen and I are not merely talking about how to get over y...
186: How To Overcome Anxiety About Your Biological Clock When Dating
October 12, 2022 08:30 - 1 hour - 86.8 MBDo you want marriage and kids? Feel like you have a sense of urgency because of your biological clock? It’s common for our desires for the future to bring up all kinds of anxieties in dating. Especially when we are torn between “playing it cool”, or being honest and up front about what we want (which could scare someone away!) In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey, and Jameson dive into the thorny topic of how to handle dating and honest communication when you feel hyper aware of your b...
(Matt Monday): Why He's Not Giving You the Respect You Deserve
October 10, 2022 18:50 - 12 minutes - 17 MBWondering why the guy you’re seeing doesn’t seem to respect you? You might be surprised by the reason . . . If your tendency is toward anxiety, you’ll go to great lengths just to restore the peace and get things “back to normal” as quickly as possible. This often includes the compulsion to say “sorry” even when something’s not your fault. The danger with this is that when we make it clear to someone that we’ll do anything to avoid difficult conversations, it becomes easy for them to ta...
(Rewind): How To Know And Communicate Your Standards In The Early Dating Stage
October 07, 2022 09:21 - 5 minutes - 7.49 MBIf you struggle too much inside your head when you like someone, especially if it doesn't feel like it's quite going your way, this clip is going to help make sense of things. --- Email us! You can get in touch with the show and give your feedback at [email protected] --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com
185: Why Aren’t You More Attracted To Him? + What Makes Bad Boys Sexy
October 05, 2022 09:38 - 57 minutes - 82.7 MBThere are 2 kinds of men that can be dangerous to fall for: (1) the guy who is a “project”, (2) the bad boy. It’s common that we date similar types throughout our romantic life. In this episode, Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson talk about why we look for these characters over and over again and how we can break free from chasing people who are wrong for us. --- Join our next Virtual Retreat (November 11th - 13th)! - Claim Your Spot Today at MHVirtualRetreat.com --- Email us! You c...
(Matt Monday): If He's Sending Mixed Signals, Text Him THIS
October 03, 2022 15:00 - 12 minutes - 17.1 MBDoes absence really make the heart grow fonder . . . especially when the person you’re into seems to forget you exist when you’re not in the same room? When you’re together, life couldn’t be better. You have off-the-charts chemistry, they’re totally focused on you, and your connection feels genuine. The catch? When you’re apart, you feel invisible as communication slows to a crawl and often drops off completely. As a result of these mixed signals, you’re essentially living in two com...
(Rewind): Unrequited Love is Bulls**t!
September 30, 2022 16:00 - 4 minutes - 6.39 MBYeah, I said it. Have you ever been in love with someone who doesn't share your feelings You live in hope that one day they'll light up your phone with a text that says how much they can't live without you. Or, you fantasize that they'll leave their partner and run back into your arms. They'll say what a fool they've been and how much they need you by their side. It's romantic, right? Nope. And this kind of "perpetual hope" can be so dangerous for your relationships that I feel I ha...
184: Are You A Recovering "People Pleaser"?
September 28, 2022 08:30 - 55 minutes - 79 MB“Would you call yourself a people pleaser? Tell us how it shows up in your life…” And you answered! Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson sit down to look at your top responses to how you fall into the trap of people pleasing and the problems this causes in our lives. Do you say “yes” to things you don’t really want to do? Feel like you’re always giving emotional energy with nothing in return? Do you feel you have to avoid being your honest self in order to keep the peace and make everyone...
(Matt Monday): The Dangerous “High Value” Guy You Should Avoid
September 26, 2022 16:22 - 12 minutes - 16.9 MBHave you dated someone you find so amazing and impressive that you almost start to feel not good enough for them? Maybe it’s their attractiveness or intelligence . . . or perhaps it’s their success, wealth, or status (such as the example in today’s video) that has you feeling lucky whenever they turn their attention to you. Whatever it might be, the reaction we often have to this feeling is highly toxic for our happiness . . . because we start to shrink our needs. We become pleasers an...
(Rewind): Full of Regret for Screwing Up Your Relationship? Watch This...
September 23, 2022 16:27 - 8 minutes - 12.2 MBEver sat ruminating obsessively over something you could have or should have done differently in your relationship? Something you said, something you did, or something you wish you’d have done more? It’s a dreadful, sickening feeling. I know because I’ve felt it. It leads to regret, anxiety, self-loathing… not to mention a lack of appetite and insomnia. We turn over every memory, imagining where we could have been with that person had we just behaved differently. And this feeling isn’t...
183: Is He Losing Interest Or Is He Just Comfortable?
September 21, 2022 08:30 - 1 hour - 97 MBHow do you know if a guy has stopped trying, or if your anxious attachment-type fears are making you panic for no reason? In today's episode, Matt, Stephen, Jameson and Audrey talk about what to do when someone you're dating changes their level of affection and gives mixed signals, but says they want to be with you. If you tend to overthink and find yourself worrying your partner might have changed their view on the relationship, make sure to listen to this one! --- My 30-Day Confidenc...
(Matt Monday): How to Be Confident When You DON'T FEEL ATTRACTIVE
September 19, 2022 14:16 - 8 minutes - 11.2 MBIf you struggle to feel confident because you don’t like the way you look, make listening to this episode the top priority of your day today (and be sure to stay until the end for a special bonus!) I promise you won’t regret it. Your coach, Matthew x --- My 30-Day Confidence Challenge is back by popular demand! There's still time to claim your place on this FREE training taking place September 27th. Simply visit MHChallenge.com to sign up. --- Email us! You can get in touch with ...
(Rewind): Was Breaking Up With Him The Right Decision?
September 16, 2022 12:18 - 7 minutes - 10.4 MBYou decided it’s time to break up. And now you’re single again. But for some reason you don’t feel at peace. You’re still haunted by that eternal question: Did I make a HUGE mistake? Even if it was YOU who decided to call off a relationship, at some point you’re always going to get that horrible feeling inside of you that questions your decision to dump someone. Your friends and family say it’s for the best. But maybe they don’t really know. Plus, there was that one friend who advise...
182: How To Leave A Narcissist
September 14, 2022 10:18 - 1 hour - 140 MBWhat do you do if you’re dating a Narcissist? It’s one thing to recognise the signs: questioning your sanity, feeling devalued, never having your needs account for. But what about when you FINALLY decide you have to leave? That can be the hardest part. A narcissist can make you feel guilty. They can make you feel like you’re being impulsive, unfair, or even outright cruel for abandoning them. Taking the decision to get your life back can mean unwinding years of entanglement, but it...
(Matt Monday): Is the Person You’re Dating a Narcissist?
September 12, 2022 13:31 - 18 minutes - 25.1 MBI’ve carefully designed these 7 steps to address the stages you’ll go through—in the exact order they’re likely to arrive. And while we all know this process can take an enormous amount of time to put into action, I hope these steps will serve as a compass that will keep you pointed toward your strength (in spite of any distractions the narcissist may try to throw your way). I also hope this video provides you with strength, acceptance, peace, and progress as you finally move on with your ...
(Rewind): Don’t Settle For Less. Settle On What You Want
September 09, 2022 12:20 - 4 minutes - 5.86 MBThere's a huge difference between settling FOR something in life and settling ON something. When we "settle for" something, it's often the result of us lowering our standards. We accommodate bad behavior and accept less than what we truly desire because we don't think we're worthy of it. We think "this might be as good as it's going to get" whether in our love life, family, or career. But when we "settle on" something, we take control of it. At this point, we're deciding that at the ver...
How To Deal With The Pain Of Not Getting Closure
September 07, 2022 14:51 - 1 hour - 134 MBWhen a relationship ends, or someone stops calling after several dates, do you need to know why? What does it mean to get “closure” in dating? As humans we put a lot of emphasis on how things end. We want answers: “Was it the way I dressed? Is it something about my body? Or something I did that turned you off? Was it too desperate?!” But what answers are we looking for? And how much brutally honest truth do we really want to hear? Matt, Stephen, Audrey and Jameson try to figure out...